Men need to understand, women need to love

Chapter 2 The more innocent a man is, the more jerk he is
Pure literally means "simple and pure, uncomplicated", because it implies the sense of security that human beings crave, so it has been used as a commendatory word for thousands of years.So when Mr. Sora Aoi, who has read countless men, said, "In fact, men are very simple", countless women who have been or are hurt by love have tears in their eyes, thinking that they have seen hope.

Of course, women should have hope for men, because most of us without exception will choose a man to stay with us for the rest of our lives, but blind hope can only bring deeper despair.

After studying thousands of samples, American psychologists found that men have far simpler thoughts than women when faced with an invitation from their ex-girlfriend.Most men choose to ignore, "Don't come to me after breaking up", while most women choose "Go and see before talking".Psychologists concluded that curiosity and dependence on emotions make it difficult for women to make decisions.Another research report seems to prove this point: women are more than 7 times more likely to have a "broken heart" than men.Heartbreak in medical terms refers to the sharp contraction of the left ventricle in humans when they suffer a major emotional shock.

When a woman thinks a simple man is cute, have you ever thought that many of the injuries you have suffered are probably due to the simplicity of a man.A middle-aged man met a middle-aged woman on a business trip.They fall in love with each other, love each other, love each other, and when they are in a good mood, they will say something bad about the incumbent.After a certain day of tenderness, the lady suddenly said: "I am going through a divorce." The man was shocked and asked: "It's not because of me, is it?" In the end of similar incidents, the man is always wronged, thinking that the woman thinks too much, and the woman is incomparable Angrily feeling cheated.Love becomes a deception because men think far more innocently than women when it comes to sex and affairs.Talking about love and making love is already very good, but creating an earthquake in the inherent life is an unbearable complexity in life.

How to satisfy a woman?Kissing, hugging, pampering, admiring, praising, supporting, saying love words, giving gifts, being nice to her parents... how to satisfy a man?Just strip it off.This is of course a joke, but there is always a truth in a joke, just as there is always a joke in the truth.

When emotions face reality, men who lack responsibility are pure. They sing "letting go is another kind of love", pretending how great breaking up is, but because breaking up is the easiest choice.

When the marriage encounters a period of fatigue, those men who are too lazy to communicate and think their wives think too much are pure.They don't care what their wives think, they only care about what their business partners think; they don't care about the quality of their marriage, they only care about the fact of getting married; their ideal life is to work hard outside, and their wives take good care of their children, manage their money, and serve their parents well. Managing feelings is purely full.

When the backyard is on fire, those men who say "I don't want a divorce" to their first spouse and "I don't want to lose you" to their mistress are innocent.They take it for granted that women only need love without status, and that it is fair for men and women to have sex, and there is no such thing as who enjoys more and who bears more.

The simplicity of a man is not to keep women from being hurt, but to keep himself from being imprisoned.They have spent too much passion, intelligence and strategy in the activities of conquering the world, and their upper body is exhausted. In the matter of conquering women, it is best to use only the lower body and not the upper body.

Ambiguity is easy, spare tire is difficult
Among men and women in the entertainment industry, some "good friends" are just trying to cover up, while others are long-lasting, such as Shao Meiqi and Luo Jialiang.When a confidante's fate is unlucky, even if the handsome guy gets married and has children, he will always act as the person standing behind her.However, support is support, but the two have had little contact over the past ten years. She would not call him when she was broken in love, let alone ask him to pick him up at the airport late at night.Always he gets bad news about her from the media, or calls to say hello, or speaks out for her publicly.This is the friendship between a man and a woman. Women are very independent, not clingy, and will not stab their friends intentionally or unintentionally. Only then can men feel at ease and do their best to stab their friends occasionally.

It is relatively easy to maintain this indifferent relationship between men and women.A little ambiguous, a little warm, sometimes important, sometimes nothingness, no need to think about it and never forget it.However, for the vast majority of more pragmatic women, such a relationship is equivalent to nothing.The "friendship" they want is often a spare tire type.When the boyfriend is on a business trip, he can come to fix the broken toilet; when the husband is not at home, he can pick up the girlfriend who visits late at night; , his wallet can sing "Welcome to Beijing".Having a man with a spare tire seems to be a symbol of a woman's charm or ability.

Virtuous women often hold the idea of ​​empty gloves and white wolves, and look at their female companions enviously. When the car breaks down on the road, someone will come to change the tire, and when the dinner is nearing the end, someone will pay the bill. "He is very kind and very loyal. I regard him as a big brother." Women who have a spare tire man often make such an understatement, which makes virtuous women lament that they have lived for 30 to [-] years. I don't know if it's my bad character or bad luck.In fact, if you get in touch with those women who have spare men a few times, it is not difficult to find that men are actually difficult to deal with, and it is not like they themselves said, just encounter a living Jigong casually.

No matter in the office or in the business field, it is easy to meet one or two ambiguous members of the opposite sex, but on the premise of not involving any interest relationship, developing a temporary ambiguous partner into a longer-term spare tire requires not only wits but also courage. More substantial contributions are required.

(End of this chapter)