Stimulate positive energy
Chapter 12 Love is a fire that warms you and me
Chapter 12 Love is a fire that warms you and me
what is love?Love is the mother's concern for the child in "Wandering Ziyin", love is the filial piety of children to their parents, love is the respect between husband and wife, love is a stranger who gives a dollar to a beggar, love is a soldier's hands from the ruins of an earthquake Saving lives one after another, love is a moving picture of private cars picking up and transporting trapped people... Love is a kind of spirit.Love is everywhere in the world, and everyone needs the warmth of love. Let us pass on the positive energy of "love" forever.
Love is giving, not expecting anything in return
Many times, we accept the care of others and are moved by their noble character, because they give us the belief and confidence in life.We know how to be grateful, so we vowed: "One day, I will repay them." But as the years go by and the times change, when we really want to repay them, we always feel that we have more than enough energy.For example, the most selfless and greatest fatherly love and maternal love in the world is a kind of love like the sea, but our return is no different from that of a stream. Sometimes when we have the ability to repay, our parents may have already left us; For the teachers who taught us knowledge, we went to see them several times after leaving the school; when we were in the most difficult time, friends extended a helping hand to help us tide over the difficulties, but when we wanted to repay them, we didn't know where they were; We want to say "thank you" to a stranger for a glass of water, a dollar, or even a life-saving grace on the road, but we find that their figures have merged into the bustling crowd... Parents can do anything for their children, even It is to sacrifice life, friends help us when we are not rich, and strangers help us and then leave quietly. Looking back on these, can we still say that love is for reciprocation?In fact, true love, whether it is between parents and children, between friends, or between strangers, is all from the heart, instinctive, conscience and conscience, and willing.Love is "giving", it doesn't need anything in return, and it doesn't care how much in return.Therefore, all we can do is to take the initiative to empathize, and give selfless and sincere love to those around us as much as we can without asking for anything in return.This noble character, this great spirit, is like a blazing fire that can illuminate the dark night, eliminate the indifference among people, shorten the distance between people, and make our society become warmer.
This is a touching and tearful scene that happened in the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake in Sichuan: when the rescuers found her, she was already dead, crushed to death by the collapsed house.
Through the gaps in the pile of ruins, you can see her death posture: kneeling, the whole upper body prostrated forward, supporting the body with hands on the ground, a bit like the ancients kneeling and worshiping, but the body was deformed , looks a little weird.
Rescuers reached in through the gaps in the ruins to confirm that she was dead, then shouted at the ruins, and knocked on the bricks with a crowbar, but there was no response from inside.When the rescuers were about to go to the next building, the rescue team leader suddenly ran back, shouting "Come quickly" while running.He came to her body again, and strenuously reached under the woman's body to feel around. After a few touches, he shouted loudly: "There is a child, and he is still alive."
After some efforts, people carefully cleared away the ruins blocking her, and found her child lying under her body.The child was wrapped in a small quilt and was about three or four months old. Because his mother protected him with his body, he was not injured at all and fell asleep peacefully when he was carried out.
When the accompanying doctor came to untie the quilt for an examination, he found a mobile phone stuffed in the quilt. The doctor subconsciously looked at the screen of the mobile phone and found a text message written on the screen: "Dear baby, if you can live , must remember that mother loves you." The doctor, who was used to seeing life and death, burst into tears at this moment.The mobile phone passed on, and everyone who saw the text message was in tears.
A mother protects her child's life with her body, and she uses her life to explain to us what maternal love is.Maternal love is selfless and does not seek repayment.
One day in 2012, by the lakeside of Zijingshan East Park in Zhengzhou City, the tourists were as happy as usual.With a cry, a young man jumped into the lake with a plop. He put his arms around the waist of the old man who fell into the water, and dragged the old man to the bank with all his strength.After arriving at the shore, other tourists helped the old man carefully to lie down on a stone bench.
The onlookers asked the old man's situation with concern, and some people called 120.At this time, the young man who jumped into the lake to save others saw that the old man was fine, so he twisted the water on his clothes and left quietly.
Afterwards, the park tried to find the young man through the media to express its gratitude, but failed.
Netizens left their own voices about this: "The young man left silently after saving people, good job! Do good deeds and leave your name alone. There will be more and more kind and brave young people like this." "Positive energy is spreading .”
The nameless guy left quietly after rescuing someone, which is a kind of spirit of great love.He explained to us the true meaning of love with his desperate actions, that is, "love is giving, not expecting anything in return".
Moisturizing silent power
At all times and in all over the world, the voice of praising and praising maternal love is always the most beautiful and loudest, "The arms of a loving mother are made of love, how can a child not sleep sweet in it?" (Hugo) "A mother's heart is an abyss, in which In the deepest part of it you will always be forgiven." (Balzac) "There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the mother's call." (Dante) "My mother's love for me is so great that I have to use My hard work to verify this kind of love is worth it." (Chagall)... Maternal love also has countless ways, a simple sentence, a smile, a nod, an encouragement... These details are full of Mother's love, more or less, more or less.Maternal love is like drizzle, which contains the magical effect of "moistening things silently".
He was naughty and often violated the house rules, causing his father to beat him with a stick.The mother said with pity that the child had played too much, which made the neighbors see it as disgraceful, so she lovingly took him away to save him the pain of flesh and blood.
At that time, he didn't know what decency was, but he only knew to be grateful to his mother from the bottom of his heart, and felt that his mother was like a safe haven, even if there was a big storm, he would resist and share it for him.So he secretly made up his mind that he must study hard, behave honestly, and win honor for his mother.
He took the senior high school entrance examination, but his performance was abnormal, and his name fell to Sun Shan.Father picked up a wooden stick to teach him a lesson, but mother rushed forward to block him with her body.Father reprimands mother: "The child is called you to spoil!"
He looked at his silent mother, at her lonely and helpless, with tears in his eyes.He cried, for the mother's love that was as thick as a cup of fresh, sweet and fragrant milk, and he failed his mother, the love that gave with all his heart and had no regrets.
He chose to repeat his studies, and his mother poured tea and water for him every night, peeled fruits and prepared snacks, and took care of everything in life.She still loves him so much, without any change. September is the season of sweet-scented osmanthus blooming. The sweet-scented osmanthus blooms, and the courtyard is filled with pleasant fragrance.Early in the morning, he got up and went to the courtyard to exercise. He smelled a strong fragrance, and then saw his mother spraying something to the sweet-scented osmanthus tree in the courtyard. Spray what?"
His mother looked at him anxiously, and said: "This osmanthus tree has not bloomed after being planted for 5 years. I am worried that it will not bloom again this year. Spray some sweet-scented osmanthus perfume on it." What's the use?" He asked suspiciously.
"Maybe affected by the climate or soil, this laurel tree has delayed its flowering period and temporarily forgot to bloom. But if it doesn't bloom anymore, it will be mistaken for a tree that won't bloom and is a useless tree." The mother turned around I stood up and continued to spray on the tree, and said in a low voice, "I sprayed perfume on it. During the day, if someone asked why the tree didn't bloom, I would let them smell the fragrance and tell them that it just bloomed a few days ago." , it blooms beautifully and fragrantly!"
Before his eyes appeared the frivolous questioning of passers-by when passing by the osmanthus tree for several days, and he suddenly realized that the reason his mother took pains to spray perfume on the osmanthus tree was actually to cover up the embarrassment of the osmanthus tree before it bloomed, and to block people's contemptuous eyes for it. .Recalling the mistakes he had made, recalling the failure of the high school entrance examination, he suddenly felt that he was like this laurel tree, which had been wasting time, delaying the "flowering period" and causing trouble. Meticulous protection prevents me from being ridiculed and disgusted by others, and prevents me from giving up on myself!
"I chose this tree carefully at the beginning, and I believe it will bloom in the coming year." The mother packed up the tools, hooked his thin arm and said in relief.He hugged his mother tightly, trying to turn his head away to keep the tears from falling.
"The osmanthus tree forgot to bloom for the time being, and give it a little chance to let it enjoy the wind and rain alone and enjoy the sunshine quietly, and it will definitely bloom in the coming year." Since then, he often thinks of his mother's words, as if he has changed a person, and works harder He studied hard and finally passed the key middle school with excellent results.That year, the osmanthus tree really bloomed, and the white flowers were dotted all over the branches, and the fragrance of the flowers was refreshing.
Later, he was successfully admitted to a key university, found a satisfactory job after graduation, became the backbone of the unit, and insisted on writing in his spare time.And the osmanthus tree, year after year, is still beautiful and fragrant to accompany him and his parents.
If you are sure that it is a osmanthus tree that will bloom, but it will not bloom for the time being, then please strive for some more tranquility for it, weave it into a protective umbrella of love with your trust, tolerance and careful care, and protect this tree for it. Secret, in the coming year, you will definitely see the flowers blooming and the fragrance floating in the garden.This umbrella of love is maternal love, it is silent, just like a thin spring rain, it spreads silently in our hearts, quietly nourishing our hearts.
Where there is love, there is fighting power. The "he" in the story proved it to us with his own actions.Because "he" felt and realized the power of maternal love, he changed himself with the greatest energy, which is also the power of positive energy.
There is truth everywhere in the world
In today's society, those chilling things happen from time to time.For example, learning from "Lei Feng" was slandered and ridiculed, he died bravely for a righteous cause but was not recognized, his brother pushed back and forth to support his mother, a family went to court to fight for a house, and they were accused of hype for financial assistance... So, some people lamented the world. Under the sun, people's hearts are not old;It is true that those social cancers that corrupt public morals should be despised and cast aside by the world, but we should be clear that those are only individual phenomena, and we cannot lose confidence in the whole society and a better life because of this.You see, the Beijing girl Luo Mengyan used her shoulders and love to deduce a touching story for us that is not a relative but a relative.She told us with practical actions: there is true love in the world!
Luo Mengyan and Zhao Nanqian are childhood friends.Since Zhao Nanqian suffered from muscle weakness since she was a child, Luo Mengyan has taken on the responsibility of taking care of her since elementary school.One of their two families is in the east of the village and the other is in the west of the village.Every day, Luo Mengyan would go to Zhao Nanqian's house to pick her up for school; after school, she would walk through the whole village and send her home.
During recess, when other children are playing outside, Luo Mengyan, who is also a child, stays in the classroom, holding her friend's hand, singing songs and making rubber bands with her... When it is necessary to change classrooms, Mengyan recites Watching Nancy, from one classroom to another, within 10 minutes, the two of them were never late.Mengyan never said she was tired. She carried Nancy to the bathroom, took Nancy to the flag-raising ceremony, and took Nancy to computer and music classes... In this way, she went from the school gate to the classroom, from the bathroom to the playground, from the music class every day. From the classroom to the computer room, upstairs and downstairs, indoors and outdoors, the two are inseparable.On Mengyan's back, Nancy never missed a class due to physical reasons.
After entering junior high school, in order to take care of Zhao Nanqian, Meng Yan took the initiative to approach the school and asked, "Teacher, can you put me and Nancy in the same class? She needs my care!" The teacher's mind was strongly shocked, so she immediately satisfied her request.
Every day after school, Mengyan would push Zhao Nanqian back and forth between the class and the school gate, and pick her up and down from the wheelchair.On campus, Mengyan would carry Zhao Nanqian on her back like she did in elementary school. Although many people came to help Nancy, Mengyan never left Zhao Nanqian's side for half a step, because only she knew best Nancy's feelings and needs. "I don't feel at ease when someone else takes care of me!" Meng Yan said, "She feels safe only when I'm here."
Mengyan's actions are also affecting the students around her.After school that day, an autumn rain made people feel chilly. "At that time, I was thinking about how to keep Nancy from getting wet." Meng Yan said.Before she could figure out a way, the students in the class rushed out of the classroom and used umbrellas to prop up a colorful road leading to the school gate for the two of them.
In the second year of junior high school, under the inspiration of Meng Yan, their class spontaneously established a voluntary love society.A teacher was impressed by Luo Mengyan's infinite love and eternal perseverance, and wrote an essay titled "Eight Years".In the article, the teacher wrote: "In eight years, most girls acted like a baby at home and competed for supremacy outside. Girls these eight years are just the age when good and good are in a mess, and they are angry and conflicted in a blink of an eye. But she was able to persist for eight years, rain or shine. For eight years, she continued to do a seemingly simple thing, down to every day and every class, which was difficult even for adults, but this girl created a miracle. How is this How much affection does a girl need to complete the journey from home to school? They are not relatives, so what kind of great parents should the girl have, who can allow the child to bear responsibilities that they should not have? Yes What kind of spirit is supporting such a relationship... I think, today, we have found the answer, and we can firmly say that it is the spirit of voluntary dedication and great love that leads her."
From elementary school to junior high school, Mengyan has carried Nancy on her immature and strong arms for 9 years, and she never let Nancy touch her.
At the end of the high school entrance examination, Mengyan had the opportunity to choose a better school, but she gave up. She chose to stay with Nancy and continue to take care of her, because she knew how to use giving up to get more cherished things.
Once, when Nancy realized her physical defects and felt inferior, Mengyan patiently enlightened her, told her stories, told her jokes, made her happy, and gave her the courage to live.With Mengyan as a good friend, Nancy has been happily enjoying the warmth brought by her friendship. The withdrawn and inferiority reflected in most disabled children can no longer be seen in Nancy.On the contrary, under Mengyan's company and encouragement, Nancy has become physically disabled, has excellent academic performance, and has become a sunny and happy girl.
Zhao Nanqian is unfortunate, but also lucky, because she has a good friend who is kind, caring, dedicated, strong and brave. It is a good friend who illuminates her heart with sincere love and selfless dedication, allowing her Finding herself in the lost way made her life more colorful and reaped a heavy and gorgeous life.
Luo Mengyan betrayed her partner for 9 years, but did not seek anything in return, did not complain, what kind of spirit is this?This is a kind of dedication, a kind of sincerity, and a kind of great love.Who can say that this is not a true feeling in the world?While taking care of her partners, Luo Mengyan conveyed a powerful positive energy gathered with sincerity and love to our society.
Just imagine, if each of us can have less indifference in our hearts, more sincerity, and stretch out loving hands, so that our hearts are closely connected, then the world will become a big warm family.
Sow the seeds of love to the earth
When he was 6 years old, Ryan Hilliejack came to Kemptville, Canada to study in the first grade.In the public welfare class, the teacher talked about the living conditions of African children: "Those children have never seen toys, there is not enough food and medicine, and many people have not even drank clean water. Every year, many children are contaminated by drinking contaminated water. If you donate 1 cent to them, you can buy a pencil; if you donate 1 cents, you can buy 25 vitamins; if you donate 175 cents, you can pay for a child’s medical expenses for two months; Yuan, you can dig a well to help them permanently solve their drinking water problem..." The teacher described it emotionally, and little Ryan listened attentively, thinking what he could do for them.
"I want to dig a well for my friends in Africa so that they can also drink clean water!" After returning home, Little Ryan couldn't wait to ask his mother for money. 70 yuan is not a small amount for a family that is not rich, so my mother finally refused.
"You are still a child, I can't give you that much money." Mom said seriously, "If you really want to help them, you should use your own labor to earn it." She suggested that Ryan make money by doing extra housework, and Ryan En agreed without hesitation.He began to vacuum the carpet, clean the table, and clean the windows for the family every day... After four months, he finally earned 70 yuan.
Ryan took the money and happily went to the teacher, but the teacher didn't know how to donate the money to African children.As a last resort, Ryan had to ask his mother for help.When I found out that there is a local named "water tank"
After the organization is collecting donations and going to Africa to dig wells, Ryan eagerly went to donate money with his mother. The person in charge of the "Water Tank" organization shook his head and said, "70 yuan is only enough to buy a water pump, and at least 2000 yuan is needed to dig a well."
Ryan didn't know how much 2000 yuan was, but he was unwilling to give up, and said to his mother confidently: "Then you can arrange more work for me, so that I can earn enough 2000 yuan!" Mom She fell into silence. She knew what 2000 yuan meant to her son, but she didn't know whether to discourage him or encourage him. She just hoped that as time went by, he would forget about it.
However, the idea of digging a well is hidden in Ryan's mind like a wind-up alarm clock, urging him to work tirelessly for the family, even rushing to do the work of adults such as moving things and buying daily necessities.Looking at Ryan's stubborn figure, the mother couldn't help saying silently: Son, you have tried your best, but the amount of 2000 yuan is too huge for you, and it is impossible to realize.
After learning about Ryan's story, a reporter made a special trip to interview and published the photo of him washing the wall in the "Forward News", which immediately attracted the attention of many people.Soon, reports that Ryan insisted on building a well for African children spread all over Canada. Kind-hearted people called from all over the country for consultation and spontaneously donated money and materials to help Ryan realize his dream as soon as possible.An international development organization has publicly stated that if Ryan's Well receives a penny in donations, they will donate another two cents.
With the help of the society, one year later, the first "Ryan's Well" was finally built in Uganda.Since then, "Ryan's Well" has established a special foundation, and Ryan's ideal has become a cause shared by tens of millions of people. So far, 30 wells have been built in Africa, benefiting thousands of African children.
A 6-year-old child, with ignorant love, persistent belief and selfless dedication, has helped many children in this way.His kind deeds built a bridge of love between two different countries and ignited the fire of love at both ends of the earth.
Little Ryan's behavior has aroused the love of many people. If each of us puts love into action, it will change the whole world!However, many people think that the world seems too big and complex, full of problems, to be difficult to deal with.Everyone hopes that the world will become better and better, but it is because they regard changing the world as a big event, ignoring that small actions in daily life can also change or affect others, so they don't take action.In fact, as long as we adjust our attitudes and ways of life and take action, starting with a simple act, we can change the world.
Michael Norton, a well-known British social welfare worker, listed a simple and easy way to change the world a day: collecting rainwater to replenish groundwater or support water-scarce areas; recycle and sort waste glasses and implement the "Transocean Vision Aid" program; Design the website at a "snail speed" to advocate a new "slow life"; log in to the "hungry website" once a day to fund a hungry person's food for a day...We can also do it from the smallest things around us like Michael Let’s start—sort the garbage we make and throw it into the trash can, save a day of driving, donate one yuan to the disaster area... pass on our love.
Instead of waiting for the sunshine and complaining about the darkness, it is better to light the "candle" at hand and bring light to yourself and others!Act now, little Ryan can, and you can too!Let us sow the seeds of love to the earth, take care of love, and harvest love!
The positive energy of love can be created
Today, touching stories are being staged around us every day.Bai Fangli, a retired old man in Hebei Province, earned 74 yuan by pedaling three rounds in his life after the age of 35, and donated it to many universities, middle schools and primary schools in Tianjin, subsidizing more than 300 poor students; Mr. Geng Qiuping, an old man, has sponsored more than 20 impoverished students for 600 years, and his three sons were infected by him and participated in it; Persisting for 13 years, he used his private car to pick up nearly 15 strange passengers, "Is there anyone on the way? I can pick you up for a while, no money." This is what he said every day; "Rescue stray pets , we are taking action!" This is a resounding sentence from the intern grassroots of Hefei Forum, and it is also the voice of many caring people who support and protect stray animals; an old man in his seventies in Hubei Province wanted to give stray animals a Habitat, silently helping stray cats and puppies, has been doing this for 150 years, and the old man has adopted more than [-] stray animals intermittently... There are many, many stories like this that move us.
Some say they are asking for trouble.But their actions tell us that they are actively creating positive energy.The famous writer Bi Shumin said: "Positive energy is the body temperature of this era. Although we are fragile, we should be stronger. Everyone hopes to have positive energy and enjoy a life full of joy, but positive energy will not automatically fall from the sky. What hits you, it needs us to create and accumulate through self-cultivation. Whether it is a disaster or everyone's life, we all need positive energy. Today's society is full of pressure and various tests are inevitable, but choosing positive energy The energy life is in our hands." Yes, the positive energy of love can be created.
An old man named Liu Shenglan from Shandong Province, 17 years ago, was a gatekeeper in a unit. When she happened to see a report in the newspaper about a student who was out of school asking for help, she remitted 50 yuan.After that, the old man paid special attention to the help information in the newspaper, and more students donated. In the past 17 years, he has donated more than 7 yuan and helped more than 100 poor students.
Since 2012, Liu Shenglan, who is old and has inconvenient legs and feet, no longer picks up junk, but he has not stopped supporting poor students, because a large group of kind people gathered behind him.They are also caring about the old man and giving him financial help.The old man always remembered the kind people who helped him: "Li Zhina and Yan Jianhua from Henan lived in the same building, and they sent me money in turn; there was a deputy to the National People's Congress in Shanxi named Li Shunsheng, who gave me 11 In January, someone sent me another 1." The old man said that since he stopped picking up junk, the money sent by these kind-hearted people has become his only source of income.
A few years ago, the town and the village planned to arrange for the old man to enter a nursing home, but he preferred to live in his own home.Now the town gives him a pension of 2900 yuan a year, and the village still has 200 yuan and a box of milk every month. The town's rural power station also waives the electricity bill for the elderly.
Among the many funders, those who know how to be grateful are also giving back to the elderly.They said that a few hundred yuan was undoubtedly a timely gift for them back then, and now it is their duty to repay the elderly.Some people begged the elderly to "don't send us any more money". One of the letters said: "Seeing your eyes that read the warmth and coldness of the world makes me feel very uneasy. You are already 90 years old. For It hurts my heart to subsidize poor students and live frugally. Whenever I take the hard-earned money you send, I don’t know what it feels like. Please don’t send us money in the future.”
This kind-hearted old man still saves money on food and expenses, and the biggest annual expense is 180 yuan for subscribing to newspapers.On his window sill, there was a stack of newspaper clippings folded into a thin strip, which were full of reports asking for help.
We can see from the story that love is "circling", and the old man's kindness and love have been rewarded, although he does not ask for anything in return.If everyone could create love in this way, the world would be full of love.Don't let your love just stay in your heart, put it into action.Because a kind heart is like fertile land, if you don't plant "crops", it will grow weeds; a kind heart must be truly put into action in order to benefit yourself and others.
【Stimulate Positive Energy】Cultivate our love
The ancients said that "at the beginning of human beings, nature is good", which means that everyone is not born with a lack of love, but in the process of growth, due to many factors, we have not maintained this kind nature.But it doesn't matter, because love can be cultivated, and it's never too late.From now on, cultivate your own love, let yourself be a caring person, and pass on the positive energy of love.
——Read more books and constantly improve your moral character.Reading can enrich our knowledge, increase our knowledge and cultivate our good moral character.With good qualities, we will naturally feel that giving love is a matter of course and something we are accustomed to.First have love in thought, and then put it into action, your love will blossom and bear fruit.
——Put yourself in the shoes of others, and feel the misfortune and pain of others.When we see other people encounter misfortune or difficulties, we can compare our feelings in the painful state with others' experience in the same situation, and feel the mood of others. In this way, we will understand others and at the same time extend a helping hand to others. hand.
——Start from small things and feel the joy after dedication.We can start with the most insignificant things around us, and experience the joy of helping others, which can motivate us to do more things that are happy to help others in the future.For example, if a classmate forgot to bring a tissue, we will use our own for him; when riding together, if your companion forgot to bring a bus card, you can help him swipe it; when someone asks you for directions, you are happy to tell him; When traveling, your partner gets sick on the way, you take him to see a doctor, or take care of him to take medicine; a stranger accidentally falls down, you smile and reach out to him to give him a hand; and so on.These seemingly trivial things can slowly cultivate our love if we get used to them.
——Protect your own love, regardless of other people's cynicism.Sometimes, our love will be accused by some people as hype or show, which will attract cynicism.At this time, we should keep calm and deal with those who don't know the truth in a cold manner. At the same time, we must strengthen our beliefs, stick to our good wishes, continue our good deeds, and dedicate our love.As the saying goes, "Time sees people's hearts". If you continue to do it, people will understand you slowly and will be full of admiration for you.However, it doesn't matter whether others understand or not. The important thing is that one's heart is bright, and one is not afraid of criticism from others.
——Cultivate love from childhood.Cultivate love from childhood, from childhood to adulthood, all the way, he is undoubtedly a person full of love and positive energy.First, parents must set an example for their children.Only caring parents can raise caring children.Children take their parents as their role models all the time, and every word and deed of parents is subtly affecting children. This is the reason why teaching by example is more important than teaching by words.First of all, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds at ordinary times, so as to respect the elderly, care about children, care for others, and be willing to help others, so that children feel that their parents are caring people, and they should also be caring people.Second, let the children experience the hard life.Today's children live in a wealthy environment since they were young, and they don't realize the poverty and misfortune of others at all.At home, children enjoy many "privileges" and "privileges", and adults always give way to children unconsciously.Therefore, it is also a good choice for parents to take their children to rural areas with relatively difficult conditions and let them receive training education.Third, allow children to raise small animals.For children in elementary school, letting them raise small animals is the best way to cultivate their love. Small fish, chickens, and puppies are not expensive or troublesome, and they are still children's favorites!Fourth, provide opportunities for children to dedicate love.Parents can take their children to participate in public welfare activities, and donate some of their own learning tools, books, pocket money, etc. to children in need and to children in disaster areas, all of which can cultivate children's love.
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what is love?Love is the mother's concern for the child in "Wandering Ziyin", love is the filial piety of children to their parents, love is the respect between husband and wife, love is a stranger who gives a dollar to a beggar, love is a soldier's hands from the ruins of an earthquake Saving lives one after another, love is a moving picture of private cars picking up and transporting trapped people... Love is a kind of spirit.Love is everywhere in the world, and everyone needs the warmth of love. Let us pass on the positive energy of "love" forever.
Love is giving, not expecting anything in return
Many times, we accept the care of others and are moved by their noble character, because they give us the belief and confidence in life.We know how to be grateful, so we vowed: "One day, I will repay them." But as the years go by and the times change, when we really want to repay them, we always feel that we have more than enough energy.For example, the most selfless and greatest fatherly love and maternal love in the world is a kind of love like the sea, but our return is no different from that of a stream. Sometimes when we have the ability to repay, our parents may have already left us; For the teachers who taught us knowledge, we went to see them several times after leaving the school; when we were in the most difficult time, friends extended a helping hand to help us tide over the difficulties, but when we wanted to repay them, we didn't know where they were; We want to say "thank you" to a stranger for a glass of water, a dollar, or even a life-saving grace on the road, but we find that their figures have merged into the bustling crowd... Parents can do anything for their children, even It is to sacrifice life, friends help us when we are not rich, and strangers help us and then leave quietly. Looking back on these, can we still say that love is for reciprocation?In fact, true love, whether it is between parents and children, between friends, or between strangers, is all from the heart, instinctive, conscience and conscience, and willing.Love is "giving", it doesn't need anything in return, and it doesn't care how much in return.Therefore, all we can do is to take the initiative to empathize, and give selfless and sincere love to those around us as much as we can without asking for anything in return.This noble character, this great spirit, is like a blazing fire that can illuminate the dark night, eliminate the indifference among people, shorten the distance between people, and make our society become warmer.
This is a touching and tearful scene that happened in the 2008 Wenchuan earthquake in Sichuan: when the rescuers found her, she was already dead, crushed to death by the collapsed house.
Through the gaps in the pile of ruins, you can see her death posture: kneeling, the whole upper body prostrated forward, supporting the body with hands on the ground, a bit like the ancients kneeling and worshiping, but the body was deformed , looks a little weird.
Rescuers reached in through the gaps in the ruins to confirm that she was dead, then shouted at the ruins, and knocked on the bricks with a crowbar, but there was no response from inside.When the rescuers were about to go to the next building, the rescue team leader suddenly ran back, shouting "Come quickly" while running.He came to her body again, and strenuously reached under the woman's body to feel around. After a few touches, he shouted loudly: "There is a child, and he is still alive."
After some efforts, people carefully cleared away the ruins blocking her, and found her child lying under her body.The child was wrapped in a small quilt and was about three or four months old. Because his mother protected him with his body, he was not injured at all and fell asleep peacefully when he was carried out.
When the accompanying doctor came to untie the quilt for an examination, he found a mobile phone stuffed in the quilt. The doctor subconsciously looked at the screen of the mobile phone and found a text message written on the screen: "Dear baby, if you can live , must remember that mother loves you." The doctor, who was used to seeing life and death, burst into tears at this moment.The mobile phone passed on, and everyone who saw the text message was in tears.
A mother protects her child's life with her body, and she uses her life to explain to us what maternal love is.Maternal love is selfless and does not seek repayment.
One day in 2012, by the lakeside of Zijingshan East Park in Zhengzhou City, the tourists were as happy as usual.With a cry, a young man jumped into the lake with a plop. He put his arms around the waist of the old man who fell into the water, and dragged the old man to the bank with all his strength.After arriving at the shore, other tourists helped the old man carefully to lie down on a stone bench.
The onlookers asked the old man's situation with concern, and some people called 120.At this time, the young man who jumped into the lake to save others saw that the old man was fine, so he twisted the water on his clothes and left quietly.
Afterwards, the park tried to find the young man through the media to express its gratitude, but failed.
Netizens left their own voices about this: "The young man left silently after saving people, good job! Do good deeds and leave your name alone. There will be more and more kind and brave young people like this." "Positive energy is spreading .”
The nameless guy left quietly after rescuing someone, which is a kind of spirit of great love.He explained to us the true meaning of love with his desperate actions, that is, "love is giving, not expecting anything in return".
Moisturizing silent power
At all times and in all over the world, the voice of praising and praising maternal love is always the most beautiful and loudest, "The arms of a loving mother are made of love, how can a child not sleep sweet in it?" (Hugo) "A mother's heart is an abyss, in which In the deepest part of it you will always be forgiven." (Balzac) "There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the mother's call." (Dante) "My mother's love for me is so great that I have to use My hard work to verify this kind of love is worth it." (Chagall)... Maternal love also has countless ways, a simple sentence, a smile, a nod, an encouragement... These details are full of Mother's love, more or less, more or less.Maternal love is like drizzle, which contains the magical effect of "moistening things silently".
He was naughty and often violated the house rules, causing his father to beat him with a stick.The mother said with pity that the child had played too much, which made the neighbors see it as disgraceful, so she lovingly took him away to save him the pain of flesh and blood.
At that time, he didn't know what decency was, but he only knew to be grateful to his mother from the bottom of his heart, and felt that his mother was like a safe haven, even if there was a big storm, he would resist and share it for him.So he secretly made up his mind that he must study hard, behave honestly, and win honor for his mother.
He took the senior high school entrance examination, but his performance was abnormal, and his name fell to Sun Shan.Father picked up a wooden stick to teach him a lesson, but mother rushed forward to block him with her body.Father reprimands mother: "The child is called you to spoil!"
He looked at his silent mother, at her lonely and helpless, with tears in his eyes.He cried, for the mother's love that was as thick as a cup of fresh, sweet and fragrant milk, and he failed his mother, the love that gave with all his heart and had no regrets.
He chose to repeat his studies, and his mother poured tea and water for him every night, peeled fruits and prepared snacks, and took care of everything in life.She still loves him so much, without any change. September is the season of sweet-scented osmanthus blooming. The sweet-scented osmanthus blooms, and the courtyard is filled with pleasant fragrance.Early in the morning, he got up and went to the courtyard to exercise. He smelled a strong fragrance, and then saw his mother spraying something to the sweet-scented osmanthus tree in the courtyard. Spray what?"
His mother looked at him anxiously, and said: "This osmanthus tree has not bloomed after being planted for 5 years. I am worried that it will not bloom again this year. Spray some sweet-scented osmanthus perfume on it." What's the use?" He asked suspiciously.
"Maybe affected by the climate or soil, this laurel tree has delayed its flowering period and temporarily forgot to bloom. But if it doesn't bloom anymore, it will be mistaken for a tree that won't bloom and is a useless tree." The mother turned around I stood up and continued to spray on the tree, and said in a low voice, "I sprayed perfume on it. During the day, if someone asked why the tree didn't bloom, I would let them smell the fragrance and tell them that it just bloomed a few days ago." , it blooms beautifully and fragrantly!"
Before his eyes appeared the frivolous questioning of passers-by when passing by the osmanthus tree for several days, and he suddenly realized that the reason his mother took pains to spray perfume on the osmanthus tree was actually to cover up the embarrassment of the osmanthus tree before it bloomed, and to block people's contemptuous eyes for it. .Recalling the mistakes he had made, recalling the failure of the high school entrance examination, he suddenly felt that he was like this laurel tree, which had been wasting time, delaying the "flowering period" and causing trouble. Meticulous protection prevents me from being ridiculed and disgusted by others, and prevents me from giving up on myself!
"I chose this tree carefully at the beginning, and I believe it will bloom in the coming year." The mother packed up the tools, hooked his thin arm and said in relief.He hugged his mother tightly, trying to turn his head away to keep the tears from falling.
"The osmanthus tree forgot to bloom for the time being, and give it a little chance to let it enjoy the wind and rain alone and enjoy the sunshine quietly, and it will definitely bloom in the coming year." Since then, he often thinks of his mother's words, as if he has changed a person, and works harder He studied hard and finally passed the key middle school with excellent results.That year, the osmanthus tree really bloomed, and the white flowers were dotted all over the branches, and the fragrance of the flowers was refreshing.
Later, he was successfully admitted to a key university, found a satisfactory job after graduation, became the backbone of the unit, and insisted on writing in his spare time.And the osmanthus tree, year after year, is still beautiful and fragrant to accompany him and his parents.
If you are sure that it is a osmanthus tree that will bloom, but it will not bloom for the time being, then please strive for some more tranquility for it, weave it into a protective umbrella of love with your trust, tolerance and careful care, and protect this tree for it. Secret, in the coming year, you will definitely see the flowers blooming and the fragrance floating in the garden.This umbrella of love is maternal love, it is silent, just like a thin spring rain, it spreads silently in our hearts, quietly nourishing our hearts.
Where there is love, there is fighting power. The "he" in the story proved it to us with his own actions.Because "he" felt and realized the power of maternal love, he changed himself with the greatest energy, which is also the power of positive energy.
There is truth everywhere in the world
In today's society, those chilling things happen from time to time.For example, learning from "Lei Feng" was slandered and ridiculed, he died bravely for a righteous cause but was not recognized, his brother pushed back and forth to support his mother, a family went to court to fight for a house, and they were accused of hype for financial assistance... So, some people lamented the world. Under the sun, people's hearts are not old;It is true that those social cancers that corrupt public morals should be despised and cast aside by the world, but we should be clear that those are only individual phenomena, and we cannot lose confidence in the whole society and a better life because of this.You see, the Beijing girl Luo Mengyan used her shoulders and love to deduce a touching story for us that is not a relative but a relative.She told us with practical actions: there is true love in the world!
Luo Mengyan and Zhao Nanqian are childhood friends.Since Zhao Nanqian suffered from muscle weakness since she was a child, Luo Mengyan has taken on the responsibility of taking care of her since elementary school.One of their two families is in the east of the village and the other is in the west of the village.Every day, Luo Mengyan would go to Zhao Nanqian's house to pick her up for school; after school, she would walk through the whole village and send her home.
During recess, when other children are playing outside, Luo Mengyan, who is also a child, stays in the classroom, holding her friend's hand, singing songs and making rubber bands with her... When it is necessary to change classrooms, Mengyan recites Watching Nancy, from one classroom to another, within 10 minutes, the two of them were never late.Mengyan never said she was tired. She carried Nancy to the bathroom, took Nancy to the flag-raising ceremony, and took Nancy to computer and music classes... In this way, she went from the school gate to the classroom, from the bathroom to the playground, from the music class every day. From the classroom to the computer room, upstairs and downstairs, indoors and outdoors, the two are inseparable.On Mengyan's back, Nancy never missed a class due to physical reasons.
After entering junior high school, in order to take care of Zhao Nanqian, Meng Yan took the initiative to approach the school and asked, "Teacher, can you put me and Nancy in the same class? She needs my care!" The teacher's mind was strongly shocked, so she immediately satisfied her request.
Every day after school, Mengyan would push Zhao Nanqian back and forth between the class and the school gate, and pick her up and down from the wheelchair.On campus, Mengyan would carry Zhao Nanqian on her back like she did in elementary school. Although many people came to help Nancy, Mengyan never left Zhao Nanqian's side for half a step, because only she knew best Nancy's feelings and needs. "I don't feel at ease when someone else takes care of me!" Meng Yan said, "She feels safe only when I'm here."
Mengyan's actions are also affecting the students around her.After school that day, an autumn rain made people feel chilly. "At that time, I was thinking about how to keep Nancy from getting wet." Meng Yan said.Before she could figure out a way, the students in the class rushed out of the classroom and used umbrellas to prop up a colorful road leading to the school gate for the two of them.
In the second year of junior high school, under the inspiration of Meng Yan, their class spontaneously established a voluntary love society.A teacher was impressed by Luo Mengyan's infinite love and eternal perseverance, and wrote an essay titled "Eight Years".In the article, the teacher wrote: "In eight years, most girls acted like a baby at home and competed for supremacy outside. Girls these eight years are just the age when good and good are in a mess, and they are angry and conflicted in a blink of an eye. But she was able to persist for eight years, rain or shine. For eight years, she continued to do a seemingly simple thing, down to every day and every class, which was difficult even for adults, but this girl created a miracle. How is this How much affection does a girl need to complete the journey from home to school? They are not relatives, so what kind of great parents should the girl have, who can allow the child to bear responsibilities that they should not have? Yes What kind of spirit is supporting such a relationship... I think, today, we have found the answer, and we can firmly say that it is the spirit of voluntary dedication and great love that leads her."
From elementary school to junior high school, Mengyan has carried Nancy on her immature and strong arms for 9 years, and she never let Nancy touch her.
At the end of the high school entrance examination, Mengyan had the opportunity to choose a better school, but she gave up. She chose to stay with Nancy and continue to take care of her, because she knew how to use giving up to get more cherished things.
Once, when Nancy realized her physical defects and felt inferior, Mengyan patiently enlightened her, told her stories, told her jokes, made her happy, and gave her the courage to live.With Mengyan as a good friend, Nancy has been happily enjoying the warmth brought by her friendship. The withdrawn and inferiority reflected in most disabled children can no longer be seen in Nancy.On the contrary, under Mengyan's company and encouragement, Nancy has become physically disabled, has excellent academic performance, and has become a sunny and happy girl.
Zhao Nanqian is unfortunate, but also lucky, because she has a good friend who is kind, caring, dedicated, strong and brave. It is a good friend who illuminates her heart with sincere love and selfless dedication, allowing her Finding herself in the lost way made her life more colorful and reaped a heavy and gorgeous life.
Luo Mengyan betrayed her partner for 9 years, but did not seek anything in return, did not complain, what kind of spirit is this?This is a kind of dedication, a kind of sincerity, and a kind of great love.Who can say that this is not a true feeling in the world?While taking care of her partners, Luo Mengyan conveyed a powerful positive energy gathered with sincerity and love to our society.
Just imagine, if each of us can have less indifference in our hearts, more sincerity, and stretch out loving hands, so that our hearts are closely connected, then the world will become a big warm family.
Sow the seeds of love to the earth
When he was 6 years old, Ryan Hilliejack came to Kemptville, Canada to study in the first grade.In the public welfare class, the teacher talked about the living conditions of African children: "Those children have never seen toys, there is not enough food and medicine, and many people have not even drank clean water. Every year, many children are contaminated by drinking contaminated water. If you donate 1 cent to them, you can buy a pencil; if you donate 1 cents, you can buy 25 vitamins; if you donate 175 cents, you can pay for a child’s medical expenses for two months; Yuan, you can dig a well to help them permanently solve their drinking water problem..." The teacher described it emotionally, and little Ryan listened attentively, thinking what he could do for them.
"I want to dig a well for my friends in Africa so that they can also drink clean water!" After returning home, Little Ryan couldn't wait to ask his mother for money. 70 yuan is not a small amount for a family that is not rich, so my mother finally refused.
"You are still a child, I can't give you that much money." Mom said seriously, "If you really want to help them, you should use your own labor to earn it." She suggested that Ryan make money by doing extra housework, and Ryan En agreed without hesitation.He began to vacuum the carpet, clean the table, and clean the windows for the family every day... After four months, he finally earned 70 yuan.
Ryan took the money and happily went to the teacher, but the teacher didn't know how to donate the money to African children.As a last resort, Ryan had to ask his mother for help.When I found out that there is a local named "water tank"
After the organization is collecting donations and going to Africa to dig wells, Ryan eagerly went to donate money with his mother. The person in charge of the "Water Tank" organization shook his head and said, "70 yuan is only enough to buy a water pump, and at least 2000 yuan is needed to dig a well."
Ryan didn't know how much 2000 yuan was, but he was unwilling to give up, and said to his mother confidently: "Then you can arrange more work for me, so that I can earn enough 2000 yuan!" Mom She fell into silence. She knew what 2000 yuan meant to her son, but she didn't know whether to discourage him or encourage him. She just hoped that as time went by, he would forget about it.
However, the idea of digging a well is hidden in Ryan's mind like a wind-up alarm clock, urging him to work tirelessly for the family, even rushing to do the work of adults such as moving things and buying daily necessities.Looking at Ryan's stubborn figure, the mother couldn't help saying silently: Son, you have tried your best, but the amount of 2000 yuan is too huge for you, and it is impossible to realize.
After learning about Ryan's story, a reporter made a special trip to interview and published the photo of him washing the wall in the "Forward News", which immediately attracted the attention of many people.Soon, reports that Ryan insisted on building a well for African children spread all over Canada. Kind-hearted people called from all over the country for consultation and spontaneously donated money and materials to help Ryan realize his dream as soon as possible.An international development organization has publicly stated that if Ryan's Well receives a penny in donations, they will donate another two cents.
With the help of the society, one year later, the first "Ryan's Well" was finally built in Uganda.Since then, "Ryan's Well" has established a special foundation, and Ryan's ideal has become a cause shared by tens of millions of people. So far, 30 wells have been built in Africa, benefiting thousands of African children.
A 6-year-old child, with ignorant love, persistent belief and selfless dedication, has helped many children in this way.His kind deeds built a bridge of love between two different countries and ignited the fire of love at both ends of the earth.
Little Ryan's behavior has aroused the love of many people. If each of us puts love into action, it will change the whole world!However, many people think that the world seems too big and complex, full of problems, to be difficult to deal with.Everyone hopes that the world will become better and better, but it is because they regard changing the world as a big event, ignoring that small actions in daily life can also change or affect others, so they don't take action.In fact, as long as we adjust our attitudes and ways of life and take action, starting with a simple act, we can change the world.
Michael Norton, a well-known British social welfare worker, listed a simple and easy way to change the world a day: collecting rainwater to replenish groundwater or support water-scarce areas; recycle and sort waste glasses and implement the "Transocean Vision Aid" program; Design the website at a "snail speed" to advocate a new "slow life"; log in to the "hungry website" once a day to fund a hungry person's food for a day...We can also do it from the smallest things around us like Michael Let’s start—sort the garbage we make and throw it into the trash can, save a day of driving, donate one yuan to the disaster area... pass on our love.
Instead of waiting for the sunshine and complaining about the darkness, it is better to light the "candle" at hand and bring light to yourself and others!Act now, little Ryan can, and you can too!Let us sow the seeds of love to the earth, take care of love, and harvest love!
The positive energy of love can be created
Today, touching stories are being staged around us every day.Bai Fangli, a retired old man in Hebei Province, earned 74 yuan by pedaling three rounds in his life after the age of 35, and donated it to many universities, middle schools and primary schools in Tianjin, subsidizing more than 300 poor students; Mr. Geng Qiuping, an old man, has sponsored more than 20 impoverished students for 600 years, and his three sons were infected by him and participated in it; Persisting for 13 years, he used his private car to pick up nearly 15 strange passengers, "Is there anyone on the way? I can pick you up for a while, no money." This is what he said every day; "Rescue stray pets , we are taking action!" This is a resounding sentence from the intern grassroots of Hefei Forum, and it is also the voice of many caring people who support and protect stray animals; an old man in his seventies in Hubei Province wanted to give stray animals a Habitat, silently helping stray cats and puppies, has been doing this for 150 years, and the old man has adopted more than [-] stray animals intermittently... There are many, many stories like this that move us.
Some say they are asking for trouble.But their actions tell us that they are actively creating positive energy.The famous writer Bi Shumin said: "Positive energy is the body temperature of this era. Although we are fragile, we should be stronger. Everyone hopes to have positive energy and enjoy a life full of joy, but positive energy will not automatically fall from the sky. What hits you, it needs us to create and accumulate through self-cultivation. Whether it is a disaster or everyone's life, we all need positive energy. Today's society is full of pressure and various tests are inevitable, but choosing positive energy The energy life is in our hands." Yes, the positive energy of love can be created.
An old man named Liu Shenglan from Shandong Province, 17 years ago, was a gatekeeper in a unit. When she happened to see a report in the newspaper about a student who was out of school asking for help, she remitted 50 yuan.After that, the old man paid special attention to the help information in the newspaper, and more students donated. In the past 17 years, he has donated more than 7 yuan and helped more than 100 poor students.
Since 2012, Liu Shenglan, who is old and has inconvenient legs and feet, no longer picks up junk, but he has not stopped supporting poor students, because a large group of kind people gathered behind him.They are also caring about the old man and giving him financial help.The old man always remembered the kind people who helped him: "Li Zhina and Yan Jianhua from Henan lived in the same building, and they sent me money in turn; there was a deputy to the National People's Congress in Shanxi named Li Shunsheng, who gave me 11 In January, someone sent me another 1." The old man said that since he stopped picking up junk, the money sent by these kind-hearted people has become his only source of income.
A few years ago, the town and the village planned to arrange for the old man to enter a nursing home, but he preferred to live in his own home.Now the town gives him a pension of 2900 yuan a year, and the village still has 200 yuan and a box of milk every month. The town's rural power station also waives the electricity bill for the elderly.
Among the many funders, those who know how to be grateful are also giving back to the elderly.They said that a few hundred yuan was undoubtedly a timely gift for them back then, and now it is their duty to repay the elderly.Some people begged the elderly to "don't send us any more money". One of the letters said: "Seeing your eyes that read the warmth and coldness of the world makes me feel very uneasy. You are already 90 years old. For It hurts my heart to subsidize poor students and live frugally. Whenever I take the hard-earned money you send, I don’t know what it feels like. Please don’t send us money in the future.”
This kind-hearted old man still saves money on food and expenses, and the biggest annual expense is 180 yuan for subscribing to newspapers.On his window sill, there was a stack of newspaper clippings folded into a thin strip, which were full of reports asking for help.
We can see from the story that love is "circling", and the old man's kindness and love have been rewarded, although he does not ask for anything in return.If everyone could create love in this way, the world would be full of love.Don't let your love just stay in your heart, put it into action.Because a kind heart is like fertile land, if you don't plant "crops", it will grow weeds; a kind heart must be truly put into action in order to benefit yourself and others.
【Stimulate Positive Energy】Cultivate our love
The ancients said that "at the beginning of human beings, nature is good", which means that everyone is not born with a lack of love, but in the process of growth, due to many factors, we have not maintained this kind nature.But it doesn't matter, because love can be cultivated, and it's never too late.From now on, cultivate your own love, let yourself be a caring person, and pass on the positive energy of love.
——Read more books and constantly improve your moral character.Reading can enrich our knowledge, increase our knowledge and cultivate our good moral character.With good qualities, we will naturally feel that giving love is a matter of course and something we are accustomed to.First have love in thought, and then put it into action, your love will blossom and bear fruit.
——Put yourself in the shoes of others, and feel the misfortune and pain of others.When we see other people encounter misfortune or difficulties, we can compare our feelings in the painful state with others' experience in the same situation, and feel the mood of others. In this way, we will understand others and at the same time extend a helping hand to others. hand.
——Start from small things and feel the joy after dedication.We can start with the most insignificant things around us, and experience the joy of helping others, which can motivate us to do more things that are happy to help others in the future.For example, if a classmate forgot to bring a tissue, we will use our own for him; when riding together, if your companion forgot to bring a bus card, you can help him swipe it; when someone asks you for directions, you are happy to tell him; When traveling, your partner gets sick on the way, you take him to see a doctor, or take care of him to take medicine; a stranger accidentally falls down, you smile and reach out to him to give him a hand; and so on.These seemingly trivial things can slowly cultivate our love if we get used to them.
——Protect your own love, regardless of other people's cynicism.Sometimes, our love will be accused by some people as hype or show, which will attract cynicism.At this time, we should keep calm and deal with those who don't know the truth in a cold manner. At the same time, we must strengthen our beliefs, stick to our good wishes, continue our good deeds, and dedicate our love.As the saying goes, "Time sees people's hearts". If you continue to do it, people will understand you slowly and will be full of admiration for you.However, it doesn't matter whether others understand or not. The important thing is that one's heart is bright, and one is not afraid of criticism from others.
——Cultivate love from childhood.Cultivate love from childhood, from childhood to adulthood, all the way, he is undoubtedly a person full of love and positive energy.First, parents must set an example for their children.Only caring parents can raise caring children.Children take their parents as their role models all the time, and every word and deed of parents is subtly affecting children. This is the reason why teaching by example is more important than teaching by words.First of all, parents should pay attention to their words and deeds at ordinary times, so as to respect the elderly, care about children, care for others, and be willing to help others, so that children feel that their parents are caring people, and they should also be caring people.Second, let the children experience the hard life.Today's children live in a wealthy environment since they were young, and they don't realize the poverty and misfortune of others at all.At home, children enjoy many "privileges" and "privileges", and adults always give way to children unconsciously.Therefore, it is also a good choice for parents to take their children to rural areas with relatively difficult conditions and let them receive training education.Third, allow children to raise small animals.For children in elementary school, letting them raise small animals is the best way to cultivate their love. Small fish, chickens, and puppies are not expensive or troublesome, and they are still children's favorites!Fourth, provide opportunities for children to dedicate love.Parents can take their children to participate in public welfare activities, and donate some of their own learning tools, books, pocket money, etc. to children in need and to children in disaster areas, all of which can cultivate children's love.
(End of this chapter)
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