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Chapter 13 Time Will Respect Everyone's Efforts (3)
A and B are two types of people in the office, and most people can be divided into these two types of people.Most introverts are probably envious of extroverts. Some things cannot be changed or learned if you want to change.

At the half-year company general meeting, there was a link where leaders nominated and praised outstanding employees in various departments in the first half of the year. A never thought that the commendation would have anything to do with him.I am always like an invisible person, doing my own job outside of people's perspective, never too outstanding, but never making any mistakes.

When the leader read A's name, A became nervous instead.It seems that I heard it wrong, and I feel that I have been criticized.Everyone applauded her and gave her praise or envy. Only then did A stand up in embarrassment, and nervously took the reward of 1000 yuan from the leader.

She wondered how she could be rated as an excellent employee by the leader.

By chance, she ran into the leader in the elevator after get off work.It so happened that they all dropped by the garage.Instead, the leader spoke first: You and B are both very good employees.I like you both very much, you both have your own strengths.

A finally seized the opportunity and asked: Tell me, tell me.B and I have our own strengths, where are we?I am quite envious of girls like B.

The leader said, you can't learn a girl like B.Don't even try to make yourself like her.She can have both ways, adapt to changing circumstances, and has a strong ability to adapt.And you, some are down-to-earth and willing to work.When doing things, he is not sloppy, and strives for excellence, and the results are satisfactory every time.Both of you are integral to the company, and it would be perfect if you could merge into one person.Obviously impossible, you can't be her, and I don't think she can be you.

Miss A was moved for a while, she didn't expect that she would have something to do with being serious, persistent, and striving for perfection.On weekdays, she never felt that she could connect with these commendatory words.

The leader went on to say that the two of you are completely different. To use an exaggerated metaphor, you are like Tai Chi, two people who complement each other completely.No one can do without it.You have only been working for a while, and it is conceivable that your life trajectories will be completely different in the future.

A expresses doubt, oh?How to say?
The leader said, you are a down-to-earth and introverted person, maybe you will meet a down-to-earth husband in the future, and you will live a stable and happy life; while B’s words are more colorful, maybe after several emotional ups and downs, maybe you will end up with a handsome man Men get married and live more romantic lives together.And she can rely on men to support her life, just relying on her face and her cheerful personality, you can't, your dullness may not be a bad thing, but you have to learn to rely on your own ability to work hard life.All dreams, all goals, you may rely more on yourself to do it in a down-to-earth manner.You will work together with your husband to build a reliable and strong family and life.

Those words seemed to have entered A's heart.My arrogance makes me never see my own advantages, and I feel that I am an ugly duckling. I am always envious of the white swan in my heart. I have been unknown, always like an invisible animal living outside the perspective of others.

In fact, being down-to-earth should not mean turning from introversion to low self-esteem, but a more stable starting point.Calmness makes life more reliable. Although it is difficult, your life is on your shoulders.In work and life, not everyone is really a "face-based world" as it is said on the Internet. If a beautiful face can generate performance and benefits, then this society has already entered a sick development mode.

A and B are no longer just two people, but like two stools, two positions, waiting for us to take the corresponding seat. B is shiny, but that doesn't mean A is dull.Just like A, when he was envious of others, he ignored his own advantages.

Every obscure ugly duckling may not necessarily become a white swan, but every person who strives hard for his own life goals will definitely be seen by others and by himself, and this society can repay you Yours is a more practical and wonderful life in exchange for your hard work.

Time will respect everyone's contribution

Only those who stand in front of their dreams can find the truest self in life and career.No matter where you are drifting, when you drift into your dreams, you will feel that the whole world is blooming for you and making way for your dreams.

Some time ago, the Internet began to say that "Bei Piao" is not as good as "Di Piao".What is Di Piao?It is to let the grassroots go to Dubai.

It is said on the Internet that it is miraculous: as long as you can speak Chinese, you can find a good job regardless of your education background, and you can earn tens of thousands of dollars a month.To do sales in a shopping mall, the basic salary is 2 yuan, and there will be a commission.Some netizens even said: "My friend's classmate went to Dubai to work for 3 years and bought 4 houses when he came back. I asked him what he used to do, and he answered that he was a hotel waiter; Tens of thousands less; I asked if there was no money to buy 4 houses, and I replied that I saved it for a tip, saved it for a tip, saved it for a tip..."

Dubai is a place full of luxury cars, and the skyscrapers are almost built into the Tower of Babel.It's a dreamy place. If you don't believe me, look at the princes and princesses in Dubai, they all look like people from fairy tales.After reading it, everyone said: They are already checking the air tickets.Time to quit my job and go to Dubai.Dubai needs me and my bags are packed.

So here comes the question, I want to ask: Is the moon in your place really round?

There is a school girl X who studied Chinese as a foreign language in college.I have always hoped to be a Chinese teacher at the Confucius Institute and teach international friends to learn Chinese.Her dream is not unreasonable. The only ups and downs may be that she is an undergraduate, and the university is not 985 and 211.Maybe we will think forget it, there are many people who are better than you are working towards that position, as a student in an ordinary university, let’s be content with our own destiny.But she didn't.I study English very hard, and seize every possible opportunity to communicate with foreign students on campus.

In her senior year, she did not look for a job internship like most people.Instead, I came to a small local literary and artistic attraction, where there are bars, cafes and artistic shops.There are often many foreigners coming and going here, and many foreigners working and living in this city regard it as their permanent base.Those bars and cafes have almost become an international communication center.

The girl X came here and began to work part-time as a Chinese language teacher and half-tour guide.She does not have a tour guide certificate, nor is she qualified to teach Chinese, but she is just enthusiastic.Here she met many foreign friends, including international students from nearby universities, foreigners working here, and tourists from all over the world.

X has steadily worked as a Chinese teacher for an Englishman who works here.Almost once you open the gap in your dreams, the torrent of dreams will keep coming to you.By chance, she met Joseph who was traveling in this city. Joseph is young, with a little beard, and looks mature and stable.During the tour with Joseph, she talked a lot about her dream and his life abroad.After a week of communication, it was like waking up from a dream, and the vague image printed in my mind gradually became clear.

Joseph invites girl X to work in England. The company where Joseph's father works has cooperation with China in foreign trade and needs talents in this area.Girl X was also a little hesitant. She didn't know whether she should seize this opportunity, or whether what this man said was trustworthy.After thinking for a long time, she finally followed the direction she had been longing for all along. She felt that since she wanted to be a foreign language teacher, she had to go abroad first, in order to really find a bigger market and opportunities.After getting the consent of her family, she finally got a visa to fly to the UK.

On my way to work that day, I met her on the subway.I haven't seen her for a long time. That day she was wearing a red coat and dragging a big blue box. The girl is not tall, and the box almost reached her waist.As she told the above story, I could see a trace of happiness in her dream come true from her eyes and the corners of her mouth.She didn't deliberately exaggerate that happiness, and set off for the airport with happiness and deliberately cooled dreams.

I get out of the car and we wave goodbye.Knowing that we may not see each other again for a long time, but the last time I saw her, there was a kind of envy and sigh.A little girl who has been chasing her dream, finally bid farewell to our day-to-day work and walked a further step in life.

Entering a foreign company, entering the world's top [-], or as we wrote in our composition when we were young, I want to be a scientist, doctor, or policeman when I grow up... Over the years, we have also conceived countless springs and dreamed countless dreams. But after waking up, we will continue the story of yesterday.Every day when we get up early in the morning and go to work, we will wonder whether we should make some changes, whether we should work harder towards the direction we dreamed of many years ago.For a moment, we might even stop working and write down in a notebook what we are trying to accomplish and make a little plan.At night, we will think, starting tomorrow, I will work hard.After dawn, it fell into an infinite endless loop.

From tomorrow on, be a happy person, feed horses, chop firewood, and travel around the world.Haizi is a lonely poet. This seemingly warm poem he wrote reveals a kind of lonely longing. All hope lies in tomorrow, and it never starts from now.Why do we always put hope in tomorrow?We imagine those teenagers in the newspaper, traveling to New Zealand for work, traveling to 18 countries on a part-time job, and traveling around China by bicycle...but most of the time it is just imagination.

Whether it's North Drift, Shanghai Drift, Tibetan Drift, or Dubai Drift, why not take advantage of your youth and dream, let your youth be excited, and see what life is like.

Speaking of Beidiao, there are too many stories there.The forest is getting bigger, some birds are like us who are hesitating, and some birds are like them standing in their dreams.A well-known cartoonist in China told me in an interview that his parents always wanted him to be a civil servant. He was tired of the life of holding a tea mug and looking forward to the sunset from sunrise. What he longed for was fantastic cartoons.His parents felt that he was not doing his job properly and sent him abroad, but he took advantage of the days without his parents nagging him to go further in the direction of his dream.

After coming back, my parents thought, you like comics, okay!do it.If you can't make achievements, then you come back to be a civil servant.In this way, he went to Beijing to work as an OEM manga with his dream on his back. Some publishing companies owed him the manuscript fee for several years, but he still smashed his teeth and swallowed it in his stomach, and continued to move forward.Later, his work was recognized by readers, and today he has published dozens of comic books.

Only those who stand in front of their dreams can find the truest self in life and career.No matter where you are drifting, when you drift into your dreams, you will feel that the whole world is blooming for you and making way for your dreams.

During this extremely difficult time, those who survived will have a brighter life; for those who cannot survive, time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.

(End of this chapter)