The world is so bad, so lucky to meet you

Chapter 10 People who don't love you, don't accompany them

I saw a sentence on the Internet, "There is no cold man in the world, it is not you who is warm".I remembered my friend Tao Tao.

Tao Tao has a girlfriend, I have never met a real person.They have been together for five years. During the five years, there has been no rumors in the circle of friends. When others mention his girlfriend, he just yells and laughs. He never admits that he has a girlfriend. Those who don't know him think he is single.

He didn't take much effort to get Tao Tao's girlfriend back, and the little girl fell in love with him, so he was determined to eat others.

As soon as they got together, Taotao established a rule. He said: I don't like sending messages, I don't like making phone calls, I'm busy with work, sometimes I can't see the messages you send me.It's not that he can't see it sometimes, but that he is holding his mobile phone all the time, but most of the time he pretends to turn a blind eye.

When we were together, when my girlfriend sent messages, Tao Tao didn't respond very often.We said: Your daughter-in-law has checked the post.Tao Tao put the phone aside and said casually: Annoying, I'll talk to her later.Go back and continue playing with him, even if he is bored enough to flip through the news, he will not immediately go back to his girlfriend's information.

Their frequency has always been that when his girlfriend sends three messages, he will reply one.If she was unhappy, he would say: I'm busy, you have to understand.If his girlfriend made trouble, he would still get angry and say to her: Why are you making trouble so unreasonably!

The little girl felt very insecure, and with her mobile phone, she deleted all the girls we were talking to.She thought that this would prevent Tao Tao from hooking up with other girls, but when she turned around, Tao Tao added us back.

In fact, those who can keep chat records are all indifferent people. Those who really have an affair have already deleted them before going home.

Tao Tao was really not good enough for his girlfriend, and when he asked him why he dragged others along, he said she was pretty good.He was reluctant to let it go, and felt a loss if he accepted it.

Tao Tao is not a person who is naturally cold, and it is quite warm with us. It is normal to open the car door, borrow a piece of clothing, pick it up by the way, and send it home after a little detour.But his girlfriend didn't enjoy it at all, and he was a complete cold man to her.He also said to her confidently, I am such a ignorant person, you should be able to forgive me.It made my girlfriend feel embarrassed to ask for some warmth.

Taotao has his own goddess. His goddess is a small model with high forehead, pointed chin, and middle part. He has shot some print advertisements, but we are face-blind and can’t remember.

I've seen the message that Tao Tao sent to the goddess, and it was kneeling and licking.As soon as the goddess posted the photo, she immediately liked it and commented: "So beautiful, so beautiful, and I have such a good figure."The goddess said something uncomfortable in Moments, and he immediately sent a message to care: Is it okay?Do you need to send medicine?Where do you live, I will take you to see a doctor?Send a long list, and the goddess replies with two words.She sent three sentences, but the goddess couldn't reply.Tao Tao asked: Are you busy?The goddess replied: Yes.On Valentine's Day, I also ordered flowers for the goddess.It's simply an upside-down version of Tao Tao and his girlfriend.

There was also a girl who came by shaking her mobile phone for Tao Tao to reply in seconds.The girl is beautiful and has a boyfriend, and the two of them are flirting online without real development.He also greets people with care, and sings songs to make them happy when he has nothing to do.When people work overtime, they say: You must pay attention to safety, there are many bad people now; when people get up late, they say: Little lazy pig, you are too sleepy!

If half of this energy was put on his girlfriend, the little girl would probably be happy to death, but Tao Tao had an air of condescension and arrogance in front of his girlfriend, without any warm-hearted temperament.It's not that he doesn't want to be nice to a girl, but that girl is not his girlfriend.

Of course, these are things that girlfriends don't know. There are many things in this world that girlfriends don't know.

His girlfriend has been with Tao Tao for five years and they got married.After receiving the certificate, it is estimated that the wife is not calm, and asked him to reveal himself. For the first time, he posted a wedding photo in the circle of friends, which is also the kind of distant view where the face cannot be seen clearly.

We always joked: How ugly is your guy?I can't even post a clear photo.

He never answered this question, and just smirked every time.

Everyone can see that Tao Tao still doesn't care much about girls who are already wives, but girls are sometimes stupid, knowing that the other party is hot and cold, knowing that "busy", "tired" and "sleepy" are excuses, or I always convince myself that he will get better if he persists, and he wants to find some warmth from him from the clues.

But he has always been such a virtuous person who doesn’t improve. If he doesn’t care about you, he doesn’t care. It doesn’t matter whether you work hard or persevere. you.

I remember a girl once asked me, what should I do if my boyfriend doesn’t like sending messages, doesn’t like videos, and doesn’t care about her?
The girl's situation is that the two are in the same city, and the local relationship has turned into a long-distance relationship. It is rare to meet each other, and they don't even respond to messages.

What's the point of talking about this kind of love, the girl is just hot.

If he doesn’t meet with you, he might have an appointment with other girls; if he doesn’t reply to your messages, he might be sending messages to other girls; if he doesn’t video chat with you, he might check in with other girls every night… Maybe, He has a girlfriend at all, usually the real card is there, and the spare tire can only be hung up.

The girl still picked up the phone and put it down again, staring at his face in a daze, typed a long paragraph, and deleted each word.Recited and recited the 11 Arabic numerals, pressed the green button and hung up again, cautious and humble, for fear of disturbing him.

We've all liked someone before, we're all familiar with that feeling, our heart beats for him, we want to know what he's doing all the time, we're anxious to meet him, and it's like three autumns since we don't see each other every day, when it comes to meeting each other, it's so exciting, After choosing and choosing clothes, I always feel that they are not good enough, and I always want to face him with my best side.

If you really care about someone, even if you are busy with work and can’t contact you in time, you will take the initiative to explain your situation, you will care about the other person when they are not good, and you will show up when the other person needs it. Heart, afraid of losing the lover.

If he is far and near, inactive, and cold, there is only one reason: he has a good impression of you, but he can't reach the level of love.

The most difficult thing to guess is people's hearts. There can be many reasons for not loving:

1. You are not his best choice, he is riding a donkey to find a horse, he can replace you at any time.

Every minute you become an ex, or not an ex, he doesn't even admit that he had you in his life.Maybe you've been together for a long time, but he just won't give you a title until he really can't meet someone better.Just like Tao Tao, after traveling around for five years, warming up girls everywhere, only to find that the better girls are not in his boat, so he should eat what is in his own bowl first.

2. He is cool by nature, loves himself the most, and everything else is just floating clouds.

If it's such a hard-hearted guy, you don't even want to influence him.Some people always say that when he meets a girl he really likes, his illness will be healed, but maybe he will never meet a girl in his life who he is willing to go through fire and water. After all, what he loves most is himself, and he only wants to warm himself.Who knows, anyway, don't think about the useless work of warming a ball of ice.

3. His heart belongs to other people, and you are a spare tire.

All his enthusiasm is given to other girls, you can only stick your hot face to your cold ass.If the girl in his heart is willing to accept him, you will have nothing to do immediately; if he can't get that girl, then he will continue to spend time with you, but his attention will never be on you.

4. He said that he has experienced too much, and he will no longer pay too much for a girl.

With such a man, he will give you material assurance and support, but he can’t give you more spiritual support. What he wants is a sensible and capable wife, and a smooth life, as if there is only each other in the world. His love is not for him.Of course, not every man with a lot of experience will not spoil a girl again.

5. He doesn't love you, there is no reason.

Don't ask why, some girls are loved to death, some girls are just unloved, he just doesn't love you.No matter how beautiful you are, it’s no use no matter how good your temperament is, no matter how good your figure is, no matter how capable you are, no matter how much you are a goddess, no matter how good you are, you can’t change that he doesn’t love you fact.

Maybe there are more reasons, either way, he can admit that you are attractive to him, he can be nice to you, he can sleep with you, but he just won't love you enough.

How can a person who doesn't love you want to warm you up?That is simply a fantasy.He is not born with a dark face and a cold heart, but you are not the person he wants to warm up.

Youth is limited, and we can't afford to warm our people, so let's not accompany it.

(End of this chapter)