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Chapter 12 Boyfriend's finances should be strictly controlled!

If you put it in the past, you asked me whether I should take care of my boyfriend's finances.

I will tell you the truth, and tell you that as an independent and self-reliant girl, let's not worry about the money in the boyfriend's pocket!

But now, I want to tell you, control, must control!You have to take care of it!

The girl I want to talk about is Yatou, a big-hearted Sagittarius girl.

The girl can earn money by herself, eat and drink to support herself, and never thinks about taking care of her boyfriend's financial problems.

The girl is very happy with her boyfriend. The boyfriend loves her very much and is very generous. The expenses for the two of them going out, inviting the girl's friends to dinner, etc. The boyfriend has never been soft-hearted. Everyone thinks that the girl really found a good man friend.

After about a year of good times, one day, my boyfriend suddenly disappeared, the phone couldn't be reached, and the person couldn't be contacted. The girl was confused, what happened?Did you meet a liar?cheat money?Cheating?No, it doesn't seem like she lied... She had a hundred thousand questions in her mind why she hadn't heard from her boyfriend after waiting for two days.

On the third day, someone finally contacted the girl. It was her boyfriend's roommate, saying that her boyfriend had been arrested, yes, it was a mess.

Only then did the girl know that her boyfriend can't earn much money at all, but no matter who she goes out with, she just wants to lose face, slaps her face to make herself fat, and is particular about life. She loves to eat, play and wear. Money, ranging from dozens of yuan to thousands of yuan, was borrowed from everyone around him.

I have borrowed money from my roommate for several rounds, and I borrowed it from my roommate a few days ago, and the sum totaled to 6000 to 1000 yuan, and the repayment was less than [-] yuan, and my roommate refused to borrow it again.Unexpectedly, the boyfriend stole the roommate's Apple laptop and sold it while the roommate was going to work.

The girl was shocked, the boyfriend who had always been generous in front of her turned out to be such a person!
If the amount of theft is small, there will be a fine. If the boyfriend cannot pay the fine, he will be imprisoned for half a month.Friends said that this man's character was bad, and advised her to break up with him quickly, but she thought about how kind he was to her in the past, and finally took 2000 yuan to help him return it to his roommate.

The girl is not the first girl I have ever seen who was cheated by her boyfriend's financial problems. I have seen at least three or four girls like this.

Girl, it's considered light, it's a big deal, it's a big deal, and it's not good when you meet someone.But there is a girl who is married, only to find out that her husband has financial problems and has numerous foreign debts. Although it is a pre-marital loan, all her husband’s salary has to be used to repay the debts. The responsibility of earning money to support the family and the father-in-law falls on the girl. , instead of raising it for a month or two, it is estimated that it will take several years.Less than a month after getting married, the girl almost jumped into the Funan River.

Not to mention the pitfalls of money, what is more important is the emotional devotion. The person who always thought he was right suddenly became unbearable;

Never overestimate a man's ability to control his face and finances.Not to mention those who are really rich, but some men look smart, but their smart energy is spent on how to get some money instead of trying to make money.

There will never be such a thing as a pie in the sky in this world. If it is light, you will pay some money, and if it is serious, you will spend your whole life.Borrowed, cheated, stolen, unscrupulous, even public funds must be repaid.This "repayment" is not just money, but also favor, reputation, future and life.

So, don't say that I am financially independent, I don't care if my boyfriend can make money and how much money he makes.The boyfriend's finances directly affect your emotional direction and family lifeline. In addition to his life, there may be your life as well.

This management does not refer to thinking of ways to get the money from the boyfriend's pocket into your own pocket, but to understand the economic situation behind the boyfriend.

1. Does he have a stable income.

For us ordinary people, having hands and feet means having the ability to earn money.But there are many people who have high ambitions and low abilities. Those with low wages don’t want to do it, and those with high wages don’t have the ability to do it. They blame the society, the leaders, and the lack of opportunities. They don’t blame themselves for their lack of ability.And a relatively stable income is the guarantee of survival. How can a person who cannot even guarantee his own survival talk about life?

If you have a stable income, you also need to know what your income level is. The income of the entire family determines the standard of living of the family.

2. Whether his expenses are greater than his income.

You can't just see his glamorous appearance. Well-dressed and well-used does not mean that he is really financially capable. Ordinary and frugal clothes do not mean that he is poor.For example, if he is just a small employee who often wears some big-name clothes, goes in and out of high-end restaurants, and the things he uses are relatively expensive, then he either has parents who can chew on him, or has ghosts.

This income depends on all income, wages, side jobs, other income, etc.Never choose a man who spends more than he earns. Either someone who is used to him is willing to pay the bill, or he expects you to pay the bill for the extra money, or the source of the money is unknown.

3. Does he have bad habits of spending money?

Some men have no bottom line when it comes to face issues, just like a girl who has no bottom line when she meets a male god.Obviously it is everyone's AA business, but he has to rush to pay the bill every time; he has a monthly salary of 5000 yuan, but he has to choose the most expensive everything, eat fruits and have to import them, and use things that have to be made in China...

For a person who does not have the life of a prince but wants to live the life of a prince, it is difficult to pull him off the white horse and live a down-to-earth life.It is the most basic principle to live a life of whatever kind of economy you have.

4. Does he have loan problems.

Countless girls have jumped or almost jumped into a pit, that is, helping to repay the mortgage.In fact, girls don't mind buying a house with the man they love, but what does it matter if the man buys a house before marriage and writes the name of the man or the man's parents, and asks the girl to repay the loan together after marriage?

Anyway, at least living expenses must be paid as required. If he wants to repay all kinds of loans without affecting the family's living standard, let him repay them.But in reality, I have seen more that men, in the name of repaying the loan, no longer provide financial support to the family. The expenses of the whole family, the food and drink of the whole family, are all on the girl. I can't survive and get divorced. The house is provided by the man himself, and it has nothing to do with the girl.Since it is so easy to turn your face and be ruthless, let's talk about the loan first.

It should also be noted that this loan is not only a bank loan, but also a lot of online loans, which are very easy to apply, but the interest is super high.

5. Does he have the habit of borrowing money?

Even I was surprised to mention this point, who would have the cheek to ask someone to borrow money if it’s okay?But the truth is, I have seen quite a few people who like to borrow money from people everywhere since I was a child, both boys and girls, and basically they can't pay back.He even borrowed money to live, how could he pay it back?
If unfortunately you find that your boyfriend loves to borrow money because he is fine, you should change him as soon as possible.Dozens of hundreds of thousands, borrowing and borrowing become tens of thousands, the black hole is getting bigger and bigger, and in the end, I can’t make up for it. If it’s too bad, I can only do something illegal, embezzle public funds, and force my girlfriend to sell it. Yes, nothing new.

6. Whether there are financial problems in his family.

Some families always like to oppress huge foreign debts to their children or one of their children, such as the money for building a house, the money for a younger brother to marry a wife, and so on. Same as printing money.Usually these children are oppressed very hard, but they bear it willingly, so they silently repay the family debt, and selfishly want to find someone to repay the family debt together.

It's not that we can't suffer together, it's okay to suffer for the sake of the future of two people, but once we get married, we have to help him and his family to suffer. I guess no girl is willing to suffer this kind of hardship, right?
If there are none of the above problems, but the hands are a little loose and the self-control is weak, then the only way is for the girl not to be afraid of trouble, go to battle by herself, and control the financial power, otherwise she will have to face the embarrassment that the big red Mao Zedong with a wallet will suddenly disappear.

Of course, there is another kind of man who has already set foot on the threshold of marriage, but is still unwilling to disclose his financial ability and situation at all. With such deep hiding and such heavy defense, should this marriage be concluded or not?Well, think twice.

What is the use of a man who changes face when you talk about money, and runs away when you ask for money?It's better to see his face clearly and let him go.

A man who really takes you as his wife is the one who puts himself in front of you calmly and pulls you to plan the future with you, because his future is full of "you", not just "him" himself .

Girls, as long as there are no bad intentions, don't be shy and shy. For future happiness, you must take care of your boyfriend's finances.

(End of this chapter)