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Chapter 15 The Love Tragedy of the Baozi Girl

Around us, there are always some girls who have no opinions, don’t care about anything, have no temper, have no bottom line, don’t resist when they are bullied, just endure the other party’s mistakes, always spoil others because of their own weakness and indulgence, I wronged myself.These girls have one thing in common: buns.

Baozi girls wasted their lives, endured and perished in period after period of deformed love, entangled with inappropriate people one after another, and then got hurt again and again and did not want to save themselves.

Just like the bun girl I want to talk about.

This girl is probably what I love the most. She contacts me occasionally. If she hadn’t told me her story, I would have thought she was living a happy life all my life.

Girl Baozi does not look like a typical beauty with a pointed chin and high forehead, but she has a certain style, and she is still very eye-catching in the crowd, but she does not have the fate that a beautiful girl should have. The terrible character of Baozi really almost killed her life.

1. Overbearing Uncle
Girl Baozi's first boyfriend was ten years older than the girl, but not every man who is older than the girl can cherish the younger girl.Girl Baozi's boyfriend is a man who doesn't love girls. Their way of falling in love is almost exactly the opposite of the roles of men and women that everyone knows.

Relying on the fact that he lived a few more years and walked a few more years in life, the uncle asked the girl Baozi to hand over all the money she earned to him. He was responsible for managing the money and managing the money, saving money and settling down together. His words were better than his singing.

At that time, the girl earned 3000 yuan a month, but the uncle only gave her 500 yuan for living expenses every month. The uncle said that the living expenses of college students were only 800 yuan a month, and the girl only ate breakfast and lunch. Breakfast was [-] yuan, and lunch was [-] yuan. The other one hundred is enough.Baozi girl used the money for breakfast, lunch, transportation and other expenses.

The girl's company is far away from her home. She needs to take a tricycle first, and then transfer to a bus. The tricycle is four yuan, and the bus uses a monthly card. The daily fare is ten yuan. Obviously, her living expenses are not enough.Not only did Miss Baozi not protest, she simply stopped taking the tricycle and walked by herself.

Walking from home to the station for more than ten minutes in the morning, and walking home from the station for more than ten minutes at night, every night shift after ten o'clock in the remote, dark, unlit path, the girl was terribly afraid, so she had to hurry up At that point, I walked and ran back to the lit community, so that I could take a few breaths.

Boyfriend pick up?The uncle of Baozi girl's family came here specifically to abuse her, and he didn't even bother to do things that are good to her girlfriend, such as picking up and dropping off her girlfriend. Don't be afraid, what are you afraid of?

Uncle's crooked theory, of course the girl accepts everything, otherwise why would the girl be called Baozi?

It gets dark early in winter and there are few people outside. The girl took a tricycle and had to save a meal the next day.If you want to buy a piece of clothing, you have to eat several meals of one or two noodles.Sometimes colleagues can't stand it anymore and want to treat her to something delicious.Obviously she is earning money by herself, but she can't even eat. Everyone knows that there is a stingy uncle in her family.

Girl Baozi can't tell the uncle about buying clothes. If he finds out, he will make another fuss, pointing at the girl's nose and calling her prodigal.The uncle is a typical man who is not yet married, and the girl's money is all his money, and every penny he spends is out of his heart.

It is inevitable that two people will have friction when they are together. The uncle has a bad temper, and he has the same virtue as a girl who loves to play.Once there was a quarrel, if the bun girl didn't agree with the uncle after a few words, he would run away from home.The door slams shut, whatever you like, I won't serve you anymore.

Every time at this time, the bun girl would chase out quickly, grab the uncle, and say that she was wrong, and she would follow him in everything, so that he would not be angry.The uncle had to twitch for a long time before calming down.

If Miss Baozi didn't chase her out, he would disappear for a day or two. When Miss Baozi was so anxious that her phone rang off the hook, he picked up the phone unhurriedly, listening to her circling around in a hurry.About where she lived during her disappearance, the girl can't ask, but when she asks the uncle, she says, do you think I've gone fooling around after asking so many questions?Girl Baozi didn't dare to ask anything.

The two of them quarreled, and Baozi girl never won a fight, except for the time when they broke up.

It was still arguing, it was still slamming the door, it was still running away from home, it was still missing as punishment, but Miss Baozi was tired and didn't want to please him anymore, so she didn't chase her out that time.She didn't look for him for five days in a row, and the uncle really didn't come home for five days.

A week later, Miss Baozi felt that it would be good to just break up like this. She has never been so relaxed after being with the uncle. She was too tired to talk about that relationship.

Girl Baozi hesitated for a long time, unable to speak, and finally asked her good sisters to help her move.In order to deal with the accident that the uncle would not agree to break up and embarrass Baozi girl in case the uncle came back, a group of five people went there. We were still very close at that time, and I was among them.

As soon as they arrived at Baozi girl's house, the five girls who went with them all cried.Why are you crying?I was shocked by the simplicity of the house!
It is not considered a residential house at all. There are no buses in the community, so you have to walk or take a tricycle to get in.The neighborhood is not an old house, and the appearance is not bad, but the house rented by the uncle and the bun girl is a clear water room!There is no decoration at all, no decent furniture, no sofa, no coffee table, no TV, no refrigerator, no cabinet, not even a bed. In the bedroom, newspapers are spread in the room, and a mattress is the bed. A stool is the table, and there is a simple wardrobe by the wall, the zipper is half drawn, and a small amount of clothes of the bun girl and the uncle are hung.There is no water heater, no hot water, girls use cold water regardless of spring, summer, autumn and winter, or when their aunt comes. To take a bath, you have to boil water in a pot, mix it with cold water and wash it in a plastic cup.At that time, every household had water heaters, which only happened when I was a child.

This is the house that the uncle gave to Baozi girl, a house that is not angry or warm, and it is even a problem to live in, but Baozi girl is willing to live with him for more than a year, without a single complaint.

I have lived for more than twenty years and have never seen such a simple house. About five girls who came together were stunned by this battle, and couldn't help but began to wipe tears quietly, for fear that Baozi girl would feel uncomfortable seeing it.Friends are like this, if Baozi girl's parents saw this scene, how distressed they would be!Every girl is a treasure held in the hands of her family, but she suffers like this with a man.

Girl Baozi wears work clothes to work, and there are not many clothes at home. With miscellaneous things, she can't fit a 26-inch suitcase.A girl of the same age has less than one suitcase, and a rough estimate of my things at the same age, five 26-inch suitcases can't be filled.We packed her things uncomfortable and pulled her away. The girl looked back and looked back reluctantly. After all, it was the person she loved, and after all, it was the home she thought of.We forced her to go out and closed the door, like shutting off a world.

We asked Girl Baozi: Uncle has no money, no face, and is still old, what are you trying to do?She said: Be at ease with him.

Just for peace of mind, why did you wrong yourself?We really don't know that there is a blind little girl who is willing to endure hardships with the uncle. He doesn't cherish it, so why bother?We decided that this person must never be taken again, we repeatedly told him that we must not reconcile, and made the girl swear.The girl didn't want to, so she took the oath under our pressure, and we insisted on adding a few vicious oaths.

Later, the uncle really came to make up with Baozi girl. After all, there are not many beautiful and blind girls in Baozi, so he understands.The girl was determined to live up to her expectations, and she didn't reconcile, and she didn't get back the salary she gave to the uncle before, so she treated it as paying the tuition fee, and she was finally out of the sea of ​​suffering.

I thought she could gain a lot of wisdom from a pit, and find the right person and live a right life from now on.

2. "Overbearing President"

The domineering president in the story is always rich, handsome, good-looking, and single-minded. It was written especially for you, but the domineering president in reality is not like this.The domineering president that Baozi girl met was not handsome, had no money, and was neurotic.

This domineering president comes from a bad family background. He has a younger sister and a younger brother in his family. He has been out of the society to earn money since he was in his teens. A smart girl will pay more attention to her family background.Like all children from poor families, he is extremely inferior and conceited, has a strong self-esteem, and does not listen to anyone's opinion, let alone a woman's opinion.

When Baozi girl met the domineering president, she had a job, she could endure hardships, and her income from sales was not bad. In addition, she was already very frugal, so she could save a lot of money every month after excluding expenses.

After getting acquainted with the overbearing president, he insisted on forcing the girl to resign, but the girl was unwilling at first, but couldn't stand him picking trouble every day, so she handed in a letter of resignation.The girl is also stupid, she is really going to resign and go home for him to be his wife-to-be with peace of mind.

The domineering president forbade Baozi girl to go out. He said that her friends were too complicated, so she was not allowed to get in touch. He said that there were too many bad guys outside, and he was afraid that she would be deceived.She obediently obeyed him, didn't see her friends, didn't go anywhere, stayed at home alone, sent him out, bought vegetables and cooked, and welcomed him back.Much like a family, life seemed to be going well for a while.

But this domineering CEO doesn't have a stable job. One is that he doesn't have a diploma to enter a good unit to earn a high salary, and the other is that he never bothers to work part-time to earn a dead salary.He has a strong ambition, and he only wants to start his own company to make a lot of money, and really become a domineering president that all girls dream of.He is too conceited and ambitious, and can't accomplish anything at all. Usually, the project fails before it starts, and he always fails to earn much money.

When the economy was in distress, the girl took out her savings to subsidize the daily expenses of the two of them. At this time, the domineering CEO is not so domineering. He never refuses the money from Baozi girl, and he always spends it with peace of mind.

Girl Baozi quit her job for the domineering president, and the domineering president doesn't have a stable job, so the two of them must do something, and it happens that a friend wants to do something, and invites the domineering president to start a business with him.The domineering president is about to make a move, but unfortunately, he is so shy that he doesn't pay a penny, so no one will let him participate.

Girl Baozi was understanding again, she took the initiative to take out her savings, and handed it to the domineering president to support him in starting a business.The domineering president took the tens of thousands of dollars from Baozi girl, not to mention how touched he was, he held the girl's hand and said: When I have money in the future, I will definitely not let you suffer.The girl was also moved and gave him a big hug. The two embraced with tears in their eyes, feeling that love is the most wonderful thing in this world.

It was a good start, but the domineering president is stubborn, still inferior and conceited, can't figure out the market, can't see the reality, can't let go of his self-esteem, and his IQ and EQ are not enough.Girl Baozi wanted to give him advice, but he would not accept it because of his high self-esteem. If the girl insisted on talking, he lost his temper, threw and smashed things, broke the glass, and smashed the girl's iPad. She was too scared to say anything.In the end, the girl's tens of thousands of dollars was wasted. It was the girl's hard-earned money. The girl's heart was bleeding, and she didn't know if he felt distressed or not.

After Baozi girl left her uncle, she changed her job to do sales. She worked harder than anyone else. She earned and saved money at work. She finally saved 8 to [-] yuan. The daily expenses for two years have been emptied little by little.

The domineering president doesn't have the brains for doing business, nor is he the material to do business. He can earn very little money, but he just doesn't want to go out to work hard to earn some wages to support his family. He dreams of his boss dream every day.

Living without money and worrying about food, the able-bodied Baozi girl couldn't stay at home any longer. She submitted her resume online to find a job. She was not afraid of hard work to find a sales job, and soon interviewed for the job.

After Girl Baozi went out to earn money, the two lived on her salary, and life was obviously easier, but other problems came up again. The domineering president was not only domineering, but also suspicious and jealous.While being supported by the bun girl, he was suspicious of her all sorts.

Every time he sees Baozi girl with her male colleagues, he gets sick and feels inferior. He always feels that she dislikes him for not being able to earn money, and what is going to happen to her male colleagues. He is full of suspicion and refuses to communicate properly.The girl thought, he is small-minded, so let's let him.Girls try to avoid getting along with male colleagues as much as possible and work with female colleagues as much as possible, but they cannot completely avoid contact with male colleagues.

He was so frightened by his madness that the girls didn't dare to go to class, and he always asked for a few days off every month.The supervisor talked to Baozi girl and asked her to work hard with a correct attitude, saying that the company would not leave anyone who was unstable, so the girl had to keep apologizing.

In a relationship, patience without a bottom line is never the way to solve things, it will only make the other party more unscrupulous.

From arguing that Baozi girl will explain, to arguing that she will not fight back, to the overbearing president crazily insulting her alone, to finally beating her up.In just a few months after Baozi girl came to work, he was driven crazy by his own inferiority complex, possessiveness and jealousy.

This reminds me of An Jiahe in the TV series "Don't Talk to Strangers". This kind of person has a personality defect, which cannot be rescued by a word of understanding and tolerance. When encountering such a person, how far is the only way out? How far to escape, instead of staying silently to bear the heart of the Virgin Mary.

But girl Baozi is cowardly and has no independent opinions. She can only endure wrong people and wrong things. It was not until she was beaten by the domineering president that she was bruised all over her body and almost died. She was sent to the hospital for treatment, and she finally thought of leaving him.

It was a sister again, who accompanied her in the hospital, and was inseparable from her for nearly a week after she was discharged from the hospital. She was not allowed to look back, and she was forcibly rescued from the fire pit.

3. Childish little brother
Girl Baozi said, is my life bad? Every man I meet is like this. Look at the third boyfriend I meet now.

Girl Baozi's boyfriend is three years younger than her. As the saying goes, it is appropriate for a female junior to hold a gold brick, but in Miss Baozi's heart, since she is younger than her, she should take care of him more.It is because of this mentality that she pampers him all the time, does not let him do housework, dirty, tiring, and heavy work, and holds it in her palm like a child.

This boy born in the 90s seems to have found a mother to take care of him. He lives a very casual life. He is happy and sad. When he is good, he is good. He buys things for her and has a sweet mouth. When it's bad, it's like a devil, and it's as unreasonable as a jerk. Girls can't persuade or coax them. They don't eat hard and soft. No matter what the reason is right or not, ten cows can't be pulled back. Stubborn to the point where a girl with buns doesn't see her. The new realm that has passed, and a quarrel will cause you to be exhausted.

Girl Baozi always has a mentality that she shouldn't care about him when he is young, and she suffers when a boy loses his temper. Not only does the boy not know how to repent, but he also takes pride in being favored and gets worse.He knew it was an inappropriate person just by listening, but the girl planned to endure it.

I said: Girl, you are older, but you are not humble at all, you don't have to be like this, Baozi.

She said: My personality is like this, and I can't change it.

I said: If you don't change, your relationship will still become a tragedy.

She said: I know, but there is nothing I can do.

She knows better than anyone what the ending will be if this continues, but she still loses to her cowardly character, she doesn't have the courage to choose to leave a wrong person, and would rather not do anything.

This is the mentality of Miss Baozi. She has planted one trap after another for herself, trapping herself, and maybe even trapping her parents.

No matter what kind of relationship it is, you don't need a lover with a personality. There are better choices for relationships. Everyone must have the ability to dominate their own lives.

Don't talk about bad luck anymore, as a bun, the fate you can't escape is that if you choose to endure without a bottom line, then you are doomed to be a victim in love.

(End of this chapter)