The world is so bad, so lucky to meet you
Chapter 19
Chapter 19
1
Hanging out with friends, I get in the car and my friends stare and stare at me.
I said: Do I have pockmarks on my face?
He said: No, you don't look good in this color.
I looked at myself, purple sweater, beige down jacket.It's definitely not the all-match beige, it's the purple sweater.
I said: I like purple.
He said: I don't think you are suitable for purple.
I said: I like it.
He said: You also came out to show us your clothes, so we should pay attention to our opinions.
I said: Why do you like my clothes?
He said: Don't girls wear clothes to show men?
I said: Brother, you are really wrong. Most girls don’t wear clothes for men to like.
He said: Then what clothes are you wearing?
I said: Because we like it ourselves.
He stared at me like staring at an alien, and said unwillingly: At least half of the reason is for men to see.
I said: Oh, sincerely, a girl is happy for herself when she wears clothes, and has nothing to do with men.
This friend is not the first man to say this theory. There have been men who have said this before. I always want to reply: Oh, sorry, I really don’t care what you think.Probably in the hearts of many men, they think that women dress up and make up for their liking.
I'm sorry to expose the point that men are proud of again, but how many times do I have to say, we really don't dress up for your liking.
2
My mother always likes to influence my style of buying clothes and matching clothes. In her mind, there is only one style that is good-looking and feminine, such as pleated tutu skirts, Hepburn-style dresses, and shirts with round collars. The purpose is to keep warm and not to wear. It's cold, you can't show your waist, back, or legs. Showing off is not immoral, it's what my mother thinks is freezing people.
But I always like some strange clothes, such as asymmetrical clothes, dresses with irregular skirts, skirts that are either very short or long, jeans that show ankles, etc., as long as I wear these every time, my mother will definitely Roaring at the side, it doesn't look good or not.Every time I do this, I will say: Mom, leave me alone.Of course, she always replied to my classic sentence: I don't care about you, you have to go to heaven!
Why is the old lady thinking like some men, she always thinks that her daughter will dress up according to her preferences, when she was ignorant, her mother will dress up, and when she grows up, she will naturally dress up according to her own preferences.
It is the nature of girls to love beauty. Whether they are single or have a boyfriend, they will spend a lot of time and money on shopping and beauty.When a girl sees clothes she likes, she wants to buy them because she likes them, not because she thinks you will like them; girls learn to match them to make themselves look better and have a better temperament, not to make you look comfortable; Girls put on makeup to make themselves look better and more attractive, not to make you pleasing to the eye.
In fact, many men can't see the difference in the well-dressed girls. Red, yellow, green, off-shoulder, V-neck or scoop neck is not important, what is important is a good figure and good temperament; I may not be able to see it. It is not uncommon to often point to a face of foundation and say that a natural beauty has good skin.
Lovers and relatives are the same, they are not the ones who can influence how we dress up, every girl will only consider her own preferences in the matter of aesthetics, she will not imagine the preferences of the second person, no matter that person is Her mother is still her boyfriend.
Of course, there are exceptions, for example, when we go shopping with our girlfriends, we will ask for their opinions. If the girlfriends say it looks good, we will buy it more happily.Even if the price-performance ratio is ridiculously low, as long as it is within the acceptable range of the economy, definitely buy it.
Boyfriend's opinion?We are just asking casually, don't take it seriously.
Even if you don't like it, we have a universal trick: men and women have different appreciation levels!
3
If you can dress up as you like, why can't you live your life?Why do so many girls live like marionettes just because they have boyfriends?
A girl told me that they started with a kiss, quarreled three times, the second time she started to snub her, and the third time he said he liked someone else and he wanted to break up with her.
Withdrawing his feelings after two quarrels and changing his mind three times, his feelings are so fragile?Or he has limited the number of times, you can't fight him more than three times, and after a few minutes, you will be blacklisted and develop new goals?To say that this is also called feeling, is it too rational?
Who is not noisy during the running-in period, who doesn't even want to fight with you, do you still want him to spend the rest of his life with you?He took care of you when you were sick?He supports you when you are unhappy?You are in trouble and he helps you?I'm afraid we can share joys and sorrows!
I said: Girl, he doesn't love you, break it up.
The girl said: He said he would come back to me.
I was stunned, and I said: He comes whenever he wants, and leaves whenever he wants. Do you still want to welcome him warmly when he comes back?
The girl said: I know my love for him is humble.
I had nothing to say, so I said: Let me give you a word, sometimes bad luck is brought on by oneself.
How much do you have to love someone before you can tolerate a man freely coming and going in your relationship?You wept secretly when he left, and you rejoiced when he came, just like a marionette, waiting for the only joy he bestows on you.Where is your soul?What about your life?I don’t want anything for a man, I don’t want self-esteem, I don’t want freedom, I don’t want self-love, and finally I don’t even want face.
Since we don't consider men's moods when we pretend to be beautiful, why can't our love be more chic and independent?Few people are worth letting go of your posture and being at the mercy of you. The only person you need to please is yourself. Why let him dominate your emotions and everything about you?
Let’s make an unflattering analogy, but the truth is that everyone is willing to buy products with reduced prices, but they will definitely not cherish them as much as regular-priced products. When regular-priced products appear, discounted products are the ones that are thrown everywhere. Randomly snubbed objects.You are not a commodity, and you don't care about sales performance, so don't rush to lower your value. He is not there, you are wonderful, and he is there, icing on the cake.
Relationships are not blindly pleasing each other, only by loving equally and fighting for rights and interests can we be respected.Not to mention, only an independent and strong girl is loved.
Girl, you don't live for his liking, he is not as happy as you are.
(End of this chapter)
1
Hanging out with friends, I get in the car and my friends stare and stare at me.
I said: Do I have pockmarks on my face?
He said: No, you don't look good in this color.
I looked at myself, purple sweater, beige down jacket.It's definitely not the all-match beige, it's the purple sweater.
I said: I like purple.
He said: I don't think you are suitable for purple.
I said: I like it.
He said: You also came out to show us your clothes, so we should pay attention to our opinions.
I said: Why do you like my clothes?
He said: Don't girls wear clothes to show men?
I said: Brother, you are really wrong. Most girls don’t wear clothes for men to like.
He said: Then what clothes are you wearing?
I said: Because we like it ourselves.
He stared at me like staring at an alien, and said unwillingly: At least half of the reason is for men to see.
I said: Oh, sincerely, a girl is happy for herself when she wears clothes, and has nothing to do with men.
This friend is not the first man to say this theory. There have been men who have said this before. I always want to reply: Oh, sorry, I really don’t care what you think.Probably in the hearts of many men, they think that women dress up and make up for their liking.
I'm sorry to expose the point that men are proud of again, but how many times do I have to say, we really don't dress up for your liking.
2
My mother always likes to influence my style of buying clothes and matching clothes. In her mind, there is only one style that is good-looking and feminine, such as pleated tutu skirts, Hepburn-style dresses, and shirts with round collars. The purpose is to keep warm and not to wear. It's cold, you can't show your waist, back, or legs. Showing off is not immoral, it's what my mother thinks is freezing people.
But I always like some strange clothes, such as asymmetrical clothes, dresses with irregular skirts, skirts that are either very short or long, jeans that show ankles, etc., as long as I wear these every time, my mother will definitely Roaring at the side, it doesn't look good or not.Every time I do this, I will say: Mom, leave me alone.Of course, she always replied to my classic sentence: I don't care about you, you have to go to heaven!
Why is the old lady thinking like some men, she always thinks that her daughter will dress up according to her preferences, when she was ignorant, her mother will dress up, and when she grows up, she will naturally dress up according to her own preferences.
It is the nature of girls to love beauty. Whether they are single or have a boyfriend, they will spend a lot of time and money on shopping and beauty.When a girl sees clothes she likes, she wants to buy them because she likes them, not because she thinks you will like them; girls learn to match them to make themselves look better and have a better temperament, not to make you look comfortable; Girls put on makeup to make themselves look better and more attractive, not to make you pleasing to the eye.
In fact, many men can't see the difference in the well-dressed girls. Red, yellow, green, off-shoulder, V-neck or scoop neck is not important, what is important is a good figure and good temperament; I may not be able to see it. It is not uncommon to often point to a face of foundation and say that a natural beauty has good skin.
Lovers and relatives are the same, they are not the ones who can influence how we dress up, every girl will only consider her own preferences in the matter of aesthetics, she will not imagine the preferences of the second person, no matter that person is Her mother is still her boyfriend.
Of course, there are exceptions, for example, when we go shopping with our girlfriends, we will ask for their opinions. If the girlfriends say it looks good, we will buy it more happily.Even if the price-performance ratio is ridiculously low, as long as it is within the acceptable range of the economy, definitely buy it.
Boyfriend's opinion?We are just asking casually, don't take it seriously.
Even if you don't like it, we have a universal trick: men and women have different appreciation levels!
3
If you can dress up as you like, why can't you live your life?Why do so many girls live like marionettes just because they have boyfriends?
A girl told me that they started with a kiss, quarreled three times, the second time she started to snub her, and the third time he said he liked someone else and he wanted to break up with her.
Withdrawing his feelings after two quarrels and changing his mind three times, his feelings are so fragile?Or he has limited the number of times, you can't fight him more than three times, and after a few minutes, you will be blacklisted and develop new goals?To say that this is also called feeling, is it too rational?
Who is not noisy during the running-in period, who doesn't even want to fight with you, do you still want him to spend the rest of his life with you?He took care of you when you were sick?He supports you when you are unhappy?You are in trouble and he helps you?I'm afraid we can share joys and sorrows!
I said: Girl, he doesn't love you, break it up.
The girl said: He said he would come back to me.
I was stunned, and I said: He comes whenever he wants, and leaves whenever he wants. Do you still want to welcome him warmly when he comes back?
The girl said: I know my love for him is humble.
I had nothing to say, so I said: Let me give you a word, sometimes bad luck is brought on by oneself.
How much do you have to love someone before you can tolerate a man freely coming and going in your relationship?You wept secretly when he left, and you rejoiced when he came, just like a marionette, waiting for the only joy he bestows on you.Where is your soul?What about your life?I don’t want anything for a man, I don’t want self-esteem, I don’t want freedom, I don’t want self-love, and finally I don’t even want face.
Since we don't consider men's moods when we pretend to be beautiful, why can't our love be more chic and independent?Few people are worth letting go of your posture and being at the mercy of you. The only person you need to please is yourself. Why let him dominate your emotions and everything about you?
Let’s make an unflattering analogy, but the truth is that everyone is willing to buy products with reduced prices, but they will definitely not cherish them as much as regular-priced products. When regular-priced products appear, discounted products are the ones that are thrown everywhere. Randomly snubbed objects.You are not a commodity, and you don't care about sales performance, so don't rush to lower your value. He is not there, you are wonderful, and he is there, icing on the cake.
Relationships are not blindly pleasing each other, only by loving equally and fighting for rights and interests can we be respected.Not to mention, only an independent and strong girl is loved.
Girl, you don't live for his liking, he is not as happy as you are.
(End of this chapter)
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