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Chapter 24 Love always loses to money?
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A girl said that I couldn't help breaking up with him, but he actually said that I was vain, worshiped money, and only liked money!
She said, I have been with him for three years, if I only like money, I would not choose him in the first place!I really feel like a failure!
The girl's boyfriend, whose hometown is in the county, is not poor, and his conditions are average, but the family loves his son very much. He is not bad, but he lacks a sense of responsibility.

The girl is a local, and the family conditions are very good, but the girl is not squeamish, and she is very hardworking in doing things and working overtime.My boyfriend is just the opposite. He complains that he is tired when he works overtime, and he is late six or seven times a month.The boyfriend and the girl are in the same company, and sometimes the girl will be late to wait for him, even if the perfect attendance bonus is gone, the money will be deducted.

The girl has been in the company for three years, from a newcomer to a supervisor, and now she has been promoted to the deputy manager of the department; her boyfriend has been in the company for five years, and now he is just a small employee.

The boyfriend's salary has increased from 5000 yuan to the company to 5000 yuan now, and the girl's salary has increased from 3000 yuan to 1 yuan.He doesn’t have enough money to spend every month. Either the girl supports him, or his parents give him some. The 32-year-old doesn’t have a penny in savings, and he still eats the old.

The girl likes him, she has liked him since she joined the company, and she has been with him for three years. She only thought about getting married while she was young and earning some money, but she didn't expect that her boyfriend just didn't live up to expectations and had no ambition at all.The girl communicated and communicated, and she helped a lot, but it was a waste of time.He is not angry at all, dawdling around during the day, playing games at night, breaking up and reconciling after breaking up a few times, she is the one who hates iron but not steel.

Now, three years later, the girl is 26 years old, and the family is also urging her to get married. Either get married or break up, and he still looks ineffective.From him, when it comes to getting married, it seems that two people get a certificate, without considering the house, children, future, etc. The girl is really stuck and decides not to wait.

But the boyfriend became angry from embarrassment, and said to the girl: You want to find a rich man to live a good life, right?You women are vain, worship money, and only like money!
After hearing this story, I was drunk.

The girl's three years of youth were wasted!With youth, with time, with money, with love, and now she has the title of "Gold Digger".

I don't know where the boyfriend got the confidence to say that the girl worships money.When a girl joins the company as a salesperson, her salary is no lower than his, but she has to support him from time to time.If the girl is really a gold digger, she will kick him every minute, okay?I can keep it for three years, which is also true love.

The man said that the girl wants to live a good life. Since she is alive, a fool does not want to live a good life. No one is born willing to suffer.It's not just girls who want to have some money to live a good life. No one in this world is willing to live a mediocre life. They all want to be as good as possible.Who doesn't want to have enough financial and material resources to eat, eat, buy, buy, buy?Who doesn't want to put a wad of money in their bag and spend it casually when they go out?Girls have material desires, and men also have desires. Those who just live are helpless choices. If I don’t have that ability and don’t want to work hard, I don’t blame anyone.

Men say that girls are vain, worship money, and only like money.Can't you see that people always talk about the rich, and looking for the rich is worshiping money?To praise a rich man is to hug his thigh?It's not true love to find poor people. Poor people are busy surviving, so they naturally ignore life and feelings.

What's more, sometimes love is harder than diamonds, but sometimes love is also more fragile than glass. True love will be defeated by daily worries, and will be defeated by realities such as buying a house, buying a car, and children studying.

Economy is just the basis of life, and only when you have money and leisure can you have the energy to talk about relationships.

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I remember a few days ago a boy also asked me, after being together for several years, his girlfriend broke up with him now, saying that he was very disappointed in him, is it because he thinks he is poor and cannot earn money?
At that time, I really wanted to say, you are poor, you are poor.But I didn't say such venomous words.

I tweeted back to him, I said, if a girl chooses you, she will not leave you because you are not rich enough, the only reason for her to leave is that you make her see nothing in you hope.

Since she knew from the beginning that her partner was not a rich man, and she knew that two people could not live a rich life, but the girl was still willing to be with this man, then she really loved this man.

If you don’t have money, at least you have love. “Drinking water with affection” is definitely what girls love to do, and they often insist on it.But no matter how determinedly the love that goes deep into the bone marrow, it can't stand the long-term drag.

Because of love, she chooses him, and doesn't care whether he lives in a big house, eats a big meal, or drives a luxury car. Her only purpose of being with him is to grow up with him, earn money to support the family, and improve the quality of life.She hopes that he can make progress, grow up, and support the family, but she is disappointed, helpless, and heartbroken again and again, and finally finds that when she has grown up, he still feels good about himself at the bottom of the well, Her despair is understandable.

No matter what gender you are, you can't be poor.What is terrible is not being poor, what is terrible is not working hard, what is terrible is that there is no goal in life, no future plan, what is terrible is that the road ahead is long but misty.

This is the most fundamental reason for crushing love.

The saying of looking for rich people to live a good life is only half true. To put it another way, it should be that you can live a good life with ambitious people. Those who are motivated, hardworking, and willing to fight, God will not treat him too badly .The girl just wants these unsatisfactory men to be capable, and no girl is so stupid as to give up the potential stocks that are working hard.

When love comes to the end, it’s not that the girl is vain and worships money and only likes money, it’s not that the girl wants to find a rich man to live a good life, it’s just because she’s tired, she can no longer drag you who sits in a pit and refuses to move Go forward with difficulty.Love is not lost to money, love is only lost to the unmotivated you.

Anyway, she is also the one who has been with you for a few years. Her youth can't go back, and her efforts have no results. You know that she is not that kind of person, so why bother to say such hurtful words?

To live up to or to be let down, with a grateful heart, say thank you, thank you for the rich love you have given, and thank you for the good old times that can't go back.

(End of this chapter)