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Chapter 25 Don't Always Talk About the Future, You'll Never Have Time

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Carl is a little boy who likes to explore. He met Ellie, a little girl who also likes to explore in the broken house. They grew up together, got married, and grew up hand in hand.

They all wanted to go to the lost Paradise Falls in South America, but due to their busy work and accidents in their lives, the fund of Paradise Falls had not been saved until they were old, and this wish was not fulfilled.

Unable to withstand the years, the elderly Ellie left, and Karl lived alone in the house that he once had full of good memories with his wife, and became a strange old man with a withdrawn personality.

The government wants to rebuild a house where Karl lives. This house has the memory of his wife. He is unwilling to leave, and fights against the construction unit.

When Karl recalled the past, he remembered the wish he and his wife had when they were young, coupled with the government's persecution, he decided to go to Paradise Falls to fulfill this wish with his wife.But he didn't go alone, he did something earth-shattering, he tied up the house with thousands of colorful hydrogen balloons, and he went with the house full of love memories of a lifetime!
So, Carl and the little boy Ronaldinho who joined by accident started their adventure.

After a bumpy journey and fighting monsters, they finally arrived at Paradise Falls. After his wife passed away, at the age of 78, Karl fulfilled his and his wife's wishes. Ronaldinho, who was traveling with him, also got a badge for helping the elderly.

This is the plot of the movie "Up".

Many people have watched this movie, and the ratings are extremely high, and they are all moved. What moved us may not be the surreal plot, but the sincere emotion.But I still feel full of regrets, the regrets between Carl and Ellie.

Carl and Ellie had the desire to go to Paradise Falls since they were young, but in the short but long decades of their life together, they still failed to embark on the adventure journey hand in hand, becoming Ellie's unfinished journey until she died. Wish, lifelong regret.

Obviously they have so much and so much time, from children to youth, from youth to adulthood, from adulthood to middle age, from middle age to old age, almost across all stages of life, but they don't even have time for a journey. Too late to finish.

We are always waiting, we always think that there is still time, tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, next year, a few years later, we always think that the two of us have a lot of time, too much to use up and spend, so much that we can postpone everything arbitrarily.

We often say to our lover: I will spend more time with you in the future, I will buy you gifts in the future, I will take you to eat delicious food in the future, and I will travel with you in the future...

Naively think that we will do these things together eventually, but the reality is often that time flies by between our conversations, commitments, and busyness. , but there is simply no time to do it.

Accompanying and satisfying each other is the meaning of two people being together. The lover who is so independent that he doesn't need your company is because you have lost him long ago without knowing it.

The maintenance of relationship has never been based on the words "I love you the most" when you open your mouth, nor is it a careless promise.

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Mr. C is a big boy I know. His job is a trapeze man. Business trips and meetings in different places are common.

His wife is a weak girl with a good personality like a little sheep, she understands him, supports him, and tolerates him.

When they got married, they didn't buy a ring, they didn't spend their honeymoon, and they got married in a hurry.The wedding preparations were done by his wife alone. She chose the hotel, ran the wedding celebration, and watched the planning alone. He was still flying around without stopping.

He said: We will go to Hong Kong to buy rings when we are free.

He said: I will not be so busy at work in the future, I will take half a month off and take you to Europe for your honeymoon.

The girl believed everything.

For a year or two, he has been very busy, or maybe he has been married for a long time, so he doesn't care so much about those things. In short, these promises of his have not been fulfilled.

In the third year, the girl was gone.

The girl got into a car accident and died on the spot. At that time, he was still in a meeting outside the city.

In the funeral home, a 1.8-meter tall man was crying bitterly, beating himself and scolding himself constantly. His promises could no longer be fulfilled.

He used to think that they had a lot of time, he thought they had a lot of future, but at the last moment of her life, he didn't even give her a wedding ring.

They have no future.

Whether it's life or death, sometimes we always have to wait until we lose it before regretting that we didn't do the things we agreed to do together, regret not cherishing every minute and second we had together, and regret not giving it to that person. best love.

No one knows what will happen in the next second, no one can estimate the length of love and life, no one knows if there is a "later", and we can't put hope in the "later".

The time for two people is even more rare. They work separately and are busy with each other. Maybe because the longer they are together, the more they disdain two people to be tired of being together. Those who want to do together should do it first.

Stop quarreling endlessly about who cooks and who does housework, go shopping hand in hand, and cook a delicious meal together;

Put down the mobile phones in their respective hands, lie on the sofa with him, cover the bed with a warm quilt, watch a movie, and laugh together;
Don't blame her for being greedy, take her to eat the hot pot that she has been thinking about for a long time, her happy appearance will definitely make you feel worth it;
Occasionally take a break from your busy schedule, go on a trip with him, go to the beach together, sit on the beach and cuddle up to watch the sunset, see the sparkling sea, how beautiful it is;

No matter how busy you are at work, you have to take time off that day, prepare a gift, make a wish with her, blow out candles, and celebrate her birthday right away;
Don't save those few dollars, accompany him to listen to his favorite singer's concert, go crazy with him, and be high with him from beginning to end;

It doesn't matter if you are shy or you don't think it's important, just say "I love you" to her sincerely, and I believe she will love you more...

There are so many things to do together, his ideal, her wish, you and TA are inside.

Time is like a girl’s career line, there will always be a squeeze, take time out, like the small Luoji badge in "Up", complete your goals one by one seriously, and then stamp the seal of love , When I get old, I will look back at the fulfilling days of the two of them, and I will have no regrets.

Don't ignore, don't shirk, don't wait, love needs carpe diem in time, act quickly, let's do love and do things together.

(End of this chapter)