The world is so bad, so lucky to meet you

Chapter 27 There Is a Kind of Love Called "Other People's Love"

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Cheng Cheng has been chasing Xiaomi for six years. He has liked Xiaomi since he met him in elementary school.But Xiaomi didn't like Chengcheng, and always turned a blind eye.

Perhaps because the more frustrated, the more courageous Cheng Cheng chased him all the way from elementary school to high school, and he chased him for six years.

Everyone was moved by Cheng Cheng, including Xiaomi.So, they talked about dating from high school to college all the way for five years.

Cheng Cheng has a good temper, while Xiaomi has a bad temper, of course only towards Cheng Cheng.Cheng Cheng doesn't mind, he loves her and pampers her as a treasure, the favored one is always confident, the more he is spoiled, the worse he gets, he skips small and big things, and it is too heavy to carry an empty bag when going out.

When talking about any boyfriend, Cheng Cheng is always mentioned, he is simply a role model for girls, a model for boyfriends to learn: good tempered, considerate, "ears".

When I was young, I felt that true love was invincible, and besides, it was not easy to find a boy who Cheng Cheng could tolerate her and let her go, so marry her.Once you graduate, you will get married.

Looking at other people's love is full of affection and drinking water. As long as Chengcheng treats Xiaomi well, everything will be fine.The two of them seemed to be having a good time, and they both said that Xiaomi was blessed, and they both expressed their envy to death when their love came to an end.

They don’t know:

Cheng Cheng is good at everything, but he is a little poor, he doesn’t have a good major, he can’t find a good job, and his salary is pitifully low.They were married naked. After marriage, the couple and Cheng Cheng's parents squeezed into a small two-bedroom house. The bedroom was so small that there was only room for a double bed and a wardrobe. Nail a board to the wall.

Xiaomi is not a hard-working girl, and Cheng Cheng's mother dislikes her, making irresponsible remarks and sowing discord every day.

Ever since she was with Cheng Cheng, Xiaomi was reluctant to eat, wear, and play, because she really didn't have much money, and the expenses of two people were more expensive than one.

However, Chengcheng and Xiaomi are not self-motivated people, so the economy has not been able to improve, but prices are rising.

The content of the chat between Xiaomi and me was the same, and we quarreled over money, or what the hell happened, Xiaomi felt that the relationship was almost gone.

A good life on the surface does not mean a good life in reality. Poor and lowly couples are sad about everything. This is really the truth.Even if you drink water, you can't be full. When you starve to death, maybe someone will run away.

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Qiqi and Leng Bin can be regarded as an ordinary couple in the circle of friends. Leng Bin is a few years older than Qiqi, so he is more likely to make trouble.

They are together naturally, in Leng Bin's words, seeing her makes her feel different from other women.They are not like glue, but they respect each other as guests. They have not experienced heavy wind and rain, and occasionally have quarrels, and the economic situation has been steadily improving.

Leng Bin has a high score among friends, a gentleman, never loses his temper, and often analyzes things for us.

Looking at the people around them splitting and reuniting, everyone thinks they are the most reliable couple.

Now Leng Bin has a house and a car. The two got married and gave birth to a baby. The child looks like Leng Bin, fat and cute. The family of three looks very happy.

They don’t know:

Leng Bin is super machismo and has strong self-esteem. They have been together for five years, and most of the time it was Qiqi who let him communicate with him in different ways.

Leng Bin never let Qiqi get involved in the financial matters, because of this matter, the two of them had a long talk all night, and after the talk, Leng Bin took a 10 yuan bank card and handed it to Qiqi, this was his first time. He handed over the economic power to Qiqi at one time, but Qiqi still didn't know how many cards and savings he had.

Leng Bin especially listens to his mother, she should respect everything she says, and believe everything she says, a bit like the legendary Ma Baonan.After marriage, Leng Bin's mother moved in to live with the young couple, and she was stuck between the couple forcibly, and couldn't persuade them to leave no matter what.Just a word, no matter what you do, I just want to be with my son.Qiqi was so angry that she went back to her mother's house several times, but she couldn't control it and continued to bear the anger.

Machismo is not only found in the domineering president's essays, only gentle and intelligent women can hold it, and ordinary women like us can't afford to be served.The mother-in-law who disturbs the young couple is not only seen on TV and gossip, this reality version of the bloody drama may be staged in your friend's life every day.

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This is other people's love.

We always say that other people's children are sensible and obedient, and other people's husbands are handsome and considerate. No matter how we look at it, we think other people's children are better. Our own family is really weak, lazy, inconsiderate, and doesn't understand what women think. , Machismo, playing games, etc., can always pick out N faults and draw a big X.

In fact, you don't know that every family has hard-to-recite scriptures. They seem to be happy and happy, but their backs are full of devastation.

When you see others posting gifts, maybe your husband is so busy every day that he has to use gifts to coax his wife; if you see someone sunbathing with your husband at the beach, maybe they have saved their travel money for a few months; When you see other people’s husbands taking their wives to eat big meals, maybe it’s a rare reward for the wives to cook at home every day; when you see other people’s husbands doing housework, maybe they usually play games all day long; Maybe the house was bought by the woman's family... There are so many things you can think of and things you can't think of.

What I’m talking about here is light and simple. When someone catches a mistress, he doesn’t necessarily tell you; when someone is too poor to eat, he doesn’t necessarily tell you; when someone borrows tuition for their children everywhere, he doesn’t necessarily tell you.

Of course, I don't want everyone to experience misfortune, but nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory. How can it be so smooth that the prince and princess will be together happily ever after?No one is born with anyone, and it is normal to make some mistakes and make some troubles.

You know, no matter how hard this relationship is, it is still your love. Whether he achieves six points or nine points, it is for the two of you. Not as good as yours.The more you lack something, the more you want to post something. What is there to envy when you see others posting diamond rings, husbands, and happiness?What's the point of comparing?
Don't just look at other people's houses, it's cold, go home and warm your bed with yours.

(End of this chapter)