The world is so bad, so lucky to meet you

Chapter 28 You are a girl, so you need to work harder

Loved, happy, hurt, maybe you are back alone, it doesn’t matter, the years are so long, there are always some trials to go through, there are always some roads that need to be walked by yourself, and the time alone can be wonderful.

I often hear girls say, why do I work so hard as a girl?You can support yourself!

I would say the same thing when I just graduated, but now, I just want to tell you a story about a rice grain and a best friend.

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In the first year of graduation, Mi Li worked in sales with a monthly salary of 3000 yuan; her best friend worked in administration with a monthly salary of 2000 yuan.

Mi Li and her girlfriend are both naturally beautiful girls, about the same height and weight.But as soon as she graduated, her girlfriend lost ten catties. She took off Adidas and Nike, put on delicate makeup, and put on a small suit and high heels.The girlfriend and Mi Li stood together, and the aura was obviously different.

Mi Li met a boy named Xiaofeng, who worked in a foreign company and shuttled around various foreign cities with a generous salary.The two got along very well. Xiaofeng bought things for Mi Li and took her around to play, but they didn't end up together.He said: I like you, if you work better, I will be with you.

At that time, Mi Li's salary was more than enough to support herself, even a little higher than other students' starting point. She couldn't figure out why Xiaofeng didn't stay with her.Later, Xiaofeng got a girlfriend, who also works in a foreign company, and Mi Li seemed to understand something.

In the second year of graduation, my girlfriend successfully climbed up to the management level with experience and self-confidence.Seeing that her best friend is getting better and better, Mi Li realizes that she has to change jobs too.Her place of work was changed to an office building, and she became a white-collar worker. Her salary has not changed much, but her grade has improved.

The object introduced by a friend was blocked after seeing the photo of Mi Li.The rice grain was hit, but it is normal for men to want women's beauty and temperament.She began to look for her shortcomings, read books to increase her connotation, insisted on exercising every day, practiced makeup in front of the mirror, matched clothes according to magazines, tried to wear some short stiletto shoes, and gained some suitors.

Mi Li spent a week with her blind date, and the blind date said, I hope to find a girlfriend who can help me financially.Mi Li was startled, and she realized that the reality is that a woman is not only beautiful and beautiful, but a woman's ability and economics are also very important criteria.

In the third year of graduation, the best friend has become the third in command, with a good income, driving the car she bought, followed by a group of suitors, she doesn't even look at it.

Mi Li went to a big company, and you can see the news of this company every day.Mi Li still can't afford a house or a car, and every time her best friend sends Mi Li home, she also feels embarrassed.But when Mi Li stood up at this time, there would be a lot of envious looks.

When Xiaofeng came back, he contacted Mi Li again and again, expressing his affection obviously.Mi Li refused to accept the move, she thanked him for letting her fledgling self recognize the reality of this society for the first time, he liked her, but she no longer loved him.

That's it, when you become good, it's your turn to choose him.

In the fourth year of graduation, the girlfriend married as a wife, and the husband disclosed the company.Although she quit her job, she managed the family while running her own small business, and her income was not much lower than that of her husband.

Mi Li is doing management work, working overtime, training, and studying.Blind dates in spare time, no matter work or relationship, still can't keep up with the step-by-step management of girlfriends.

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These are the years of Mi Li and her best friend, what do you understand?
Girlfriends have their own plans and goals from the very beginning: first do a good job, and then find an excellent husband.With a clear goal, she basically didn't take a detour, and seemed to be under her control every step of the way.And Mi Li realized how important excellence is to a girl when she was compared and rejected again and again, and then she began to work hard for herself.

Most of the girls are like these two girls, they are not princesses who grew up with golden keys in their mouths, their backgrounds are too ordinary, they don’t have a father to fight for, and of course they are not beautiful enough to find a rich husband, so they can sit back and relax and enjoy themselves Life.

Not to mention finding a rich man, no one is stupid in this society, no one is willing to marry a vase that only spends money, if you don’t have enough IQ and EQ, you can’t marry a rich man.If you are lucky, you will meet a prince, but the story of Cinderella is too rare in reality.Don't forget that Cinderella in the fairy tale was originally a rich lady.

Even if you find an affordable man, there will always be a few years before you meet a man who is willing to let you rely on, and you will still have to rely on yourself.

Some time ago, Liu Qiangdong, who was in a hurry, married Sister Milk Tea, and the girl in the office was so envious. I said, go and search to find out who the father of Sister Milk Tea is.At that time, I didn't know her life experience, but I understood that there is no Cinderella for no reason.Sure enough, the power behind is not small.A rich man like Liu Qiangdong is not stupid for the property transfer trick that is talked about so much.There is too much controversy about whether the milk tea girl is married well or not, and each has his own experience.

I'm so sorry to accidentally shatter your Cinderella dream.I just want to tell you that fairy tales are not necessarily beautiful when they are reflected in reality. If you haven’t saved enough capital, don’t dream of yellow beams.

Of course, you don’t have to deliberately sign up for a class, gnaw hard on a book you don’t love, and be as busy as a dog every day. You don’t have to let your life be such a reluctant and hard-pressed state.

The so-called hard work is work, not for dawdling, not for changing jobs when encountering some difficulties, you must learn to accumulate in work, study hard, seize every opportunity, enrich yourself, and increase your knowledge.Even if you are not crazily gnawing on books and learning courses, long-term accumulation will make you grow a lot.

When buying a piece of clothing, a smart girl will know that the quality and suitability are more important than the style; a smart girl will take care of her whole body at any time, not just her face; a smart girl will never be reluctant to buy a book. Ten dollars; a smart girl, everyone is her teacher, even her opponents; a smart girl, the search engine is her encyclopedia; a smart girl, even an advertisement can stop to see the name; smart A good girl, watching a movie will increase her knowledge and increase her conversation resources; a smart girl will not refuse the opportunity to work overtime and training; Years is enough to make you stand out.

Regardless of beauty or ugliness, this society no longer needs a narrow-minded "good girl" who knows nothing and knows nothing. Ability is as important as beauty. When you pick on others, others are also picking on you. What kind of life, what kind of husband you want to find, all depend on your own cultivation.As for things like cultivation, you understand that the sooner you start, the faster you will become refined.

Stop talking about gender, just because you are a girl, because you have greater material desires than men, and because you want to enjoy life more, you should try your best to become a princess.

The beautiful clothes you want can cost a few hundred yuan casually; the calfskin high-heeled shoes you like can cost more than a thousand yuan after discount; the small brown bottle of Estee Lauder you want to use is not cheap in Hong Kong. ;The country you want to visit, the cheapest air ticket is more than 3000; the mature man you like doesn't even look at you... The economic base determines the superstructure. If you want to have a high status in your husband's family, can you have a dowry?Are you ashamed to say that you are short-lived when you have a dinner and dessert at a girlfriends gathering?

Some people say that mouthful of money is vulgar, and that money is not vulgar at all. All high-quality life must be based on economic foundation. A woman’s beauty, good skin, and good figure all depend on the support of the economy. The economy can also give you dignity and allow you to enjoy Pay attention, and you who are poor and white, how can you live the life you want without any effort?
Remember, because you are a girl, you have to work harder than a man.

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