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Chapter 7 Expose the indifferent person in love

For those who haven't met a few scumbags when they were young, it's not scary to meet them, what's scary is to be stubborn.Being able to carry clearly, see through, afford, let go, and leave is what a smart girl should do.

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Mint got married, and that man was introduced by three aunts and six wives. The two met each other on a blind date, and they are both from City A.

On the day of the blind date, we made an appointment at a cafe in City A. The man worked in the provincial capital, and drove for more than two hours to come back to have a blind date with Mint.

The man is 32 years old, looks gentle, 1.7 meters five, well-proportioned, fair-skinned, with a little shadow of a Korean Oppa. I don’t see if he has long legs, but he looks and looks like mint.

Mint is 29 years old. Although she is not as beautiful as a fairy, she is also considered delicate. She is a little short. Because of this, she has some low self-esteem and feels that she is not worthy of a man who is 1.7 meters five.But Mint's personal conditions are still good. He is a department manager at a young age, and his parents both work in state-owned enterprises.

She ordered a cup of coffee, the man ordered a cup of tea, and they chatted without saying a word.The man said: I can't speak, please forgive me.She said: It's okay, boys with a glib tongue are not reliable.

After drinking the afternoon tea, they left. Mint thought it was over, but the matchmaker spread the word that he fell in love with her and wanted to look around.

Mint was overjoyed, waiting for the man to contact him, waiting for three days, but there was still no news.She couldn't help sending a message, but it was like a stone sinking into the sea. Two hours later, when she had no hope at all, she received a message from the man.The man said: Sorry, I was busy just now.

It turned out that he didn't do it on purpose. Looking at the message with his mobile phone, Mint laughed.

But she doesn't understand, there is a feeling for whether a man has taken a fancy to you. A man who is interested in you will definitely take the initiative to find you. "You" and "I don't have your phone", let's put all these down.In many cases, a man's busyness is just an excuse, an excuse to cover up your inner thoughts and keep you hopeful for him.

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After the blind date in June, the man returned to the provincial capital, Mint was in city A, sometimes chatting, sometimes the man disappeared for three to five days.

In July, the man went home and took mint back to meet his parents.His parents liked her very much, praised her for being sensible, cooked delicious food for her, and gave her a jade bracelet before leaving.She thought she couldn't have it at first, but his parents insisted on giving it to her, saying that they accepted her as his daughter-in-law.After seeing his parents, the man went back to the provincial capital, and the two of them would contact each other in three to five days. The man said that he was really busy with work.

In August, the man said that the family asked them to make a marriage arrangement.Mint was a little hesitant, and the man said: Let's take advantage of the "October" holiday and go back to organize the wedding. When I get the year-end bonus in December, I will resign and go back to live a good life with you.She heard that he was so sincere, and she really liked it. Although she was a little hasty, she agreed.

The man said: It's too late to take wedding photos, I'll take them when I come back later.Mint said sensiblely: It's okay, don't panic, we will take pictures slowly when you come back.

For the next two months, she was planning the wedding alone.She asked her relationship to find a hotel, booked a wedding and bought wedding gifts, but it seemed that only her family was hot.The man's family gave 3 yuan and said: We don't understand these things, daughter-in-law, you can figure it out.The man said: Our family doesn't pay attention to these things, just do it simply.

Maybe a man is not good at getting married, but a man who really wants to marry you will definitely care about the progress of the wedding, and even gossip with you and do it by himself, and his indifference is from the heart. care.

After a weekend of smoking, the man rushed back with mint and hurried to get the certificate.She took out her camera and said: Let's take a photo.The man said: I don't like taking pictures.She said: Just take a picture, okay?The man reluctantly entered the mirror, and that was the only photo they had together.

Since they were all in a small place and they were acquaintances everywhere, Mint's parents were embarrassed to bring it up because the man's parents did not arrange a meeting.That is to say, it is embarrassing that Mint was stunned because he did not discuss any conditions, so he married this man, and brought 10 yuan as a dowry.

The wedding was booked in a hurry, and the hotel could not be booked in the days ahead, only until October 10th. The man said that he would change shifts and take a vacation before the wedding. I only returned to City A on the evening of October 6rd, and the parents of both parties met on October 10th. Everything was ready for the wedding, and we were waiting for the bride and groom. There was nothing to discuss, and the two families dispersed after a peaceful meal.

On the day of the wedding, there was not even a photo of them together.I didn't see how happy the man was, he always had a lukewarm face, but Bo Mint was crying, crying hard on the stage, the man stood beside him unmoved, and the bridesmaid handed her a tissue.The ceremony, the toast, everything was in order, the man's face was very calm, it was time to clink glasses, it was time to drink and drink, there was no joy or sorrow at all, it felt like someone else's wedding.

On the wedding night, the man is done in a few minutes.The man said, I have no desire for this.Mint was embarrassed to say anything, and it was also because of this embarrassment that she almost lived a life without desires, men never touched her, and she couldn't rely on him for anything.

Mint thought that they still felt like newlyweds in a few days, but what they didn't expect was that the man would go back to the provincial capital after the National Day.He said: She didn't get the shift, and she was going to go back to work, and she was completely confused. The man was leaving the second day after getting married.

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After getting married, Mint moved into the house that the man bought in City A. It was a regular two-bedroom house, but living in it alone, she still felt very empty.When the man left, he said, go back and see my parents more often.She did as she did, and went back to accompany her parents-in-law twice a week. She was so busy with work that she even ignored her own parents, and she didn't neglect the man's parents at all.

In the age of the only child, everyone was the treasure of the family before marriage.She was spoiled in a good family, her ten fingers did not touch the spring water, she stretched out her clothes to eat and opened her mouth, but after she got married, while doing a stressful job, she took time to follow her mother-in-law to learn cooking, laundry, and cleaning. Learning to be a capable daughter-in-law, she just wants to wait for the man to return to City A, and the two of them will live a good life.Those who know the situation say that a capable, diligent and filial daughter-in-law like Mint can't be found even with a lantern. It's really cheap for the "Korean Oppa".

Mint originally thought that after marriage, the two people would slowly develop a relationship and be as close as others.But she found that she was wrong, the man still disappeared every three days, did not answer the phone, did not reply to the message, sometimes he came back only the next day, the excuse was: I was too tired to fall asleep yesterday, and I had a meeting yesterday and worked overtime too late.

She asked: Why don't you reply to the message?The man said: I don't like chatting.She asked: Why don't you take the initiative to find me?He said: I am like this, I have always been passive about feelings.She said: The relationship between us seems to be too light, not quite like a husband and wife.He said: Marrying a wife is what you need to live. There is no need to be like falling in love. It is better to have a long flow of water.She thought, maybe he is just such a slow-tempered person, and he can't change it for a while. Gradually, she also got used to men's indifference.

It was agreed to resign at the end of the year and return to city A after receiving the bonus. The man also delayed again and again. The man said he was working on a big project and he would resign after finishing it. The man repeatedly comforted her, and she believed it again.

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During the Chinese New Year in February, the man went back to City A and said he was going to have a baby with Mint.She was still a little happy, feeling as if she had returned to the normal rhythm of husband and wife.

Spend New Year's Eve at the man's house, after dinner Mint cleaned up with his mother, and he sat on the sofa chatting with his father.After tidying up, she sat on the sofa next to him, and he still chatted with his father, ignoring her at all, and his mother interrupted occasionally.She was like an outsider in their family, sitting there transparently watching them chatting about this and that, watching the joyful Spring Festival Gala on TV, and the whole of China was in joy, but she was so sad that she was about to cry.

When he returned to Mint's house on the first day of junior high school, the situation improved a bit. He interacted with her occasionally, and even said in front of her parents that he would treat her well, and her heart melted a little again.She thought that he had promised her in front of her parents, so he should like it, maybe he was just not good at expressing it.

She continued to make excuses for the man, but the indifference of one person to the other that permeated from the bottom of his bones could clearly be felt.

In the second day of junior high school, the two stayed in the house and had almost no intersection.She said: Husband, let's go out for a stroll.He said: "It's too cold outside.She said: Husband, tell me about your work in the provincial capital.He said: Nothing to say.He has been playing with his mobile phone without looking up, even holding the mobile phone in his hand when going to the bathroom.She didn't know what he was doing, but she could catch a glimpse of the green WeChat interface.A man once said that he doesn't like chatting, so who can make him hold his mobile phone all the time?

She tentatively said: Who are you chatting with?He said: colleagues.She said: Are you talking about work?He said: Well.She said: People in the New Year still talk about work, the people in your company work so hard!He said: Well.

The man left after lunch in the third day of junior high school, saying that the company had something to do and he had to go back to deal with it.

Men always like to lie to women again and again under the guise of work, so that they can confidently turn down anything he doesn't want to do.

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Years later, Mint's department held a big event. She barely slept for a week, and her vajra body couldn't bear it any longer, so she went home and lay down.When she woke up, she felt very uncomfortable, and her headache was about to explode. She touched her forehead, and it seemed that she didn't have a fever, but it was very painful.

She was the only one in the empty house, she called the man and said: Husband, I don't feel well, I seem to have a fever.The man said: There is a thermometer in the drawer of the bedside table, you can measure it yourself.She said: Husband, today is Saturday, can you come back?This is the first time she has made such a request to a man. To be honest, the two cities are only two and a half hours away by car, and it is a weekend, so this request is not too much.But the man said: Don't be so delicate, whoever has never been sick, it is useless for me to go back, if you are sick, go to the doctor, he can solve the problem.His every word was reasonable, but she couldn't find a word to refute it for a while, she was not a girl who could act like a baby.She no longer had any extravagant hopes and hung up the phone.

She huddled on the bed alone and cried. This was the first time in 30 years that she cried so sadly. She gritted her teeth and endured all the storms alone. She found a husband and thought that she would never have to suffer alone again. But I didn't expect that it would be so difficult to ask him to care a little bit.

She also doubted whether the man was gay, but everyone in this circle knew that he had had girlfriends since college, had several girlfriends over the years, and even took him home to meet his parents, so she dismissed the idea.

She has always felt that his personality is just like this, passive, unable to express, and unable to care about others, maybe he will be able to improve a little bit after a long time and deep feelings.

There are many girls who are not reconciled, and they make excuses for each other like this again and again, so as to persuade themselves to go on with the other party unswervingly, struggling to the death in a one-man show love, and not giving up until the last straw is pulled.

But what happened next made Mint uncomfortable.

The man's mother sprained her ankle when she went shopping for vegetables, and it swelled up. The man immediately rushed back to city A from the provincial capital overnight.Mint knew that she couldn't eat his mother's jealousy, and couldn't care about it like this, but the man's reaction was completely different, and she still felt very sad when she had a comparison.

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One day, the man called and said, take good care of yourself, and we will give birth to a fat boy.She wondered, why is he so interested in having a baby?She said: You want a baby so much?He said: Of course, we are not too young now. My classmate’s dolls can be soy sauced.

She heard the comparison with the microphone full, but she couldn't hear him say, I want to have a baby with you because I love you and want to have a love crystallization with you.

Women sometimes just want to hear a word about love.Sweet talk is fine, at least the other party is willing to bother to say a sweet talk for her.

The man said: How long is your ovulation period?I come back.She wrote a big "hehe" in her heart. He refused to go back when she was sick. He hurried back because he wanted a child. Did he want a mother or a child?She became more and more suspicious of his original intention of marrying her, and she even more doubted whether he had a third party in the provincial capital.

The few times they've done it in order to have a baby, it's been a few minutes in a hurry.Mint has never been pregnant.The man said: Is the ovulation period not counted?She said: You came back too little.Every time it was mentioned that the man resigned and returned to City A, the man stopped talking.

A man's silence means everything. Those who want to go home are like an arrow;

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Mint received a message from an unknown number.The message said: I am your husband's girlfriend, we have been together for three years, he only loves me and not you, you should quit.

She looked at the text message, as if all the doubts from last June to now have been solved, why is he so indifferent to her?Why is he so eager to go back to the provincial capital?Why did he play around and disappear every three days?Why does he always hold his mobile phone when he comes back?Why is it all because of a woman behind him, but why does he love that woman but still wants her to give birth to him?Isn't this a joke about a woman's life's happiness?
Mint contacted that strange number, and she decided to go to the provincial capital.She had already been an ostrich once, and walked into the grave of this awkward marriage with her head shrunk. If she continued blindly, she might not only harm herself, but also an innocent child.She was fortunate that perhaps it was deliberately arranged by God so that she would not be able to conceive his child, so that the child would not suffer with a blind mother.

Mint deliberately dressed up, the inner struggles of the past few months made her almost forget to tidy herself up.She drove to the provincial capital to meet a girl with an unfamiliar number.

The girl is beautiful, she is really beautiful, and she is tall, half a head taller than her, about 1.7 meters. Standing opposite the girl is a bit unassuming.Men and girls like Korea's Oppa are very compatible. Standing together is probably the appearance of a man and a woman in a Korean TV series.With such a good woman by his side, how could he like her?

The girl said, I have been with him for three years. We were going to get married, but my family firmly opposed it. My family’s conditions are not bad. My father is in business and arranged for me a husband who is well-matched and has a villa here.You also know that his conditions are far from meeting my dad's requirements, and his family wants him to return to his hometown to settle down. He is also very filial, so he went on a blind date with you last year.

Mint said: Do you know that we are married?
The girl said: I know, I know everything between you, and he was forced by his family to use you as a shield.

Mint's heart sank, she knew all the ins and outs of them, they were together for three years, and it was less than a year from their blind date to their marriage, there was no third party in her marriage, she was the third party.

The girl went on to say: We were going to break up originally, and he will go back and live a good life with you.

The girl smiled helplessly: But neither of us can do it. He said that even if I get married, I still want to be with me.

The girl said: I also asked him to answer your call. He thought that he could divorce you after you gave birth and he completed the task.I am also a woman. I know that a woman who stays at home alone and waits for him to go back and is willing to give birth to him should love him very much. I can't bear it, so I want to tell you the truth.

The thing is, Mint has been mistressed, the man has never loved her, his indifference, his passivity, his hasty coming and going, his incomprehensible style, even he wants to have a baby because he loves the girl in front of him , wanting to have a secret relationship with her.

Mint was dying and said: How do I know if what you said is true?
The girl smiled, put her phone on the table, Mint lowered her head and saw the green WeChat chat page.

Impressively written on it:

Baby, have you eaten yet?

baby, what do you want to eat?I buy it for you.

Baby, I miss you.

Baby, don't leave me, even if you marry him, I will be with you.

……

Mint was stunned, this is a tender man she has never seen before.It's not that the man is not enthusiastic, it's just that he is not enthusiastic about her.

The girl took the mobile phone and pressed it a few times, then handed it to her, and said: This is my QQ album, which contains some photos of us in the past three years together, you can take a look, there are dates.

When the mint was brought over, she saw her familiar but unfamiliar face appeared on the screen, familiar because it was indeed her husband, strange because she had never seen such an expression, such a look, such a smile.

On April 2013, 4, the first group photo, they were standing together, they were really right.

On June 2013, 6, she snuggled up to him with a tiny crown on her head and a birthday cake in her hand.

On December 2013, 12, they wore couple shoes and deliberately put their feet in front of the camera.

On February 2014, 2, he gave her a bouquet of white roses, she held the flowers, and he kissed her on the face.

On May 2014, 5, his birthday, she painted a cake on his face and took a candid photo.

On July 2014, 7, they were vacationing together at the seaside, with blue water, blue sky, shoulders and backs, and their smiles were extremely bright.

On December 2014, 12, she took a selfie wearing his large T-shirt, with his sleeping face behind.

On February 2015, 2, the girl couldn't hold a bigger bouquet of white roses, so they took a group photo beside the flowers.

……

Mint casually looked at a few photos, and almost couldn't hold it anymore, the happiness almost blinded her eyes, it was as hard as a few knives pierced into her heart.

The man took the girl to the beach after a blind date with Mint, the man slept with the girl after getting married with Mint, the man hurried back to spend Valentine's Day with the girl... All his abnormalities have a reasonable explanation.

Mint's dying straw, finally broke.

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Everyone can understand that Mint was cheated into marriage. The man just happened to need a wife, a family, and even a child to complete his life tasks. After she helped him complete the tasks, he had to retire, while he You can also pursue his relationship that can't be turned into a regular one.

In the end, she divorced peacefully.Since he is full of pretending to be another woman, even if she cries, it's useless, it's better to walk gracefully.

If a man loves you, you can feel his enthusiasm; if a man doesn't love you, you can also feel his indifference.

No one in the world will be indifferent to the person he loves, no one will be indifferent to the human nature of love, no one will face the person he loves must leave, and the indifferent person in the relationship is nothing more than not loving.

Not being loved by someone is not scary at all, the scary thing is that the reality is starkly in front of you, but you still have to convince yourself that he loves you in another way, and you have to put yourself in the grave and not let go. Don't give up until the last drop of tears.

When a man is very sensible to you, not enthusiastic about you, and doesn’t care much about you, then stop making excuses, face the reality bravely, face the wound bravely, wipe away tears, jump out of the fire pit, and leave without loving you only people who have the chance to meet happiness.

(End of this chapter)