The world is so bad, so lucky to meet you

Chapter 6 I'm Not Afraid of You Showing Your Love, I'm Afraid You Can't Show It
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I asked a small question on the official account: What did the other party do to make you feel that TA loves you very much?When I opened the backstage, I was stunned, and there were hundreds of gorgeous love stories in front of me, which made me envious.

@邓子：

As I was walking, he asked me to stop, squatted down suddenly, and buried my head to tie my shoelaces. When the shoelaces fell off, I almost cried when I saw the back of his head.

@Not called Wangwang's little crisp:

When eating hot pot, he ate the lean meat from the mutton, and there was a pile of fat left in the bowl. Without further ado, he took it over and ate it, saying that it should not be wasted.I really have no resistance to this kind of boy who doesn't dislike the leftovers he ate!

@yan:
When I got home from shopping, he immediately made hot water for me to soak my feet, and then gave me a full set of foot massage, full of love.

@郑小惠:
I don't like to eat fish, because there are too many fish bones, he will pick out the fish bones every time and then give the fish to me.

@big a:

When I was sick, she asked for leave to come to accompany me, help me get medicine, and help me buy food.

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Most of the replies were girls, and there were also men. When talking about those little things of being loved, without exception, they couldn't hide their happiness.Through every word and sentence, I can feel the warmth through the computer screen.

I can't help but sigh that true love in the world is not only found in novels. No matter how much we clamor for people to become selfish, or how we don't believe in love, there are still many people who are really loved.

I looked down one by one, and I saw several people said: "I've thought about it for a long time and I haven't figured it out." One girl even laughed at herself and said, "Am I going to die?" Seeing such words, I suddenly felt a little sad, I can imagine her awkwardness in front of the computer screen.

Just when it was time to show her affection openly, she couldn't remember every bit of what she had done to make herself feel loved, so that she in love wanted to participate in this topic about love, but she could only hand in a blank paper .

A few days ago, I had afternoon tea and pastries with some girls, and one girl was very entangled, wondering whether to continue a relationship that was not going well.

Feelings are a matter of self-knowledge. No one can help the parties make decisions, but analysis and analysis as sisters are necessary.Someone asked: Does he love you?The girl froze for a few seconds, then lowered her head and took a sip of honey citron tea and said: I don't know.

I said: Has he said or done anything to make you think he loves you?The girl thought about it again and said: I can't remember.

I said: For example, do you have food for you when you eat?Can I pick you up from get off work?Love or not call you?The girl was silent, then took the honey, and added two spoonfuls of honey juice into the cup.I think, no matter how much this kind of sweet and greasy honey juice is, it can't relieve the bitterness in her heart at that time.

It's not that the girl has a bad memory and can't remember it for a while. No one will forget those confessions and little warmth that made our hearts beat faster and made us feel happy. Even if the final result is a breakup, those real touches that once existed will still remain in memory.

The reason why she can't remember is nothing else, but that he never made her truly feel loved.She didn't feel the love, but she was still struggling, whether to continue walking with him.

Most people are grateful lovers, and they only need some small things to make them feel moved.

When eating, TA will let you eat the dishes you like and eat the dishes you don't like.

No matter how tired or late or detour, they will send you home safely.

In the cold weather, put your cold hands into your own clothes to keep warm.

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Look, those things that make people feel loved and moved are very small, but very warm.

But she has never felt even these small things. Is it because she has too much heart, or is the other party too careless?Or, he doesn't care at all?
The girl is kind and makes excuses for the other party: Maybe he has this character, maybe he has too much self-esteem, maybe he loves me in his own way... There are countless reasons, but they can't hide the girl's loss, let alone show love this little thing.

In a relationship, understanding and tolerance are necessary, but management and dedication are also necessary. Whether you feel love or not depends entirely on whether the other party is giving or not.If you can't remember it at all, it's better to give up the wishful thinking "we are in love" as soon as possible.

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There is a girl in the circle of friends who loves to show affection, at least four or five messages a week, and even crazily swipes the screen during the holidays.

He sent a car of roses on Valentine's Day, and she took a photo with a heart-shaped icon on the P and sent it to Moments, with the text: Full of love, thank you husband!

They wore couple outfits, and they cuddled each other and compared the letter "V", looking happy, and took a photo and posted it, with the text: Go out together, western style, right?
Even if she just posted a picture of herself, the text could be: Under my teaching, my husband's photography skills are getting better and better!

Our mutual friend asked me: why don't you block her?If you want me to say, it's not bad to be able to show affection.

Whether a relationship can survive does not depend on whether or not it shows off its affection.Whether you show it or not, the damn relationship will die, and two people who should not go on will part ways.

The love that can be shown is the moment of being loved that is truly felt, and it also makes everyone envious and envious when it is sent out.

The scariest thing is that people who are obviously in love can't show their affection.

What kind words did he say to you?No.

What has he done to you?No.

What did you do together?Uh...does it count to squeeze the bus together?
If he puts his arms around you to protect you when you are squeezed into the bus, then let's forget it. If there is none of this, just pull it down.

Falling in love is a rivalry between two people, how many people have become a one-man show.When good things happen to you, you are happy alone, and when two people quarrel, you are distressed alone. If you don’t contact him, he won’t contact you. patient.

This is not a relationship, it is obviously you who are doing it alone, begging the other party for some love, and whether you give it or not depends on the other party's mood.

The so-called love, a love, a love, all need to be attentive.A caring person must consider the other party's point of view when doing things, care about the other party's emotions, and inadvertently say something that makes you feel at ease, and do things that make you warm. It should be happy and beautiful in memory.Even if two people get along with each other, there must be some small conflicts, but they will be covered by happiness most of the time.

A friend said that she is the only one who likes to show, and her husband must be unhappy.

A pair of lovers, one loves to show affection, and the other is also willing to cooperate. This is also a kind of favor.

Someone always pays for a carload of roses, right?Not many girls are brainless enough to pay a carload of roses for a photoshoot, right?One bundle at most, normal girls are afraid of being found out that entertaining themselves is too embarrassing.

Couple clothes are always worn by two people, right?Is the smile on your face real too?He doesn't deliberately show affection, but he also unconditionally cooperates with her to show affection. If he doesn't love this person, who would do this?

Anyone who takes a picture of a girl knows that the light is not good to retake, the angle is not good to retake, the pose is not good to retake, how troublesome it is, but her husband has experienced these time and time again, and she is satisfied with taking pictures of her. Photo.

Besides, their circle of friends is not shielded from each other. The other party can always see that they are showing off, and there will also be mutual friends who can see it, and there are many things to make fun of.

When meeting a lover who wants to show his affection no matter how big or small it is, the other person not only does not object, but provides romantic props and fights in cooperation. This is enough to see the love hidden in the heart of the lover who does not show off, so show it The conjugal love really exists when the conjugal love is in progress.

It's not that you must show your affection, but whether you show it or not, when you think of him, your heart will be warm, and there will be fragments of affection in your mind that can be shown, then you are really in love" Love".

You must take good care of the person who can gently watch you indulge and watch you show affection; and think about the person who makes you unable to show affection.

(End of this chapter)