90 days of cultivation temperament goddess

Chapter 26 The feelings of a little woman, a gentle woman makes a man's heart beat (2)
Known as the "Iron Lady", Margaret Thatcher, the first female prime minister in British history, would get up early every morning, as long as she was not busy with official duties, and make a delicious breakfast for her husband herself.

A new survey shows that the most important thing for successful German men to choose a partner is whether the other party knows how to cook.

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People depend on food, only the legendary fairies don't eat fireworks in the world. We are all mortals, and eating is naturally the top priority. Women who can't cook are indeed not something to be proud of. Women who can't cook Not a complete woman, knowing how to cook is one of the good qualities of women, and cooking reflects the inner qualities of a woman.Even if it's not to please men or the family, you should learn to reward yourself at the right time.

As a woman, we don't expect to be able to make tofu into "24 bridges with bright moon night" like Huang Rong, and it is impossible to go to the vegetable market to buy lamb sitting on the buttocks, pig's ears, calf Kidneys, deer legs and rabbit meat are used to cook a bowl of "Jade flute who listens to plum blossoms", but it must be excellent to learn to cook some home-cooked dishes and have a few reserved beauties.

Narcissistic woman always feels good
Grandmothers teach us that women who don't use perfume have no future, and mothers scare us that women who marry the wrong man have no future.To put it bluntly, this is all nonsense, only a woman who doesn't love herself has no future.

Not loving yourself is not being narcissistic.

Narcissism does not mean that rich women spend a lot of money to arm themselves with famous brands to the teeth, but a complex hidden deep in a woman's heart, an attitude of a woman who cares for herself.For example, women look in the mirror before going out to make their hair look tidy and to make themselves look energetic. This is a kind of narcissism.

For example, a woman sits in front of a dressing table, paints her eyebrows and draws her eyes, and takes a selfie in the mirror. This is also a kind of narcissism.

Also, some women walk with their heads held high and feel good about themselves, which is also a kind of narcissism.

Also, use your mobile phone to take a beautiful photo of yourself anytime, anywhere, and save every wonderful moment of yourself, which is also narcissism.

Furthermore, it is also a kind of narcissism to use words to record the bits and pieces in life, to record sad or bright moods.

Narcissism, it's that simple, it's so common, it's so popular.

Narcissistic women are sometimes ridiculed: Look, feeling good about yourself.

In fact, what's wrong with feeling good about yourself?
How boring it would be to live alone without even feeling good about yourself!

In fact, for women, there is nothing wrong with being narcissistic.Wang Xiaoya once broke the news in a CCTV talk show that she is actually a very low self-esteem person, and she can only affirm herself through narcissism.Maggie Cheung loves herself very much. She said that going to bed early and getting up early, eating regularly, and practicing healthy dancing are the magic weapons for her to keep in shape.

Narcissism is also self-love.A narcissistic woman usually knows how to care for and adjust her mood, like adding a few tea leaves to plain water, planting pleasing plants in the room to make the room full of vitality, and occasionally buying herself a bouquet of flowers to decorate the room romantically.When women are in a contented mood, they become gentle, understanding, and loving, just like the breeze in spring.

For women, narcissism is really wonderful in every way.

Narcissism can boost self-confidence.A narcissistic woman loves life and is full of vigor. They are full of enthusiasm, like a lightly flying rain butterfly or a flying kite. She has a graceful demeanor, amorous behavior, and an open soul. This kind of woman will be refreshed and get twice the result with half the effort when working together.

Narcissistic women always like to dress up.They have a passionate pursuit of beautiful moments, and hope that they can make people feel bright; beautiful women give people longing and fantasy.They are a beautiful landscape in the city, and the world becomes colorful, bright and fragrant because of many such women.

Another girl described that narcissism is a good habit that can bring happiness to women, and it allows a commoner woman to enjoy a prosperous life in advance.The girl's name is Yan.

In Yan's eyes, Shan is a very different kind of friend.Shan is a positive and cheerful woman, but she has a narcissistic habit.When she was in college, without a boyfriend, she kept researching what to say on a date, or what actions to take when encountering different situations; Also can't wait to shop for clothes to wear to interviews.

In the past, Yan often said that Shan was the most narcissistic person, but Shan's habit brought her many benefits.Recently, Yan has learned a lot from Shan.One day, Shan suddenly bought an interior decoration magazine that he didn't care about at ordinary times, and studied hard. "I want to move into a tidy apartment, but I don't know how to decorate it, so I want to learn about it in advance." Hearing Shan's words, Yan thought that Shan, who lived in a small apartment, had won the lottery, but after asking Only then did I know that there was only 20 yuan in savings in Shan's passbook, and she had never borrowed money from anyone.

Yan really couldn't figure it out, since she didn't have any money, why bother about decorating the house?What a vanity.

But less than a year later, Shan really moved into a high-end apartment.Although Shan did not increase her income this year, she used her savings and subsidies from her parents to move into the high-end apartment she had dreamed of.On the day when Shan moved to her new home, Yan looked at the newly renovated house and fell into deep thought, feeling ambivalence: Should I change the thoughts I thought were reasonable in the past? "Is it true that if you prepare in advance, you will be able to realize your ideal?"

In real life, we tend to overlook those seemingly insignificant opportunities.Although everyone knows this truth very well, they always doubt whether they can realize their future happiness.In order to strengthen her determination to pursue happiness, Shan's narcissism is needed.

But many people, like Yan, find it incredible when they see people who are planning for a rainy day. "What if you can't succeed? Why do you have to act so rashly? It's not too late to think about decoration when you have a house..."

People who can't dream will never be able to realize their dreams, but it is the spirit of narcissism that can bring us closer to our dreams and let us enjoy happiness in advance.According to this, narcissism is really a good habit that brings happiness to women!
However, a woman's narcissism must have a degree, just like the truth of being a human being.Too much narcissism is counterproductive and vulgar.

A smart narcissistic woman will not let narcissism become a disaster, she will wear modest clothes, make up natural, not coquettish; she keeps a clear head, she is confident but not self-righteous, and will not be overwhelmed by various praises Intoxicated and blissful; a smart narcissistic woman laughs at those who have evil intentions and schemes, and faces them calmly with a dignified and steady attitude; a smart narcissistic woman can rationally distinguish between various praises and criticisms, and laugh at herself from time to time... They are narcissistic, but they will never become narcissistic or arrogant.

During the day, for narcissistic women, it is a meter of sunshine, a cup of tea, and a document, and they are healthy and upward; at night, for them, they are a cup of coffee, a crescent moon, a piece of jazz, and a tulip, which haunt their hearts Beautiful knot... Look, the feeling of narcissism is so beautiful, hurry up and join our army of narcissists!

Be a little girl who knows how to meditate
I have always liked a word: gentle and calm, the years are quiet and good.Whenever I think of this sentence, it seems that such a woman appears in my mind: light makeup, likes to wear soft cotton clothes, sits quietly in a corner of the coffee shop, flips through a book that can warm the soul, and has a book in front of her. fruit tea.

The reason why this scene keeps appearing in my mind is because in my heart, I think quiet women are the most beautiful.

quiet and beautiful

Even if she doesn't have a graceful and gorgeous appearance, the temperament flowing between her brows will definitely be elegant and simple, giving people a very pleasant visual enjoyment.The most important thing is that this type of woman can make your impetuous heart appear calm and indifferent. Jike Junyi in "The Voice of China", which was broadcast in the summer of 2012, possesses such tranquility.When the media voted for her, among the 99 media in the audience, she got 97 votes, which was almost full, all because of her calming power.She does not have a white complexion, she is a girl in the mountains, but she has proved to everyone that a pure and peaceful heart is more convincing than a stunning appearance.

quiet inner happiness

I have always liked to be quiet, to read quietly, to write quietly, to listen to music quietly, to bask in the sun quietly, to do housework quietly, and to let my eyes and my hands gently flow over every item .Thinking about the rush of time, thinking about the turmoil in the world, and I enjoy the tranquility alone at this moment, I feel that it is a kind of great happiness, which does not require any material price.

Quiet: a state of mind

Some women seem to be quiet, but in fact they are shallow and impetuous.There was once a woman who attracted the attention of countless men, she was beautiful and quiet.One of her lovers told me that when she saw her for the first time, she was touched by a strange tranquility, her gestures exuded an aristocratic air, and her petite and exquisite figure satisfied the three-inch golden lotus style of Chinese men. aesthetic.She has a faint smile, long hair fluttering, and she doesn't speak much, she is as quiet as a Guanyin.From a distance and a close look, heavy makeup is always suitable.He fell in love with her hopelessly, unconditionally.He was obsessed with her pretty face and elegant temperament, however, he accidentally glimpsed her empty soul.She will spend thousands of dollars on a pair of expensive glasses, and will be delighted by the beautiful clothes.Her appearance is glamorous, but her mood fluctuates violently and she is sad and resentful; she often complains about the parents in the office, and is worried about trivial matters; she growled angrily because of one of his being late: "You didn't Put me in an important position!" Her world is full of sorrow, resentment and injustice, and the tranquility on the outside cannot conceal the impetuousness in her soul.After she left, he said: "That's fine, maybe, she really needs to be quiet, there is peace in heaven."

Therefore, the tranquility I worship is not formal tranquility, but inner tranquility.

Quiet: a different kind of beauty

A truly quiet woman does not need gorgeous clothes or expensive food, but only needs to wear cloth shoes and clothes, and she becomes a landscape;
A truly quiet woman who knows what she needs, does not compare, and is at ease;

A truly quiet woman, without any scheming, no short words from her parents, calm and peaceful, law-abiding;
A truly quiet woman, gentle, tolerant, tolerant, understanding, and true love will always make people feel like spring breeze.

In short, the tranquility of a woman is a restrained return to the heart, a kind of artistic beauty, a kind of religious beauty, and a kind of human beauty.Cheering in the stadium, reading at night with the lamp on, trekking in the journey, flowing in the music, the body can be quiet when the body is moving.Hang a picture in the room, soak a bouquet of calla lilies, turn on the stereo, dance gently, and dance with the song. At this moment, the world stops and listens, which belongs to the quiet beauty of women.

In this life, I only wish:
Be a woman who cultivates with peace of mind—neither envious nor jealous, neither frightened nor disturbed, neither sad nor bitter, how good it is to practice this way!
Romantic woman is the god of love

I have always believed that women who understand romance are the most interesting women, and women who understand romance are the best among women.

(End of this chapter)