Say goodbye to you before the wedding

Chapter 8 I want to go to the deepest place in the clouds to see you (2)
Women should have their own careers, even if they are small, but they should take care of them carefully, which is what they like.Don't rely too much on men, but you can't be stronger than men, have your own social value, your own circle of friends, and maintain independent thinking.

A person who loves himself knows your little thoughts, tolerates your little temper, corrects your little problems tactfully, goes shopping with you, chats with you, holds you in his arms when you cry, confesses and apologizes when you do something wrong, Do not lie or hide.When I quarrel with you, no matter right or wrong, I will make you happy immediately, no matter sooner or later, I will always miss you.I like to eat the food you cook, I like the clothes you buy, I like to give you little surprises at any time, enough is enough, too much.

A warm little home.The key words are one, warmth, small home.You can live with your relatives and take care of each other.The warmth is because of love, there is no blood relationship, but they really love each other.Small, big, what does it matter.

A yard where you can plant flowers and raise grass, and there are reclining chairs where you can spend tea, chat, and read with your lover and parents in the afternoon.Tell stories to children and chat with friends.At the end of the day's work, I quietly watched the sunset in a daze.Plant each other's favorite flowers, Chlorophytum, Bamboo, Pansies, and Tuberose.Gardenias, roses, etc., are so colorful that the eyes are full of colors, and the scenery that cannot be seen in Beijing in winter can be seen at a glance.

A lovely child, obedient, sensible, caring, mischievous and dreamy.In fact, parents are the best teachers for children.What do you want him to be, first of all what you want to do yourself.Respect him, care for him, but don't spoil him, and distinguish between good and evil, beauty and ugliness, rich and poor.Let him receive the education that suits him, don't interfere and don't impose, and give him what we regret not getting from our parents.

A weekend with family and friends.Enjoy family, friendship, love.Integrate into each other's circle of friends, like them, and help them.Always remind yourself to be grateful.

Let your time be regular, sometimes relaxed and sometimes tense.Sometimes quiet and sometimes unrestrained.

Such a day will be the most perfect life in my heart.But isn't that too greedy?

I put this text on my qq space.

When there is no hope in life, when the night is quiet, when there are small achievements at work, when parents are nagging, when you are lonely and helpless, you will always look forward to it, maybe it will happen, maybe it will come true, maybe soon, maybe for a long time , at least thought about, at least dreamed about the future.

Xia Qiusheng visited in a certain late-night space Additional comments: I agree with the second item, do you want to think about it?

I replied with one: what to consider?
It was early in the morning.When he called, his voice was steady and calm.

He said: "I asked many people around me, and I think this is the answer I want most. I am glad that it is the answer you gave, but I am sad. Why is it the answer you gave? Why is the sense of cognition of life so consistent? ?”

"How did I know you thought so too."

"I didn't expect that the silly elder sister could write such clear words and have such a beautiful yearning for the future. She is obviously not stupid. If I try my best to give you the life you want, can I be that person?"

"Which one?"

"That's right, that's right, I'm going to form a small family with you, give you a yard with flowers and plants, and make a cute child, the person who will accompany you to get together with relatives and friends on weekends."

"Wait a minute, are you sure you didn't drink?"

"I'm on the night shift at work, what kind of wine do I drink?"

"Wait a little longer, I'll check the calendar, no, today is not April Fool's Day."

"Okay, you won. It's getting late, go to bed, and think about it when you wake up."

"Ah? Hello..." Before I could finish speaking, he couldn't wait to hang up the phone.

I am alone facing the pale ceiling, the mess after the galloping horses.

The WeChat message received by Xiaoxiazi the next day was an inexplicable lyrics: Unforgettable, love is a last resort.At that moment, I burst into tears, feeling sad for no reason.Was he trying to express his emotions in such a cryptic way?
On weekends, I slept until two o'clock in the afternoon, got up to change clothes, wanted to find someone to go shopping, Susu popped up in my mind, gave up decisively, and finally decided to ask Xiao Ya.

The chick who grew up in Chenghuang's root is squeamish, and a hundred people don't like it.It's a cold day, so I have to stay at home.In the end, they cheered happily by introducing the handsome guy as a bait, and rushed to the appointment.

The subway on weekends is crowded with people, and there are always crowds.People's hurried footsteps do not allow you to stay for one more second.The heating in the subway is very good, wrapped in a coat and huddled in the crowd, with thin beads of sweat on his forehead.

After rushing to Xidan, Xiao Ya had already managed two cups of milk tea, one hamburger and N chicken wings at KFC in Joy City.Rolling up his sleeves, he was working on a box of French fries.

"Duck, what are you doing?" I looked at the debris on the table and asked in confusion.

She turned around and looked behind me nervously, but she didn't find anyone, so she breathed a sigh of relief.

"Don't you want to meet a handsome guy? I'm full now. I can't eat so much on a date. Don't you look more ladylike?" She asked me, blinking her flickering false eyelashes.

I slapped my forehead, it's over, the handsome guy is just an excuse, what should I do.The little nymphomaniac took it seriously.

Xiao Ya stood up from her seat, and I realized that this chick really came here for a blind date today.The oval face with the logo is slightly powdered, and the Semir casual down jacket is paired with Ayilian’s pink princess dress. I don’t know if the small face is frozen or blush, flushed, and the small cherry mouth is pouting, extremely cute.

But where can I make her a handsome guy today?I decided to stall for time.

"Duck, let me ask you first, do you really have no boyfriend?"

"Heaven and earth can learn from each other. If I have it, why do I still hide it?"

"What do you like?"

"Profound vicissitudes, humor, wisdom and optimism, it is best to have a house, a car, savings and a stable job."

"Duck duck, you are too demanding, Google it, I'm afraid the result may be Zhuge Kongming, a military strategist, playing chess in the bank."

"Who said that... the uncle last time is very suitable." He rubbed the scarf and looked at me shyly.

"Oh, it turned out to be specific. Damn it, my sister didn't understand what you meant. It depends on your performance."

I figured it out in my heart, Xiao Ya's thoughts are clear at a glance, but Liu Yu doesn't think so, I have tried it several times, and I am not interested in post-90s at all.It's a good thing to shave your hair and pick your head, so you have to use shopping to procrastinate for a while.

The good weekend was almost wasted, the hour hand was already pointing to 16 o'clock, so I didn't say much, I took the time to sweep the shopping malls, I was so tired that my back hurt and my legs cramped, and I actually found a few clothes I was satisfied with, and the price was a bit low It's expensive, and it costs a full month's salary, but go all out and treat yourself well.In the accessories section, he also bought a pair of rabbit fur gloves for Xiao Ya.

"It's getting dark, where's uncle?" Xiao Ya asked persistently when the sightseeing elevator reached the first floor of the shopping mall.

"Oh, I almost forgot. Let me ask you."

I pretended to flip through the phone address book.Finally, Liu Yu's phone was found to lock the target.

Liu Yu, the rivers and lakes are in an emergency, let me save face.

After sending the text message, I took a deep breath but didn't know how to let it out. If Liu Yu made it clear today, what if I hurt Xiao Ya.I'm waiting for him to read the text message and make a call when it's appropriate.

Liu Yu's phone call came first, and I told Xiao Ya ostentatiously, "Look, uncle is in a hurry."

"What's wrong? What's wrong? Where are you?" One question after another, still panting.

"It's okay. I bought a lot of things in Xidan and I can't carry them. You come over to have a meal and chat with each other. You must come. There is a beautiful woman to introduce you."

"Is there a beautiful woman? Or introduced it to me? You're not kidding."

"You come to Xidan first, hurry up, drive carefully during rush hour."

"Let me sum up the main points: Shall I go to Xidan to treat you to dinner, and then help you deliver the goods home?"

Liu Yu, Liu Yu, can you die if you pretend to be stupid once?

Xiao Ya and I picked a good-looking Korean restaurant and waited for him while drinking fragrant barley tea.

Keeping his eyes on the elevator facing the window, he said to Xiao Ya: "If he says something ugly, don't be disappointed, the main reason is that he is afraid of having a generation gap with the post-90s generation."

"Forget it, Professor Yang Zhenning is 5 or 60 years younger than Weng Fan. He is not very happy. He is only 10 years older than me. Even if there is a generation gap, I am willing to be led into it by him. "Tch, you little nympho.

"You don't lack fatherly love, do you?"

"My parents are still alive and very loving, thank you." After finishing speaking, I gave me a look.

But as soon as Liu Yu got out of the elevator, I felt relieved. This guy just came back from the demolition site. He is wearing a gray-blue mother brand thick-knit turtleneck sweater, casual black slacks, and waving his arms in a dishonest manner. down jacket.This equipment is not as good as the head waiter holding the walkie-talkie at the entrance of the restaurant.

He asked the foreman where table 12 was and walked over.

When I got closer, I saw some duck down still stuck to the sweater, and when I got closer, I didn't even shaved the stubble on my chin.Scruffy and out of character, I don't want to claim to know this guy at all.

"Li Xiao, please have a big meal. It's a waste of money."

I had to withdraw my gaze from pretending to read the menu.

I glared at him fiercely, touched Xiao Ya and said, "Come on, the guest has arrived. Let me solemnly introduce you to each other again..."

"Ahem, I'm here." Liu Yu cleared his throat and said, "I'm Li Xiao's best friend's ex-boyfriend Liu Yu, and you are her colleague and beautiful sister Xiao Ya, right? Today, we will officially meet and continue to call you uncle. "

Xiao Ya stared blankly at him and muttered: "Maybe the light was too dark during the ktv, so I didn't realize you are so handsome, uncle. You look like Lin Zhiying, your temperament is like Zhong Hanliang, and your hairstyle is like Deng Chao."

Then he stared at Liu Yu's rogue face for a few seconds, and the reaction was surprisingly enthusiastic. He stood up and danced, "Hello, uncle, you can call me Duck."

Liu Yu is also quite polite: "Hello Yaya. Li Xiao is too outrageous, and he didn't formally inform me that there is a beautiful woman in advance. If I knew it was like this, I would clean up and dress up. Today's outfit is too casual, it is really inappropriate .He's an uncle level person, usually, he doesn't pay much attention to it."

Nima, how ugly I am, I'm not up to the grade, it's not worth your grooming to ask you out for dinner.

"Where is it, uncle, do you know that I like the nostalgic version, which has a bit of literary and youthful flavor. I can hear it, you are also from Beijing, where do you live?"

"Xiajia Hutong. What about you?"

"Gap at Xinjiekou."

"Not far, not far."

The two chatted from the geographical location to the family name, and then to the history of Beijing, and finally found that the elementary school graduated from the same school.It's just that Liu Yu graduated 8 years earlier. 8 years, well, the War of Resistance is over.

"I would have known that I would repeat a few more years in elementary school, and wait for you to graduate. Then we will go to middle school and college together, what a childhood sweetheart."

Xiao Ya was deeply attracted by his blind talk today.It seems that Liu Yu is in a good mood today, and his scar is also quite sharp.

My task is to play the role of a foodie, to set off Xiao Ya's nobility and elegance.The happier Liu Yu was, I signaled the waiter to bring the order and add a more expensive dish.

The guy finally couldn't bear it any longer, grabbed the menu, and said angrily, "You also want to show others what you want to eat?"

"I usually don't eat at night, because I'm trying to lose weight recently." Xiao Ya's KFC meal in the afternoon was really worth it, she said hypocritically.

Liu Yu frowned, looked around, and commented: "Your figure is very good, you don't need to lose weight, the fat distribution is in place, and you are growing where you should be."

With oily hands, I carried the miso shrimp soup and almost didn't spit it out.

Xiao Ya also smiled embarrassedly.

While I was feasting, I saw Xiao Ya swallow her saliva several times, but in order to pretend to be a lady, I ate a few mouthfuls of kimchi and some radish sticks with barley tea.Laughing wildly in my heart.

The meal ended perfectly in their happy banter.

Liu Yu drove us off in his Chevrolet, Xiao Ya's house who arrived first, and before the girl got off the car, the two of them left all the contact methods they could, including mobile phone number, QQ, WeChat, Weibo, email, and MSN.I dozed off when I was full of soup and food.Liu Yu hummed cheerful songs along the way.

After all, eating people's mouths are soft, so I can't interrupt them.I fell asleep in the back row accompanied by an out-of-key song, and was woken up downstairs. I rubbed my sleepy eyes and said to Liu Yu, "How is it, this girl today?"

I thought he wanted to thank my eight generations of ancestors for helping him find people who were suspected of carrying on the family line.Unexpectedly, he cursed my ancestors.

"Your grandma's, what is your intention? Your uncle's, I can't figure it out. They say that the fat and water don't flow to outsiders' fields, so you can't wait to push such an excellent variety like me out?"

"Didn't you two have a good chat? You are both from Beijing, there is no geographical difference, and you are very well matched. It will be convenient for you to meet relatives in the future."

"But I really don't like this one. We've known each other for so long, do you think it's my dish? It's so annoying."

"Are you talking about who is your dish?"

"Mature and stable, exuding intellectual beauty. Well, I don't mind being charming."

"I hear what you mean, Susu is the one you are talking about. Come, come, come, let me ask you, men are willing to bow down under her pomegranate skirt for nothing!" I suppressed my anger and asked through gritted teeth.

While starting the car, Liu Yu muttered: "I'm going to poke a hornet's nest! Auntie, please go back and rest first, and make an appointment another day."

The sixth betrothal gift
The next day, the high fever did not subside, maybe it was because of the cold when I went shopping, and when I became confused, I started talking nonsense. Qingfeng asked for leave to accompany me, made porridge and stewed soup every day, asked my health, walked downstairs with me, and went shopping. Those few days were in a trance , It makes me feel that if we get married, this is our married life, it is long and delicate, and it will be bumpy.

If I had known this kind of treatment, I would rather have been sick or even disabled. I finally understood that what Qingfeng likes is a small bird, and I am sensitive and strong.

A few days after recovering from the illness, Qingfeng's mother came to Beijing to formally discuss our marriage.

"Auntie, my parents shouldn't object. I'm also an adult and can make my own decisions."

"Well, girl, Auntie told you, I will marry you in according to the rules of our hometown. I brought the gift of 1 yuan, and you can let your parents come to Beijing too No, let's meet with my relatives."

"Auntie, how much?"

When I asked, I looked up and asked Qingfeng.Qingfeng hurriedly explained: "The rule in our hometown is 1 dowry, so it's natural for good people to give more. Xiaoxiao, let's go through the motions."

"Well, auntie, we are all a family. Let me tell you straight, I definitely want to live a good life when I am with Qingfeng. I don't need a bride price. But with my parents, I am a little... because our hometown's bride price is basically 6 yuan. , 8, a better 10 or so..."

"Ah, our family married a daughter-in-law according to our family's rules. Qingfeng's younger brother got 1 dowry gifts when he got married the year before last. Of course, it can be raised a little bit. The price of pork has risen. The year before last was 15 yuan, and now it has risen to 18.5 a catty. Just 1 Just in case, it means one in a million, we are poor in the countryside, our family's level is already considered good, and Qingfeng bought a house in the city, you are considered to be enjoying yourself."

"Auntie, you are right. Do you think this will work? The family will take 4 yuan, and I will make up 5 yuan for the rest, and make up [-] yuan. My parents are only a girl, and I just..."

"Girl, where does this make Auntie face? How can I get you money? I understand what you mean. I'll go back and discuss it with your uncle."

The desolation in the old man's words made me feel sad.He was silent during the meal, and then was picked up by Qingfeng's sister.

I started to clean up the dishes.

Qingfeng lifted the stool and sat beside me and asked solemnly: "Xiaoxiao will wash the dishes later, let me ask you, do you love me?"

"Love. But in the face of reality, is love alone enough? Shouldn't we face both parents?"

"You are not only sensitive, but also vain! You have broken the old man's heart."

(End of this chapter)