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Chapter 153

Chapter 15 Section 11 Something that Han Haoniao disagrees with?

Today's affairs need to be completed today. ? ?

One rainy night, a monkey and a trumpet bird were complaining about the cold weather together under a big tree. "Cough! Cough!" Finally the monkey coughed from the cold.The Han Haoniao was also so cold that it kept screaming. ?
When they were drenched and shivering from the cold, they agreed that they could never live like this again, so they decided to cut trees at dawn and build a warm shelter with the bark. ?
In the early morning of the next day, when the orange sun rose in the sky and the golden sunlight shone on the earth, the monkey enjoyed the warmth of the sun to its fullest, and the frigid bird also stood on the branch to bask in the sun.Monkey asked Han Haoniao: "Hi! My friend, how are you feeling now?" "Aha, it couldn't be better!"?
"Should we build a shed now?" asked the monkey. ?
"Brother, do you think it's better to chop down trees with knives and axes, or sleep well in the warm sunshine?" Han Haoniao said lazily, "Besides, the ones who use knives and axes, touch What should I do to myself?"?
"Okay then, the shed can be built tomorrow!" The monkey readily agreed. ?
They rejoice all day in the warm sunshine.The weather was unpredictable, and in the evening, it rained again, and they hid together under the big tree together.

"Cough! Cough!" The monkey coughed again. ?
The frigid bird was also yelling from the cold. ?
They made up their minds again: tomorrow morning, they will cut trees and build a warm shed. ?
However, early the next morning, the orange-red sun rose from the east again, and the earth was once again covered with golden light.The monkey was so happy that he quickly climbed to the top of the tree to enjoy the warmth of the sun.The Han Haoniao also stood motionless on the branch basking in the sun. ?
The monkey remembered what he said last night, but Han Haoniao didn't agree with anything: "Why waste such precious time, save the shed until tomorrow!"?
This scenario has been repeated.So far, nothing has changed. ?
Mind walk?

There is no habit more harmful than procrastination. Procrastination is the evil that devours success.Fate is often strange, and good opportunities are often fleeting.Procrastination is a "thief" of time, costing lives for no reason.The most effective way to overcome procrastination is to cheer up and act now.Only by acting now can we save ourselves from the bad habit of procrastination. ?
Someone who thinks in someone else's head?

People, in the end, still have to walk independently in this world. ? ?

Bruce raised 100 geese, and one day, 20 of them died.So he ran to the pastor and asked him how to herd geese. ?
The pastor listened intently to Bruce's narration and asked, "When did you herd?"?
"morning."?
"Oops! It's just an unfavorable hour for grazing in the afternoon!"?
Bruce thanked the pastor for his advice and went home happily.Three days later, he ran to the pastor. ?
"Pastor, I've killed another 20 geese."?
"Where did you graze?"?
"The right bank of the creek."?
"Oops, wrong! Going to graze on the left bank."?
"Thank you so much for helping me, pastor, God bless you."?
Three days later, Bruce came to the pastor again. ?
"Pastor, another 20 geese died yesterday."?
"No way, my boy. What did you feed them?"?
"Feed corn kernels."?
The pastor thought for a long time, and began to express his opinion: "You did something wrong. You should grind the corn and feed it to the geese."?
"Thank you so much - Pastor. God will reward you for your counsel."?
On the third day, Bruce knocked on the pastor's door, a little unhappy but hopeful. ?
"Well, what's the new problem, my boy?" asked the pastor triumphantly. ?
"Another 20 geese died last night."?
"It's okay, just be confident and come to me often. Tell me, where does your goose drink water?"?
"In that creek, of course."?
"It's a big mistake, and the mistakes are added to the mistakes! You can't let them drink the river water, but give them the well water, so that it will be effective."?
"Thank you, Pastor. Your wisdom always saves your people."?
...?
The priest was buried in a thick old book when Bruce entered through the open door. ?
"Greetings, Pastor," Bruce said with great respect. ?
"God called you to me. See, even now I worry about your goose."?
"Another 20 geese died, Reverend. Now I have no more geese."?
The pastor was silent for a long time.After thinking for a long time, he sighed: "I still have a few pieces of advice that I haven't told you, what a pity!"?
Mind walk?

Harvard psychology professor Henry?Jameson said: "If a person cannot stand on his own, he will always be at the feet of others. There is no doubt that he will never be successful." This makes sense.Dependence makes people lose their sense of autonomy, self-confidence, self-reliance, and self-improvement. Therefore, we must refrain from dependence and cultivate a sense of self-reliance.In life, you will encounter all kinds of things. Don't ask others for advice when you have no ideas, but learn to think independently.Remember: your head is for thinking, not for wearing a hat. ?
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