The Psychology of Microexpressions: Psychological Strategies in Relationships

Chapter 11 Knowing the Secret Behind Personality—Psychological Strategies on Hobbies and Interests

Chapter 11 Knowing the Secret Behind Personality—Psychological Strategies on Hobbies and Interests (1)
Even if you don't know anything about psychology, you'll understand that the weekender and the moviegoer are two entirely different worlds.Therefore, when several people get together to talk about hobbies, their personalities are already fully revealed.At this time, you might as well be a "listener" and listen to their inner voice, so as to analyze their way of life.

Identify each other's temperament from their liking for wine

We should not underestimate the glass of wine on the wine table. Apart from the real wine, it also contains too much meaning. A person's character, character, and accomplishment are all contained in it, and it is worth tasting carefully.You must know that winning or losing at the wine table does not depend on how much each person drinks, but on whether a person can "taste", because "tasting wine" is actually "tasting people"!
As we all know, wine has become an indispensable "tool" in today's social occasions, and many conversations are done on the wine table.Drinking has become a way for people to communicate their feelings and solve problems.However, everyone has different preferences for wine, some like strong white wine, some like beer, and some have a special liking for foreign wine...From a person's preferences for wine, we can also glimpse his heart The world, understand his character, character.

people who like liquor
Many people who like to drink always feel that beer is not strong enough, and prefer strong liquor.Such people have a strong character, like strong liquor, but they are impulsive, so they often fail, but if they succeed, it will be a great achievement.They are very social and very generous.However, they are very concerned about what others think of them. Sometimes, in order to cover up their shortcomings, they will try their best to flatter themselves. In order to prove their strength in front of people, once entrusted by others, they will not refuse. It's something they can't do, even so, they will readily agree to each other, a typical slap in the face to pretend to be fat.In the workplace, such people are deeply loved by their subordinates because they take good care of them, but it is difficult for them to be favored by their leaders.

beer lover
A survey by the American Social Survey Institute shows that drinking beer shows that people want to feel relaxed and happy, and are eager to be released from a depressed environment.

A man who drinks beer with people shows that he is usually expressing his most primitive and natural self.If in the process of drinking, he persuades a woman in the same company to drink, it shows that he hopes that the other party has the same mood as himself, and hopes that others have the same feeling as himself, and this feeling is expressed through beer.Of course, this can also show that his heart is eager to start a more pleasant conversation.This kind of person is a safe type who is neither artificial nor vain.

If in the process of communication, you find that a man pays great attention to the brand of beer when drinking, and must drink the brand of beer he specifies, such a person is worthy of your vigilance.Because different brands of beer have almost the same taste, and the "good brand" he thinks is just his psychological effect.

A man who likes foreign beer brands is very individual in character.If you find out that a certain man likes German beer in your relationship, it is mostly for the purpose of expressing to the women present that he is different from ordinary men through his love of foreign beer.If it is a man who likes dark beer, this kind of person usually has a yearning for a strong body.Of course, there are still some people who like to show off in social situations, thinking that drinking foreign wine is a sign of taste and knowledge. In fact, most of these people are hypocrites with hollow stomachs.

Generally speaking, people who like to drink beer generally have a spirit of service, love to please others, can talk to anyone, are easy to get the favor of others, and have strong social skills.

cocktail lover

Cocktails come in different flavors, and those who like slightly sweet cocktails tend to be bold.Usually, such people drink for the atmosphere, not for the sake of drinking.They crave good communication and conversation with friends, especially with women; there are also some who like slightly spicy cocktails, and if it is a man, he is a very manly person.This kind of person is aggressive at work, can give full play to his personality and advantages, is trustworthy, and is the boss's right-hand man.At the same time, he has a sense of responsibility, has a decent manner, can take on great responsibilities at work, and has a leadership style; there are also some people who have a soft spot for sweet cocktails. As a pastime, as a way to relax and stabilize each other's emotions.

champagne lover

People who like to drink champagne usually have a picky personality, are not satisfied with the status quo, pursue gorgeousness and nobility, and give people a feeling that they are difficult to get close to. Even as ordinary friends, getting along with such people requires certain qualifications and accomplishments .In addition, such people will have high requirements for the opposite sex.

wine lover

In communication, more and more people choose wine instead of liquor and beer.

People who like red wine are usually realists, starting from the reality of everything, focusing on the present, obsessed with money and power.If you are a man, relatively speaking, he is a steady and practical man who lacks romantic feelings.

People who like white wine are obsessed with their ideals, and they can pursue their dreams desperately.But this kind of person is often informal, and it is he who often ignores the details, which leads to the loss of some opportunities.This type of man is more specific in dealing with feelings and is a good partner for female friends.Therefore, if you are a lady who is about to get married and you meet a man who likes white wine in your communication, you may wish to pay attention to it, and when the time is right, you can secretly send "eyes"!
People who like pink wine, if they are men, can be said to be a typical "love saint", a master of love.Such people know how to create a romantic atmosphere, use flowers and sweet words to please women, and make them so moved that they fall into their arms.

whiskey lover

Whiskey is dry and spicy, very masculine. Generally, men who like this kind of wine have strong adaptability, can fully adopt other people's opinions, have a strong desire to stand out, and know how to seize every opportunity to win the approval of their superiors.In terms of career, most of these people will do something.When they interact with women, they will behave like gentlemen, pay attention to etiquette, and leave a perfect impression on each other.

Peeping into People's Personality from Travel Preferences
The weekend is here, and traveling has become the most common form of leisure for people.Some people choose to go on outdoor adventures, some people go to the seaside to view the scenery, and some people go to leisure clubs for vacation... Different people will adopt different travel methods.In other words, we can see a person's character traits through these travel methods.

Tourism has become an indispensable way of relaxation and leisure in the current society, but different types of people will choose different tourist attractions.

beach lovers
Such people are usually more traditional and conservative, and their personality is more lonely.In their hearts, they like to live the life of living alone.Because they are indifferent to others, they don't have many friends.But they will be a very amiable father or mother, because they put all their thoughts on their children.

those who enjoy the scenery
Such people are usually energetic and fond of fantasy, and they will feel excited about any new things or new experiences in life.They hate that kind of dull, boring work and life, and they don't like being confined to the noisy room.

people who like mountaineering
People who like climbing are usually introverted.They like a challenge, with the goal of conquering the sparsely populated and steep peaks.Although they often challenge the mountains, they don't take it as a kind of enjoyment and relaxation, but conquer them with a sincere attitude to achieve inner satisfaction.

People who like to visit relatives and friends in various places

Such people are usually pragmatic and more down-to-earth.In addition, they are more loyal, which is the biggest motivation for them to do anything.

people who like camping
Such people are usually more traditional and are supporters of traditional ideas.They have high moral standards and have very high demands on themselves and others.In addition, they are independent and have very strong creativity.In terms of doing things, they are more objective and pay attention to seeking truth from facts.

people who like to travel abroad
Such people usually like to follow trends and fashions, and hope that life can be colorful and free.In addition, they know humor and are the kind of optimistic and cheerful people who are not easily overwhelmed by the burdens of life.

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