The Psychology of Microexpressions: Psychological Strategies in Relationships

Chapter 3 Unpacking the Colorful Mind Package—Psychological Hints of Dressing (2)
I like to wear T-shirts with my name on them

Most of this kind of people are more open-minded and avant-garde, and they are easy to accept some new things and are more self-centered.They advocate fashion, and hold an attitude of repulsion to some outdated and pedantic concepts, and even sneer at them.It is precisely because of their avant-garde and open thinking that they have earned themselves good popularity and very good interpersonal relationships.In addition, such people have strong self-confidence, flexible minds, and can adapt to situations. In different situations, even very difficult things, they can find a way to deal with them and handle the problem satisfactorily.

I like to wear T-shirts with pictures of celebrities

Most of these people have an immature side in their bones, most of them are teenage star-chasers, they are obsessed with unlimited worship of their idols, and take them as their goals in life, hoping that one day they can be as popular as them, I can live the same life as them, and I am happy to express my desire to those around me.

Like to wear T-shirts with a humorous slogan

The characters of these people, like their clothes, have a certain sense of humor, and always give people a sense of intelligence and wisdom.In addition, this kind of person also has a strong desire to express, hoping to attract the attention of others in his own way.

Prefers to wear t-shirts with school name or big business logo on it

This type of people, from a certain point of view, loves their group very much, has a deep relationship with their school or company, and hopes to let others know their identity through this method.Of course, being an extremely ordinary wage earner in an unknown company would not do this.Therefore, people who like to do this can also convey a message of publicity and self-confidence to others, and they are full of confidence in themselves and their group, hoping to attract the attention of others and attract some like-minded people in this way.

Like to wear T-shirts with famous places on them

People of this type are mostly extroverted, like to travel, and also have a strong ability to accept new things.Moreover, this type of person has a certain spirit of adventure, has a strong desire for self-expression, and always hopes to convey everything he knows to others.

Shoes: the medium to convey the voice
Some people say that to see a person's disposition and taste, one must first look at his shoes.It can be seen that shoes are no longer purely used to protect the feet, but a product that can better tell a person's character and mind.Observe yourself or the people around you, what kind of shoes do they like to wear?

When we observe a person, we first observe his appearance, and then observe his clothing.But we rarely observe a person's shoes, because it is close to the ground, and we have to lower our heads to observe it, which is very troublesome.

In fact, shoes can also reveal a person's disposition and character. In the fairy tale "Cinderella", the prince found Cinderella through the crystal shoe.Among British women, there is a new way of choosing a spouse. They can determine whether the other party is the prince charming in their minds just by looking at the other party, and all this is determined by observing the other party's shoes.Therefore, we can determine his temperament and character through the other person's shoes.

Looking at a man's character through shoes can start from the following aspects.

man wearing sneakers

Most of these men are positive and optimistic, and they are kind and natural.They like freedom and don't want to get along with those scheming people.However, their life rules are not strong, more casual.

Men who like to wear orthodox black leather shoes

These men are usually very traditional, they have a fulfilling family life and are very friendly with their friends.In addition, they stick to their principles and rarely change for others.If this man still wears orthodox black leather shoes when he is on vacation or on a date, he is likely to have machismo tendencies. Even if he loves a woman very much, he will not change his principles because of her.But they value their mother's opinion very much, and maybe the only person who can change him is his mother.

man who likes to wear casual shoes

This kind of man is humorous, gentle, and pays great attention to leisure life. He is a man of great taste.They have a very strong subjective consciousness and have very high demands on themselves, and they can be described as "picky" when dealing with the opposite sex.In addition, they like to take the initiative in everything they do, and they often have preconceived ideas, so first impressions are very important when interacting with them.

man who likes to wear short boots
Such men are emotionally fragile and lack self-confidence.They take "gains and losses" very seriously, and sometimes they do rebellious things or show disdainful attitudes, but they don't think so in their hearts.They are very security conscious and know how to hide themselves well.

Looking at a woman's character through shoes can start from the following aspects.

woman who likes to wear high heels

This kind of woman is usually mature, generous and intelligent.When interacting with others, they are more frank and usually do not deliberately make things difficult for others.In terms of dealing with life and work, they have very high demands on others and themselves, and will go all out to devote themselves.But they want too many things, so they occasionally feel bad because they don't have enough.

woman who likes to wear boots
This type of woman has an independent personality, likes freedom, and does not want to be restrained.Generally speaking, such women are either smart and capable, or have outstanding looks. Therefore, they have the courage to express themselves and are easy to become the object of men's pursuit.However, although this type of women seems easy to get close to, if you really want to win their hearts, you must have real talents and practical knowledge.

woman who likes to wear casual shoes

This type of women is very vigilant and knows how to protect themselves. It is difficult for ordinary people to see through their minds.Their appearance makes people feel very strong, but their hearts are very fragile.In terms of love, it is easy for them to mingle with men, but for the one they really like, they will stay away and keep a certain distance.

Tie: "lead" out a man's personality

A tie is a man's concept and style, and it is also one of the ways for a man to show his personality.Conservative personality, avant-garde personality, authoritative personality, silent personality, serious personality... We can all quickly comprehend these from the ties worn by men.

Ties originated in Europe, and there is a very humorous legend, it is said that the tie was invented by a woman.Because they were very troubled by the grease stains on their clothes when their husbands ate, they hung a piece of cloth on their chests and wiped their mouths when they needed to.This method is very practical.Later, after a makeover, this "dinner cloth" has become the current tie, and is sought after by men all over the world.

Because men will also add their own emotional factors when choosing a tie, so we can see a man's character and true colors from the tie.

The famous American designer Morley once said: "Whether you like it or not, a tie can make people judge more than any part of your body-your credibility, personality and ability."

The man who loves striped ties

Such men are generally cautious, honest and conservative, and attach great importance to their own principles.At work, they are knowledgeable, down-to-earth and hard-working, and it is easy to make some achievements.It is precisely because of this way of life that they can easily gain the trust of others and make many friends.However, such people are usually less adventurous and sometimes very stubborn.

The man who loves large floral ties
This type of man has a cheerful personality, likes to pursue new things, and is very curious.They are the kind of men who can play and know how to create an atmosphere on a date or a banquet.However, they often feel that their desires cannot be satisfied and have a negative side, such as wavering in the pursuit of money and work, which makes them deeply tortured.In addition, this kind of person is not suitable for business.

The man who loves beaded ties

This type of man is very stable, but also has a romantic temperament, giving people a slender and elegant feeling.They love to take care of their family and friends, being gentle and considerate to them.In addition, this type of man is very confident in himself and has superb judgment skills.However, when doing business, they are not good at ordering others, and sometimes let themselves suffer losses.

man who likes designer ties

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