The Psychology of Microexpressions: Psychological Strategies in Relationships

Chapter 2 Unpacking the Colorful Mind Package—Psychological Hints of Dressing (1)
I don’t know if you’ve noticed that everyone around you, no matter you know them or you don’t know them, some of them are dressed in weird clothes, some are traditional and old-fashioned, and some are fashionable... Therefore, they also give people the same feeling. very different.Some people look lively and cheerful, some people look calm and stable, and some people look dull... What is the mystery of making people feel this way?This chapter will reveal it for you!
Clothing: the reflection of thought and taste
Many people believe that people should not be judged by their appearance.Indeed, the practice of "watching people order dishes" is not advisable in daily communication. However, when you meet for the first time, people cannot see the light of your inner thoughts at a glance, but your clothes often give people an impression. Make a very important first impression.

Throughout the ages, clothing has always been a symbol of national culture, and it represents national customs.But clothing is not only national, but also personal. A person's clothing is a postcard of a person's inner cultural accomplishment, aesthetic taste, temperament and identity.Therefore, on different occasions, if a person dresses appropriately and moderately, he can always leave a good impression on others, but if he dresses improperly, his personal taste will be lowered.A presidential etiquette consultant in the United States once said: "When you appear in front of others, even if they don't know you, they can see your economic status, education level, and trustworthiness from your clothing appearance." , social status, maturity, family economic status, etc.

Clothes play a very important role in our lives. It is an important part of the "silent language". Its visible colors and styles silently convey the owner's inner information.Therefore, some people describe it as "the carrier of information" or "the hint of information".Therefore, clothing can provide people with clues about self, role, status and personality.In other words, clothing has a suggestive effect and is a reflection of a person's thoughts and tastes.

People who like to wear stylish and individual clothing

This kind of person tends to have more personality, and usually doesn't care about other people's visions and opinions, and even scoffs at other people's accusations.People who like this kind of dress are more common in young people.

people who like to wear nice suits
This kind of person pays great attention to their appearance, and often has a deep city mansion, hoping to leave a good impression on others through their own dress.Of course, their efforts will not be in vain.Such people tend to give people the impression that they are capable, assertive, and very responsible.

People who like cute dresses
People who like this kind of dress often give people a feeling of foreign style, which makes people feel refreshed.However, psychologically, such people are more eager to get the understanding, care and help of others.Most of these people pay great attention to physical maintenance and their own health.

People who choose clothes according to their preferences
People who like this way of dressing are completely different factions from those who like fashion clothes. They have distinctive personalities and have decisive decision-making ability. When encountering problems and difficulties, they are generally able to deal with them independently.Michelle Obama, wife of U.S. President Barack Obama, is the most prominent representative of such people.

People who like to wear the same style of clothes
This type of person has a straightforward personality. In the process of interacting with others, they have a distinct personality. They often have their own views and opinions, and they are very clear about right and wrong, right and wrong, love and hate.This kind of people often have strong self-confidence, act decisively and neatly, and are the kind of people who "believe what they say, do what they believe, and do what they do".

But the most prominent shortcoming of this kind of people is that they are often self-righteous and self-willed, it is difficult to listen to other people's opinions and suggestions, and they have a strong self-awareness.

people who like fancy dress
There are a lot of such people, mainly young people. They have a strong sense of vanity and love to show off and show off.At the same time, such people are often very willful, even domineering.They think that this kind of dressing is very individual, and they can attract more eyes when walking on the street. In fact, they don't notice that behind the eyes of others, there is often dissatisfaction and disgust.On important occasions, few people dress like this.

People who like to dress loosely and naturally, but don't pay attention to style
Most of these people are introverted, their self-awareness is generally very strong, and they are often self-centered, so it is difficult for others to intervene in their life circle.

This type of person is not only unwilling to contact others, but also has a natural sense of rejection towards others.However, once you open their heart door and walk into their inner world, they will cherish this friendship with you very much.In other words, such people have very few friends, but their friends are all close friends.

people who suddenly change their clothing habits
Nothing stays the same, and neither do people's tastes in clothing, which change over time.However, this change is gradual, and will not change even in a long period of time. If a person's dressing style changes suddenly, it means that he must have encountered something recently, and his mood has changed a lot. Variety.If there is such a sudden change in someone you are familiar with, you should pay attention to whether he has encountered some troubles or suffered some kind of blow recently.This change also conveys the owner's new vision and determination.

Many people think that people should not be judged by their appearance. Indeed, the practice of "seeing people order dishes" is very undesirable in daily communication. However, when you meet for the first time, it is impossible for people to see the light of your inner thoughts at a glance. Your clothes often make a very important first impression.

Not only that, but in daily life, if you carefully observe the dressing style of the people around you, and then observe their personalities correspondingly, you will find the mystery.

Color: Reflection of Soul Color
Everyone must have heard of "color psychology". After understanding the psychological relationship between color and people, you will re-acquaint some people around you and judge what type of person they belong to. We can also understand a person from the color the heart of man.

Color can always give people a sense of visual impact in the first time.Psychologists even regard people's external colors as the reflection of their spiritual colors, and believe that people's paranoia about their favorite colors can reflect a person's inner world.In fact, this statement is not groundless. In our daily life, we also have feelings. There is indeed a big difference in personality between people who like black and people who like white.Therefore, from the color of a person's clothing and accessories, we can also see the color of a person's heart.

people who like red
Most of these people are extroverts. Most of them are more emotional, impulsive, and like to go to extremes when doing things. They pay great attention to the pursuit of spiritual life.This type of person has strong organizational skills in group activities and usually has strong endurance.

people who like pink

People of this type are mostly girls. Pink is a warm color, which tends to give people a gentle feeling and make people feel easy to get close to.Most of them behave elegantly, pay attention to etiquette, and hope that they will remain young and beautiful forever.But most of them seem to be calm on the surface, once something really happens to them, they will show no assertion and immature mind.

people who like purple
Purple, representing nobility, is the color favored by nobles.People who like purple often give people a sense of elegance.However, people of this type are often unable to persevere in their ideals, easily change their original intentions, and are easily tempted by others.Although they can listen to other people's opinions, they are often swayed by other people's opinions and cannot face up to their own ideas calmly and objectively.

people who like orange
Most of these people are eloquent, good at debating, cheerful, and humorous. Most of them can't bear the lonely life and like to make friends.People who like orange are always full of energy and unrestrained.This type of people also likes to write their emotions on their faces, and has a strong sense of competition. In life, they will not admit defeat to almost anything, and like to take the initiative to attack everything.

people who like yellow
People who like yellow are definitely full-fledged "challengers". They are very motivated, like to pursue new things, hate the same, always show strong curiosity, and this type of people is very rational.They have unique personalities, and in communication, they can often be exquisite in all directions and become the focus of people.Most of them are idealists, good at formulating various plans and realizing them step by step.But this kind of people often like to make small calculations in life.Of course, although people who like yellow and like challenges, they also have their own cowardly side and like to rely on others. Psychologically, they sometimes show a strong childishness and immature mind.

people who like green
This type of person is a pacifist, and it is easy to live in harmony with those around him.This type of people has a straightforward personality and basically does not hide their inner thoughts. Most of them treat people politely and honestly. They are rarely paranoid about any kind of things and advocate freedom.

people who like brown
Many people say that brown is an unpleasant color, but some people have a soft spot for this unpleasant color.Most of this type of people are stubborn and will not give up lightly even if they are in a dangerous situation, but being too rigid is their biggest shortcoming.

people who like white
White always gives people a very pure feeling.People who like white are mostly idealists, whether it is love or career, they all have higher ideals and pursuits.Most of this type of people have a gentle and kind heart, and they have a strong family concept.However, you must distinguish liking from yearning, because there are many people who yearn for white in life, but they don't really like it. Such people have a natural longing for beauty.

people who like gray
Gray is very common in life, and there are gray shadows everywhere on the street.People who like this color are mostly introverted, don't like publicity, lack courage in everything, and have no assertiveness, but they pursue elegance, have a strong aesthetic sense, and have a vague aristocratic personality in their personality.Compared with other people who like to show their faces, they would rather be the green leaves that set off others, silently support and highlight others, show their honest and honest side, and like to think about others and make things convenient for others.

people who like black
Black is easy to give people a sense of mystery.In daily life, there are always people who like black clothes and accessories, which often give people the first impression of arrogance and coldness.However, after contact, you will find that they are not like this. On the contrary, they are often wary of others and afraid of being hurt by others.Therefore, black is a protective color that hides its inner fragility.People who like black often have a desire to express themselves deep in their hearts, so if they show their potential or charm in front of others and get approval from others, they will become happy and extra confident!

People's preference for a color is often not easy to change, although in social situations, many people like to use color to cover themselves, that is to say, it is difficult for us to understand a person's heart simply from the color.However, if you can try to understand the color the other person likes, it will be of great benefit to the relationship.

Makeup: revealing a woman's heart

Makeup plays a very important role in setting off a person's overall image. A person with just the right makeup can always leave a perfect first impression on people.In communication, through a person's makeup, you can make a preliminary judgment on his personality characteristics, and then you can prepare words in your mind for the next dialogue!
Before going out, many people are used to standing in front of the mirror, dressing up carefully, and then going out with confidence.This daily action reflects people's emphasis on self-makeup.Makeup plays a very important role in setting off a person's overall image. A person with just the right makeup can always leave a perfect first impression on people.But no matter what, I am the first person to examine my makeup, and it is impossible to go out when I am not satisfied with it. Since it is my favorite makeup, in addition to the restrictions of the occasion, it will reveal more of my heart secret.

people who like light makeup
Most people of this type do not have a strong desire to express themselves.They generally don't show their faces in public.Most of this type of women are smarter and will not spend all their time and energy in front of the dressing table.They often have their own dreams and dare to fight for them.In the depths of their hearts, most of them hide their own secrets, perhaps even their closest friends are unwilling to reveal.What they hope most is to be respected by others, and they hope that others will understand their unspeakable secrets, and they hate people who ask the bottom line.

people who like heavy makeup
This type of people is the exact opposite of those who like light makeup. They have a strong desire to express themselves. In public, they like to be in the limelight and hope that they can be the center of attention.Avant-garde and openness are the ideological characteristics of this type of people, and they often maintain an attitude of appreciation for some bold and even extreme behaviors.

people who don't like makeup

In daily life, there are always some people who like to look up to the sky.Most of them don't pay much attention to the external appearance, and pay more attention to the internal cultivation, giving people a sense of simplicity.However, such women often do not have good looks, and they prefer to improve their self-worth by improving their inner self-cultivation.When dealing with things, they insist on their own unique views. Many times, they will give people a feeling of arrogance.

All in all, a person's makeup, in addition to being restricted by some objective conditions, is more affected by his subjective thoughts.Therefore, in communication, from the makeup of a person, you will make a preliminary judgment on his personality characteristics, and you can prepare the words in your mind for the next dialogue!

T-shirt: reveal a person's personality and preferences
Loose and comfortable T-shirts can be said to be suitable for all ages.In the past, the purpose of people wearing T-shirts was just to keep warm and absorb sweat, but now, people have regarded T-shirts as a public notice board, and they can leave or record various thoughts and plots on it.Therefore, different styles of T-shirts will reflect different personalities.

T-shirts are one of the favorite clothes of modern people. Whether walking on the street or entering the mall, T-shirts with different styles, textures and colors are always dazzling.However, a T-shirt placed in a shopping mall does not reflect its true value. Its true value can only be reflected when it is worn by someone.And people who choose their favorite T-shirt type are also showing their preferences, personality and taste to others.Therefore, we can walk into a person's inner world through T-shirts.

Like to wear white T-shirts without patterns

Such people are often rebellious and have their own relatively independent personalities. They have distinctive personalities, and unless they have to, they will never bow their heads to the secular trend.They are always so unique in the crowd.Personality is the portrayal of their character, but the form of expression of this personality is often not so obvious and appropriate.

Like to wear colorful T-shirts without patterns

Compared with those who like to wear white T-shirts without patterns, these people are obviously much more low-key. Their desire for self-expression is not very strong. They are more used to ordinary life in obscurity than to show their faces.Most of these people are more introverted and don't like to make public.Their biggest advantage is that they are sympathetic, and they will care and help the people around them as much as possible within their ability, without asking for anything in return.Therefore, you can rest assured to make friends with this kind of person, because he is not good at calculating and intrigue.

(End of this chapter)