Alternative parenting tricks for lazy moms

Chapter 3 Newborn baby, you really need to be careful and cautious (3)
When the baby has no abdominal pain, you have to distinguish it from dysentery.Polyps disrupt bowel movements and induce intussusception.

Response: Surgical removal.

④ Anal sinusitis and anal inflammation
The anal sinus is a funnel-shaped depression with an upward opening at the junction of the lower rectum and the anus.Inflammation can occur when feces or other dirt accumulates in it or when bacteria invade it from abrasions.

The baby cries obviously before and after going to the toilet, and there may be a small amount of bleeding above the anus or discharge of purulent secretions.Sinusitis can cause a variety of anal problems.

Coping method: same as anal fissure.Antibiotic treatment should be taken under the guidance of a doctor if necessary.

why red ass

The buttocks skin is stimulated by moisture for a long time!
It may be caused by residual soap left in the diaper, or it may be caused by excrement that irritates the skin.In short, when the little butt is red, you must not let it go.

The best way is to wash with tea.

It is not necessary to make tea every time after the baby has a bowel movement, it is enough to wash with the tea you have drunk.

Tea polyphenols in tea are water-soluble substances, which can not only remove dirt on the surface of the skin, but also astringe pores, disinfect and sterilize.

If you can apply a layer of baby oil to the little butt after cleaning, you can better protect the baby's delicate skin!

Other ways to deal with red buttocks include:

①Let the little skin sunbathe frequently.

Safe and convenient.

Exposure to sunlight of appropriate intensity for 1 hour can prevent rickets caused by vitamin D deficiency while getting dry.Don't be afraid of cloudy days, just replace it with a desk lamp.40W light bulb, 30-40cm away from the buttocks, and irradiate for 20-30 minutes.

②If the skin exudates locally, apply wet compresses, and apply calamine or zinc oxide powder containing 0.5% neomycin after drying.If there is no improvement after 3 to 5 days, you should go to the pediatrician for treatment.

What needs to be reminded everyone is that the baby's red buttocks must not be washed with soap, otherwise the little buttocks will become redder after new stimulation.It is also not advisable to apply a lot of talcum powder, because the talcum powder will harden after absorbing water, not only cannot keep the part dry, but will also irritate the skin in turn!

Love "hide and seek" body temperature
The baby's body temperature seems to be very partial to "hide and seek"!
Don’t rush to find medicine for your baby. Let me tell you, the body temperature of a newborn baby fluctuates within a day, which is determined by the physiological characteristics of this age group—the body temperature regulation center is not yet mature.

When the baby eats or moves, the metabolism in the body will speed up, and the body temperature will rise accordingly.In addition, changes in the ambient temperature will also affect the baby's body temperature. For example, if the baby wears more clothes, the room temperature will rise with sufficient sunlight at noon, and the baby's body temperature will follow.

Of course, fever is often the most common sign of illness.

But if the baby has no other abnormalities, and his appetite and mental state are normal, then he is not sick, and of course there is no need to find antipyretics.Reducing the number of pieces of clothing or lowering the ambient temperature can solve the problem.

If the baby has a fever and is accompanied by refusal to breastfeed, poor energy, and gloomy complexion, you must go to the hospital immediately.

The baby has a fever, don't take medicine indiscriminately

① Newborn babies are still very young, so they generally do not use antipyretics when they have a fever, which is often referred to as antipyretics.

② The consequences of taking antipyretics indiscriminately are very serious, which can affect the coagulation activity of the baby's platelets, and occasionally cause the baby to bleed.

6 Abnormalities of the Umbilical Cord

Normally, your baby's umbilical cord falls off within two weeks of birth.

During the process of the umbilical cord falling off, the navel is not always safe and sound. There are 6 abnormal situations that occur before and after the umbilical cord falls off. You can’t ignore it.

Unusual conditions that occur before the umbilical cord falls off:
Umbilical hernia
How it appears: It is a round or semicircular mass that grows as the baby cries (increased abdominal pressure).

Simple solution: don’t worry about this, the small umbilical hernia will heal itself after the baby’s full age; the big umbilical hernia will be solved after the baby grows to 2-4 years old and it’s OK!
Umbilical eczema

Manifestations: sensitization factors lead to pimples, erosion, exudation and desquamation of the navel and the skin around the navel.

Simple solution: wash with 1% to 4% boric acid solution, and apply zinc oxide oil for treatment.

Omphalitis
Manifestations: running water or purulent secretions from the navel area, and the secretions have a foul smell; redness and swelling of the navel chakra or purulent secretions after removal of the umbilical fossa scab.

Simple solution: You should take your baby to the hospital for an examination immediately!Under the guidance of a doctor, do local disinfection and cleaning of the navel, and then cooperate with antibiotic treatment.

Unusual conditions that occur after the umbilical cord falls off:
Umbilical granuloma
Manifestations: Small granulation tissue with a moist surface and a small amount of mucus or bloody secretions is formed on the wound surface after the umbilical cord detachment.

Special reminder: This is because the wound surface is stimulated by foreign matter such as talcum powder, or the blood scab is infected.

Simple solution: If the wound does not heal, you should seek medical treatment in time. The doctor will deal with it according to the situation, and surgical resection is not ruled out.

Navel antler
Manifestations: The wound surface after the umbilical cord detachment is red and smooth and moist like a polypoid mass with a small amount of secretion.

Special reminder: It is different from granuloma, umbilical antler is the remnant of the yolk tube in the embryonic period, that is, the intestinal mucosal tissue.

Simple solution: You can't solve it yourself at home, you must take your baby to the hospital for diagnosis and treatment.

Umbilical fistula
Manifestations: After the umbilical cord falls off, there is a mucous membrane in the center of the umbilical cord, and there is a hole in the center, from which stinky intestinal contents flow out. The skin around the navel is generally accompanied by erosion.

Special reminder: This situation is due to the incomplete closure of the yolk duct during the fetal period because it communicates with the umbilicus.

Simple solution: the baby needs to be hospitalized and undergo surgery.

Teach you how to care for the umbilical cord stump

Normally, your baby's umbilical cord falls off within two weeks of birth.Then the unhealed umbilical cord stump becomes an open wound, and the rich blood in the wound is a paradise for the growth of pathogenic bacteria. Don't let the germs take advantage of this opportunity to cause systemic infection of the baby, or even "neonatal sepsis".

Newborn babies have to check the umbilicus every day, what if they don’t take good care of it?Routine umbilical cord stump care is one of the jobs you have to do!
True or False to say "Positive"

SOS~~Baby screening is positive! !

God, how could this happen, what can I do?Is it necessary to take injections and medicine, the baby is still so small...

Calm down, calm down!Although you are uneasy, and although newborn screening is the first line of defense for your baby's health, a positive initial test result does not necessarily mean that your baby is sick, because the early symptoms of many diseases are not obvious.Early screening can actually be regarded as a "prelude" to the doctor's re-examination. Don't be too nervous before the diagnosis is made.

Rather than worrying, you need to understand the characteristics of the newborn baby's disease! OK, first of all, you have to remember that newborn babies have different disease characteristics from infants (before their full age) and toddlers (1 to 3 years old) because of their "young age", and some parts are even "abnormal".

Having said that, disease screening still needs to be paid attention to, because many early onset symptoms are difficult to accurately judge only by parents' visual inspection.

Lazy Skills Open - Facing the checklist, quickly achieve "3"

① Believe in diagnosis and cooperate with treatment.

② Communicate with the doctor in time.

③Any disease is not terrible, what is terrible is that it delays the timing of treatment.

Use time to accurately distinguish between two types of jaundice
The baby's jaundice occurs like this: when the baby is just born, the liver cannot metabolize bilirubin independently, and the baby's skin and whites of the eyes will turn yellow. This is "neonatal jaundice".

You may not be able to fully grasp the nature of neonatal jaundice, but it is not difficult to distinguish:
① Physiological jaundice

Occurs: 24 hours after birth

参考数值：血清胆红素由出生时的17～51μmol/L(1～3mg/dl)逐步上升到86μmol/L(5mg/dl)或以上。

Performance status: only jaundice, no other symptoms, the baby's feeding and mental status are good.

Disappearance time: 1 to 2 weeks will subside.

Final remarks: Serum bilirubin in full-term infants should not exceed 204 μmol/L (12 mg/dl); premature infants should not exceed 255 μmol/L (15 mg/dl).

② Pathological jaundice

When it occurs: Within 24 hours of birth

Reference value: serum bilirubin greater than 12 ~ 15mg/dl.

Performance status: The baby's skin is golden yellow, with obvious jaundice on the palms and soles, accompanied by anemia or light stool color, abnormal body temperature, poor appetite, and vomiting.

Disappearance time: after 2 to 3 weeks after birth, it still persists or even deepens, or deepens after relief. The degree of jaundice is severe and lasts for a long time.

Final note: When the baby develops jaundice within 24 hours after birth, it should be sent to the hospital immediately, it may be "hemolytic disease of the newborn".This condition can lead to kernicterus or death.

look, fart and bb
If your baby is crying frequently and for no reason (generally, a well-nourished, well-developed baby cries at least 3 hours a day, at least 3 days a week), has increased farting, and has a non-stop gurgling stomach If the onset time exceeds 3 weeks, it may be "baby colic".

This condition is caused by the immature development of the gastrointestinal tract. It is a common small problem in the development of infants. You don't need to be nervous. It is not a "disease" in the clinical sense.

The "lazy skill" is open to the public - it's easy to solve it!
Just put the baby in a comfortable position and assist the baby to defecate in time.If the situation is more serious, you can take the "simethicone oil drug" to improve gastrointestinal motility, 10 drops/time, 3 times a day, and directly drop into the mouth before feeding.

Dark yellow BB indicates that the red blood cells in your baby's blood have been destroyed a lot

From yellow to white to yellow, indicating that the baby's liver function is not normal
Off-white or kaolin-colored bilirubin does not flow out of the biliary tract with bile, congenital biliary atresia may occur

Time to eat that "little sugar pill"
Poliomyelitis, commonly known as "poliomyelitis", is an acute infectious disease caused by poliovirus.

"Polio Sugar Pills" are made to fight this disease!It is small in size and sweet in taste.

① When the baby reaches 60 days (2 months), it is the time to eat the first sugar pill, don't miss it!
② Afterwards, take it every other month for 3 months, and take the last time when you are 4 years old.

③ Babies suffering from intestinal diseases cannot take it, and the time of taking it needs to be decided by the doctor separately.

④ Babies with immunodeficiency, receiving immunosuppressive therapy or suffering from acute and chronic diseases should not take it.

⑤ Do not drink breast milk, hot water and hot milk within 30 minutes before and after taking the sugar pill.

⑥The sugar pills should be crushed and put in a spoon with some cold boiled water for delivery.

⑦Taking sugar pills may cause mild diarrhea.

⑧Sugar pills are vaccine preparations wrapped in butterscotch. Babies who are allergic to milk and cream should inform the doctor in time.

⑨糖丸的贮存条件是：20～22℃保质12天；2～10℃保质5个月。

Where does the facial rash come from?
Didn't eat steamed crab or chew fried shrimp, why did the baby have rashes on his face?

Hehe, your baby is 2 weeks old, right?These red rashes on the face sometimes appear on the limbs and trunk, it is very likely to be eczema~~~
They are "arranged" on the baby's face like this:

Eczema is commonly known as "milk tinea".The digestive function of the newborn baby is immature, and the protein in the milk cannot be fully absorbed, resulting in a mild allergic reaction, that is, eczema.Babies who are not breastfed are more likely to develop eczema.

Should these rashes be treated with medicine?Usually no treatment is required.

As the baby's gastrointestinal function improves and he gradually takes in complementary foods, eczema will naturally improve.But secondary bacterial infection should go to the hospital for treatment.It is generally used locally, and a small amount of systemic medication is especially serious.

Different types of eczema require different medicines, and the dermatologist will naturally tell you not to use random medicines on your own.

Also pay attention to this problem-distinguish cradle cap and eczema that appear on the head.Their symptoms seem similar, but if you remember, cradle cap is not painful, but eczema makes the baby itchy enough to cry, making you feel that the baby is a bit inexplicable.

When in doubt, don't deal with it, ask your doctor first.

6 kinds of people, please stay away from your baby
The baby's immunity and disease resistance are low, protecting his health is more important than anything else!You must strictly prohibit the following 6 types of people from approaching the baby, KISS baby.

Blisters

Rice grain-sized blisters appeared on the face, corners of the lips, eyes, hands and feet, several or more than a dozen connected together... 90% were infected with "herpes simplex virus"!This virus can be transmitted through kissing and other means, and it is not very harmful to adults, but it can be fatal to babies!
heavy makeup

Cosmetics contain chemical substances such as lead and mercury. It’s okay for adults to have rough skin and thick flesh, but babies are different. These substances can cause contact dermatitis, chronic lead poisoning and other problems when these substances enter the baby’s body...

flu sufferers

Nasal congestion, runny nose, sneezing, fever...any kind can cause bronchitis, pneumonia, otitis media and other symptoms in the baby or combined with encephalitis and myocarditis.Don't say anything, please come back again!

Oral patients

Oral diseases include: gingivitis, pulpitis, dental caries, etc. "Show mercy", don't KISS baby!A large number of pathogenic bacteria in the oral cavity will enter the baby's mouth, causing oral diseases or other complications of the baby.

Diarrhea

Absolute intestinal infection!Babies with dysentery are not like adults who go to the toilet a few more times, just take a few pills and it will be fine.In case of dehydration at a young age, it's really not a joke.

Hepatitis patients

The routes of transmission of hepatitis A and hepatitis B are very extensive, covering almost all of them. Breast milk, saliva, tears and intimate contact are all unsafe factors.Whether you are a hepatitis patient or a hepatitis virus carrier, be sure to stay away from your baby.

What should be the position of early childhood education

There has been a saying in China since ancient times - three years old is old, and seven years old is old.

Education is something that runs through a person's life, especially early education in childhood is crucial to personal growth.

Early education is referred to as "early education". The objects of early education are children aged 0 to 6. According to the characteristics of physical and psychological development of children of different ages, targeted guidance and training are provided to lay a good foundation for future success of children.

Early education is by no means "early education", but a kind of education in a broad sense. It is a good and exemplary education that parents infiltrate their children bit by bit in their lives; it is parents who develop their children's potential through interesting training; Parents correct their children's bad performance in certain thoughts and behaviors in a correct and timely manner.To sum it up is——

The need for healthy growth;
The need for perfect use of the language;
The needs of the overall development of the brain;
The need for intellectual development and improvement;
The need for personality self-maturation;
The need for the formation of sound personality;
The need for spiritual happiness and harmony;
The need for emotional balance without extremes.

Correct 3 mistakes in early education
First, the younger the better.

wrong!
The age of early childhood education is highly time-sensitive, and the content changes accordingly:
1-2 years old: simple parent-child interaction
Through understanding the world, let the baby know himself, strengthen his body, and promote language development.

2-3 years old: pay attention to the common development of EQ and IQ
Two-way training, gradually develop good living habits and cultivate interest in reading.

3-4 years old: Encourage initial exploration

Form good study habits by exploring nature and the surrounding living environment, stimulate logical thinking and creativity to continue to develop.

4-5 years old: Cultivate exploration ability and creativity
Among them, the ability of social interaction, the ability to feel things, and the ability to express are improved.

5-6 years old: conduct scientific exploration and exercise independent thinking

Improve the comprehensive ability of self-care ability, independent learning and social interaction, so as to prepare for school.

Second, early childhood education is child prodigy education, the sooner the better.

wrong!
Relevant surveys show that there are very few children with supernormal and low intelligence, and more than 90% of the children have "popular" IQ. Any practice that violates the law will only "add fuel to the flames" in the opposite direction.It is best to choose an early education method that suits your child, otherwise it will only make him hate learning and set up many obstacles for his future growth.

Third, early education = specialty education = making children smarter
wrong!
Specialty education must wait until you discover your child's interests, so please be sure to find out what your child's specialties are.Early childhood education is not special education. The more you learn, the better you are. You can't blindly compare and follow the trend, ignoring comprehensive quality education.Simply thinking that early education is to make children smarter than others will greatly violate the original intention of early education.

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