Behavioral Psychology: Instantly Read the Secrets Behind Others' Small Actions

Chapter 1 Preface
Freud, the founder of Western psychology, once said such a classic saying: "No one can keep his inner secrets. Even if his mouth is silent, his fingertips are chattering, and even every pore of his Betray him." From this we can see that there are traces and clues to be followed in any person's heart, no matter how tightly he covers up, as long as we observe carefully, we will inadvertently find clues from various details of actions.

Sometimes a person's language is unreliable.Because most people can manipulate their words, many choose to lie in order to conceal their true state of mind.However, words can deceive people, but people's actions can't be fake, they can only reflect a person's true inner thoughts.As long as we understand a little behavioral psychology, we can understand the hidden meaning behind the other person's body movements and understand the other person's inner world.

When I wrote this book, based on people's behavior, I elaborated from three aspects: daily life (friends, nobles, villains, opponents), workplace (bosses, colleagues, subordinates, customers), and love field (lover, marriage). Effectively combine people's daily behaviors with psychological knowledge, and take the life stories experienced by everyone as examples, hoping to help readers interpret the different meanings of other people's small actions in various situations.

The biggest feature of this book is that it is rooted in the scientific nature of experience summarization and theoretical research. It has comprehensive content knowledge, novel style, and easy-to-understand language. The most important thing is that it is close to the reality of life. first read.

If you read this book carefully and quickly master the knowledge and skills provided in the book, then when you are in the specific situation described in the book, you can make a good judgment.By observing and comparing the other person's facial expressions and body movements, you can instantly understand the secrets hidden behind other people's small movements.If his facial expressions, actions and words don't match, he may be lying.

In social situations, you play social roles such as friends, bosses, subordinates, colleagues, partners, competitors, and lovers.As long as you are in a relationship, you need to deal with other people, and naturally you need to understand the true psychological state of others.Therefore, you desperately need to understand a little behavioral psychology.

If you are still troubled by your ignorance of your girlfriend's "intriguing" little actions, if you are still depressed because your boss doesn't mean anything, if you are still depressed because a friend is throwing stones at you... Then, we I suggest you to read this book.

I believe that after reading this book, you will be able to grasp the essence of behavioral psychology, so as to correctly interpret other people's body language.As long as you can understand the inner world of others, you can gain sincere friendship in daily life, get help from noble people, and guard against villainous plots; you can gain the attention of leaders in the workplace, and the love of colleagues and subordinates support; you can get sweet love and a happy marriage in the love field.

The first of all wisdom lies in knowing people.In this ever-changing society, people's hearts are more fickle, and the most difficult thing in the world is people's hearts.In life, all of us want to be human beings freely and live in harmony, but the premise is to be able to understand people's minds and discern the truth of people's hearts.Therefore, this requires you to cultivate a pair of eyes to see through people's hearts, and master a knowledge of reading people's hearts.

However, we must remind readers that the information conveyed by other people's body language must not be based on the scriptures, but must be interpreted in light of the actual situation, and no conclusions can be made.

Because even the same body language has different meanings when it appears on different people.For example, a girl who is lively and cheerful and likes to communicate with others generally doesn’t care about the physical distance from others, and her gestures and expressions may be extremely rich, even sweet, but this does not mean that she is in love with you. It's just a matter of character.However, if you are an introverted girl, when she makes some actions, it may mean that she has secretly developed feelings for you and actively expressed her affection for you.

Observing and analyzing other people's small actions is a powerful weapon for us to read others' hearts.I hope this book can guide those readers who are not good at knowing people. On the basis of learning how to recognize and identify people, they can master the strategies of dealing with people, so that they can not only succeed in the workplace, but also have a happy marriage.In the end, it reaches the superb state of invincibility.

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