Behavioral Psychology: Instantly Read the Secrets Behind Others' Small Actions
Chapter 10 Choose the right one instead of the "expensive" one, interpret the other party&
Chapter 10 Choose the right one instead of the "expensive" one, interpret the other party's micro-reactions and make the right choice
Life is a multiple-choice question. Many times, if we choose wrongly, our efforts will be in vain.On the road of love, we are faced with many choices, whether to choose the person who loves us or the person we love; whether to choose love or material things; Choose "expensive", only choose the right one is our best choice.what is rightThis requires us to interpret the other party's micro-reactions to make the right choice.
1.Girl Tray Pose Conveys Admiration
Mr. Q: One day, when I was chatting face to face with a girl, she involuntarily put one hand on the other, put her hands on her chin, and looked at me intently as I spoke.I really don't know what she was thinking at this moment.
The man in love: One hand rests on the other, and the hands support the chin in a tray position.When a girl looks at you like this, it means that she admires you very much, even obsessed with you.If you take good care of it, you will surely achieve a beautiful thing.
【Scene reconstruction】
Chu Yunlong and Chang Yali have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and they talked about everything.Chu Yunlong is interested in Chang Yali, but he always feels that Chang Yali is indifferent to him.Countless times, he wanted to confess his love to Chang Yali.However, every time the words came to his lips, he swallowed them again.Because he was afraid that he would confess his love. If Yali refused, they would not even be able to be friends in the future.Therefore, he has been hesitating in his heart.
On this day, Chu Yunlong was promoted.To celebrate his promotion, Chu Yunlong invited Chang Yali to dinner.They sat facing each other, Chu Yunlong talked enthusiastically about how he got promoted, while Chang Yali sat opposite him, quietly listening to his talk, with a little smile on her face occasionally.
Just when Chu Yunlong was talking about the most exciting part, Chang Yali put down her chopsticks, gently put one hand on the other, supported her chin with both hands, and listened attentively to Chu Yunlong's eloquent talk.When Chu Yunlong observed Chang Yali's actions, he who knew a little about psychology couldn't help being overjoyed, and confessed tenderly: "Yali, please be my girlfriend! I have liked you since I was a child, and it has never changed for so many years. "
Chang Yali gently put her hands down, her cheeks were slightly flushed, and she bowed her head in silence.Chu Yunlong knew very well that Chang Yali was showing shyness.So, he stood up, went around the table, came to Chang Yali's side, and gently pulled her into his arms.
Lovers finally get married, and they live happily together.
To bury the feelings for the girl he has admired for a long time in his heart, because he is afraid of the other party's rejection, so he is always afraid to confess his love to her. This is the mental journey that many boys have gone through.In fact, as long as you interpret her inner activities through the micro-reactions of the other party, you will know what you should do.
[expert answering doubts]
The tray pose is the movement of putting one hand on the other, supporting the chin with both hands, and raising the head slightly to face the other person.This action is a common action to compliment the other party, and most of the people who make this action are women.
When a woman listens attentively to a talking man and makes a tray pose.There are three possible situations in which she makes this action:
①When a lady is conquered by a man's knowledge and eloquence, she will involuntarily make an action of admiration-tray posture.This movement is completely spontaneous, a movement that a person makes naturally under the drive of emotion.Many women will make this action when listening to the opposite sex, which means that the performer regards listening to the opposite sex as a kind of physical and mental enjoyment.
②When a woman is attracted by a man's appearance, she will also spontaneously make a tray pose in a situation where she is intoxicated with admiring the man's handsome face.The girl in this situation may not have listened to what the other party was saying, but coped with it with a verbal "ummm".
③When a woman has admired a man for a long time, she wants to take the initiative to convey her goodwill and admiration to the man, so she consciously makes a tray posture.This pose makes a woman appear more feminine, softer, and more expressive.
There is no doubt that Chang Yali in the story belongs to the third situation, and she conveys her admiration through the tray posture.Fortunately, Chu Yunlong has a little understanding of behavioral psychology, otherwise he might miss this beautiful marriage.
On the road of love, many people miss each other because they don't understand each other's mind.Generally speaking, girls do not open their mouths to express their feelings out of reserve.Therefore, at this time, men need to understand each other's body language.From her body language, you will get unexpected joy!
[Extended reading]
Hands on different parts of the head often have different meanings, and if you look closely, you can discover the real meaning they hide.
put your head in your palm
Suppose a person listens to you, subconsciously supports his head with the palm of his hand, and places the fulcrum of the whole body on the arm.This action already shows that the other party is beginning to tire of your topic, and his whole body has no motivation to support himself, and he only allows one hand and one arm to support himself.
People with cheeks on their hands love to fantasize
If a person is listening to you with his hand on his chin, it means that he finds the topic boring and the content of your conversation is not attractive to him.He is likely to be thinking about his own business, so he has no interest in listening to you.If you are used to resting your chin on your hand, it means that this person is often absent-minded, dissatisfied with real life, empty in heart, looking forward to new things, dreaming of finding his own happiness somewhere.
2.A girl holding a pet in her arms implies that she cannot accept you
Q Jun: I have liked a girl for a long time, one day, I finally mustered up the courage to confess to her.However, she neither accepted nor refused, she just held the pet in her arms and kept stroking it.I wonder what this means.
Love expert: When you confess to her, she holds a pet in her arms, which is not a good thing.She is using this gesture to subtly hint at you that she cannot accept you.You better do it yourself!
【Scene reconstruction】
When Jiang Yu was in junior high school, he secretly liked a girl named Tang Xiaoyan.He was in school at the time, so he hid his thoughts and kept secretly observing her every move, but she didn't pay attention at all.Sometimes, she just smiled slightly when she saw him.
In a blink of an eye, they were all admitted to college.Jiang Yu intended to confess to Tang Xiaoyan many times, but every time he saw her clear eyes, he swallowed back what he wanted to say.
On a weekend, Jiang Yu prepared a bouquet of roses and came to Tang Xiaoyan.They made an appointment to meet in a park near the school.That morning, Jiang Yu set off from home early and came to the park.But Tang Xiaoyan didn't come until after the appointed time, and she was leading a pet dog when she came.This made Jiang Yu puzzled.
When Jiang Yu handed her a bouquet of roses, she took the roses without saying anything.In this way, the two of them walked side by side in the company.
After walking for some time, Jiang Yu sat down on a cool chair, while Tang Xiaoyan sat on the opposite cool chair, holding the pet in her arms.Jiang Yu looked at her affectionately, speechless for a long time.After a while, Jiang Yu finally broke the silence.He said affectionately: "Do you know? I fell in love with you when I was in junior high school. It's just that I was busy studying at that time, so..."
Tang Xiaoyan lowered her head and fiddled with the pet in her arms without saying a word.Jiang Yu said to himself, but Tang Xiaoyan kept her head down and remained silent.This made Jiang Yu unpredictable. He didn't know what to do, so he had to send her home.At the moment of separation, Jiang Yu asked a little unconvinced: "Do you have time tomorrow?"
Tang Xiaoyan turned around and said, "Let's see the situation tomorrow!" After speaking, she walked upstairs.Jiang Yu looked at her going back, feeling puzzled.
In your life, have you also encountered such a situation: when you confessed to the other party, the other party neither accepted nor refused.What the hell is going on, you know?
[expert answering doubts]
Jiang Yu in the story finally summoned up the courage to confess to Tang Xiaoyan.However, Tang Xiaoyan neither accepted nor refused, giving Jiang Yu a feeling of paradox.Her attitude puzzled Jiang Yu.
When Tang Xiaoyan went out on a date, she took a pet dog with her. When she was tired, she hugged the pet dog in her arms, which actually showed that she already had her own heart.It's just that Jiang Yu doesn't understand behavioral psychology at all, and doesn't understand Tang Xiaoyan's intentions.Therefore, I feel depressed.
Relevant behavioral psychology experts point out that holding a pet in your arms is actually a clever hint for a woman, indicating that he cannot accept you.Because she holds her beloved cat, dog or plush toy in her arms, it shows that she already has something she loves.Holding your pet like this is also setting up an obstacle for the other party.The other party is doing this to keep the distance intentionally, so that you don't have the opportunity to get in touch with her further.
If you find out that the other party has made this action when you confess your love to the other party, then maybe you should quit.
[Extended reading]
Many people use "a woman's heart, a needle under the sea" to describe a woman's mind is hard to fathom.In fact, as long as you carefully observe some subtle movements of a woman, you can discover her inner secrets.Let's take a look together:
When a woman pats the opposite sex on the shoulder, it conveys the feeling of friendship
Although the behavior of patting the shoulder is mostly among men, some women also pat the opposite sex on the shoulder.This action has no other meaning, but conveys a kind of friendship and care, or she regards the other party as a child or a younger brother.
A girl holding a pet in her arms implies that she cannot accept you
Holding a pet in your arms is actually a subtle hint from a woman that he cannot accept you.Because she holds her beloved cat, dog or plush toy in her arms, it shows that she already has something she loves.Holding your pet like this is also setting up an obstacle for the other party.She does this deliberately to distance herself so that you don't have the opportunity to get in touch with her further.
When a woman touches her earlobe, it shows that she is bored with what you are talking about
Generally speaking, those women who have nothing to do and touch their earlobes are the most elusive.Sometimes, she is bored with the topic you are talking about, so she can't speak directly; sometimes, she thinks there is no need to show it, so she will touch her earlobe subconsciously.
When a woman touches the tip of her nose it means she doesn't believe you
Women who like to touch the tip of their nose are generally mature and generous, full of femininity and quite mysterious.If you meet such a woman, you are very unfortunate.Because when she is talking with people, touching the tip of her nose frequently is a bad sign.Chances are she doesn't believe what you're saying, or she might not believe what you're saying at all.
3.A girl with her legs intertwined is a sign of submissiveness
Mr. Q: Today, I confessed my love to her.However, she didn't express at all, she just lowered her head and looked at her entangled legs.
Love expert: Legs intertwined is a sign of submission, she has already replied to you with intertwined legs, why don’t you know at all?
【Scene reconstruction】
Some time ago, a new female colleague came to the company.This female colleague is named Tian Fei. She is cute and cute, gentle and kind, and very quiet.Ren Xuefeng fell in love with her at first sight and developed a love for her.
Maybe because she was busy with work, this female colleague just greeted Ren Xuefeng with a smile, as if she didn't express anything special.It was Valentine's Day, after work, Ren Xuefeng waited outside the office door, asking Tian Fei for dinner.
Tian Fei agreed to his request and went with him to a restaurant near the company for dinner.During the meal, Ren Xuefeng poured water for Tian Fei, picked up vegetables, and showed courteousness from time to time.From Tian Fei's satisfied smile, Ren Xuefeng knew that he performed well.
After they finished eating, they chatted.From some interesting things about going to school when I was a child, I talked about all kinds of joys when I came out to work, from the bits and pieces in life, to all kinds of insights in life.In the process of chatting, they had a feeling of seeing each other late.
While chatting, Ren Xuefeng took out the roses he had prepared and handed them to Tian Fei, and said gently: "Maybe you don't believe in 'love at first sight' in the world, but I do. From the moment I saw you, I fell in love with you."
Tian Fei took the roses with a sweet smile on her face.But he didn't say anything, just lowered his head and looked at the ground.There was silence all around, and the two of them were silent.At this moment, Ren Xuefeng inadvertently stretched his feet.Unexpectedly, the two of them accidentally touched each other's legs and feet.The two immediately retracted their legs and laughed awkwardly.At this time, Ren Xuefeng noticed that Tian Fei pressed the toe of one foot tightly to the other leg.
Suddenly, Ren Xuefeng realized something.He once watched a film and television drama. When a girl is willing to accept the other party, she will lower her head slightly, press the toes of one foot against the other leg, her shoulders twitch slightly, and her cheeks are flushed.
Ren Xuefeng was overjoyed when he thought of this, and immediately held her hand.In this way, a beautiful marriage was achieved.
Have you ever noticed this gesture when you confess your love to a girl?Watch carefully, don't miss each other because you don't understand behavioral psychology.
[expert answering doubts]
We often see this kind of film and television theater: when the hero wins the trust of the pure and kind heroine, when he wants to take further action, he first sits next to the heroine, and at this time the heroine bows her head slightly, The toes of one foot were pressed against the other leg, the shoulders twitched slightly, and the cheeks were flushed.Here, we love the simple and kind heroine to make a classic gesture of shyness-legs intertwined, and the body language code of this gesture is submission.
Maybe Ren Xuefeng in the story once watched this kind of film and television drama. When Tian Fei, the girl he likes, showed this kind of action, he understood the hidden meaning behind this action, knowing that the girl had accepted him in his heart. It's just because of women's shyness, it's not easy to say it.Therefore, he decisively took further action.
Although the intertwining of legs is often our subconscious action, in many situations, don't make this action lightly, otherwise it will cause embarrassment or misunderstanding.
[Extended reading]
In the leg language, in addition to the different postures and the different information transmitted, the position of the legs can also explain the problem.Because, the placement and position of the legs can help us determine if someone is honest, confident, ambitious, or just feeling insecure.
man with legs apart is confident
When someone sits with their legs spread apart, it shows that the person is open and confident.If the ladies are wearing skirts, the legs are not too far apart for obvious reasons.If the knees are brought together and the legs are brought together, it shows that the person is open and confident.If your knees are brought together, your feet touch the ground, and you are pointing at another person, it also shows that this person is straightforward and honest.If the legs are crossed, and one leg rests only on the knee of the other, it shows that such a person, male or female, is very confident and composed.
A person who crosses one leg over the other's knee is probably lying
If someone puts one leg over the knee of the other, that means they are cheering themselves up.This means that the person is not very confident or is not telling the truth.
People with legs and feet pointing in opposite directions want to escape
Suppose you are talking to a person who is facing you, looking at you, with his whole body turned towards you, but you inadvertently look down and find that the person's legs and feet are facing the opposite direction, What you're seeing suggests that the person wants to leave and doesn't want to talk to you very much.When someone doesn't feel comfortable with you, their legs move toward the door in an attempt to escape.
Another sign that someone wants to move away is a constant, rhythmic slap on the thigh.You'll often see someone slapping the outside of their thighs, which means the person wants to walk but can't.This is similar to slapping the feet, and it also shows that someone wants to leave, but is afraid of being impolite.
People with crossed legs are not restrained
If someone crosses their legs, it means that the person is very independent, uninhibited, or unaware that their sitting posture is inappropriate.Such people generally don't care what other people think.
People who stretch their legs out in front of others like to dominate others
Whether crossed or not, as long as you stretch your legs in front of others, it means that this person loves to dominate others.People with this posture are strong-willed people, and they may also be bullying.Such a person may also be self-centered in order to attract the attention of others.
Legs intertwined is a sign of submissiveness
When you confess your love to the other party, the girl bowed her head slightly and intertwined her legs quietly.The body language code expressed by this action is submission.If you find that the girl you like has made this move, you might as well attack it further!
4.The girl with the hair wants you to love her
Q Jun: Today, I asked a girl I like.She showed an expression of indifference, and stroked her hair from time to time.What does she want to do?
Love field expert: A girl gently strokes her hair, which is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you really like her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.
【Scene reconstruction】
Zhang Yunzhong has liked a girl for a long time.This girl's name is Lorna, she looks gentle and cute, and she has a particularly charming smile.However, it is a pity that the other party already has a boyfriend who is far away.Therefore, Zhang Yunzhong did not dare to confess his love to her.Most of the time, he could only silently observe each other's every move.
Once, Zhang Yunzhong asked Lorna out for dinner.During the meal, Zhang Yunzhong carefully served Lorna with food and tea.From Luo Na's sweet smile, Zhang Yunzhong could feel that she was eating happily.
After eating, they started chatting.From time to time, Rona complained that her boyfriend was only focused on work and didn't come back to see her often.Zhang Yunzhong, who had a stupid mouth, smiled slightly and said, "Maybe he's too busy with work."
Lorna pouted, looking very unhappy.After a while, she seemed to have nothing to do, so she pulled her hair to the front and stroked her hair gently.
Zhang Yunzhong quickly noticed her behavior. He knew that Lorna's boyfriend was far away, and Lorna inevitably longed for the love of others.He really loves her, so he cares for Lorna more than before, calling her almost every day.
One day, Luo Na suddenly looked for Zhang Yunzhong, and when she saw Zhang Yunzhong, she threw herself into his arms and began to cry.This frightened Zhang Yunzhong. Later, he learned that Luo Na's boyfriend had already had a new love in a foreign land.Lorna made such a move because she was overly sad.
Zhang Yunzhong's heavy heart suddenly relaxed.He wiped away the tears for Lorna, and said softly: "Don't be sad, don't you still have me? Be my girlfriend, okay?"
Rona looked up and nodded.
Facing the girl you like, have you noticed some special moves of her.If you pay attention to observation, maybe you will reap a good marriage.
[expert answering doubts]
As humans, when we feel lonely or uneasy, we always involuntarily seek to communicate with others and have the desire for physical contact.However, those who love us cannot be with us all the time.Therefore, as a substitute, some women will touch themselves with their own hands to calm down and comfort themselves.This behavior is called "self-intimacy" in psychology.
Women playing with their hair in front of men is a manifestation of "self-intimacy". They are unconsciously expressing the feelings of "I hope you care about me" to men.On a date, if the girl you like fiddles with her hair frequently, or curls her hair with her fingers, it is an obvious signal. If you really like her, don't turn a blind eye!
In the story, Lorna made a gesture of stroking her hair unconsciously. Maybe she didn't realize it, but Zhang Yunzhong, who has always liked her, noticed her gesture.In response to her longing for caring, Zhang Yunzhong stepped up caring efforts.Under Zhang Yunzhong's care, Luo Na gradually developed a strong dependence on him.
When Luo Na's boyfriend has another love, Luo Na, who is overly sad, especially hopes to get Zhang Yunzhong's care and comfort.Therefore, she immediately found Zhang Yunzhong and cried to him about her tragic experience.Undoubtedly, her move created an opportunity for Zhang Yunzhong to confess his love to her, thus achieving a beautiful marriage.
[Extended reading]
In conversation, women will play with their hair intentionally or unintentionally.Why is this?
Caressing my hair, hoping that the other party will love her
On a date, some girls stroke their hair gently.This is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you notice her behavior, if you really like her and really care about her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.Maybe, she will be your Snow White.
Fidgeting with hair is depressing
When a person feels depressed or regrets something, she will fiddle with her hair vigorously.When you are dating and you find that the girl you like is doing this, you may wish to find a way to help her relieve her inner depression.In this way, maybe you can get a good marriage.
wiping hair while talking
If sitting or standing opposite you, this kind of person will always brush their hair from time to time, as if to arouse your interest in their hairstyle.In fact, this is not the case, because when this kind of person is alone, he will "check" whether there is anything on his hair every three to five minutes.
Most of these people have distinct personalities, outstanding personalities, clear love and hatred, especially hatred and hatred.They are generally good at thinking and meticulous in doing things, but most of them lack a sense of responsibility for the family.Their joy in life comes from the process of pursuing their careers, they like hard work and adventure, and they don't care about the outcome of things.They always say after something fails, "I have a clear conscience because I did it."
5.Cover your mouth with one hand and listen quietly to your talk The girl likes you very much
Mr. Q: Today, when talking face-to-face with a girl, she always covers her mouth with one hand and listens to my talk quietly.I feel this action is very indecent.
Love expert: When a girl covers her mouth with one hand and listens to your talk quietly, it means that she likes you very much, admires you, and already believes that you are her prince charming.If you don't mean to, don't worry about it.
【Scene reconstruction】
Wei Dong is a management cadre of a company. He is handsome and elegant, and is very popular among girls.Once, Wei Dong visited a female client.This female client is smartly dressed, simple and elegant, and has a delicate appearance. She is Wei Dong's favorite object.
When they first met, they made a very good impression on each other.After the negotiation, Wei Dong took the initiative to invite the female client to dinner.At the dinner table, they chatted very speculatively.It can be seen that they have a good impression of each other.
However, when Wei Dong was talking loudly, the female client suddenly stretched out a hand to cover her mouth and listened quietly to Wei Dong's talk.Wei Dong noticed his behavior, at first he thought she was not feeling well, but seeing that she had no other symptoms, so he didn't pay much attention.
After a while, the female client still covered her mouth with one hand from time to time, listening quietly to Wei Dong's words.I don't know why, Wei Dong always thinks this action is unsightly, and when the two of them talk, they feel very awkward.
After a while, the female client remained the same.Finally, Wei Dong couldn't bear it anymore, so he hurriedly ended the conversation, and sent the female client back after paying the bill.
When parting, the female client stood affectionately and looked at Wei Dong's leaving back.Since then, Wei Dong never took the initiative to contact this female client except for his work contacts.
A year passed quickly.One day, Wei Dong accidentally talked about human behavior with a friend, and he couldn't help thinking of the behavior of that female client.Puzzled, he asked his friend what this meant.The friend sighed and said, "You don't know what this means? That behavior is not indecent, but it shows that she likes you very much and already considers you her Prince Charming in her heart."
When Wei Dong heard this, he patted his head vigorously.
Sometimes, do you also misunderstand the other person's body language?As a result, a beautiful marriage was missed.
[expert answering doubts]
"The Analects of Women" said: "Whoever is a woman, first learn to stand up. The way to build up the body is to be clean and chaste. Purity means cleanness, and chastity means honor. Don't turn back when you do something, and don't lift your lips when you speak..." Chinese women are exactly Because of the influence of traditional thinking, he is very reserved in behavior, for example, he does not show his feet, walks an inch, smiles without showing his teeth, and does not show his chest.Therefore, generally speaking, a girl always likes to show her reserved side in front of the person she likes.When laughing, they like to cover their mouths and listen to each other's conversation quietly.It wasn't an indecent gesture, but she was controlling her uncontrollable joy.She really likes the other party so much, and she is trying hard to hide her inner excitement, because she has already determined that the other party is her Prince Charming in her heart.
The female client in the story expresses exactly this meaning. Unfortunately, Wei Dong, who also has a good impression, misunderstands the meaning of this action.Thus, a beautiful marriage was missed.
If you see a woman doing this in front of you, take it a step further if you want it too.If you have no intention, then you might as well hint to her that it is impossible for you to accept her and let her find her destination as soon as possible.
[Extended reading]
Constantly changing the position of the feet
When you talk to her, she keeps changing the position of her feet, which shows that she is very angry and needs to vent her emotions.
fiddling with hair
When you talk to her, there are two situations in which she fiddles with her hair with her hands: one is that she strokes her hair gently, which shows that she desires you to sympathize with her with gentle words; the other is that she fiddles with her hair vigorously, which shows her inner feelings To be depressed, or to regret something.
tugging at my skirt from time to time
When you talk to her, she tugs on her skirt every now and then, being very concerned about the length and coverage of the skirt.This is a sign of her defensiveness. She can imagine herself disheveled, so she is on the alert.
touch your cheek with your hand
She always puts her hand on her cheek when you talk to her.This is an unintentional gesture that she wants to hide her feelings or does not want to reveal her true intentions.
I listen to you with my chin resting
When you talk to her, she always listens to you with her chin resting on her cheek, which is an expression of her desire to be recognized and understood.She is not listening to you carefully, but making a silent protest against your dullness and incomprehension.
Cover your mouth with one hand and listen to your talk quietly
When you talk to her, she puts one hand over her mouth and listens quietly, which shows that she is controlling her overwhelming joy.She likes you so much and is trying to hide her excitement.In her mind, she already thinks you are her Prince Charming.
6.The girl who looks bored during the blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside
Mr. Q: Today, I went on a blind date. I like the blind date person very much, but she has been sitting on the side sullenly.I want to get close to her, but I always feel that she is a thousand miles away.
Love expert: A woman with a boring face during a blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside. She is afraid of being misunderstood by you and thinking that she is not ladylike enough.So, you should muster up the courage to talk to her.As a result, there are often surprises.
【Scene reconstruction】
One day, Ye Shaoyang participated in a three-on-three blind date party.As soon as he walked into the venue, a girl sitting in a corner caught his attention.That girl has delicate features, is very gentle, very cute.Ye Shaoyang originally wanted to say hello to her, but seeing her bored look, he gave up the idea of going to say hello.
When all the party members arrived, the atmosphere of the whole party was very warm. Everyone was very frank and chatted happily.However, the girl sitting in the corner did not blend into the joyous atmosphere. She sat sullenly on one side, resting her chin with one hand, and fiddling with the wine glass on the table with the other hand.
When Ye Shaoyang saw her, a feeling of pity rose in his heart involuntarily.In the venue, Ye Shaoyang wanted to get close to her several times, but her attitude of rejecting others made Ye Shaoyang confused, and he didn't know whether he should talk to her or not.
Just when Ye Shaoyang was hesitating, a male friend saw what he was thinking and said with a smile: "If you like her, you will take the initiative to chase her. Maybe she also likes you."
A word from his boyfriend gave Ye Shaoyang a lot of courage.He walked over, sat down next to the girl, and asked softly, "What's your name?"
"My name is..." Just like that, they chatted.During the chat, Ye Shaoyang discovered that she was so talkative, and they chatted very speculatively.
Later, they walked down the wedding red carpet hand in hand.
On a blind date, have you ever met that kind of bored girl, as if she rejects people thousands of miles away and is not interested in men at all.When you meet such a girl, you might as well talk to her boldly.
[expert answering doubts]
When many men are on a blind date, they will always meet that kind of bored women. They put on a look of rejecting others, and seem to be not interested in the men present at all.Many men recoil from women like this because they feel like talking to them won't go anywhere.In fact, such women most want men to talk to them.Analyzing their behavior from a psychological point of view, it can be considered as the behavior caused by the reactionary formation.
The so-called reactionary formation is when you don't want the other party to know your true thoughts, and deliberately show an attitude that is completely opposite to your heart.Just like the girl in the story, she put on a bored look on the surface, but in fact, like other women, she craves the attention of men, even more than others.However, she worries that if she acts too enthusiastic, she may be misunderstood by men, who may think she is not ladylike enough.As a result, she felt insecure and didn't show her true self.
The male protagonist in the story, Ye Shaoyang, does not understand behavioral psychology, thinking that the girl is rejecting him, and a beautiful marriage almost passes him by.Fortunately, Ye Shaoyang's encouragement from his boyfriend gave Ye Shaoyang the courage to go up and talk to him, and it turned out to be a beautiful marriage.
During a blind date, different women will behave differently. Most male friends should learn some behavioral psychology, understand their body language, and strive to promote a good marriage.
[Extended reading]
During the blind date, different women behave differently. Some women look bored during the blind date, while some women are very enthusiastic during the blind date...Women who appear bored may not be successful, but Very enthusiastic women may not be able to succeed.Let's take a look together:
The girl who looked bored during the blind date was actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside
A girl who looks bored on a blind date also craves male attention, maybe more than others.However, she is very worried that if she is too enthusiastic, she may be misunderstood by men, thinking that she is not a lady and not reserved.As a result, she felt insecure and didn't show her true self.
Acting very enthusiastic during a blind date is actually cold on the inside and hot on the outside
Women who are very enthusiastic on a blind date may just be "cold on the inside and hot on the outside", because they think that in this kind of occasion, they must be enthusiastic and generous in order to attract the attention of men.In fact, such a performance has a sense of obligation in it.
7.A man who likes to put his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worth entrusting his life
Q Jun: Recently, a man chased me.He always likes to put his mobile phone in his jacket pocket, and the act of using his mobile phone to make a call makes people feel very frivolous.Shouldn't this kind of person be within the scope of my choice?
Love expert: Generally speaking, people who are used to putting their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are more mature and stable. They are not in a hurry or slow in doing things, and they are the kind of men who can entrust women for life.Therefore, it is recommended that you spend more time observing this man.
【Scene reconstruction】
Lei Xin was cute and charming, with clear and bright eyes, and two dimples appeared on his face when he smiled.Once, when she was traveling, she met a very handsome man.Wearing glasses, this man is mature, steady, and well-mannered.He liked Lei Xin very much. After returning from the trip, he kept in touch with Lei Xin, called her from time to time, asked her out for dinner, and occasionally sent a bouquet of roses for romance.
One day, they had dinner together.The man ordered her favorite dishes and drinks, and during the meal, he also served her dishes very attentively.They chatted very happily that day.Slowly, Lei Xin developed a little liking for him.
However, unfortunately, when they walked out of the hotel, the man's cell phone rang suddenly.Lei Xin looked up and found that the voice came from the man's jacket pocket.
"Excuse me! I'll answer the phone first." The man said to Lei Xin while answering the phone.Lei Xin nodded and motioned for him to answer the phone first.
"Hello! Li Ping, long time no see! How are you doing? Are you okay..." The voice and behavior of the man when he answered the phone were completely different, even a little frivolous.Listening to the other party's name and voice, Lei Xin could feel that the other party was a lady.Therefore, Lei Xin's impression of this man has greatly deteriorated.
From then on, when this man asked her out again, Lei Xin always found various reasons to evade.Slowly, they drifted apart.
Once, Lei Xin accidentally read a book on behavioral psychology.The book says that a man who puts his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worth entrusting for life.Lei Xin thought of that man, but she felt very confused.
In your life, have you ever noticed those people who put their mobile phones in their coat pockets?As a girl, if there is such a man chasing you, you have to catch it, don't miss it!
[expert answering doubts]
In this era of advanced technology, almost every young person has a mobile phone.What many people don't expect is that which part of the body the mobile phone is placed on has different meanings hidden.As far as love is concerned, a man who is used to putting his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worthy of a woman's entrustment for life; a man who is used to holding a mobile phone in his hand has very high requirements for love; a man who is used to hanging his mobile phone on his waist is proactive in love ...
If Lei Xin in the story knows a little bit of behavioral psychology, from the way the man put his phone in his jacket pocket, he should know that this is a man worthy of entrusting his life, and he will not give up easily.You know, this is probably a misunderstanding, maybe it was just a female friend calling him.Therefore, Lei Xin should spend more time to figure out this matter, instead of making judgments on this person lightly.
In fact, those who put their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are often more mature and prudent. They do things without rush or slowness.
In terms of love, such a man does not necessarily have the dominance of the relationship between the sexes, but in his heart, he is a trader.For him, love and bread are equally important, and he is a man worthy of a woman's entrustment for life.
Therefore, girls should cherish meeting this kind of man.
[Extended reading]
Today, everyone has a mobile phone.Careful female friends, as long as you carefully observe where your boyfriend's mobile phone is placed, you can clearly read his heart.
People who are used to putting their mobile phones in their coat pockets are mature and stable
This type of person is often more mature and stable. They do things without haste or slowness.
In terms of love, such a man does not necessarily have the dominance of the relationship between the sexes, but in his heart, he is a trader.For him, love is as important as bread.
People who are used to holding mobile phones in their hands have a very high enthusiasm for life
This type of person has a very high enthusiasm for life. This man will not go to bed until the last minute when he must rest. You may find that he likes to sleep in the bathtub or lying in front of the TV in the living room.
In terms of love, what this type of person expects from their partner is to hope that you will fight against all difficulties and obstacles with him like a comrade-in-arms on the battlefield, but their sensitivity to emotions is very limited.If you really love him, you must first adjust your expectations of the relationship between the sexes, because love is extremely important to him.
People who are used to hanging their mobile phones on their waists are frank and sincere
Generally, men who choose to hang their mobile phones in front of them have their own unique ideas and practices for everything in life, and their attitude towards life is frank and sincere.The man who chooses to hang on the back of the belt is also very creative about life, but he may like to keep a hand in everything and not fully explain things, because this is his habit and his pleasure.
In terms of love, their attitude towards love is positive and proactive, and the way of expression may vary from person to person, but he will never give up any opportunity to express his love to you.
Get used to putting your phone in your back pocket
The man who puts his mobile phone in the back pocket of his jeans or trousers expresses in a gentle and friendly manner, but with a strong sense of guard. He has some little secrets that he does not want others to know. The closer you get to him, the more distant you become.
In terms of love, this kind of person will make you feel distant, distant and close in terms of love relationship.If you are stuck in it, please manage your love carefully.It's like flying a kite - if you want to get his love, give him full freedom first.
often forget to bring mobile phone
Most of these people are optimists, the kind of men who are commonly known as "heartless".This kind of man is mostly extroverted, amiable, and likes to make friends.
In terms of love, although they look so-so, they are very clear about love. They are typical cute men who talk about their mouths and don't care about it.
8.A man who walks leaning forward knows how to cherish his feelings
Mr. Q: Recently, a man chased me, but when he walked, he leaned forward, and even looked like a cat with his waist down, as if he didn’t feel manly at all.
Love expert: In fact, when walking, the man who leans forward and even looks like a cat is introverted and gentle, humble and cherishes his feelings.It's not a bad companion.
【Scene reconstruction】
Roland and Xia Qing met through relatives.On the day of the meeting, Roland came to a relative's house, and Xia Qing had been waiting there for a long time.As soon as he entered the door, Roland saw Xia Qing, and seeing him standing there neatly dressed, clean and dignified, she smiled knowingly.
Before they met, Roland's relatives told her the basic situation of this man: he has a house and a car, works in the city, and has a monthly salary of over ten thousand.Therefore, Roland dressed up very beautifully today, hoping to find his own home.
After meeting, Roland took the initiative to greet him, and the two chatted happily.Their common relatives see it in their eyes and enjoy it in their hearts.When they separated, Roland and Xia Qing exchanged phone numbers.
Not long after, Xia Qing called Roland and asked her to meet for a second time.That day, Roland dressed up very beautifully and arrived at the appointment place early.Xia Qing went to the appointment on time, and when he arrived at the appointed place, he found that Roland had already arrived.He was very embarrassed, his cheeks were slightly flushed, he leaned forward, and walked towards Roland with his waist bent.
I don't know why, when Roland saw Xia Qing's behavior, he felt very uncomfortable, and felt that he was not manly at all.Although Xia Qing apologized repeatedly, Roland was still unhappy, and felt that Xia Qing was not manly at all.The date that day broke up badly.
Until now, Xia Qing still thought that he missed this relationship because he was late that day, but he didn't know that the other party misunderstood his body language.
Is it really unmanly to lean forward and even walk like a cat?
[expert answering doubts]
It is true that when many women choose a partner, they always prefer those men who hold their heads high and their chests high.They think such men are masculine.Therefore, when they encounter men who lean forward when they walk, or even look like a cat, they think they are unmanly and do not include him in their choice.
In the story, Roland originally liked Xia Qing, and they were a good match in every aspect, but when Roland saw Xia Qing's walking posture, the last bit of goodwill disappeared without a trace.Therefore, missed this beautiful marriage.
In fact, some men like to lean forward when they walk, and even look like a cat.It is not that they are unmanly, but they are humble and generally have good self-cultivation.Most of these men are gentle and introverted, and they will blush when they see beautiful women.When dealing with women, they never talk sweetly, and cherish their friendship and feelings very much, but they are usually unsmiling.A man like this is the one a woman should choose.
Some women judge people by appearance, and the result often misses happiness.
[Extended reading]
Observing people from the "walking posture" has been practiced in all countries of the world since ancient times.Watching how a man walks, and seeing his psychology from his posture, you will definitely find it interesting.
fast-paced man
This type of man is a typical activist. Most of them are energetic, shrewd and capable. They dare to face various difficulties in real life. They are particularly adaptable. They pay attention to efficiency in everything and never procrastinate.
slow paced man
This kind of man always walks in an unhurried manner, and he doesn't care no matter how urgent others are, he is a typical realist.They pay attention to calmness and stability in everything, "think twice before acting", and never aim too high.If they are promoted and valued in their careers, it may not be because they have any "background", but their down-to-earth spirit has created conditions for themselves.
man leaning forward
They are used to leaning forward when they walk, and even look like cats with their waists bent. Most of these people are gentle and introverted. They will blush when they see beautiful women, but they are humble and generally have good self-cultivation.They never rhetoric, cherish their friendship and affection very much, but they are usually unsmiling.
man in military pace
Walking is like going to military exercises, with neat steps and regular swinging of hands. This kind of man has a firm will and is very focused on his beliefs. The goals they choose are generally not affected by changes in the external environment and things.
This kind of men are often very pleasing to women, and they are also the most sad, because once they set their sights on a certain goal, they will never give up until they achieve it.If they can give full play to their strengths, they must gain a lot, because their dedication to career is incomparable to other types of people.But if your leader is this kind of person, then your life will be difficult, and you will "be unable to eat and walk around", because they are generally more authoritarian.
pacing man
Men with this kind of gait are very calm and stable. They think that when facing any difficulties, the most important thing is to keep a clear mind and do not want to be influenced by any emotional things to influence their judgment and analysis. .They also feel tired sometimes. In order to maintain their image, it is difficult for them to smile in front of others. This is their principle of life.Although others are in awe of them, they also feel very depressed when they are alone, because they are very smart people.
chapter summary:
1.girl in tray pose
When a girl looks at you with one hand on the other, her chin resting on both hands, it means that she admires you very much, even obsessively.If you are also interested, you might as well confess boldly.
2.girl with pet in arms
When a girl holds a pet in her arms, she is subtly suggesting to you that she cannot accept you.If you intend to express your love to him, be prepared to be rejected.
3.girl with legs intertwined
Intertwining legs is a sign of submission. When you confessed to her, although she didn't give you a clear reply, she used the action of intertwining her legs to tell you that she should agree to you.
4.girl playing with hair
A girl gently strokes her hair in front of you, which is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you really like her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.
5.A girl who covers her mouth with one hand and listens quietly to your talk
When a girl covers her mouth with one hand and listens to your talk quietly, it means that she likes you very much, admires you, and already believes that you are her prince charming.If you don't mean to, don't worry about it.
6.bored girl on blind date
The girl who looks bored during the blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside. She is afraid of being misunderstood by men and thinking that she is not ladylike enough.Therefore, if you are interested, you should muster up the courage to talk to her.As a result, there are often surprises.
7.man who likes to put his phone in his coat pocket
Men who are used to putting their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are more mature and stable. They do things without rush or slowness, and they are the kind of men who can entrust women for life.
8.man walking leaning forward
When walking, the man who leans forward and even looks like a cat is introverted and gentle, humble and cherishes his feelings.It's not a bad companion.If you are lucky enough to meet it, you should cherish it.
(End of this chapter)
Life is a multiple-choice question. Many times, if we choose wrongly, our efforts will be in vain.On the road of love, we are faced with many choices, whether to choose the person who loves us or the person we love; whether to choose love or material things; Choose "expensive", only choose the right one is our best choice.what is rightThis requires us to interpret the other party's micro-reactions to make the right choice.
1.Girl Tray Pose Conveys Admiration
Mr. Q: One day, when I was chatting face to face with a girl, she involuntarily put one hand on the other, put her hands on her chin, and looked at me intently as I spoke.I really don't know what she was thinking at this moment.
The man in love: One hand rests on the other, and the hands support the chin in a tray position.When a girl looks at you like this, it means that she admires you very much, even obsessed with you.If you take good care of it, you will surely achieve a beautiful thing.
【Scene reconstruction】
Chu Yunlong and Chang Yali have been childhood sweethearts since childhood, and they talked about everything.Chu Yunlong is interested in Chang Yali, but he always feels that Chang Yali is indifferent to him.Countless times, he wanted to confess his love to Chang Yali.However, every time the words came to his lips, he swallowed them again.Because he was afraid that he would confess his love. If Yali refused, they would not even be able to be friends in the future.Therefore, he has been hesitating in his heart.
On this day, Chu Yunlong was promoted.To celebrate his promotion, Chu Yunlong invited Chang Yali to dinner.They sat facing each other, Chu Yunlong talked enthusiastically about how he got promoted, while Chang Yali sat opposite him, quietly listening to his talk, with a little smile on her face occasionally.
Just when Chu Yunlong was talking about the most exciting part, Chang Yali put down her chopsticks, gently put one hand on the other, supported her chin with both hands, and listened attentively to Chu Yunlong's eloquent talk.When Chu Yunlong observed Chang Yali's actions, he who knew a little about psychology couldn't help being overjoyed, and confessed tenderly: "Yali, please be my girlfriend! I have liked you since I was a child, and it has never changed for so many years. "
Chang Yali gently put her hands down, her cheeks were slightly flushed, and she bowed her head in silence.Chu Yunlong knew very well that Chang Yali was showing shyness.So, he stood up, went around the table, came to Chang Yali's side, and gently pulled her into his arms.
Lovers finally get married, and they live happily together.
To bury the feelings for the girl he has admired for a long time in his heart, because he is afraid of the other party's rejection, so he is always afraid to confess his love to her. This is the mental journey that many boys have gone through.In fact, as long as you interpret her inner activities through the micro-reactions of the other party, you will know what you should do.
[expert answering doubts]
The tray pose is the movement of putting one hand on the other, supporting the chin with both hands, and raising the head slightly to face the other person.This action is a common action to compliment the other party, and most of the people who make this action are women.
When a woman listens attentively to a talking man and makes a tray pose.There are three possible situations in which she makes this action:
①When a lady is conquered by a man's knowledge and eloquence, she will involuntarily make an action of admiration-tray posture.This movement is completely spontaneous, a movement that a person makes naturally under the drive of emotion.Many women will make this action when listening to the opposite sex, which means that the performer regards listening to the opposite sex as a kind of physical and mental enjoyment.
②When a woman is attracted by a man's appearance, she will also spontaneously make a tray pose in a situation where she is intoxicated with admiring the man's handsome face.The girl in this situation may not have listened to what the other party was saying, but coped with it with a verbal "ummm".
③When a woman has admired a man for a long time, she wants to take the initiative to convey her goodwill and admiration to the man, so she consciously makes a tray posture.This pose makes a woman appear more feminine, softer, and more expressive.
There is no doubt that Chang Yali in the story belongs to the third situation, and she conveys her admiration through the tray posture.Fortunately, Chu Yunlong has a little understanding of behavioral psychology, otherwise he might miss this beautiful marriage.
On the road of love, many people miss each other because they don't understand each other's mind.Generally speaking, girls do not open their mouths to express their feelings out of reserve.Therefore, at this time, men need to understand each other's body language.From her body language, you will get unexpected joy!
[Extended reading]
Hands on different parts of the head often have different meanings, and if you look closely, you can discover the real meaning they hide.
put your head in your palm
Suppose a person listens to you, subconsciously supports his head with the palm of his hand, and places the fulcrum of the whole body on the arm.This action already shows that the other party is beginning to tire of your topic, and his whole body has no motivation to support himself, and he only allows one hand and one arm to support himself.
People with cheeks on their hands love to fantasize
If a person is listening to you with his hand on his chin, it means that he finds the topic boring and the content of your conversation is not attractive to him.He is likely to be thinking about his own business, so he has no interest in listening to you.If you are used to resting your chin on your hand, it means that this person is often absent-minded, dissatisfied with real life, empty in heart, looking forward to new things, dreaming of finding his own happiness somewhere.
2.A girl holding a pet in her arms implies that she cannot accept you
Q Jun: I have liked a girl for a long time, one day, I finally mustered up the courage to confess to her.However, she neither accepted nor refused, she just held the pet in her arms and kept stroking it.I wonder what this means.
Love expert: When you confess to her, she holds a pet in her arms, which is not a good thing.She is using this gesture to subtly hint at you that she cannot accept you.You better do it yourself!
【Scene reconstruction】
When Jiang Yu was in junior high school, he secretly liked a girl named Tang Xiaoyan.He was in school at the time, so he hid his thoughts and kept secretly observing her every move, but she didn't pay attention at all.Sometimes, she just smiled slightly when she saw him.
In a blink of an eye, they were all admitted to college.Jiang Yu intended to confess to Tang Xiaoyan many times, but every time he saw her clear eyes, he swallowed back what he wanted to say.
On a weekend, Jiang Yu prepared a bouquet of roses and came to Tang Xiaoyan.They made an appointment to meet in a park near the school.That morning, Jiang Yu set off from home early and came to the park.But Tang Xiaoyan didn't come until after the appointed time, and she was leading a pet dog when she came.This made Jiang Yu puzzled.
When Jiang Yu handed her a bouquet of roses, she took the roses without saying anything.In this way, the two of them walked side by side in the company.
After walking for some time, Jiang Yu sat down on a cool chair, while Tang Xiaoyan sat on the opposite cool chair, holding the pet in her arms.Jiang Yu looked at her affectionately, speechless for a long time.After a while, Jiang Yu finally broke the silence.He said affectionately: "Do you know? I fell in love with you when I was in junior high school. It's just that I was busy studying at that time, so..."
Tang Xiaoyan lowered her head and fiddled with the pet in her arms without saying a word.Jiang Yu said to himself, but Tang Xiaoyan kept her head down and remained silent.This made Jiang Yu unpredictable. He didn't know what to do, so he had to send her home.At the moment of separation, Jiang Yu asked a little unconvinced: "Do you have time tomorrow?"
Tang Xiaoyan turned around and said, "Let's see the situation tomorrow!" After speaking, she walked upstairs.Jiang Yu looked at her going back, feeling puzzled.
In your life, have you also encountered such a situation: when you confessed to the other party, the other party neither accepted nor refused.What the hell is going on, you know?
[expert answering doubts]
Jiang Yu in the story finally summoned up the courage to confess to Tang Xiaoyan.However, Tang Xiaoyan neither accepted nor refused, giving Jiang Yu a feeling of paradox.Her attitude puzzled Jiang Yu.
When Tang Xiaoyan went out on a date, she took a pet dog with her. When she was tired, she hugged the pet dog in her arms, which actually showed that she already had her own heart.It's just that Jiang Yu doesn't understand behavioral psychology at all, and doesn't understand Tang Xiaoyan's intentions.Therefore, I feel depressed.
Relevant behavioral psychology experts point out that holding a pet in your arms is actually a clever hint for a woman, indicating that he cannot accept you.Because she holds her beloved cat, dog or plush toy in her arms, it shows that she already has something she loves.Holding your pet like this is also setting up an obstacle for the other party.The other party is doing this to keep the distance intentionally, so that you don't have the opportunity to get in touch with her further.
If you find out that the other party has made this action when you confess your love to the other party, then maybe you should quit.
[Extended reading]
Many people use "a woman's heart, a needle under the sea" to describe a woman's mind is hard to fathom.In fact, as long as you carefully observe some subtle movements of a woman, you can discover her inner secrets.Let's take a look together:
When a woman pats the opposite sex on the shoulder, it conveys the feeling of friendship
Although the behavior of patting the shoulder is mostly among men, some women also pat the opposite sex on the shoulder.This action has no other meaning, but conveys a kind of friendship and care, or she regards the other party as a child or a younger brother.
A girl holding a pet in her arms implies that she cannot accept you
Holding a pet in your arms is actually a subtle hint from a woman that he cannot accept you.Because she holds her beloved cat, dog or plush toy in her arms, it shows that she already has something she loves.Holding your pet like this is also setting up an obstacle for the other party.She does this deliberately to distance herself so that you don't have the opportunity to get in touch with her further.
When a woman touches her earlobe, it shows that she is bored with what you are talking about
Generally speaking, those women who have nothing to do and touch their earlobes are the most elusive.Sometimes, she is bored with the topic you are talking about, so she can't speak directly; sometimes, she thinks there is no need to show it, so she will touch her earlobe subconsciously.
When a woman touches the tip of her nose it means she doesn't believe you
Women who like to touch the tip of their nose are generally mature and generous, full of femininity and quite mysterious.If you meet such a woman, you are very unfortunate.Because when she is talking with people, touching the tip of her nose frequently is a bad sign.Chances are she doesn't believe what you're saying, or she might not believe what you're saying at all.
3.A girl with her legs intertwined is a sign of submissiveness
Mr. Q: Today, I confessed my love to her.However, she didn't express at all, she just lowered her head and looked at her entangled legs.
Love expert: Legs intertwined is a sign of submission, she has already replied to you with intertwined legs, why don’t you know at all?
【Scene reconstruction】
Some time ago, a new female colleague came to the company.This female colleague is named Tian Fei. She is cute and cute, gentle and kind, and very quiet.Ren Xuefeng fell in love with her at first sight and developed a love for her.
Maybe because she was busy with work, this female colleague just greeted Ren Xuefeng with a smile, as if she didn't express anything special.It was Valentine's Day, after work, Ren Xuefeng waited outside the office door, asking Tian Fei for dinner.
Tian Fei agreed to his request and went with him to a restaurant near the company for dinner.During the meal, Ren Xuefeng poured water for Tian Fei, picked up vegetables, and showed courteousness from time to time.From Tian Fei's satisfied smile, Ren Xuefeng knew that he performed well.
After they finished eating, they chatted.From some interesting things about going to school when I was a child, I talked about all kinds of joys when I came out to work, from the bits and pieces in life, to all kinds of insights in life.In the process of chatting, they had a feeling of seeing each other late.
While chatting, Ren Xuefeng took out the roses he had prepared and handed them to Tian Fei, and said gently: "Maybe you don't believe in 'love at first sight' in the world, but I do. From the moment I saw you, I fell in love with you."
Tian Fei took the roses with a sweet smile on her face.But he didn't say anything, just lowered his head and looked at the ground.There was silence all around, and the two of them were silent.At this moment, Ren Xuefeng inadvertently stretched his feet.Unexpectedly, the two of them accidentally touched each other's legs and feet.The two immediately retracted their legs and laughed awkwardly.At this time, Ren Xuefeng noticed that Tian Fei pressed the toe of one foot tightly to the other leg.
Suddenly, Ren Xuefeng realized something.He once watched a film and television drama. When a girl is willing to accept the other party, she will lower her head slightly, press the toes of one foot against the other leg, her shoulders twitch slightly, and her cheeks are flushed.
Ren Xuefeng was overjoyed when he thought of this, and immediately held her hand.In this way, a beautiful marriage was achieved.
Have you ever noticed this gesture when you confess your love to a girl?Watch carefully, don't miss each other because you don't understand behavioral psychology.
[expert answering doubts]
We often see this kind of film and television theater: when the hero wins the trust of the pure and kind heroine, when he wants to take further action, he first sits next to the heroine, and at this time the heroine bows her head slightly, The toes of one foot were pressed against the other leg, the shoulders twitched slightly, and the cheeks were flushed.Here, we love the simple and kind heroine to make a classic gesture of shyness-legs intertwined, and the body language code of this gesture is submission.
Maybe Ren Xuefeng in the story once watched this kind of film and television drama. When Tian Fei, the girl he likes, showed this kind of action, he understood the hidden meaning behind this action, knowing that the girl had accepted him in his heart. It's just because of women's shyness, it's not easy to say it.Therefore, he decisively took further action.
Although the intertwining of legs is often our subconscious action, in many situations, don't make this action lightly, otherwise it will cause embarrassment or misunderstanding.
[Extended reading]
In the leg language, in addition to the different postures and the different information transmitted, the position of the legs can also explain the problem.Because, the placement and position of the legs can help us determine if someone is honest, confident, ambitious, or just feeling insecure.
man with legs apart is confident
When someone sits with their legs spread apart, it shows that the person is open and confident.If the ladies are wearing skirts, the legs are not too far apart for obvious reasons.If the knees are brought together and the legs are brought together, it shows that the person is open and confident.If your knees are brought together, your feet touch the ground, and you are pointing at another person, it also shows that this person is straightforward and honest.If the legs are crossed, and one leg rests only on the knee of the other, it shows that such a person, male or female, is very confident and composed.
A person who crosses one leg over the other's knee is probably lying
If someone puts one leg over the knee of the other, that means they are cheering themselves up.This means that the person is not very confident or is not telling the truth.
People with legs and feet pointing in opposite directions want to escape
Suppose you are talking to a person who is facing you, looking at you, with his whole body turned towards you, but you inadvertently look down and find that the person's legs and feet are facing the opposite direction, What you're seeing suggests that the person wants to leave and doesn't want to talk to you very much.When someone doesn't feel comfortable with you, their legs move toward the door in an attempt to escape.
Another sign that someone wants to move away is a constant, rhythmic slap on the thigh.You'll often see someone slapping the outside of their thighs, which means the person wants to walk but can't.This is similar to slapping the feet, and it also shows that someone wants to leave, but is afraid of being impolite.
People with crossed legs are not restrained
If someone crosses their legs, it means that the person is very independent, uninhibited, or unaware that their sitting posture is inappropriate.Such people generally don't care what other people think.
People who stretch their legs out in front of others like to dominate others
Whether crossed or not, as long as you stretch your legs in front of others, it means that this person loves to dominate others.People with this posture are strong-willed people, and they may also be bullying.Such a person may also be self-centered in order to attract the attention of others.
Legs intertwined is a sign of submissiveness
When you confess your love to the other party, the girl bowed her head slightly and intertwined her legs quietly.The body language code expressed by this action is submission.If you find that the girl you like has made this move, you might as well attack it further!
4.The girl with the hair wants you to love her
Q Jun: Today, I asked a girl I like.She showed an expression of indifference, and stroked her hair from time to time.What does she want to do?
Love field expert: A girl gently strokes her hair, which is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you really like her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.
【Scene reconstruction】
Zhang Yunzhong has liked a girl for a long time.This girl's name is Lorna, she looks gentle and cute, and she has a particularly charming smile.However, it is a pity that the other party already has a boyfriend who is far away.Therefore, Zhang Yunzhong did not dare to confess his love to her.Most of the time, he could only silently observe each other's every move.
Once, Zhang Yunzhong asked Lorna out for dinner.During the meal, Zhang Yunzhong carefully served Lorna with food and tea.From Luo Na's sweet smile, Zhang Yunzhong could feel that she was eating happily.
After eating, they started chatting.From time to time, Rona complained that her boyfriend was only focused on work and didn't come back to see her often.Zhang Yunzhong, who had a stupid mouth, smiled slightly and said, "Maybe he's too busy with work."
Lorna pouted, looking very unhappy.After a while, she seemed to have nothing to do, so she pulled her hair to the front and stroked her hair gently.
Zhang Yunzhong quickly noticed her behavior. He knew that Lorna's boyfriend was far away, and Lorna inevitably longed for the love of others.He really loves her, so he cares for Lorna more than before, calling her almost every day.
One day, Luo Na suddenly looked for Zhang Yunzhong, and when she saw Zhang Yunzhong, she threw herself into his arms and began to cry.This frightened Zhang Yunzhong. Later, he learned that Luo Na's boyfriend had already had a new love in a foreign land.Lorna made such a move because she was overly sad.
Zhang Yunzhong's heavy heart suddenly relaxed.He wiped away the tears for Lorna, and said softly: "Don't be sad, don't you still have me? Be my girlfriend, okay?"
Rona looked up and nodded.
Facing the girl you like, have you noticed some special moves of her.If you pay attention to observation, maybe you will reap a good marriage.
[expert answering doubts]
As humans, when we feel lonely or uneasy, we always involuntarily seek to communicate with others and have the desire for physical contact.However, those who love us cannot be with us all the time.Therefore, as a substitute, some women will touch themselves with their own hands to calm down and comfort themselves.This behavior is called "self-intimacy" in psychology.
Women playing with their hair in front of men is a manifestation of "self-intimacy". They are unconsciously expressing the feelings of "I hope you care about me" to men.On a date, if the girl you like fiddles with her hair frequently, or curls her hair with her fingers, it is an obvious signal. If you really like her, don't turn a blind eye!
In the story, Lorna made a gesture of stroking her hair unconsciously. Maybe she didn't realize it, but Zhang Yunzhong, who has always liked her, noticed her gesture.In response to her longing for caring, Zhang Yunzhong stepped up caring efforts.Under Zhang Yunzhong's care, Luo Na gradually developed a strong dependence on him.
When Luo Na's boyfriend has another love, Luo Na, who is overly sad, especially hopes to get Zhang Yunzhong's care and comfort.Therefore, she immediately found Zhang Yunzhong and cried to him about her tragic experience.Undoubtedly, her move created an opportunity for Zhang Yunzhong to confess his love to her, thus achieving a beautiful marriage.
[Extended reading]
In conversation, women will play with their hair intentionally or unintentionally.Why is this?
Caressing my hair, hoping that the other party will love her
On a date, some girls stroke their hair gently.This is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you notice her behavior, if you really like her and really care about her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.Maybe, she will be your Snow White.
Fidgeting with hair is depressing
When a person feels depressed or regrets something, she will fiddle with her hair vigorously.When you are dating and you find that the girl you like is doing this, you may wish to find a way to help her relieve her inner depression.In this way, maybe you can get a good marriage.
wiping hair while talking
If sitting or standing opposite you, this kind of person will always brush their hair from time to time, as if to arouse your interest in their hairstyle.In fact, this is not the case, because when this kind of person is alone, he will "check" whether there is anything on his hair every three to five minutes.
Most of these people have distinct personalities, outstanding personalities, clear love and hatred, especially hatred and hatred.They are generally good at thinking and meticulous in doing things, but most of them lack a sense of responsibility for the family.Their joy in life comes from the process of pursuing their careers, they like hard work and adventure, and they don't care about the outcome of things.They always say after something fails, "I have a clear conscience because I did it."
5.Cover your mouth with one hand and listen quietly to your talk The girl likes you very much
Mr. Q: Today, when talking face-to-face with a girl, she always covers her mouth with one hand and listens to my talk quietly.I feel this action is very indecent.
Love expert: When a girl covers her mouth with one hand and listens to your talk quietly, it means that she likes you very much, admires you, and already believes that you are her prince charming.If you don't mean to, don't worry about it.
【Scene reconstruction】
Wei Dong is a management cadre of a company. He is handsome and elegant, and is very popular among girls.Once, Wei Dong visited a female client.This female client is smartly dressed, simple and elegant, and has a delicate appearance. She is Wei Dong's favorite object.
When they first met, they made a very good impression on each other.After the negotiation, Wei Dong took the initiative to invite the female client to dinner.At the dinner table, they chatted very speculatively.It can be seen that they have a good impression of each other.
However, when Wei Dong was talking loudly, the female client suddenly stretched out a hand to cover her mouth and listened quietly to Wei Dong's talk.Wei Dong noticed his behavior, at first he thought she was not feeling well, but seeing that she had no other symptoms, so he didn't pay much attention.
After a while, the female client still covered her mouth with one hand from time to time, listening quietly to Wei Dong's words.I don't know why, Wei Dong always thinks this action is unsightly, and when the two of them talk, they feel very awkward.
After a while, the female client remained the same.Finally, Wei Dong couldn't bear it anymore, so he hurriedly ended the conversation, and sent the female client back after paying the bill.
When parting, the female client stood affectionately and looked at Wei Dong's leaving back.Since then, Wei Dong never took the initiative to contact this female client except for his work contacts.
A year passed quickly.One day, Wei Dong accidentally talked about human behavior with a friend, and he couldn't help thinking of the behavior of that female client.Puzzled, he asked his friend what this meant.The friend sighed and said, "You don't know what this means? That behavior is not indecent, but it shows that she likes you very much and already considers you her Prince Charming in her heart."
When Wei Dong heard this, he patted his head vigorously.
Sometimes, do you also misunderstand the other person's body language?As a result, a beautiful marriage was missed.
[expert answering doubts]
"The Analects of Women" said: "Whoever is a woman, first learn to stand up. The way to build up the body is to be clean and chaste. Purity means cleanness, and chastity means honor. Don't turn back when you do something, and don't lift your lips when you speak..." Chinese women are exactly Because of the influence of traditional thinking, he is very reserved in behavior, for example, he does not show his feet, walks an inch, smiles without showing his teeth, and does not show his chest.Therefore, generally speaking, a girl always likes to show her reserved side in front of the person she likes.When laughing, they like to cover their mouths and listen to each other's conversation quietly.It wasn't an indecent gesture, but she was controlling her uncontrollable joy.She really likes the other party so much, and she is trying hard to hide her inner excitement, because she has already determined that the other party is her Prince Charming in her heart.
The female client in the story expresses exactly this meaning. Unfortunately, Wei Dong, who also has a good impression, misunderstands the meaning of this action.Thus, a beautiful marriage was missed.
If you see a woman doing this in front of you, take it a step further if you want it too.If you have no intention, then you might as well hint to her that it is impossible for you to accept her and let her find her destination as soon as possible.
[Extended reading]
Constantly changing the position of the feet
When you talk to her, she keeps changing the position of her feet, which shows that she is very angry and needs to vent her emotions.
fiddling with hair
When you talk to her, there are two situations in which she fiddles with her hair with her hands: one is that she strokes her hair gently, which shows that she desires you to sympathize with her with gentle words; the other is that she fiddles with her hair vigorously, which shows her inner feelings To be depressed, or to regret something.
tugging at my skirt from time to time
When you talk to her, she tugs on her skirt every now and then, being very concerned about the length and coverage of the skirt.This is a sign of her defensiveness. She can imagine herself disheveled, so she is on the alert.
touch your cheek with your hand
She always puts her hand on her cheek when you talk to her.This is an unintentional gesture that she wants to hide her feelings or does not want to reveal her true intentions.
I listen to you with my chin resting
When you talk to her, she always listens to you with her chin resting on her cheek, which is an expression of her desire to be recognized and understood.She is not listening to you carefully, but making a silent protest against your dullness and incomprehension.
Cover your mouth with one hand and listen to your talk quietly
When you talk to her, she puts one hand over her mouth and listens quietly, which shows that she is controlling her overwhelming joy.She likes you so much and is trying to hide her excitement.In her mind, she already thinks you are her Prince Charming.
6.The girl who looks bored during the blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside
Mr. Q: Today, I went on a blind date. I like the blind date person very much, but she has been sitting on the side sullenly.I want to get close to her, but I always feel that she is a thousand miles away.
Love expert: A woman with a boring face during a blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside. She is afraid of being misunderstood by you and thinking that she is not ladylike enough.So, you should muster up the courage to talk to her.As a result, there are often surprises.
【Scene reconstruction】
One day, Ye Shaoyang participated in a three-on-three blind date party.As soon as he walked into the venue, a girl sitting in a corner caught his attention.That girl has delicate features, is very gentle, very cute.Ye Shaoyang originally wanted to say hello to her, but seeing her bored look, he gave up the idea of going to say hello.
When all the party members arrived, the atmosphere of the whole party was very warm. Everyone was very frank and chatted happily.However, the girl sitting in the corner did not blend into the joyous atmosphere. She sat sullenly on one side, resting her chin with one hand, and fiddling with the wine glass on the table with the other hand.
When Ye Shaoyang saw her, a feeling of pity rose in his heart involuntarily.In the venue, Ye Shaoyang wanted to get close to her several times, but her attitude of rejecting others made Ye Shaoyang confused, and he didn't know whether he should talk to her or not.
Just when Ye Shaoyang was hesitating, a male friend saw what he was thinking and said with a smile: "If you like her, you will take the initiative to chase her. Maybe she also likes you."
A word from his boyfriend gave Ye Shaoyang a lot of courage.He walked over, sat down next to the girl, and asked softly, "What's your name?"
"My name is..." Just like that, they chatted.During the chat, Ye Shaoyang discovered that she was so talkative, and they chatted very speculatively.
Later, they walked down the wedding red carpet hand in hand.
On a blind date, have you ever met that kind of bored girl, as if she rejects people thousands of miles away and is not interested in men at all.When you meet such a girl, you might as well talk to her boldly.
[expert answering doubts]
When many men are on a blind date, they will always meet that kind of bored women. They put on a look of rejecting others, and seem to be not interested in the men present at all.Many men recoil from women like this because they feel like talking to them won't go anywhere.In fact, such women most want men to talk to them.Analyzing their behavior from a psychological point of view, it can be considered as the behavior caused by the reactionary formation.
The so-called reactionary formation is when you don't want the other party to know your true thoughts, and deliberately show an attitude that is completely opposite to your heart.Just like the girl in the story, she put on a bored look on the surface, but in fact, like other women, she craves the attention of men, even more than others.However, she worries that if she acts too enthusiastic, she may be misunderstood by men, who may think she is not ladylike enough.As a result, she felt insecure and didn't show her true self.
The male protagonist in the story, Ye Shaoyang, does not understand behavioral psychology, thinking that the girl is rejecting him, and a beautiful marriage almost passes him by.Fortunately, Ye Shaoyang's encouragement from his boyfriend gave Ye Shaoyang the courage to go up and talk to him, and it turned out to be a beautiful marriage.
During a blind date, different women will behave differently. Most male friends should learn some behavioral psychology, understand their body language, and strive to promote a good marriage.
[Extended reading]
During the blind date, different women behave differently. Some women look bored during the blind date, while some women are very enthusiastic during the blind date...Women who appear bored may not be successful, but Very enthusiastic women may not be able to succeed.Let's take a look together:
The girl who looked bored during the blind date was actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside
A girl who looks bored on a blind date also craves male attention, maybe more than others.However, she is very worried that if she is too enthusiastic, she may be misunderstood by men, thinking that she is not a lady and not reserved.As a result, she felt insecure and didn't show her true self.
Acting very enthusiastic during a blind date is actually cold on the inside and hot on the outside
Women who are very enthusiastic on a blind date may just be "cold on the inside and hot on the outside", because they think that in this kind of occasion, they must be enthusiastic and generous in order to attract the attention of men.In fact, such a performance has a sense of obligation in it.
7.A man who likes to put his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worth entrusting his life
Q Jun: Recently, a man chased me.He always likes to put his mobile phone in his jacket pocket, and the act of using his mobile phone to make a call makes people feel very frivolous.Shouldn't this kind of person be within the scope of my choice?
Love expert: Generally speaking, people who are used to putting their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are more mature and stable. They are not in a hurry or slow in doing things, and they are the kind of men who can entrust women for life.Therefore, it is recommended that you spend more time observing this man.
【Scene reconstruction】
Lei Xin was cute and charming, with clear and bright eyes, and two dimples appeared on his face when he smiled.Once, when she was traveling, she met a very handsome man.Wearing glasses, this man is mature, steady, and well-mannered.He liked Lei Xin very much. After returning from the trip, he kept in touch with Lei Xin, called her from time to time, asked her out for dinner, and occasionally sent a bouquet of roses for romance.
One day, they had dinner together.The man ordered her favorite dishes and drinks, and during the meal, he also served her dishes very attentively.They chatted very happily that day.Slowly, Lei Xin developed a little liking for him.
However, unfortunately, when they walked out of the hotel, the man's cell phone rang suddenly.Lei Xin looked up and found that the voice came from the man's jacket pocket.
"Excuse me! I'll answer the phone first." The man said to Lei Xin while answering the phone.Lei Xin nodded and motioned for him to answer the phone first.
"Hello! Li Ping, long time no see! How are you doing? Are you okay..." The voice and behavior of the man when he answered the phone were completely different, even a little frivolous.Listening to the other party's name and voice, Lei Xin could feel that the other party was a lady.Therefore, Lei Xin's impression of this man has greatly deteriorated.
From then on, when this man asked her out again, Lei Xin always found various reasons to evade.Slowly, they drifted apart.
Once, Lei Xin accidentally read a book on behavioral psychology.The book says that a man who puts his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worth entrusting for life.Lei Xin thought of that man, but she felt very confused.
In your life, have you ever noticed those people who put their mobile phones in their coat pockets?As a girl, if there is such a man chasing you, you have to catch it, don't miss it!
[expert answering doubts]
In this era of advanced technology, almost every young person has a mobile phone.What many people don't expect is that which part of the body the mobile phone is placed on has different meanings hidden.As far as love is concerned, a man who is used to putting his mobile phone in his jacket pocket is worthy of a woman's entrustment for life; a man who is used to holding a mobile phone in his hand has very high requirements for love; a man who is used to hanging his mobile phone on his waist is proactive in love ...
If Lei Xin in the story knows a little bit of behavioral psychology, from the way the man put his phone in his jacket pocket, he should know that this is a man worthy of entrusting his life, and he will not give up easily.You know, this is probably a misunderstanding, maybe it was just a female friend calling him.Therefore, Lei Xin should spend more time to figure out this matter, instead of making judgments on this person lightly.
In fact, those who put their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are often more mature and prudent. They do things without rush or slowness.
In terms of love, such a man does not necessarily have the dominance of the relationship between the sexes, but in his heart, he is a trader.For him, love and bread are equally important, and he is a man worthy of a woman's entrustment for life.
Therefore, girls should cherish meeting this kind of man.
[Extended reading]
Today, everyone has a mobile phone.Careful female friends, as long as you carefully observe where your boyfriend's mobile phone is placed, you can clearly read his heart.
People who are used to putting their mobile phones in their coat pockets are mature and stable
This type of person is often more mature and stable. They do things without haste or slowness.
In terms of love, such a man does not necessarily have the dominance of the relationship between the sexes, but in his heart, he is a trader.For him, love is as important as bread.
People who are used to holding mobile phones in their hands have a very high enthusiasm for life
This type of person has a very high enthusiasm for life. This man will not go to bed until the last minute when he must rest. You may find that he likes to sleep in the bathtub or lying in front of the TV in the living room.
In terms of love, what this type of person expects from their partner is to hope that you will fight against all difficulties and obstacles with him like a comrade-in-arms on the battlefield, but their sensitivity to emotions is very limited.If you really love him, you must first adjust your expectations of the relationship between the sexes, because love is extremely important to him.
People who are used to hanging their mobile phones on their waists are frank and sincere
Generally, men who choose to hang their mobile phones in front of them have their own unique ideas and practices for everything in life, and their attitude towards life is frank and sincere.The man who chooses to hang on the back of the belt is also very creative about life, but he may like to keep a hand in everything and not fully explain things, because this is his habit and his pleasure.
In terms of love, their attitude towards love is positive and proactive, and the way of expression may vary from person to person, but he will never give up any opportunity to express his love to you.
Get used to putting your phone in your back pocket
The man who puts his mobile phone in the back pocket of his jeans or trousers expresses in a gentle and friendly manner, but with a strong sense of guard. He has some little secrets that he does not want others to know. The closer you get to him, the more distant you become.
In terms of love, this kind of person will make you feel distant, distant and close in terms of love relationship.If you are stuck in it, please manage your love carefully.It's like flying a kite - if you want to get his love, give him full freedom first.
often forget to bring mobile phone
Most of these people are optimists, the kind of men who are commonly known as "heartless".This kind of man is mostly extroverted, amiable, and likes to make friends.
In terms of love, although they look so-so, they are very clear about love. They are typical cute men who talk about their mouths and don't care about it.
8.A man who walks leaning forward knows how to cherish his feelings
Mr. Q: Recently, a man chased me, but when he walked, he leaned forward, and even looked like a cat with his waist down, as if he didn’t feel manly at all.
Love expert: In fact, when walking, the man who leans forward and even looks like a cat is introverted and gentle, humble and cherishes his feelings.It's not a bad companion.
【Scene reconstruction】
Roland and Xia Qing met through relatives.On the day of the meeting, Roland came to a relative's house, and Xia Qing had been waiting there for a long time.As soon as he entered the door, Roland saw Xia Qing, and seeing him standing there neatly dressed, clean and dignified, she smiled knowingly.
Before they met, Roland's relatives told her the basic situation of this man: he has a house and a car, works in the city, and has a monthly salary of over ten thousand.Therefore, Roland dressed up very beautifully today, hoping to find his own home.
After meeting, Roland took the initiative to greet him, and the two chatted happily.Their common relatives see it in their eyes and enjoy it in their hearts.When they separated, Roland and Xia Qing exchanged phone numbers.
Not long after, Xia Qing called Roland and asked her to meet for a second time.That day, Roland dressed up very beautifully and arrived at the appointment place early.Xia Qing went to the appointment on time, and when he arrived at the appointed place, he found that Roland had already arrived.He was very embarrassed, his cheeks were slightly flushed, he leaned forward, and walked towards Roland with his waist bent.
I don't know why, when Roland saw Xia Qing's behavior, he felt very uncomfortable, and felt that he was not manly at all.Although Xia Qing apologized repeatedly, Roland was still unhappy, and felt that Xia Qing was not manly at all.The date that day broke up badly.
Until now, Xia Qing still thought that he missed this relationship because he was late that day, but he didn't know that the other party misunderstood his body language.
Is it really unmanly to lean forward and even walk like a cat?
[expert answering doubts]
It is true that when many women choose a partner, they always prefer those men who hold their heads high and their chests high.They think such men are masculine.Therefore, when they encounter men who lean forward when they walk, or even look like a cat, they think they are unmanly and do not include him in their choice.
In the story, Roland originally liked Xia Qing, and they were a good match in every aspect, but when Roland saw Xia Qing's walking posture, the last bit of goodwill disappeared without a trace.Therefore, missed this beautiful marriage.
In fact, some men like to lean forward when they walk, and even look like a cat.It is not that they are unmanly, but they are humble and generally have good self-cultivation.Most of these men are gentle and introverted, and they will blush when they see beautiful women.When dealing with women, they never talk sweetly, and cherish their friendship and feelings very much, but they are usually unsmiling.A man like this is the one a woman should choose.
Some women judge people by appearance, and the result often misses happiness.
[Extended reading]
Observing people from the "walking posture" has been practiced in all countries of the world since ancient times.Watching how a man walks, and seeing his psychology from his posture, you will definitely find it interesting.
fast-paced man
This type of man is a typical activist. Most of them are energetic, shrewd and capable. They dare to face various difficulties in real life. They are particularly adaptable. They pay attention to efficiency in everything and never procrastinate.
slow paced man
This kind of man always walks in an unhurried manner, and he doesn't care no matter how urgent others are, he is a typical realist.They pay attention to calmness and stability in everything, "think twice before acting", and never aim too high.If they are promoted and valued in their careers, it may not be because they have any "background", but their down-to-earth spirit has created conditions for themselves.
man leaning forward
They are used to leaning forward when they walk, and even look like cats with their waists bent. Most of these people are gentle and introverted. They will blush when they see beautiful women, but they are humble and generally have good self-cultivation.They never rhetoric, cherish their friendship and affection very much, but they are usually unsmiling.
man in military pace
Walking is like going to military exercises, with neat steps and regular swinging of hands. This kind of man has a firm will and is very focused on his beliefs. The goals they choose are generally not affected by changes in the external environment and things.
This kind of men are often very pleasing to women, and they are also the most sad, because once they set their sights on a certain goal, they will never give up until they achieve it.If they can give full play to their strengths, they must gain a lot, because their dedication to career is incomparable to other types of people.But if your leader is this kind of person, then your life will be difficult, and you will "be unable to eat and walk around", because they are generally more authoritarian.
pacing man
Men with this kind of gait are very calm and stable. They think that when facing any difficulties, the most important thing is to keep a clear mind and do not want to be influenced by any emotional things to influence their judgment and analysis. .They also feel tired sometimes. In order to maintain their image, it is difficult for them to smile in front of others. This is their principle of life.Although others are in awe of them, they also feel very depressed when they are alone, because they are very smart people.
chapter summary:
1.girl in tray pose
When a girl looks at you with one hand on the other, her chin resting on both hands, it means that she admires you very much, even obsessively.If you are also interested, you might as well confess boldly.
2.girl with pet in arms
When a girl holds a pet in her arms, she is subtly suggesting to you that she cannot accept you.If you intend to express your love to him, be prepared to be rejected.
3.girl with legs intertwined
Intertwining legs is a sign of submission. When you confessed to her, although she didn't give you a clear reply, she used the action of intertwining her legs to tell you that she should agree to you.
4.girl playing with hair
A girl gently strokes her hair in front of you, which is the expression of her consciousness that she longs for you to sympathize with her with gentle words.If you really like her, you might as well give her some comfort and concern.
5.A girl who covers her mouth with one hand and listens quietly to your talk
When a girl covers her mouth with one hand and listens to your talk quietly, it means that she likes you very much, admires you, and already believes that you are her prince charming.If you don't mean to, don't worry about it.
6.bored girl on blind date
The girl who looks bored during the blind date is actually cold on the outside and hot on the inside. She is afraid of being misunderstood by men and thinking that she is not ladylike enough.Therefore, if you are interested, you should muster up the courage to talk to her.As a result, there are often surprises.
7.man who likes to put his phone in his coat pocket
Men who are used to putting their mobile phones in their jacket pockets are more mature and stable. They do things without rush or slowness, and they are the kind of men who can entrust women for life.
8.man walking leaning forward
When walking, the man who leans forward and even looks like a cat is introverted and gentle, humble and cherishes his feelings.It's not a bad companion.If you are lucky enough to meet it, you should cherish it.
(End of this chapter)
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