The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 1 Prologue

Know your husband and be the happiest woman in the world

In the early years of love, I believe that most young women have frowned and sighed: "Walking through the world of mortals, a wave of smoke and clouds is lingering, who can promise me tenderness for the rest of my life?"

After that, the stars moved, at the right place, at the right time, turned around and met love, and met a right person.You and your loved ones are attached to each other and warm each other.Bathed in the sunshine of happiness, they quietly feel each other's existence while looking at each other.Indulge in the sweet taste and feel the joys, anger, sorrows and sorrows of life together.

In the time spent together, he will hold your hand when crossing the road, he will hold up an umbrella for you when it rains, he will comfort you when you are sad, and he will comfort you when you are angry. Patiently coaxing you from time to time, he will hold you in his arms when you encounter a low point in life, and say: "Don't cry, there is me, I am here..."

Once a woman develops sensitivity to love and knows how to enjoy the happiness of being loved, she will officially enter the school of love and learn more homework.Slowly, you are convinced that no matter what kind of wind and rain you encounter, he will be by your side to accompany you, love you, and pamper you...

So, one day, you agreed to his marriage proposal; so, one day, you stepped onto the red carpet of "marriage" full of joy and longing.

When it comes to "marriage", many people may think of Qian Zhongshu's novel "Fortress Besieged".Among them, the most familiar is his description of "marriage": "Marriage is like a city, people outside the city want to enter, and people inside the city want to come out."

In fact, marriage is by no means the end of happiness, but another starting point for happiness.Of course, there is a prerequisite for this, that is, a woman who enters the besieged city should not only be good at taking the role of a wife and integrating herself into the married life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, soy sauce, vinegar and tea, but also use a pair of discerning eyes to see through her husband's mind and temperament, and be a woman who understands Husband woman.Only in this way can you become your husband's ideological attachment and the destination in his heart, and then give you all your tenderness, repay you, care for you, and try your best to create a happy life for you.

You must know that having a wife who understands and supports him is a man's greatest need for marriage, and it is also the best motivation for a man to fight hard.

As far as a man's psychology is concerned, usually, even if it is a trivial thing, he would like someone to share it with him.And when sad, even if the wife does not comfort him exaggeratedly, just a gentle and considerate word can make a man feel that his wife cares about him and his heart is filled with happiness.

Regrettably, many wives don't quite understand the psychology of their husbands.

For example, even if the husband has been promoted earlier than the colleagues who entered the unit at the same time, they will still say in disgrace: "He is just a department head!" They will even lament: "You just lack the final courage, and your ability is not as good as others." Or say: "Oh! What a pity, you can't grasp such a good opportunity! Marrying you, I was really wrong."

A wife who understands her husband has the opposite attitude when facing her husband's unsuccessful promotion.She would say: "It doesn't matter, even if you are promoted to a supervisor, the salary cannot be adjusted to 100 million! Health is the most important thing. It is not worth worrying about this matter. We will work hard in the future, and there will still be opportunities." With such an expression, my husband will definitely feel quite comforted, and he will definitely learn from the painful experience, regroup, work conscientiously, and look forward to the next opportunity for promotion.

One day, when the husband is finally promoted to the supervisor, the wife who understands him will say: "Husband, you are amazing! Shall we go to a high-end restaurant to celebrate? Or go to the market to buy some big fish and prawns and cook a hearty meal at home." Dinner, reward your husband?" She shared the happiness with her husband with such high spirits, and believed that her husband would be full of energy to make a further sprint in his career.

In short, understanding her husband, resonating with her husband's dream, sharing joy and pain with him are the obligations of a good wife and the basis for further winning her husband's favor and tenderness after marriage.A woman who understands her husband will live a happy life; a woman who does not know her husband will live a miserable life.

As a woman, don't always project envious eyes outward, or even envy other women who are better off than you, marry a good husband, and lament that your life is poor and unlucky.The ancients said: "Looking at the deep water, it is better to retreat and make a net." Instead of being obsessed with other people's marriage happiness, instead of complaining about yourself, it is better to manage the marriage with heart, look at yourself, correct your shortcomings in marriage, and be a person who understands Husband's wise woman, otherwise marriage will be a face that you are too afraid to face, and happiness can only stop elsewhere forever.

Just as love cannot be missed, happiness cannot be delayed.Hurry up and put a cup of fragrant tea by your side, knock on the door of the book, and study it carefully.After reading it, you will find that it satisfies all women's fantasies about "romantic love→sweet marriage→happy life".Next, you only need to use these strategies as a guide, set off and hit the road, and you will be full of laughter and laughter all the time during your marriage journey, exuding happiness from the inside out.

(End of this chapter)