The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 13 Jian Weizhi: How to Understand Men from Behavior and Posture (3)
After buying a pair of shoes, he cherishes them very much, hoping that the shoes can be worn for a longer time, which can save a budget for decoration.And the shoes in his shoe cabinet have a long "shoe age", which leaves a deep impression on you.In terms of personality, he is a reserved and conservative man; in dealing with others, he is not smooth enough, and often offends people without knowing it; He will have a chance of success by silent effort.Therefore, if you fall in love with him, be careful!He was a man with a "passion at heart".On the first date, I had infinite fantasies about you in my heart, hoping to become a lover with you as soon as possible, and be intimate.But his reserved and conservative personality suppresses the turmoil in his heart, and he dares not confess his love to you, making you unable to figure out his real thoughts.So you might as well take the initiative and create more opportunities for him to confess. You can accelerate each other's emotional temperature and move towards another stage of life.

3. The man who wears shoes casually

This type of man doesn't care what shoes he wears, he wears them indiscriminately.Sometimes the shoes didn't match the clothes at all, and he didn't care if the shoes were worn out or outdated.He can tolerate even no socks, torn socks, or wrong socks.In terms of personality, he is an unconstrained man, often with high-mindedness and low-handedness.His private life is not organized, and he likes to daydream, believing that one day he will be able to reach the sky in one step, so he is easy to live a life of self-deception.When dating, he pays attention to high-quality and low-cost consumption. Unless he wants to have a big meal, he will never take the initiative to invite.If you fall in love with him, you will find that his emotional world is complicated, often unable to forget the old love, and unable to reject the new love.Love triangles and love squares are entangled together, and when all disputes detonate, he will choose to "run away".This way of avoiding reality makes the people who love him miserable.So be careful, don't fall in love with this kind of man too quickly!

4. Men who love to wear orthodox black leather shoes
This type of man is used to wearing orthodox black leather shoes and polishes them, and he absolutely can't bear to go out with a pair of dirty or old shoes.If this type of man is used to wearing his orthodox black leather shoes even on vacation or on dates, you have to be mentally prepared.He must have an out-and-out machismo tendency, and he attaches great importance to his mother's opinion.You have to win the favor of your future mother-in-law before you can change from his girlfriend to his wife.If you fall in love with him, don't try to influence him.He has his own set of principles for dealing with people and things, and he will never modify it because of you.Instead, he will ask you to agree with him, and even tolerate everything about him.

5. A man who loves to wear casual shoes
This type of man is a man who pays attention to leisure life and quality of life.The requirements for shoes are very high, not only must they be comfortable, but also pay more attention to the style of the shoes, and they must also be matched with suitable clothing.In terms of personality, he likes to take the initiative, has a strong subjective consciousness, is very strict with himself, and is even more picky about the opposite sex.In life, they are regular planners, but they occasionally go wild at Christmas Eve or birthday dances.When dating him, you can feel that he is a very considerate and good lover, with a gentle and polite attitude and humorous conversation, which can easily make the dating atmosphere harmonious.He is also a man who knows exactly what kind of girl he likes.So when dating him, even if you don't meet his ideals, he will send you home very kindly, but don't think that he has a good impression of you, he is just a gentleman.

When dancing with your favorite man on a romantic night, inadvertently ask him about his shoe habits, and you can learn more about his attitude towards love and life in his heart.

How to know a man by his socks

Some people say that looking at a man's socks shows his taste.In fact, many things about men are related to taste, and socks are also "important", especially the color of men's socks, which shows their true personality.

1. A man in white socks
Men who wear white socks have a strong desire for personal expression and are often self-righteous or pretentious. Men who only wear white socks are even a little headstrong.Such a man will often circle among women.He did it for fun but not necessarily lustful, he just used women to flaunt his abilities.He will not be in the mood or feel the need to care about the true psychological feelings of the women around him.If a woman complains to them, they will tell you a beautiful fairy tale to coax you into believing that it is because of you.So you laughed through your tears, so he remained the same.In fact, such a man is usually emotionally fragile. If you are the first to say "Bye-Bye", then you are either a lover or an enemy.

However, if a man in white socks is just making ordinary friends, he is quite bold and chivalrous, and he is not very stingy with money, and most of these men have a commendable side: either technology, or wealth, or appearance , Very attractive to women.

2. The Man in Black Socks

Men in black socks are the quickest reminder of laziness: an unwillingness to wash socks often.In fact, this is only one aspect.And the most prominent character portrait is that such men are relatively introverted, and most of them are serious.You can say that he is dignified and mature, calm and down-to-earth when things happen.He doesn't like telling lies very much, and sometimes he would rather say something innocuous or ambiguous.But if you think that such a man must be reliable, that is not necessarily the case.He may say a hundred sentences and a hundred sentences are true, but if one sentence is false, this sentence is crucial.

Men who wear black socks are usually more "loyal" to their wives. This has nothing to do with "inner fear", and it is true that it saves trouble.There are also romantic ones, then he is lustful from the bottom of his heart, and the word "sex" is in the lead, and there is almost no "love" element.Men who always wear black socks are likely to be or will be more successful in their careers.Because they believe that career is the most important goal in their life.

3. The Man in Gray Socks

The men in gray socks are the ones who are more pure in love.Although they are pursuing careers, they also regard marrying the woman they like as a wife as their life goal.Such a man will also be more affectionate towards women, he is the kind of family-friendly man that women like.

Men wearing gray socks are also divided into those who like to wear gray-blue socks and those who like to wear gray-white socks. Men who wear gray-blue socks talk about being romantic and don’t practice it easily; while men who wear gray-white socks like to chase after. , more will cater to the woman's romantic mood.

No matter what kind of gray socks a man likes, he will work hard and work hard on his work or career.But most men who like to wear off-white socks are more confident about their future.If he has enough knowledge, the inherent calmness and calmness of his character will make it possible for him to achieve a great career with ups and downs; on the contrary, a man wearing gray and blue socks will be affected by family and social opportunities due to personality factors, No matter how you look at it, you can't call him a handsome and unrestrained man.But if you have such a man by your side, you can completely trust him to a certain extent.

How to read a bag to know a man

Have you ever paid attention to a man's bag?What kind of bag to choose is related to a man's personality and reveals their complex and secret emotions.

1. The man with the side backpack
The man with the sidepack is organized, tidy and lives with purpose.More importantly, he doesn't care much about what other people think, even if he is called "sissy".

2. The man with the underarm bag
It completely flips the way you think about men.He is such a role model.In fact, you don't have to make too much fuss, maybe he just wants to catch up with the fashion. After all, in the spring and summer show of 2004, many handsome male models just like this.

3. The man with the fanny pack
This kind of bag hung on the waist with a belt is a style familiar to many men.But to be honest, this pair of "workmate" attire is actually quite practical, and all kinds of miscellaneous things can be stuffed into it, including change and keys weighing two or three catties, as well as your indispensable belongings.Men who use this kind of bag are definitely pragmatists, and maybe have a pro-American complex, because there is no bag more "American" than this kind of fanny pack!

4. The man with the handbag

Men who carry this kind of bag have the desire to pursue maturity and fashion, but they don't want to go too far, so when they carry the bag, they try to keep the bag away from their body, as if they don't even know what this thing is doing by his side like.The farther he took it, the less he understood its function, name, material, price and origin.

5. The man with the sports bag

The man in his student days dangled around the campus with a sports bag on his back, looking very energetic.Adult men carry sports bags on the streets, maybe because he still has a campus complex, maybe he cares about his manliness very much, and he is never willing to compromise with fashion.Such people are somewhat stubborn.

6. The man with the bag in the bag

It is the most ideal street companion among all men's bags.Because it will give people a feeling that you don't carry, carry, carry, clip or hold the bag at all.Unknown passers-by may think that you bought an unsuitable bag and are going to a department store to return it.The man who wraps it in a bag wants to save face but refuses to wrong himself.His advantage is that he is not afraid of trouble in doing things.

How to See a Man From His Smoking Habits
Although smoking is a very unhealthy hobby, many men smoke.Some men smoke elegantly, while others are just the opposite.The posture of a man when smoking can not only reflect his personal cultivation, but also reveal his inner characteristics.Take a closer look, what kind of habit does the person around you have when smoking?
1. The cigarette is clamped between the middle finger and the base of the index finger

This kind of man has no heart of pity and love, and is most afraid of being annoying or being bound by emotions.He doesn't like delicate women, but young girls who are outgoing, active, and have a straightforward personality are the most attractive to him.

2. Hold the cigarette with your thumb and forefinger

It is a characteristic of most men to like the new and dislike the old, but this kind of person is even worse.Generally speaking, elegant ladies who have to pay attention to manners when eating and riding cars are not in his taste, and girls who are informal and a little naughty are his favorites.

3. Gently hold the cigarette in the middle of the index finger and middle finger, and push the thumb against the chin when smoking

These men are taciturn and love to express their emotions with their eyes and body language.He is most afraid of chattering women, and he likes women with beautiful eyes and a slender figure.

4. Smoking while working or reading
This kind of person is cautious in life, and a one-night stand will never happen to him.Since his ability to work is not weak, he appreciates capable women who are older than him.

5. Exhale smoke from the nose or corners of the mouth

This type of man doesn't like the same life pattern, longing for life and the people around him to change from time to time.The woman he desires must have a good figure.

6. Pinch the cigarette with the index finger and middle finger

This is a rational and good man, with rules and regulations in doing things, and a strong sense of family.He appreciates talented, gentle, chaste, and virtuous women.

7. Bending the cigarette when extinguishing it

The man was manly and had many friends.Because he is very good at talking, he will choose a quiet and down-to-earth type when choosing a partner.

8. The cigarette butt is very short, so put it in the ashtray at will
This is a man who starts and ends and does not spend indiscriminately.Because he hates being interfered in his life by others, so possessive and talkative women are not suitable for him, and intelligent women are his favorite.

9. Cigarette butts are neatly placed in the ashtray
This is a well-behaved man with great attention to detail, and he is a financial expert.He won't like a woman who doesn't stick to details, what he wants is a lover who is thoughtful and tidy.

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