The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 67 Retain youth and beauty, endless love together (1)
Women must have the awareness and habit of cultivating charm

In a person's life, from child to youth, then adult, and then to old age, this growth sequence is a natural process, and no one can reverse it.The question we are interested in is, in this natural process, what should we do as women to keep the beauty in us for a long time.If this is achieved, youth will last forever; if this is achieved, elegance and charm will last forever.

There is such a proverb in the West: "An ordinary woman may not be able to become a princess, but she must have a dream." That is the yearning for beauty. If she does not have a beautiful appearance, she will work hard to shape her beautiful heart.

Donna was born in a small town in Arkansas. Her adolescence was like most teenagers, jerky, shy, and uncertain about her future.At that time, she imagined herself as an ugly duckling, not a beauty queen.But Donna has some qualities that are far more important than external beauty. Her temperament is fresh and her demeanor is steady.From an aesthetic point of view, she is a rough jade that can shine with a little thought.At least she herself believed so.

She decided to bring out her inner beauty.She goes to the gym, learns manners, and signs up for a beauty pageant.She didn't make it to the finals in that competition, but Donna was not discouraged, and then participated in several competitions, until after participating in 16 beauty pageants, she was finally elected Miss Arkansas and then Miss America.Later, she also brought her natural and fragrant inner beauty, as well as hard work, into the entertainment industry. Sure enough, she became an outstanding artist and had her own show.

For each of us, this story reveals really good news, because every woman has the same fragrant inner beauty.The most important thing is to find your inner beauty and express it, you may not be another beauty queen, but it can make you a winner in life.

It's never too late for a woman to wake up. Beauty depends on both innate foundation and acquired cultivation.

A woman who loves herself will never lose her charm.In the legend of "not loving the country but loving the beautiful woman", Mrs. Simpson, who made Mr. Edward, the king of England, give up the throne, was already 37 years old that year.I believe that women in every age group have their own unique beauty, whether pure and lovely or elegant and generous, with different attractiveness.

There was a young woman who was a guest at a friend's house in Sweden.The 90-year-old grandmother of the family also came.She was wearing a navy blue top, a long purple and black striped skirt, a white silk scarf around her neck, and cotton boots.When she was amazed that such an old man dressed so dignifiedly, she saw that the old man sat down on the stool in the aisle, and at the same time took out a pair of elegant mid-heeled leather shoes from his carry-on bag, slowly put them on before entering the living room.In an instant, the young woman lost the concept of age and only wished to be as beautiful as her now.

The status quo of people is more derived from the accumulation of long-term living habits, especially in terms of charm.The desire to possess charm is very simple, but to truly acquire and enhance charm, one needs to have the awareness and habit of cultivating charm.To put it figuratively, if you want to become an attractive woman, you have to regard cultivation as a arduous life project, and practice hard every day on the road.

The occasional slovenliness of men can be regarded as celebrity demeanor, but that of women is not.When we think we are old one day, give up dieting, and don't care about skin care, it will quickly slide downhill.A woman with unkempt hair and a waist like a bucket is a wife and a mother, worthy of a large number of people around her, but will fail the painstaking efforts of God in making women.There are many delicate and beautiful creations in nature, plants that bloom all their lives, and women should learn from them.

Take care of your skin and be a "water" woman

Smooth, delicate, clean, and elastic skin can convey a sense of beauty and kindness visually. When a woman with supple skin faces her husband, it is easy for him to pinch her pink cheeks; on the contrary, her husband If you are facing a woman with rough, gray, and uneven skin, not only will it not bring him pleasure, but it will even make him feel distanced and repelled.In other words, husbands not only value their wives' faces and figures, but also their beautiful skin.In fact, the quality of a woman's skin is no longer just a matter of youth and radiance, but a specific manual for a woman's self-cultivation, quality of life and personal temperament.Therefore, women must know how to take care of their skin, so as to be one step closer to a happy woman.

Skin care is not an unfamiliar topic for women. "China Beauty Fashion News" has a survey item in the reader survey every year, investigating the beauty items that readers are most concerned about.It turns out that skin care always comes first.At the same time, the newspaper's annual national beauty salon consumption survey report shows that the consumption and number of skin care products also top the list, which shows that women have the most urgent needs for skin care.

In fact, various books, newspapers, TV and other media talk about skin care the most.In the face of a large number of skin care claims and the overwhelming variety of cosmetics on the market, the inability to judge and choose has become the biggest confusion for women. Many women do not know where to start with skin care, which skin care methods are necessary, and which are free. Rich people choose.

Many women have many misunderstandings about skin care, and some people are skeptical about the efficacy of skin care, and some people are overly obsessed with and superstitious about "the magical effects of certain skin care products". These are not objective and undesirable .Skin care is a gradual and long-term process. The sayings and practices of removing freckles and wrinkles in a few days and changing the skin in a few months are unscientific and even very harmful.

There was a time when several-day skin peels were the norm in the beauty industry, and some women paid a heavy price for this, leaving lifelong aftereffects.Among these sequelae, the most typical is lifelong sensitive skin, which rejects almost all cosmetics, especially changing seasons, shampooing, swimming, sunshine, eating irritating food, etc. will cause skin redness, itching, long hair, etc. Acne, dandruff, especially when the temperature rises and body heat increases, the whole face is abnormally red, and the boundary between the skin and the part that has not been peeled is very clear, like wearing a fake mask, which makes many women very distressed.

The real skin care is divided into two aspects: nursing and maintenance.We are mainly talking about the nursing part here.

Nursing needs to master the main links of sun protection, cleansing, skin exercise, and cosmetic use, and master the correct nursing methods in order to effectively care for the skin.

At the beginning, we must clearly determine our skin type, and different types of skin require different nutrients.For example, normal skin is neither too dry nor too oily, so as long as it maintains normal humidity, it will be enough nutrition, and there is no need to supplement or supplement it badly; if it is dry skin, it often breaks out and itches If you have oily skin, it is best to choose some creams with light formula and oil-free gel formula, or choose creams containing rosin oil. Night cream, which can effectively regulate skin nutrition and achieve a good effect of nourishing the skin.

Now that we know our skin problems, we are going to solve the three major skin problems.

First, eliminate the spots on the skin.Spots on the skin are always what women hate the most.Whether it is freckles, sunburn, pregnancy spots, or natural spots, it will add a lot of troubles to beauty-loving women.For relatively shallow spots such as freckles, sunburn, and pregnancy spots, you can simply use a mask to solve them, or use pulsed light to eliminate them.

But for those scars that are born with it, it can only be covered with a spot cream.In short, if you want to make your skin beautiful and attractive, the spots cannot be left there to accept the eyes of others.

Second, shrink pores.Beautiful skin also cannot tolerate large pores.Pores that are too large are not only unsightly, but also detrimental to the health of the skin.Because the pores are too large, acne and dirt can easily breed and spread there.To shrink pores, the most critical process is to remove acne.Acne removal is also very particular, if it is superficial acne, as long as regular exfoliation is enough, and if it is deep acne, it is best to use acne stick to help.

In addition, there is another secret to shrinking the pores, which is to wash the face with warm water and then wash with cold water to give the skin a chance to shrink. In the long run, the skin will not only become elastic, but the pores will gradually become smaller.

Again, keep the skin supple and white.Another problem in skin care is how to keep the skin supple and white.The skin of many people in modern times is easy to become dry. The reason is that they live in air-conditioned rooms for a long time, and the water loss is serious, which leads to the skin always being in a dry environment. The woman has become an "old flower".Is the situation of the past really "gone forever"?no.As long as you take care of your skin a little bit, everything can go back to the past.

An important way to replenish skin moisture is to apply a mask, especially a mask with more moisturizing ingredients, which is especially effective for people with dry skin.However, it is not enough to apply to the face alone, the body must be supplemented with nutrients.The skin is a part of the body, and dry skin indirectly means that the body is also dry.Therefore, you can eat more fruits and drink more water, which can indirectly replenish skin moisture. Of course, people with conditions can choose some supplements such as collagen, and the effect will be better.

While doing these tasks well, you must remember to protect the fruits of your labor-sun protection.Although many people like the sun, the sun is an invisible damage to the delicate skin, and it is also an obvious damage to the maintenance results.Not only does it darken the skin, but in severe cases it can burn the skin and leave scars.This is a very scary thing, so remember to protect yourself from the sun no matter it is spring, summer, autumn and winter, cloudy, rainy or snowy.

When it comes to sun protection, many beauty lovers will invariably think of applying sunscreen.Yes, it is a very useful sun protection measure, but the frequency of sunscreen must be applied moderately, preferably every two or three hours, and more frequently if you are in the water or if you are sweating .

In short, if you want to make your skin beautiful and attractive, you need to spend time on maintenance, but this effort is absolutely valuable, it can add flavor to women and become the best reinforcement for love.

Pick up makeup for a more beautiful face

What if you want to blink your eyes and act like a baby when facing your husband, but your eyelashes are not long enough?I want to pout my lips, but my lips are not moist enough, what should I do?It doesn't matter, now I will teach you how to put on a decent makeup, which will help you gain the love of your husband.

1. Set makeup according to face shape

First determine your face shape, whether it is a duck egg face, oval face, pear-shaped face, round face, square face or diamond-shaped face.Different face shapes require different embellishments.However, generally speaking, the modification of all face shapes always tends to be "duck egg face".

Properly wearing earrings can effectively alleviate the defects of facial lines.Ladies with melon-shaped faces have sharper chins, so they are suitable for wearing earrings with "the lower edge is larger than the upper edge", such as drop-shaped or gourd-shaped earrings.

The pear-shaped face is narrow and wide at the bottom, so you can add a darker foundation to the wider parts of the cheeks, and add white foundation to the forehead and chin to increase the feeling of fullness.Glasses choose a square frame.

The round face is very cute, but it lacks three-dimensionality. You should use dark foundation on both sides of the cheeks and forehead, and brush it with long lines to elongate the face shape.White foundation is used between the chin and forehead to create a three-dimensional effect.

A short square face has straight lines and a lack of tenderness on the chin. It is also necessary to apply dark foundation on both sides of the cheeks and forehead, and white foundation on the middle of the forehead and chin. At the same time, some lip makeup should be applied to show soft colors.

The elongated square face also makes people feel not soft, you can try to apply dark foundation on the cheeks and chin of the face to increase the delicateness.At the same time, the peak of the eyebrows should not be too high, and 2/3 of the eyebrows should be straight. Choose glasses with angular geometric frames to match.

The diamond-shaped face is very three-dimensional, but the cheekbones are high and appear sharp.Apply a heavier blush to create thick shadows on the cheekbones while brightening and widening the bridge of the nose.Ladies with this face shape can ease it by keeping bangs.

Some people's face shape is a mixture of two or more face shapes, so it is necessary to choose the most prominent face shape for modification.Only by knowing the characteristics of your own face shape can you maximize your strengths and avoid weaknesses.

2. Modification of eyebrows
Eyebrows are a very elegant part of a woman. Eyebrows like distant mountains are what women have always pursued. Here I will teach you a few ways to trim eyebrows.

Generally speaking, we use eyebrow pencil to draw the eyebrow shape, lengthen the eyebrow shape that is too short, and thicken the eyebrow shape that is too thin.In addition to the eyebrow pencil, you should also have a pair of eyebrow clips. When the eyebrows are too long or too thick, they can be used to pluck the eyebrows.

If the eyebrows are too straight, they appear stiff.You can pluck a little from the upper edge of the brow and eyebrow tail, and then pluck the lower edge to form a soft curvature.

If the eyebrows are too curved, you can pluck some of the upper edge of the eyebrows to reduce the curvature of the eyebrow arch to achieve a standard eyebrow shape.

The general principle of eyebrow trimming is to pluck the upper edge and leave the upper edge. If the eyebrows are too thick and have a high eyebrow peak (although this kind of eyebrow shape is relatively rare), you should pluck the eyebrows from the upper edge.

If the eyebrows are too sparse, avoid drawing stiff straight lines, but must use a thin eyebrow pencil to draw short feathers, and then use an eyebrow brush to make it soft and natural, not too abrupt.

If the eyebrows grow improperly, you can rub some Vaseline or nutrient cream, and often brush it with an eyebrow brush to make it neat and docile.

If the distance between the eyebrows is too close, it looks as if they are connected together, which will give people a feeling of uncleanness on the face. The eyebrows near the bridge of the nose should be plucked so that the brows are aligned with the inner corners of the eyes.Conversely, if the brows are too far apart, the brows should be drawn thinly.

3. Eye makeup can determine the overall effect
Eyes are the most expressive part of the face, beautiful eyes will leave a good impression on people.Appropriate makeup can make up for defects and add charm to the eyes.

Makeup tips for small eyes: draw eyeliner on the upper and lower eyelids, draw the meeting point outwards, and slope it upwards, so that the eyes can look longer.

Makeup tips for distant eyes: start the eyeliner at the inner corner of the eye, draw this line closer to the bridge of the nose, keep only one eye distance between the eyes, and do not extend the outer corner of the eye too far .

Makeup tip for closer eyes: Start the liner at the inner corner of the eye and move the liner outwards and upwards.Begin the liner at the inner corner of the eye, half way through.

Makeup tip for deep sunken eyes: Draw the lower lash line outwards and upwards, and use some warm or bright eye shadow together.

Makeup tips for round eyes: Start from the inner corner of the eye and draw the eyeliner, extending outward and slanting upward.It doesn't matter whether you draw or not draw the lower eyeliner.Apply the eyeshadow on the eyelids and on the inner half of the eyebrows.

Makeup tips for protruding eyes: Do not meet the upper and lower eyeliner, and slightly upward on the upper eyeliner.Apply dark eyeshadow on the lids and under the brows.

4. Proper grooming of the nose

A suitable high nose will make the whole face vivid and three-dimensional.Therefore, we need to make appropriate and reasonable modifications to the nose according to our facial features.

Since the two walls of the bridge of the nose are vertical walls formed by two sides, you can use light brown, brown red, purple brown, etc., which are deeper than the skin color, to form shadow effects on both sides of the nose.

Paint a bright color on the bridge of the nose, you can use light flesh color or light pink plus a small amount of white and yellow to make it a brighter color than the skin.In this way, the contrast between light and shade of the color can be strengthened, which can make the low bridge of the nose appear higher.

You can also use pearlescent eye shadow to apply lightly on the nasal bone and tip of the nose, using the principle of light reflection to make the bridge of the nose stand out.

The size of the nose wing is generally symmetrical and coordinated with the entire nose shape.But there are also exceptions, such as the "lion nose" with a large nose tip and nose wings.Such a nose lacks delicacy due to the large wings on both sides.To make the wide nose look smaller, you can also use the depth of the color to adjust the local image of the nose.Extend the nose shadow slightly darker than the skin tone from the root of the nose to the nose wing, and at the same time apply a brighter color lighter than the skin tone to the nose wing and nose tip. This method can strengthen the contrast between the nose tip and the nose wing, because the dark color has a sense of contraction , You can visually feel that the alae of the nose is small.

5. Lip makeup

Lip makeup is the most vivid point on a woman's face.A little vermilion, radiant, and infinitely enchanting!
Before applying lipstick, draw lip liner.The so-called lip line is the outline of the edge of the mouth.The color of the lip liner is preferably a little darker than the color to be applied.First dip a little lip liner color with a lip liner or Langhao makeup pen, draw a lip line with a width of one millimeter from left to right according to the contour of the mouth, and then apply lipstick inside the drawn lip line.Then use a makeup pencil or finger to rub it on the junction of the lip line and the lipstick.

According to the characteristics of your lips, you can make up for the natural defects and make the whole makeup more beautiful and lively.If the mouth shape is too big, it should be made smaller. It is better to choose a darker color for the lip line, and dark red is the most suitable for lipstick; for a small mouth shape, the lip line should be enlarged, and the lip line can also be bright red; the mouth shape is too drum If the mouth is too narrow, you should choose a light red lip line, and it is not suitable to draw a lip line; if the mouth is too narrow, you should draw a bright red lip line, so that you can maximize your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and add charm.

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