The happiest woman who understands her husband

Chapter 75 Choose a good industry and be a woman who can make money (1)
Instead of looking for a "meal ticket", it is better to stand up by yourself

The benefits of money needless to say.Especially for women, the charm of money is even greater, and the difference between rich women and poor women is even greater.Many women start to revolve around their husbands and children after marriage, not knowing what money means to them, so, slowly, these women become numb, from a woman who actively uses money to a woman who begs bitterly Mistress of money.In this process, the difference between poor women and rich women has to be sighed.

Women who have no money are always envious of rich women. They don't know what tricks they use to earn so much wealth.Some women make themselves "rich" by finding long-term meal tickets for themselves, but they don't know that this method is only temporarily rich, and the money does not really belong to you.Therefore, we still admire those women who can rely on their own abilities to make themselves rich through struggle and bit by bit accumulation.

Of course, we are not saying that money is omnipotent. Dignity is a kind of affection that comes from the inside, and if there is not enough foundation for this kind of affection, it will definitely be difficult to show on our faces.If there is no money, many women may unconsciously bow their heads when they see rich people or expensive gold, silver and jewelry; if there is no money, many women may feel a little embarrassed when they ask their husbands for money for a long time; Money, maybe once a woman suffers from a mutation in marriage, she will have nothing but tears... Maybe, money may not necessarily bring us dignity, but money will definitely make the dignity hidden in our hearts dare to climb up on our faces, proud Show the world clearly that money can definitely make us live with more dignity.

"I've been rich and I've been poor, so I know it's better to be rich!"

This is a sentence that Judy Resnick, chairman of an investment bank and securities management company in the United States, has used her life to prove.The fate of this female chairman has ups and downs that we can't imagine: from a rich daughter to a down-and-out divorced woman; Living in the sunshine to the point of drinking and taking drugs all day long.The ups and downs of life, great joy and great sorrow, just happened cruelly to this mother with two daughters.She is old and pale, she has no youth, and what is even more painful is that fate made her lose her husband at this time.With no family and no way out, she chose the latter of the two voices of "find another meal ticket" and "stand up by herself", and started her new life as a temporary salesman in a securities company.In this securities industry where all salesmen are male, with her unique vision and enthusiasm for valuing small clients, she has created a way out for herself.Since then, her career has grown bigger and bigger, and within ten years, she became the chairman of a well-known investment bank.After all kinds of experiences, she deeply understands a truth: although money cannot buy everything, it can buy dignity and freedom.

We cannot use money to define this woman's life, but we can see the meaning of money from her experience.Money gave her the motivation to live in the face of difficulties, brought her life to a new height, and made her regain everything after losing everything.This is a happy woman?No, we can only say that she is a woman who has identified the meaning of money with her own experience.When she used money to buy dignity and freedom for herself, many of us were despised because of money, and our hearts were always poked with unspeakable scars.

There is such a novel: when a female college graduate from a law school was an intern in a small town prosecutor's office, she had an extramarital affair with one of the prosecutors who had a family.After the internship period, the female college student came to Shanghai to work in a law firm.After a period of time, she has become a moderately successful lawyer with a car and a house, and her life is worry-free.

She never got married, because she couldn't forget the lover who made her unforgettable, so she called the prosecutor.It happened that the prosecutor was having a meeting in Shanghai, and the female lawyer couldn't wait to go to the hotel where the prosecutor was staying.Before going to the appointment, in order to maintain the appearance of a poor student, the female lawyer deliberately dressed herself like a laid-off female worker by wearing cheap clothes bought from roadside stalls.

The female lawyer came to the hotel with excitement and excitement.The prosecutor was graying at the temples.Seeing her outfit, the prosecutor judged that her financial conditions would not be very good, so he asked her what job she was doing now.The female lawyer said that she had no job and sometimes did chores for her friends. She also told him that she was not married yet.

The prosecutor is scared, he thinks she is coming to him to ask for money.He glanced at her meaningfully, and then said to her: "I didn't bring any extra money with me on this business trip. I'm afraid I will disappoint you." Angry and disappointed, it turned out that he regarded her as a woman who sold her body to make a living.

In her mind, he has always been different from other men, and she regards him as a confidant.Unexpectedly, after many years, he would look at her like this.The female lawyer was very angry and got up and left. Angrily, she forgot her disguise and went straight to her car.The prosecutor chasing after her watched her car go away in a hurry, and couldn't help but secretly scolded herself for "offending the nobleman with blind eyes".

Although it is a novel, it reflects the cruel social reality: if a woman is poor, even her former intimate lover may not respect you.In a word, you don't have to take money, but you have to go to work.The "work" here includes freelancing and public welfare undertakings.If you take money, it is your ability; if you do not take money, it is a virtue of dedication.Engage in social work, will have social status.Don't believe that a man says to you: "Come home, I will raise you" (I can raise you, but I can't go home!), it means that he wants to slowly train you into a standard yellow-faced woman for future cast aside.

In short, money means a lot to a woman.Instead of looking for a "meal ticket", it is better to stand up by yourself, say goodbye to dependence, and create wealth.Money can make a woman live a more dignified and dignified life.This is something women should keep in mind.

Ladies, please turn your interest into earning power
A woman who can make money with her hobbies is the happiest woman and the woman who knows how to enjoy life the most.It is a happy thing to do what you love to do, and at the same time, you can make money from what you love to do, which makes you even happier!
Qi was the moderator of a forum on a women's website, and also worked as a reporter.The questions interviewed were all related to the woman's family and marriage life.In her words: "My feelings are more delicate, I like to listen to all kinds of emotional stories, and I also like to communicate with psychologists. This part-time job on the Internet allows me to interview many women with stories and work together with them. I think it is very good to communicate and consult with a psychologist at the same time. During the process of my part-time job, I also have a good understanding of my own feelings and marriage life. There is also a considerable amount of income every month, killing two birds with one stone, why? Are you happy?"

Similarly, Zhu, who has his own special hobbies and has developed them into careers, is also enjoying the happiness and wealth life brought by his hobbies.

In 1998, when Zhu was a junior at Tianjin Institute of Physical Education, he used his spare time to work part-time as a body coach in a fitness club.In this club, Zhu came into contact with yoga for the first time, and he liked it very much!

"At that time, there were no training classes for me to learn. There was a chance that I was taking a class, and after the class, there was a yoga class. After each class, I was not in a hurry to leave, and I was outside when others were in class. Look, remember to learn outside, and then go back and seriously summarize and study, and slowly learn, and the experience is all my own.”

Zhu graduated from university in 2000, and she was assigned to work as a body teacher in a college in Jinan.At that time, there was no fitness program like yoga in Jinan, so Zhu began to plan to teach yoga in his spare time.In the end, he simply turned his interest into a business opportunity and opened a yoga instructor training class in Jinan.

Zhu combined traditional yoga with physical fitness and created a set of yoga models that shape women's beauty, which has been welcomed by many fitness enthusiasts.With the help of friends, they teamed up to start a yoga instructor training class.In the first period, four or five people were taught, and Zhu was very satisfied.At that time, Zhu took the training class, and sometimes went outside to take some classes. When she was really too busy, she asked the students to go out to teach her.The hot demand for yoga instructors gave Zhu hope.She realized that to be successful she had to have her own brand. In November 2003, she officially registered the Fangxin Yoga brand.

Today, her yoga brand has long been well-known in Jinan, and has also spread to the whole country.She has truly turned her hobbies into her lifelong career.There are not many women who can make money from hobbies like Zhu, but women who can do this must be very happy.

For the vast majority of Guangdong audiences, Asu is definitely an "atypical star". 54 years old because of TVB cooking show "Su! GOOD" became popular, and she is always dressed in a neutral dress, and she is regarded as a "hipster". She speaks sharply and dares to speak out. "Few people can make money from hobbies like me! The two-series cooking show "Su! GOOD" unexpectedly became the ace of TVB's ratings last year."

"Sue! GOOD" is a gourmet show. Each episode has specific ingredients as the theme. The host Asu not only personally leads a team to sweep the market, but also cooperates with hidden chefs and masters from all over the world to collect themed ingredients. The chef demonstrates how to cook private dishes.She teaches everyone how to cook from the simple to the deep. Apart from teaching everyone how to cook, she will also let the audience understand her understanding and views on food during the chat.She never beat around the bush, whether it is delicious or unpalatable, it will be directly displayed in front of the audience.

And in her daily life, her greatest interest is to study various delicacies.Study how they are made and taste them.By making programs, she can not only continue her hobbies, but also communicate with the audience, and make more money.It's a beautiful life, it's really enviable!

Zhuang Mou, a well-known advertising agent, is also a successful woman because of her interest. She has the same luck as Asu.

When he was young, Zhuang always had his own ideals: "I have always yearned for two jobs, one is advertising and the other is being a reporter. I put being a reporter before advertising." Zhuang graduated from National Taiwan University.After graduating from university, she first started trading, but because she had no interest, she changed jobs four times a year.Then she bumped into a newspaper and became a reporter. Because she was not born in a major, it was rare to develop, so she had to extinguish her dream of being a reporter.

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