no-complaint marriage

Chapter 34 Growing up in the Dilemma of Marriage (3)
"Okay then," Xinrui straightened her hair and said, "Steamed fish, fried mushrooms, mixed fungus, remember, don't put onions, ginger, garlic, my love... this gentleman doesn't eat these."

"Where's sir?" The waitress looked at Zhiguo.

Zhiguo was stunned.After 10 years of marriage, he really doesn't know what his wife likes to eat.He opened his mouth and stood there in embarrassment. "That's all, actually it's what both of us like to eat." Xinrui quickly smoothed things over.

The service lady smiled: "To be honest, all the gentlemen and ladies who came to our divorce hotel for this last dinner can't eat anything, so let's not eat this 'last memory'. Just drink Our hotel specially prepares dinner for all divorced people - let's have a cold drink, this is also a choice that everyone who comes here will not refuse."

Both Zhiguo and Xinrui nodded and said, "Then let's have a cold drink."

Soon, the waitress brought two cold drinks, one of which was light blue and full of ice slag; the other was full of ruddy and steaming.

"This dinner is called 'half flame and half sea water', please take it easy, both of you." The waitress retreated after introducing it.

It was very quiet in the private room, and the two of them sat facing each other, they didn't know what to say for a while.

"Tuk-tuk-tuk!" There was a light knock on the door, and the service lady came in with a bright red rose on the tray: "Sir, do you still remember the first time you gave this lady flowers? Now Everything is over, husband and wife can't be friends, friends should get together and break up, and finally send a rose to the lady."

Xinrui trembled all over, and the scene of Zhiguo giving her flowers 10 years ago appeared before her eyes again.At that time, they had just arrived in this unaccompanied provincial capital. They had nothing and started from scratch.During the day, they looked for jobs everywhere and worked hard; at night, in order to increase their income, she went to the evening market to sell stalls, and he washed dishes for others.Very late, they went back to the rented hut of less than 10 square meters in the basement.The days are very bitter, but they are very happy.On the first Valentine's Day in the provincial capital, he bought her the first red rose, and she shed tears of happiness. After 10 years, everything is getting better, but the two are moving toward separation.Xinrui thought about it, tears filled her eyes, she waved her hand: "No need."

Zhiguo also thought of the past 10 years, and then he remembered that he had not sent roses to Xinrui for five or six years.He waved his hand: "No, I want to buy it."

But the waitress picked up the rose, tore it in half with two "swipes", and threw it into the drink glasses of the two people respectively. The rose actually dissolved in the drink.

"This is a red rose specially made from glutinous rice in our hotel. It is also the third dish for you. It is called 'The Beauty of the Past'. Please take it easy, sir, and please call me if you need anything." After the waitress finished speaking, Turned around and walked out.

"Xinrui, I..." Zhiguo grasped Xinrui's hand, a little speechless.Xinrui twitched her hand, but if she didn't twitch, she stopped moving.The two looked at each other silently, unable to say anything.

"Crack!" Suddenly, the lights went out, the whole private room was pitch black, the alarm bell rang outside, and a smell of smoke wafted in.

"What's wrong?" The two stood up hurriedly.

"The store is on fire, everyone go through the safe passage immediately! Hurry up!" Someone outside shouted hoarsely.

"Husband!" Xinrui threw herself into Zhiguo's arms, "I'm afraid!"

"Don't be afraid!" Zhiguo hugged Xinrui tightly, "My dear, I'm here. Go, go out!"

The lights outside the private room were bright and orderly, and nothing happened.

The service lady came over: "I'm sorry, sir and madam, I surprised you two. The hotel didn't catch fire, and the smell of smoke was deliberately put into the private room. This is our fourth dish, called 'Inner Heart' Select '. Please go back to the private room."

Zhiguo and Xinrui returned to the private room, the lights remained on.Zhiguo grabbed Xinrui: "Honey, the service lady is right, that was the real choice in your heart and mine just now. In fact, none of us can do without each other. Let's remarry tomorrow, shall we?"

Xinrui bit her lips: "Are you willing?"

"I am willing. I understand everything now. Let's remarry tomorrow morning. Miss, pay the bill." Zhiguo said and shouted.

The service lady came in and handed the two people an exquisite red list: "Mister and Madam, this is the bill for the two of you, and it is also the last gift of this hotel. Save it."

Zhiguo looked at the bill, tears streaming down his face.

"What's wrong with you?" Xinrui asked quickly.

Zhiguo handed the bill to Xinrui: "Honey, I was wrong, I'm sorry."

Xinrui opened the bill and saw that it said: a warm home; two hard-working hands; the lamp waiting for you to return home at midnight; the instructions to pay attention to the body in four seasons; five (none) meticulous care ; the smile of a sixty-year-old mother-in-law; the care of children from early to late at seven (up); maintaining your prestige in all directions; nine kitchens for your favorite dish; ten years of youth lost for you... This is your wife.

"Honey, you've worked hard, and I've been the one who neglected you all these years." Xinrui also handed her share of the bill to Zhiguo.Zhiguo opened the bill, and saw that it read: a man's responsibility; a heavy burden on his shoulders; tiredness in the middle of the night; rushing around; five (unable) grievances; six (left) on his face The vicissitudes of life; the obligations of seven aunts and eight aunts; the ups and downs; the mortals with nine good ones and one flaw; the true love for family and son at ten (hours) time... This is your husband.

The two hugged each other and wept bitterly.

After paying the bill, Zhiguo and Xinrui thanked the manager a thousand times, and walked home hand in hand.Looking at their happy backs, the manager smiled and nodded: "I'm so happy, our divorce hotel has saved another family!"

Husband and wife are originally birds in the same forest. They can cling to each other tightly when they have difficulties. Why do they fly separately when there is no difficulty?Learn to cherish when you should cherish it, why wait until you lose it to cherish it, isn't this kind of love more meaningful?
"After ten years of cultivation, we can cross the same boat, and after a hundred years of cultivation, we can sleep together." Don't wait until you lose it to cherish it.You know, she is the only woman in the world who is willing to marry you and take care of you for the rest of your life; similarly, he is the only man in the world who is willing to marry you and take care of you for the rest of your life.

6. After passing this hurdle, life will be more exciting
Dilemma is only temporary

A marriage that has been tempered by adversity for a long time and has not been crushed is the most resilient marriage, because the protagonists in the marriage-the husband and wife have already practiced their kung fu in the face of adversity. calm.They know that this predicament is only temporary and does not pose a threat to them at all. There is no river or hurdle that cannot be crossed in life. After passing through these, life will be more exciting.

There is such a couple who let us know: With a firm heart, you are not afraid of encountering stumbling blocks in life.

I remember a few years ago, when my son first went to kindergarten, I had to pick him up and drop him off to school every day. I could see on the only road every day that there was a tent set up with wooden sticks in a certain corner by the roadside. It is dilapidated, and there is a couple from the south living in it. They look about 30 years old. They live by picking cotton.Even so, the unadulterated sweet and warm smiles on the faces of this young couple are the envy of many well-fed people...

Every morning, the young couple sat face to face at a small, shabby small square table, eating a simple breakfast, talking and laughing while chatting, with happy and carefree smiles on their faces. Hear their hearty laughter.

Every time at this time, I am deeply touched. Although their lives are difficult, this predicament has not crushed their pursuit and yearning for a better life. They cling to each other and still treat and cherish every moment of life optimistically...

Are you tired of facing the helplessness of life?See how they live, do you think that you are much happier than them?
This kind of optimism once infected me, and I know they also infected everyone around me who saw them.I firmly believe that they will be able to overcome this hurdle one day, and the days to come will be wonderful!
After the storm, there will always be a rainbow

Happiness does not distinguish between rich and poor. It exists in every moment of life. What matters is the feelings of the parties. Although the young couple does not have a luxurious house or a rich life, at least they are happy with each other spiritually. Sweet, this is the real happiness they experience.In fact, we can see that they are already winners, adversity has not tortured them to death, they are showing their splendor to every passerby!
When Lu Ning and his wife Ma Qingxin got married, they had almost nothing. The new house was a warehouse they borrowed from a friend.In the severe winter, the biting cold wind blows in from the window, and the warehouse is like an ice cellar. Because there is no warm bedding to wrap her body, the wife often wakes up in the middle of the night.Lu Ning hugged her tightly, pressing her against his chest as much as possible, warming her with body temperature.

One day, Ma Qingxin came back from the outside, looking dazed and pale.Lu Ning asked: "What's the matter, are you sick?" Lu Ning reached out and wiped her forehead.She turned her head away and said, "It's okay, I'm just a little tired." However, Ma Qingxin immediately became excited, took out a red bill from his pocket, waved it in front of his eyes, and said cheerfully: "We have money." , to buy a warm quilt.” Lu Ning asked: “Where did you get the money?” Ma Qingxin said: “Today I sent advertisements to people, posting them one by one, and I have earned 100 yuan since I stood in the morning. Money." Lu Ning didn't ask any more.The next day, the two of them went to the street to buy a quilt, which they selected at a price of 100 yuan.

Since then, in the severe winter, Ma Qingqing has never woken up from the cold because of a quilt.A few years later, Lu Ning gradually became rich, started his own company, bought a house and a car.They bid farewell to the days of hunger and cold.The decoration of the home is extremely particular, the floor tiles and wallpaper are all imported, and even the faucets are of the highest quality.Lu Ning wants to give his wife the warmest home.However, living in such an environment, she was a little worried.When moving, all the things in the original warehouse were thrown away, but Ma Qingxin insisted on keeping the quilt. They have been using it for several years, and it has been torn in several places.Lu Ning said: "Throw it away, and buy a new one. There are high-end things everywhere, and this is an eyesore." Ma Qingxin said: "Don't throw it away, this quilt has accompanied us through many severe winter days, Covered on the body, it is always so warm." He shook his head and stopped insisting.

One day, Lu Ning came back from the outside, holding a new quilt in his hand, and asked Ma Qingxin to throw away the old quilt and replace it with a new one.She no longer slept comfortably as usual, and often in the middle of the night, tears of grievance wet the pillow towel unconsciously.She felt that her husband did not love and care about her as much as before. Although she was covered with a new quilt, it was not as warm as before.

Her eyes were already blurred.It turned out that his heart was as delicate as his love for her.

On a cold winter day, he gave her a warm quilt, which lasted the whole spring.

Although Lu Ning and his wife Ma Qingxin have no flowers, vows, high-rise buildings, seafood and delicacies, their hearts are closely related to each other, and their love is tied forever. They have worked hard to cultivate this happy land. Supporting this blue sky with sincerity, finally passed that hurdle and ushered in a warm spring...

As long as the husband and wife work together to fight against the ordeal, no matter how great the ordeal is, there is no need to be afraid.After the storm, there will always be a rainbow.

(End of this chapter)