The Subconscious Mind and the Sixth Sense

Chapter 35 The Most Difficult East Wind - Luck (2)
These nine levels are the ladders of consciousness to climb.According to the famous American psychologist Ken Wilber, everyone must go through such a journey.From the very beginning, climb to the next stage after the self-awareness has grown in stages, and gain new and more open perceptions.However, at each stage of self-development, there may be certain situations that hinder or affect the normal development of the self, and bury hidden dangers when advancing to the next stage.Of course, not everyone can reach the peak of consciousness.The internal and external cultivation received is different, and the level of consciousness that each person can finally reach is also different.

In the development stage, the self will face some difficulties, which is exactly the confusion of everyone's growth.So how does the ego overcome these conundrums that can determine whether its outcome is healthier or more chaotic?The ego first identifies with the stage it is in, and then it has to pass the test of that stage, whether it is learning life skills, or learning a language.But in order to move on to the next stage of development, the ego must get rid of the previous stage or become disidentified with it so that there is room for advancement to a higher stage.

Whenever consciousness is at a certain stage, it will experience a corresponding high level of consciousness experience.Therefore, people live in reality and easily accept the limitations of fate. The biggest shackles are the relative values ​​in the world. They believe that what people want to pursue in life is nothing more than longevity, wealth, official position and fame, etc., while ignoring the ability of self-improvement and transformation. It is the right choice for human beings.

It can be seen that vision is extremely important.

There is such a thought-provoking fable.

A frog lived in an abandoned well.One day, the frog met a turtle from the sea by the well.

The frog boasted to the turtle: "Look, how happy I am to live here. Sometimes when I am happy, I will jump by the side of the well for a while; when I am tired, I will go back to the well and sleep by the brick hole. And mouth, quietly soak the whole body in the water, look at those shrimps and tadpoles, no one can compare with me. Why don't you often come to the well to enjoy it!"

The frog is complacent, and the range of vision it can touch is the world at the bottom of the well.The range of vision encloses its perception of the world.Its world is nothing but tranquility and mud.In this regard, we think the frog is ridiculous and pathetic.In fact, sometimes, the poor are not ourselves.We rely on our own narrow cognition to make our own "authoritative" conclusions about the world, and many people are often obsessed with it and complacent.

After hearing what the frog said, the turtle really wanted to go in and have a look.But before its left foot got in, its right foot got stuck.It was startled, took two steps back quickly, and told the frog about the situation of the sea: "Have you seen the sea? The vastness of the sea is more than a thousand miles; the depth of the sea is more than a thousand feet...there is the real world. Live here. In such a sea, it is true happiness!"

After hearing the turtle's words, the frog stayed where he was in amazement, surprised by the vastness and breadth of the sea, ashamed of his own narrowness, and suddenly fell speechless.

The world of the sea is vast, but the real world is infinite. Beyond the perception of sea turtles, there is a wider land and a wider sky...

Why not in life?The sky outside the field of vision is far wider than imagined.

Growth is a tortuous journey, and so is the growth of consciousness.From the initial self-bodily feelings, gradually grow to perceive the world, understand the appearance of the world, inner thinking, and gradually form stable values... Thus, the wider the field of vision, the deeper the understanding of the world, and the self-perception of the world will gradually Expand and form your own circle of perception.And the scope of that circle is the world that can be seen.It should be emphasized that the size of each person's circle is different and not identical.

If you feel your ignorance and insignificance, and you want to escape your narrow self and get to know a more exciting world, then you have to keep moving on the road.Appreciating more scenery of life, allowing consciousness to climb to a higher peak, and feeling a higher level of happiness in life, this is the most beautiful yearning and pursuit of adhering to the true self.

In the fable of "the roc flying south", when the roc was about to fly south, the water surface stirred up waves of three thousand miles, and it spread its wings and circled upwards, flying to a height of ninety thousand miles.It rides off on a strong June wind.In order to fly south, it flies high persistently, but gets ridiculed by cicadas, birds and sparrows.

The cicada and the little bird laughed at the roc and said: "We fly up as soon as we jump up, and stop when we hit a tree. Sometimes we can't fly high and just fall to the ground. Why do we have to go up to a height of [-] miles and then fly south?" Where are you going?"

The sparrow by the water pool sneered at Dapeng and said: "Where is it going to fly? I flew up as soon as I jumped, and then fell after less than a few feet high. Soaring in the basil grass, this is also a flying skill! It still wants to fly!" Where are you going?"

Regardless of whether there is light in the south and whether it can really make people gain wisdom, Dapeng clearly knows that only by ascending upwards can he have a wider vision. Vision is a paradise that can only be seen from high places. Only a wider In order to see a more beautiful scenery of life.

The height of consciousness determines the breadth of vision, and the upward climbing route of consciousness is the track of growth.And the wider and farther world lies on higher mountains.Success in life is closely related to the height of vision.It is precisely because the field of vision determines the height of life, so the ancients had the famous saying of climbing high and looking far, and also the fable of sitting in a well and watching the sky.A person's steps in his life will never exceed the limit of his vision.Please cross the barriers of self, climb the ladder of consciousness, broaden your horizons, and look at the most beautiful scenery at the higher and higher peaks of life.

Expected goal: pull the sprint to the finish line

[Psychological expectation is like a magic wand, which can make people fly through the clouds and have a smooth journey, but also can make people bumpy and frightening every step of the way. 】

Everyone longs to master destiny and hopes to explore and understand it through various external or internal methods.In fact, everyone's destiny is related to his inner desire.The height of life that a person can achieve depends to a large extent on his childhood dreams.Dream is the expected goal of people's psychology. Once this expected goal is set, the trajectory of life will definitely go towards it.

There is such an inspirational saying popular on the Internet: "You will see what you believe in." This statement sounds a bit exaggerated and mysterious, but there is a psychological truth in it, which is the huge impact that psychological expectations have on people. effect.

There is a "god" in everyone's heart, and it is also the most scientific "god" in the world. It helps people achieve their wishes by controlling their thoughts and actions, and, most of the time, they are very obedient.This is not a metaphysical statement that deviates from materialism, because it also has a very authoritative basis.The famous American psychologist Ken Wilber wrote in his book "One Taste": "There is always a waking thing in each of us. It always maintains when we are awake, dreaming or deep sleep. Awareness. That awareness that is always present in the present is our divinity. That latent, continuous awareness is the eternal light of divinity, and it is also our channel to "God". Want to understand Our supreme divinity, we must tap into this constant current of awareness that energizes waking, dreaming and deep sleep. It will disidentify us from body, mind, self or soul and help We recognize the 'god' who is continuous or timeless."

The "god" mentioned here is the power of the so-called sixth sense beyond sensory perception.And how to make this "God" living in our hearts obey the guidance of the will and transform it into the power to achieve our wishes?

The method is not difficult, which requires issuing orders to it and obeying the command of the will.Set a desired goal in mind and pull out a clear, defined, strong finish line.In this way, the power of the "God" will also increase several times, and you will be able to seize the opportunity in life and be satisfied.

The famous black leader Martin Luther King said: "Everything done in the world is done with hope." Based on people's understanding of the environment, people have a sense of value and expectations, which elicit needs. , and need induces motivation.Why does a person exist in this world?In order to have more happiness, to realize self-worth, to be successful, to help others...the answers are different, but no matter what it is for, there will always be a goal in mind, and in order to achieve this goal in life, keep learning and growing up.

The goal is the desire of people's psychological expectations, and determines a scene that they hope to achieve for themselves.And this is true in life, everyone always has some expectations before doing things, or what effect to achieve, or what kind of range to accumulate.Whether it is a long time or a short time, whether it is lofty or ordinary, these expectations are exactly the psychological expectations.

Numerous experiments in psychology have shown that mindless practice is useless and therefore "targetless."It can be seen from this that the characteristic of consciousness is purposeful behavior, and the results of behavior with or without purpose are quite different.Before acting, set a positive and clear benchmark in your heart. Before you know it, you will have a layer of positive traction and driving force in your heart, your body will be full of strength, and good luck will follow.

People's own desire and storage power determine the future, set the direction for the future, and drive behavior toward the "sun" of life persistently.Many people know this truth, but they are unwilling to give up their old thinking and change their behavior patterns, or it is difficult to do so.

Psychological expectation is like a magic wand, which can make people fly through the clouds and have a smooth journey, but also can make people bumpy and frightening every step of the way.

Many successful people often emphasize the importance of first impressions, and this is exactly the truth.Expectations of others are often automatically fulfilled in the process of interacting with others.

If you think the other person is a good person at the beginning, the other person will often become the expected good person; but if you think the other person is a bad person at the beginning, the other person will often become the bad person you hate the most.Such a strange phenomenon is often puzzling to many people.In fact, from a psychological point of view, all of this will gradually become clear. After the first judgment, the subconscious mind has already made a psychological expectation for this person in the brain: this person is a bad person, I will not be with you. He communicates and communicates too much; this man is a good person, associating with him will bring me great benefits, and I look forward to further associating with him.

Just like this, when the body and mind suggest commands to the subconscious mind, a stubborn psychological expected goal is immediately produced, and this expected goal often affects the development of the situation to a large extent, controlling interpersonal relationships, business cooperation, happiness, etc. .

There is a very common phenomenon, whether it is famous people, ordinary people, or research scholars, they often hear similar words: "Society is like this, and I am helpless" "There is no fairness in the world. There is no other way"... People have become accustomed to blaming their helplessness on the whole society, so, amidst thousands of complaints, the society has naturally become the scapegoat for all the things that don't go well with people.But some people who have a positive attitude towards life and society think: If you can't change the world, then change yourself.Change your psychological expectations of life and society.Look forward to things in a bright direction, and look forward to more integration in interpersonal communication.

Now that you understand this principle, try to change your thinking and adjust your psychological expectations. When facing the same person or the same event, the outcome of the situation will be completely different. From this, you will find that success or failure can be controlled by yourself.

If a person wants to make his life meaningful, he must set up a clear ideal goal.Don't become a distant fantasy because you are afraid of setting too big goals. It will be difficult to achieve the expected results when you complete the huge expected goals.This will definitely not be an obstacle, you can break down the big goal into several small goals, and then complete the small goals one by one.Using this method helps overcome fear, and success becomes more solid and grounded.

In 1984, in the Tokyo International Marathon Invitational, an unknown Japanese runner, Yamada Motoichi, unexpectedly won the world championship.The unnamed young player won the world championship. This result was indeed a sensation.People all over the world are curious about why he achieved such amazing results. Many people say that he has been helped by gods, and people are used to explaining some unusual miracles with myths.And the autobiography of this unnamed teenager after winning the award makes the truth come to light.

He wrote in his autobiography: "Before each game, I have to take a car to carefully look at the route of the game, and draw the more eye-catching signs along the way, for example, the first sign is a bank; the second sign is a bank. It’s a big tree; the third sign is a red house……it’s drawn until the end of the race. After the race started, I rushed towards the first goal at a speed of 40 meters, and waited until I reached the first goal. After the goal, I rushed towards the second goal at the same speed. With a distance of more than 40 kilometers, I easily ran through several small goals that I broke down. At first, I didn’t understand this reason. The goal was set on the flag on the finish line more than [-] kilometers away, but I was exhausted when I ran more than ten kilometers away, and I was intimidated by the long distance ahead."

This is the secret of his success, simple, unadorned and stunning.He also has a track in his heart. He divides a long-term ultimate goal into short and easy-to-achieve expected goals. He draws a finish line for himself on each section of the road. With countless small successes, he accumulates a world champion.

In fact, the ultimate goal of life is the commander, the soul, and an abstract idea. It runs through every goal of life, and every goal also reflects the ultimate goal of life.This is like a series of loops, the big goal leads the small goal, the small goal restrains the big goal, the big goal is the driving force to achieve the small goal, and the small goal is the cornerstone to realize the big goal, so intertwined, restricted and influenced.

The power of anticipation is beyond imagination.Knowing the skill of using this psychological anticipation goal is the perfect use of this wisdom.For example, when discussing business, you have already secretly concluded that the order cannot be successful. When such negative expectations arise, then if you get what you want, the result must be terrible.

Many times, people will have negative expectations because of some superficial phenomena.

For example, when a salesperson encounters a customer who may be poorly dressed, has uncombed hair, poor office equipment, cracks on the sofa seat, and poor speech...

Once the brain preconceivedly determines that this project cannot be negotiated, the subconscious mind will obey the instructions of psychological expectations, thus giving up the opportunity and possibility of making this business deal.This is not a crooked myth. When you make a judgment in your consciousness and decide that the customer will not buy your product, the salesman's enthusiasm for sales will disappear instantly. The customer can easily perceive this negative attitude, so Will not buy either.

Another example is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.When a girl marries a woman, if the mother-in-law is a little cold towards the girl at the beginning, the thoughtful girl will secretly wonder if she offended her mother-in-law unintentionally?Is it where the mother-in-law heard some bad things about her?Maybe the mother-in-law hated her?
Once such thoughts arise, the next time I see her, I will naturally be vigilant at all times, not daring to overstep the threshold, and keep a distance in every word and deed, so as not to touch the warning line I set in my heart.In fact, sometimes the mother-in-law is not what the daughter-in-law imagined.Maybe the mother-in-law just happened to have troubles and was in a bad mood, and when she saw her daughter-in-law's words and deeds, she thought that she was deliberately alienating herself, so she must have an opinion. This is a vicious circle.The reason for this result is that the actor initially set a negative psychological expectation.

"What you think will happen from the bottom of your heart will really happen." Psychological expectations will affect the people around you, especially the more respectful people, the greater the impact on people.Anticipatory psychology determines people's attitudes, and attitudes determine people's external behavior.This is similar to the principle of the butterfly effect, which is interlocking and eventually tends to the original expectation. Everything is caused by the heart.

An ideal, a plan or a correct goal will give people the most suitable direction, attract all favorable factors to them, and then prompt people to take the most appropriate choices and actions.

Make good use of the power of this consciousness, learn to know yourself, surrender to the right things in your heart, and mobilize the positive power of your whole body, so that you can provide enough space for energy to attract your inner desire and move towards an ultimate goal.Get rid of all negative psychological expectations, set a sunny expectation for yourself, and better develop your body's potential.Think "best" in everything, and maintain "positive psychological expectations" at all times.Prepare for difficulties at any time, people around you will naturally smile at us, and good luck will be attracted by positive energy.

Inward questioning: Why is it said that character determines destiny?

[Character is the main manifestation of a person's personality and psychological characteristics, and it marks the direction of a person's behavior. 】

Fate, who is in control?

Some people think that many things are predestined by God, and attribute some helpless things to fate or other mysterious things.

Some people think that the direction of fate is not controlled by others, but the result of the joint reaction between oneself and the outside world. It is like a computer program designed in advance. operate on a known track.

In fact, no one will be the master of fate, because they are hidden in the body of every life, accompanying life from beginning to end!
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