The Subconscious Mind and the Sixth Sense

Chapter 36 The Most Difficult East Wind - Luck (3)
What really determines fate is people's own character.The ability to choose things, the process of judging right from wrong, and changes in the external environment are all closely related to people's personality.

Personality is the main manifestation of a person's personality and psychological characteristics, and it marks the direction of a person's behavior.Some people like to move, some people like to be quiet; some people are good at communication, some people are good at research!However, although there are many personalities, there is no distinction between good and bad.

Freud said: "Character determines destiny!" Today, the famous saying of this psychology master has become the creed of more and more people.

The famous American psychologist Ken Wilber said in his book "No Boundaries": "When someone asks 'who are you', you give a rational, honest, and somewhat specific answer. What were you actually doing? What kind of process was going on in your head while you were doing it? In a sense, you were doing something to what you knew about your 'self'. Sex'. Your description includes those facts that you think are relevant to your basic identity: good or bad, valuable or useless, scientific or poetic, philosophical or religious, Etc. For example, you might think: I am a different person with potential; I'm a lawyer, I like fishing, playing basketball... Maybe you will think like this, feel a lot and keep thinking about it."

The fact is that people are often used to define their own personality, and can also analyze their personality characteristics from their professional characteristics.More and more scholars study the personalities of successful people and hope to replicate success by helping people change their personalities.

An American reporter interviewed Morgan, a master of investment banking in his later years, and asked: "What conditions determine your success?"

Old Morgan said unabashedly: "Character."

The reporter continued to ask: "Which is more important, capital or funds?"

The old Morgan gave this answer: "Capital is more important than money, but the most important thing is character."

It can be seen from this that character is regarded as the supreme magic weapon by this business elite.

Tracing Morgan's struggle history, he successfully issued U.S. government bonds in Europe, and accepted the advice of unknown people to carry out the Steel Trust plan, and even risked his life to promote the national railway union...all stem from his stubborn and innovative character.If he did not have such courage, I am afraid that no amount of capital would be able to start the great pioneering business of investment banking.

The character elements to achieve a great cause are very simple, and patience, rationality, and calmness have become the masters.It can be seen that the importance of character and its energy are far beyond people's imagination.The ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus also lamented: "A man's character is his destiny."

The role of character is so great that it often causes all kinds of doubts, which is the result of exaggerating its role and deifying it.Questioning voices are understandable, but the effect of his character should not be underestimated.

A person with a good personality, positive, sunny, and optimistic personality must have an open-minded heart.True joy and happiness come from the heart, and it will evolve into an incredible power, so that more and more people are willing to smile at you, and more business opportunities are willing to favor you... All good things will be controlled by this in your body Attracted by this kind of power, and all good things converge into a kind of good luck, boosting fate and rising steadily.

Conversely, would anyone want to get along with a person who is unconfident, indecisive, suspicious, complaining, frustrated, helpless, distracted, and often sighs?Those who nod to express approval are inevitably suspected of masochistic tendencies.Similarly, when good luck encounters such a dark and unpretentious person, it will not "send charcoal in a timely manner" and will only take a detour. In contrast, good luck prefers those who are optimistic, positive, confident, and strong.

Looking through general psychology textbooks, we often find such a definition: personality is the sum of a person's stable attitude towards reality and habitual behavior.Good behavior habits constitute good character qualities, and bad habits constitute bad character qualities.Good behavior habits and bad behavior habits certainly have completely different influences on people's future development. The power of "character determines destiny" is self-evident.

Character determines destiny also because it guides different life orientations.Holland, an American psychologist and career guidance expert, put forward the theory of professional personality after more than ten years of transnational research.He believes that human personality can be roughly divided into six types, and these six types correspond to six types of occupations. If a person has a certain type of personality, he is likely to be interested in this type of occupation and is also suitable for engaging in occupations. this occupation.The six personalities are: realistic, research, artistic, social, entrepreneurial, and traditional, and these personalities also point to different career development and life directions.

In addition to determining destiny, character directly affects many aspects such as a person's behavior and living habits.Therefore, when people are deciding what to do and how to do it, they must first be clear about their personality and professional orientation.Wise people make choices that match their character.

At the beginning, those people who were once similar walked on the same trajectory of fate, but when they came to a fork in life and needed to make a choice for the road ahead, their personalities played a role, making everyone's paths diverge.A humble person will make a prudent choice, an impulsive person will make an emotional choice, a smart person will make a wise choice, and a cunning person will make a choice that is in line with his own interests...There are so many different choices, and the differences are getting bigger and bigger. The bigger you are, the bigger you are, the opposite is true, and your destiny runs according to a new trajectory. On each journey, you will meet new friends and partners. All kinds of people are together and influence each other, making you hesitate in the next choice.

Many people will have this kind of experience. Those classmates and friends who were familiar with at the beginning were very similar.Going to and from school together, playing together, with similar grades, similar age, similar family background... After many years, it is a world of difference.He may be quietly enjoying the elegant charm of books, while he may be in the ups and downs of the business world, his deskmate may be wandering in the palace of art, and his monitor may be fighting in the workplace... In this way, he embarked on a different life track.When people lament "it has changed, everything has changed", the reason is that in many cases it is due to personality.

Personality differences influence people's hobbies and value judgments, which in turn will make people make very different choices.After turning the rudder in the sea of ​​life, different chapters of life will surely be opened.

The power of character should not be underestimated, but also lies in the first impression, manners, emotions, aura, etc.It is difficult for the person involved to realize how important it is, but once you change to the eyes of others, it is not so casual.

No matter what affects a person's personality more deeply, the question is, is there a natural winner's character, and is there a natural loser character?

As the 20/80 law says, in any set of things, the most important only accounts for a small part, about 2%, and the remaining 8%, although they are the majority, are secondary.The ratio of success to failure is [-]:[-].There are two successful people, and eight people have become the foreshadowing of failure.In fact, positive and negative personalities roughly follow the [-]-[-] rule.If a person wants to succeed, he needs to use the power of character wisely, reorganize his character, and perfect it into the ratio of two.

In May 1998, 5 students at the University of Washington were honored to invite the world's richest men, Warren Buffett and Gates, to give speeches. When the students asked the interesting question "How do you become richer than God", he said: "It's a very simple question. It's not about IQ. Why do smart people do things that prevent them from being fully functional? It's about habit, character, and temper."

Gates agrees: "I think Warren Buffett is absolutely right about habits."

Contemporary psychology clearly points out that human beings are not mechanically and passively dependent on objective stimuli, but have great initiative.Different subject conditions reflect differently to reality; at the same time, people are not passive in their reaction to the objective world, they will choose and construct their favorite environment in their own way, thus actively acting on it.

Regarding the proposition that "character determines destiny", specifically, it should be a progressive relationship such as "behavior determines habits, habits determine character, and character determines destiny".What we have to do is to face life and the status quo, reverse the life process, find the ultimate life goal and value, so as to improve behavior, habits, and even character.In this way, character and destiny are mutually promoting and positive.

Self-suggestion: rich people get richer

[Self-suggestion, like a ghost, exploits loopholes in every detail of life.It can make the poor tend to be embarrassed, and it can help the rich get richer.It is like a curse, but it is very reasonable. 】

Have you ever felt like this, when you can’t get rid of the distress in your heart, find someone to talk to, and the pain will be relieved a lot.Also, when we "boast" about something, we try our best to get it done.Because if you say it, there will be pressure and motivation. The principle of life in your heart requires you to be consistent with your words and deeds. In fact, this is a psychological suggestion.

Psychological suggestion is divided into self-suggestion and other-suggestion. Next, we will focus on self-suggestion first.

There is such a famous psychological experiment: a piece of wet paper is pasted on the skin of the subject, and he is told that this is a special paper that can make the skin locally warm, and the person who is pasted is asked to feel the warmth of the skin with his heart. temperature change.After more than ten minutes passed, the paper was removed, and the skin where it was pasted turned red and felt hot to the touch.

In fact, it was just a piece of ordinary wet paper, but the experimenter felt the temperature and his skin turned red. This is precisely the autosuggestion that magically changes the local temperature of the skin.Therefore, the experimenter strongly felt that the paper can make the skin warm, the desire, will and even the actual action will happen in a moment.Such brain awareness eventually leads to results going to the opposite of desire.Its subtext is: "This must be true, and I don't need to refute it at all."

The power of self-suggestion is so powerful that the subconscious mind is suppressed, and the subconscious mind obeys the psychological suggestion of the self.

People will have a strong desire to accept external cues and establish an image through the medium of language and sound.The image a person paints for himself in his heart will determine his future.Because hints often affect our growth in a subtle way.This amazing power is at our disposal if we choose.

Everyone is their own god, and can make psychological hints for themselves through instructions.It is just a suggestion, but once this suggestion is injected into the mysterious self subconscious, it will immediately transform into a dynamic and strong force.

Suggestion is a chain of information transmission. Information generates beliefs, beliefs form attitudes, attitudes create feelings, feelings determine behavior, and behavior leads to results.Positive and healthy self-suggestion is like the wind that can help sail, which can lead people to the other side of heaven; negative and harmful self-suggestion is the poison of bad luck, which can lead people to hell.

Researchers have been studying the effect of psychological suggestion on the self for a long time. An experiment of psychological suggestion was conducted in a German prisoner-of-war camp during World War II.The researcher took Prisoner A to a room, tied him to a chair, blindfolded him, cut his wrist with a knife, and the blood flowed into a large bucket.All this was watched by the prisoner B who was on the side all the time, and when A's blood ran out, he died.A few days later, Prisoner B was brought into this laboratory to repeat the actions he had done to Prisoner A. When Prisoner B felt a pain in his wrist, he heard the sound of his own blood flowing into the bucket, and the sound of blood ticking After stopping, he tilted his head and died.In fact, the cut on his wrist did not cut his blood vessels, and the sound of blood was imitated by running water. His miraculous death shocked the researchers.

Who is the real executioner who ended this life?

The answer is simple, it is self-psychological suggestion at work.Prisoner B sees the death process of A, and when he feels that he is going through the same death process, he adjusts the excitement level of the brain through the function of mental language and imitating memories, and then adjusts the physiological and psychological mechanisms in the human body, so as to control the psychological state of the person. Quickly make an impact, thereby convincing yourself of biological death.Intense conscious forces stop the physiology from functioning.

It is a matter of life and death, that self-suggestion can have such a great influence, people have to sigh.However, although it is magical, it is not far from life and sticks firmly to everyone.

People often say "words must be done", this sentence actually confirms the magical psychological phenomenon of psychological suggestion.Language has a very obvious suggestion and self-suggestion function, and what people say has already had an impact on behavior, and "speaking" is a kind of psychological reinforcement.Whether positive or negative words are spoken, its impact is indelible and positively influences thinking and actions.

Just like the ancient oracle, the ancestors knew that they could get a mysterious power through repeated chanting, so as to achieve their wishes.People at that time were in awe of this ancient and mysterious power.The scientific world has eliminated all superstition and idealism, but it is undeniable that the oracles of the ancients did have a certain influence, and the secret is that this is a positive suggestion at work.By repeating words, people strengthen their subconscious self-commands, and exert the most positive influence on wishes from all aspects.

Psychologist Pranov believes that the result of suggestion changes people's mood, interests, emotions, hobbies, wishes, etc., which in turn changes some of people's physiological functions, health status, and work ability.

And in life, it is often found that a person who often speaks negative words will never be positive, and his living conditions corresponding to him must be full of troubles and disorder, and his interpersonal relationship is even more cold and muddy. It is also full of hurt and fickleness; on the contrary, a positive person speaks mostly positive words, his life is full of sunshine and smiling faces, his work is full of passion, even if he encounters ups and downs, he will always resolve them quickly, interpersonal and Good luck, happy family.Regardless of the rigor of the relationship between the two states, the impact of the two different attitudes can be clearly seen everywhere in life.

If you want to master the essentials of self-suggestion, it is necessary to express your requirements and desires to the subconscious mind. You need to relax your whole body and perform self-suggestion with a peaceful mind. Only in this way can the subconscious mind work obediently according to your orders and exert its power.Also, don't pay too much attention to the details and methods in the process, do your best in everything, and what's more important is your mentality.Whenever the problem you want to solve is solved, and you clearly remember the joy of success, it is not difficult to verify the effectiveness of this psychological suggestion by yourself.

Negative hints can have a huge effect.A person who lacks firm confidence in the future or a practitioner who is working hard, if it is hinted that he will have bad luck recently, to a large extent he will give up his efforts, and his psychology will be negatively affected to a certain extent. The failure or unsatisfactoryness of a person will make him think that he is really "bad luck".But what he didn't know was that this was actually because of his own giving up, which quickly transformed the positive factors around him, becoming a person who is completely afraid of failure, and the more afraid of failure, the easier it is to fail.

Every day, people are constantly receiving various cues from themselves and others, and this influence can sometimes bring joy and confidence, and other times can make people feel depressed and uneasy.Positive and negative hints lead to completely different consequences, which is enough to show its magical power.Master the method and make full use of it, and you can face life more optimistically.

Psychologist Pavlov believes that suggestion is the simplest and most typical conditioned reflex of human beings.As mentioned earlier, there are two types of suggestion: self-suggestion and others-suggestion.Self-suggestion means that people accept a certain idea, exert some influence on their own psychology, and make emotion and will work.The suggestion of others refers to a psychological phenomenon that occurs when an individual interacts with others, and others make their emotions and will work.

According to the classification of psychology and related disciplines, suggestion and autosuggestion are divided into three levels:
The first level is the self-suggestion of the language and writing system in the narrow sense that is said in daily life.

As the saying goes, "Three people make a tiger" and "a lie repeated [-] times becomes the truth".

When all ten people repeat the sentence "You are seriously ill, go to the hospital for examination" very truthfully.After receiving the information that you are sick, your vision and hearing will naturally suggest to your subconscious mind, and the subconscious mind will indicate that there should be pain in the relevant parts of the body, so that you will naturally feel that you are already sick .Then, I actually went to the hospital for an examination.

If a person meets everyone, he will say that he is tired, in a bad mood, and complains that his work and life are not going well, and gradually this situation often happens.His state will be exhausted, and his life will be even more ups and downs.Such people are not uncommon in our real life.

Now that we fully understand that language has the power of suggestion and self-suggestion, the health, happiness, harmony we want... are all controllable to a certain extent.

It is a very common phenomenon that when people talk about self-confidence and positiveness, they add the word "I" in front of it, "I am successful, I am the best, and I am very happy". After such a long time, a positive and powerful force will be produced in the body, Afterwards, good luck will also visit frequently.

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