The Subconscious Mind and the Sixth Sense

Chapter 37 The Most Difficult East Wind - Luck (4)
The second level is the self-suggestion of action language and expression language.

Communication between people is not only through oral language, but also through body movements and facial expressions.If a person throws a fist at another person, this gesture indicates intimidation and threat.For example, if the leader frowns, it shows doubts and dissatisfaction with the subordinates; when the dancers are performing, the audience cheers and applauds continuously, which means that they like and praise. Through these external factors, people's confidence will be doubled... This kind of body language Hints abound.

Research has found that people get a sense of security by crossing their arms around their shoulders, putting their hands in their pockets, curling up... These body movements.These actions are also a kind of defensive self-suggestion.

In real life, one of the body language that everyone needs to learn most is to smile. A smile is a good hint. A smiling expression brings people a good mood and good luck. A smile is a "good medicine" and a smile is healthy "Pass", a smile is the cheapest "tonic" in the world.Even if you put on a smiling pose, the stress in your heart will be relieved.

The third level is the self-suggestion of environmental language.

The famous Hawthorne experiment shows that, in addition to being affected by certain external factors, the level of production efficiency depends to a greater extent on the level of morale.People often use some special methods, that is, use certain language and behavior to stimulate people's mentality, so as to achieve the purpose of regulating morale and correct their behavior.

As the saying goes: "When you get close to vermilion, you get red; when you get close to ink, you get black."It is also very necessary to grasp a course of life, choose the right environment, and create an environment for yourself to obtain positive self-suggestion.

Auto-suggestion has magical power, so how can we manipulate it, obtain this superpower, and then control life?

Everyone in this world is a pillar of energy with great potential.In the age of fierce competition, low-key has become a kind of publicity. People often think of themselves very lowly, even belittle themselves, and make judgments for themselves subjectively: some things are beyond the reach of ordinary people like us.This is not the case, people themselves underestimate themselves.Everyone has great, untapped potential.These potentials will be brought out once the proper incentives are met.And the medium that ignites the potential is the psychological hint to the self.

An American psychologist once systematically studied the successful experiences of some famous historical figures, and came to the conclusion that a high level of self-acknowledgment and belief that they have extraordinary creativity are the main reasons for their success; Extraordinary creativity is what most people should have.

Generally speaking, people's potential in daily work and life only accounts for 3%-10% of the total potential.Then, when people learn and master the power of self-suggestion, they can bring out the potential hidden in their hearts, brighten their future, and become an invincible "rich man".

Murphy's Law: The more you are afraid of making mistakes, the more you will make mistakes
[People are always used to setting the trend or ending of tragedy in the realm of thought for things that haven't happened yet. 】

Have you ever had such an experience?When you don't have an umbrella, it rains; when you bring an umbrella, it doesn't rain!Outside the door, the phone rang continuously, but once inside the door, it stopped ringing!After waiting for a long time for the bus, it was packed, and when I got into the taxi, I found an empty bus followed closely behind.

Then I felt emotional: Life is so helpless!

"Water Margin" No.30 seven chapters: "Song Jiang listened to it, decided to two gentlemen and said: "It is also suffering!It's just that "blessings come without pairs, and misfortunes never come singly." '"

"A good spirit does not have a bad spirit!" This is a universal truth that most people agree with.People are helpless about such things, but they are common in daily life.Many people have verified this evil theorem based on their own experience.Psychology calls this phenomenon Murphy's Law.

Murphy's Law was first proposed by a captain named Edward Murphy, a captain engineer at Edwards Air Force Base in the United States. He collected many trivial experiences in combat, such as: "If you make it too difficult for the enemy to attack, then you It's going to be hard to get out" or something.

In fact, not only in battle, people also verify Murphy's Law time and time again in life.Rumors tend to spread the fastest where they can cause the most harm, and the secrets you want to keep are the most unfortunate people you guard against the most. The more important things come to the most critical period, the more likely it is to make mistakes!Sometimes, people can't help but shout: "Why?"

The answer to each event is different, but such a bad thing constitutes this unreasonable Murphy's law.Murphy's Law tells people, don't just think that things are irrelevant.The weather forecast said there might be rain, but when I went out in the morning and saw the sun was shining, I didn’t bring rain gear, and I regretted it when I was drenched in water.

When doing business, you only think about the huge profits if the business is successful, but you don't anticipate that if something goes wrong, you will lose everything.If you've made any of these mistakes, you've got Murphy's Law retaliated!
"Why are you always so unlucky?" This is the questioning voice of many people, which can often be heard from themselves or those around them.

Murphy's law clearly states that when you are unlucky, never be so angry and ask why repeatedly. If something can be wrong, it will definitely be wrong. cause damage.So, in order for things not to be so bad, please control your emotions.Mistakes have already happened, and the only thing that can be controlled is to prevent the bad from spreading.It is a clear move for those who know current affairs to make up for it after a dead sheep.

Although Murphy's Law is an inadvertent joke, it actually contains a deep truth, because it reveals a unique social and natural phenomenon.

Some people may say: "I don't believe in this evil!" They analyze each information of the phenomenon in Murphy's Law one by one, and use psychology, sociology, biology, probability theory, etc. to test and analyze.Starting from the source of an event, people begin to accept this kind of bad self-psychological suggestion when their views on things are formed. Then, the body functions will have a strong reaction, the heartbeat will speed up, the mind will be distracted, and the palms will appear. Khan, lack of concentration, that's why I wrestle, do wrong things, and say wrong words.

This one-by-one explanation is mostly reasonable, but when there are so many and frequent unlucky events in life, people have to admit that Murphy's Law is too close to our life, like a mental organ, so close We cannot ignore its existence.Murphy's Law directly points to people's embarrassment, and it also points out the common weakness of people.Some people even suspect that Murphy's Law is a joke of God.

Phenomena that follow Murphy's Law are almost everywhere.When we lose something, the first place we go to is often the last place we can find it, or we may find something we were not looking for.

Many scholars have asked skeptically: "Is Murphy's Law a law of natural science?"

So, are we helpless in the face of Murphy's Law?the answer is negative.As long as you are a "careful person", Murphy's Law will no longer be an embarrassing annoyance.Never make predictions, because if you are wrong, no one will forget; if you are right, no one will remember.It is conceivable that in many cases, it is better to learn to close the "crow's mouth" in thinking.

"Even if you endure hardships, you will become a master" is a creed that many people worship.Thinking about it in another way, such repeated emphasis is not asking for trouble, and taking this statement as a creed in life, it is conceivable that this person will have endless suffering in the future, because in his thinking setting , has strongly believed that only after suffering can one become a master.

"Heaven will send a great mission to the people, and they must first suffer their minds and minds, exhaust their muscles and bones, starve their bodies, and empty their bodies..." People have been brainwashed by this sentence, why is success always with a heavy heart? What about the sad tone?

In the boundary of consciousness, I consciously imitate those tragic heroes who have been exaggerated. In fact, more people in this world have achieved personal success, happiness, and prosperity through joy, gratitude, and satisfaction. Most people don't believe in themselves or can't believe that they can get good luck, so luck has to stay away as they wish.

People are always accustomed to pre-setting the trend or ending of tragedy in the realm of thought for things that have not yet happened. Some people say it is pessimistic, while others interpret it as an ideal expectation. "Prepare for the best, plan for the worst," many people regard this as a pious mantra of conduct.When such a tragedy happens, I am more psychologically prepared.As everyone knows, the more you think like this, the more tragedy will happen, and then you will have such a voice in your heart: Look, I’ll just say it... People like to enjoy the sense of victory in unfounded speculation, and Enjoy the tragedy of your own creation.

The competition in modern society is fierce, and the pace of people's life is accelerating accordingly. The nerves seem to be tightly wound, and the more tightly wound, the more pressure is increasing. Anxiety and melancholy will follow, leading to loss of balance in life and loneliness. And anxiety swallows happiness and joy.If your awareness realizes that this is the true feeling of yourself at this time, then be cheerful, let go of your frown, smile at this terrible Murphy's law, let optimism sweep away all bad luck, and relieve anxiety and trouble in your heart worry.

If you happen to be stuck on the way to work, take a deep breath and try to think of it like this: "Traffic jam, pass through will be smooth all the way" "Wait a minute there will be a great parking space".

If you happen to be after the interview, you might as well think about it like this: "I saw the interviewer smile at me, he should have a good impression of me"... Don't be too worried about the big psychological gap after disappointment and not think in a good direction.Practice this positive thought habit, and good luck will follow.

Surprises may be just around the corner.The racing car was smooth, and the car parked right in front of the building just drove away. The interviewer and the interviewer had a pleasant exchange, and his eyes strongly looked forward to further cooperation with you.This is the result of what happens when the law of attraction is applied to positive thinking.

So anyway, since people can't live in the present, why not think of a better version of the future?Why put energy on things you don't want?Why think about the worse next second?
Negative settings make the world full of pessimism and frustration. Why do you always set the tragedy program firmly in the future life that would have been better?
Murphy's Law #[-]: The more you think about things not happening, the more they tend to happen.

Murphy's Law No. [-]: Murphy's Law No. [-] doesn't hold when you try to use Murphy's Law No. [-] to gain any advantage.

If you change your thinking, you will be happier. When the sinister competitors hope that you will fail in your work and love, then the results will increase year by year, and Murphy's law will come into effect again. It is really gratifying to congratulate.

Man can never become God. When you are arrogant, Murphy's Law will tell you how powerful it is; on the contrary, if you admit your ignorance, Murphy's Law will help you do it more rigorously.Murphy's Law emphasizes possibility, including those small probability events, emphasizing the change and uncertainty of things.Understanding Murphy's Law can fully expand the horizon of thinking or observation, and prevent problems before they happen.

Murphy's Law is like an elusive elf, looming in our daily life, making ironic jokes with people from time to time.In this regard, we don't have to be puzzled and lost, and we don't have to be mad and upset because of this annoying rule, but we should face it squarely, take it calmly when it appears, shrug, and then forget it.

In fact, people's struggle against Murphy's Law has never stopped, but they are still in circles.In fact, why bother to prove right or wrong, scientific or not, why think too much, and compete with a law.The only way to defeat it is to let go of it.Smile, we will always have a way to go.The dark willows and bright flowers are in everyone's heart.Be more optimistic, and you will have more luck.

Raw Fields of Consciousness: Growth Is Uneven
【Growth is painful, but the process of life cannot be stopped. The price of growth is the pain he suffers. Growth is only the development trend of all living beings. Everyone's growth is different. 】

As the saying goes: "Heroes are born in youth!"

Someone else said: "Great talents are late bloomers." Jiang Ziya was already over fifty years old when he made his fortune.

It can be seen that body and age do not affect our progress, and the awakening of consciousness is the golden key to open the door to success.

So, when will we be full-fledged and achieve our own "hegemony"?

There is a saying in "San Zi Jing": "Su Laoquan, 27, started to work hard and read books."

Su Laoquan is the father of Su Shi. When Su Xun was young, he didn't study hard. He didn't study hard until he was 27 years old.A year later, thinking that he had completed his studies, he took the imperial examination and failed.Only then did he start working hard.One day, black smoke suddenly rose from Su Xun's study.The family members were very surprised. When they went in to have a look, they saw Su Xun sending stacks of manuscripts to the stove.It turned out that he was burning immature works, determined to start from scratch.From then on, he declined guests and studied behind closed doors, day and night, never letting go of the book.Five or six years later, literary talent has greatly improved.

During the reign of Song Renzong Jingyou, Su Xun was valued by the prime minister Han Qi, played the emperor, summoned the Sheren Academy, and was later appointed as the secretary of the provincial school.At this time, Su Xun was over 50 years old.

There is a saying in "Lao Tzu": "A big place has no corners, a big instrument is late, a big sound has a low sound, and an elephant has no shape."

Growth is uneven. Whether it is a young talent or a late bloomer, this is a state of fullness, but no matter whether it is early or late, we must stick to the road and never give up on growing up.

Consciousness is your awareness of all your physical and mental conditions.Consciousness can see everything about ourselves, so it can control and adjust our own behavior, so consciousness controls our life and development.It can be said that the maturity of consciousness is a sign of the growth of each of us.

The process of consciousness growth is actually the process of individual socialization.When the concept of "self" began to grow, we left the primitive man period where self-awareness was gradually revealed, and became the people we are now.A little more thought tells us that each of us has a "self" at various stages of development.

The period of staged development of consciousness is something that each of us must go through, and during this growth process, there must be many difficulties. In this difficult climbing stage, the pain that people perceive is only his physical pain. Happiness is also derived from the happiness of the body itself.But as people's consciousness and body continue to grow, people will pursue higher levels of happiness.This also confirms why we are so content when we are young, even when we have very little.And when we admit that after having more and more things you once dreamed of or dare not imagine, the sense of happiness is still thin, and happiness is just a dry gesture at the corner of the mouth.

Growth is painful, but the process of life cannot be stopped. The price of growth is the pain he suffers. Growth is only the development trend of all living beings, and each person's growth is different.

The higher forms of psychic power are only available to those at a certain stage whose hearts have been opened.

When a person fully enters the consciousness of wisdom level, he will grow unsatisfied, he will strongly feel the new desire in his heart, and strive hard to satisfy himself, and exert his powerful consciousness on the road of self-expectation , but when will one be able to enter this intelligent level of consciousness, this is a question.

The so-called "Jiang Taigong's ambition is not to fish", he used his unique method, and took actions that were different from ordinary people. Finally, he was absorbed by the Ming Lord and displayed his ambitions.The reason lies in the fact that Taigong himself has great ambitions, and he has been studying for years and months, and has never stopped throughout his life.We should do the same, never give up hope and hard work at any time.

Everyone grows up in a different way, and in the realm of consciousness, there are also thousands of differences. Early wisdom does not necessarily mean excellence, and late blooming does not necessarily mean uselessness.The growth of our body has a general law, from youth to youth, from youth to adulthood, but the growth of consciousness is extremely uneven.But no matter sooner or later, when people reach the highest field of wisdom on a certain day, the energy of the whole body will also burst out, and they will achieve their own brilliant life.

Tolstoy once said: "Once wisdom controls mankind, a new world begins, and desires will grow a thousandfold. Desires are as infinite as the radius of a circle. Human thoughts are full of worries and worries at the beginning. , Let yourself work hard first, and then satisfy your own wishes, and think that happiness comes from this way.”

The farther we go on the path of growing consciousness, the more troubles that come with it.The more you suffer, the more you gain.

When a person reaches a higher stage of consciousness, entering the realm of spiritual awareness, he is very willing to use the honed weapon of wisdom.

The famous American psychologist Ken Wilber said in his book "One Taste": "The spiritual path has never intended to promote or legitimize the current worldview. Orthodox consciousness. The so-called orthodox consciousness is the way of thinking that is recognized by the general view, accepted by everyone, embraced by culture and counterculture, fueled by the self, and makes the world meaningful. But the real awakening is very fast. Sweeping it all away, it gives every soul a glimpse of the radiant infinity deep within, and breathes into its lungs the impossibly simple atmosphere of eternity."

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