The Subconscious Mind and the Sixth Sense

Chapter 7 The real behind-the-scenes master (1)
In order to explain the mysterious subconscious in people's eyes, Freud put forward the "Iceberg Theory". He believed that human consciousness is the sharp corner of the iceberg, and only a small part can be seen, and most of it is hidden under the sea surface. part, that's more real.

The part of the iceberg under the sea surface is the subconscious mind, which has enormous energy, but it is often ignored by people.But in fact, everyone is using the subconscious mind every day, anytime and anywhere.Whether it's making yourself healthier or more sick, whether it's making yourself richer or poorer, whether it's making yourself better or worse, whether you know you're using the power of your subconscious mind, which is the mastermind behind the scenes, It affects us all the time.

Moderate release: the soil for building a healthy personality
[The hand of the mysterious subconscious mind is omnipotent, and it is just a piece of cake to influence human behavior. 】

Even calm, rational people are only aware of about 10 percent of their cognitive activity.The vast majority of human emotions, decisions, and behaviors depend on the activity of the remaining 90% of the brain.

For example, some people's favorite drink is Coke, far more than other drinks; the facial expression of a lover can somehow make you feel angry or infatuated, or, thinking back to when you first made the decision to marry, it was either It's hard to understand now, and I even feel that my mind has been deceived.These things may seem unrelated, but in reality each reveals the rich inner life of the subconscious mind.

Freud discovered that most of the decisions we make are shaped by uncanny memories and emotions.Later, someone further concluded based on this conclusion that most of what people do most of the time is unconscious.If everything is dominated by consciousness, life will be in chaos, how terrible it is!

Why do you feel uncomfortable for no reason, what is your motivation for doing everything?This is a topic that psychologists have been working on for a long time.

When walking into the office, if you see a briefcase on the table, you tend to show more urgency and get to work immediately; if there is a painting from the library on the wall, people start talking He also speaks softer; if he smells cleaner, he subconsciously tidies up his desk.When doing the above actions, people are completely unaware that what they do is being influenced by these trivial things.

The subconscious mind is powerful enough to influence human behavior.Smart advertising planners have also realized this.Beverage advertisers will let their products appear on lively scenes such as beaches and friends gatherings. When people see these advertisements repeatedly, once there is a scene similar to the advertisement, the subconscious will tell people: "let's have a drink!"

"Human beings are rational individuals, whose behavior is determined by consciousness." This is the basic definition that scientists have made for human beings. Usually, behavior is to achieve the results they expect, so people believe that it is the will that determines with their own behavior.However, there are not only conscious thoughts in the world. In more cases, we act without knowing what we want to do.

In one scientific study, students who participated in an experiment were shown a series of words on a screen related to puzzles—crosswords, jigsaw puzzles, and so on.Words that can only be identified subconsciously are flashed across the screen, and these words are always associated with positive situations, such as the beach, friends and family.Later, when the students were given a scrambled puzzle, those exposed to the positive words worked harder, lasted longer, and were more enthusiastic than the other group.

Every day, every hour, every minute, or even every second, there are many things that require people to make decisions. If there is no subconscious "black box operation", people will be overwhelmed by the pressure brought by trivial matters anytime and anywhere.

Many times, consciousness makes people feel helpless like a weightless tourist floating in a spaceship, and at this time, only the subconscious can help identify what they really need.If there is enough confidence in the subconscious mind, it will definitely lead everyone in the right direction.

When people need to understand an unknown thing, they often need to start from its source, that is, the way of formation, and the subconscious is no exception.

The external information is repeated until it leaves a deep imprint in the brain, which forms the subconscious mind.Just as commercials are broadcast every day, a lie told a thousand times becomes the truth.Once a certain subconscious mind is formed, it will definitely have an impact on life. "A executor who does not distinguish between true and false, goes straight to the point, and never compromises", this is one of the characteristics of the subconscious mind, and it also shows that in people's actual life, the subconscious mind can not only play a positive role, but also produce negative effects. Impact.

Subconsciousness belongs to the category of unconsciousness. It relies on the moistening of things like spring wind and rain, and the construction of personality requires the cultivation of unconscious soil. This causal relationship has been heavily colored by human prejudice from the very beginning.

An old man heard that a bottle had been found on the beach with a cork on it.After the person opened it, the elf living in the bottle ran out. In order to express his gratitude, the elf was willing to fulfill all the wishes of the person.

So the old man spent his whole life looking for the genie in the bottle.For this purpose, he went to the beaches of various continents. The old man was very persistent and did not want to settle down in life. For this reason, he lost his stable job and interpersonal relationship, and he was not happy at all.

One day, he found the bottle he had been looking for for a long time by the sea.Usually, the cork is difficult to pull out, but this bottle was easily opened.The elf appeared.The elf told the old man: "I am here, and I am at your disposal."

The old man said, "Is everything okay?"

The elf said, "Almost anything. Since you're old and never involved in politics, it's unlikely you'll be the leader of your country. I don't think you'll be an Olympian either. So I can't help with everything." You are done, but I can still give you more than you ask or think. It will definitely make you peaceful and happy."

The Elf's words made the old man ecstatic, but at the same time he felt a little dissatisfied: "If I found you when I was young, I could accomplish more things."

The elf said: "I have been with you for a long time. I am not in that bottle. I have been with you and given you everything you want. Remember when you were 6 years old, didn't you hope that your father would pay more attention to you huh? You cut your own finger and your dad cleaned you up and held you. That was no accident. Do you remember that? There was an accounting exam as an adult and you kept telling me you weren't smart enough, So you can't become an accountant, and you still say that you are not worthy of being an accountant to earn so much money. Do you remember the scene during the exam?... Every time I try my best to help you."

This elf is actually the subconscious mind of the old man. For a long time, he has instilled negative information for himself, so the subconscious mind will also allow him to "get what he wants".

Learn to let go as you tap into your subconscious mind and apply it consciously.Corresponding to release should be suppression, which is a conscious behavior of human beings.Excessive depression is the root cause of psychological problems.Repression, pioneered by the psychologist Freud, refers to "transforming an unpleasant or difficult emotion into the subconscious mind so that one can have a 'normal and pain-free' life. Repression belongs to the operation of the mind. category".

The "Xiaoyueyue incident" once attracted widespread attention from netizens on the Internet, and even a "mysterious organization" called "Moon Worship Sect" was raised, which once became a hot topic on the Internet.Leaving aside the authenticity of Xiao Yueyue, the main character in this incident, let’s just talk about the psychological knowledge hidden in the "Xiao Yueyue Incident".

First of all, in the emotional world, the indifference of men caused her initial depression, and the psychological changes were not noticed by herself and her family.Generally speaking, this kind of depression will lead to two results. One result is that women find ways to build their own strong position in emotional problems, and use strong means to carry out revenge and confrontation; the other is the opposite, leading to Women have a stronger emotional desire for the man in their relationship.Either way, it's a sign of depression.Obviously, Xiao Yueyue belongs to the latter. Under the combined effect of this psychological mechanism and depression, the motivation of Xiao Yueyue's behavior is hidden-she has a hopeless emotion about her relationship.

When Xiao Yueyue had a new relationship, this relationship was like a life-saving straw for her. She put in extremely high expectations. At the same time, very importantly, after being suppressed, Xiao Yueyue entered a very Hyperactivity and elevated emotional state.

Later, it was a pity that this boy also treated her coldly. Perhaps during this period, he still sneered at her obese body, which was the biggest blow to her.Facing yet another setback, Xiao Yueyue started her first mania. In a state of excitement, she naturally scared away her hard-won "boyfriend" with a terrible tantrum. consequences of behavior.After being depressed for a long time and feeling unsatisfied with her sense of achievement for a long time, she finally found an outlet. For Xiao Yueyue, "mania" became a way to solve the problem.

When a person's ego is not sound enough, his personality will be controlled by his subconscious mind, and he will do many irrational and contradictory things.The subconscious mind is not a devil, but a close partner of consciousness, and even a master of black box operations.For most people, the subconscious mind represents a source of inspiration, intuition, and creativity.Knowing about the subconscious mind can help people know more about themselves, live better, adapt to work, and adapt to the complex life environment.

Tracing back to the source: the subconscious mind is the source of all power
[The subconscious lacks judgment, only execution.Once the subconscious accepts an idea, it begins to execute it.Whether this idea is good or bad.That is to say, the subconscious mind is the soil, and the consciousness is the seed. What kind of seeds people sow in their thoughts, the subconscious mind helps people reap what kind of fruits. 】

Every human being is a product of thought.If you look around carefully, if you are in a room full of modern furniture, you will know that everything in the room is lifeless even if you don’t pass through your eyes. Indeed, the eyes are not lying.These inanimate objects are precisely the thoughts and ideas of some people, but in different forms-creative work materialized.Simply put, it is the mind of man that creates the furniture, and then, through human labor, gives the covering of the room, etc., its shape and existence.

Whether it is towering skyscrapers, or all kinds of cars, or even small sewing machine needles or facial tissues, they are all born according to people's strange ideas, but they have not been materialized for the time being.Therefore, it can be asserted that all human civilizations in the world are the products of people's creative thinking.

The famous American thinker Emerson once said: "Thought is the origin of all human behavior." When you have understood this sentence, you should understand that any materialized thing other than thought should have its corresponding origin of ideas.The human mind can be divided into conscious and subconscious.As mentioned earlier, the conscious mind is the source of all thoughts and the subconscious mind is the source of all power.

In terms of its effect on the human body, the ability of consciousness is very limited. In contrast, the subconscious mind has inestimable energy.Every human life is the result of his thoughts and thought process.In other words, it is the thought that shapes the real person, and success depends on the person's thought.

Without thought, people would not know how to eat, dress, maintain the most basic survival, would not absorb fresh information by watching TV or reading newspapers, would not even catch a bus, and would not even raise their arms lightly. difficulty.

Every step a person takes, every decision he makes, regardless of the direction, there is only one powerful driving force behind it-thought.Thought is the origin of wealth, power, invention and all achievements.

In the beginning, if the ancestors had no thoughts, there would not be many magnificent buildings in the world, let alone tens of thousands of fascinating novels, scripts, etc.

In the United States, there was a patient who went to a sanatorium to recuperate. He had a lot of time. However, he felt that there was not much he could do except reading and thinking.

One day, he suddenly got an inspiration: in order to prevent the shirt collar from being deformed, many laundries add a piece of cardboard to the ironed shirt collar.He wrote several letters to consult with the manufacturer, and learned that the price of this kind of cardboard is 4 US dollars per thousand sheets.His idea is to print advertisements on cardboard and sell them to laundromats at a low price of $1 per thousand to earn advertising profits.

After he was discharged from the hospital, he immediately started to deal with this matter.However, after the ad was launched, he discovered that the cardboard collars were discarded when customers returned clean shirts.He asked himself: "How do we get customers to keep these cardboards and the advertisements on them?" A brilliant answer flashed through his brain.

He printed ads in color or black and white on the front of the cardboard, and on the back he added something new—a coloring game for kids, a delicious recipe for a housewife, or a quiz for the whole family.

One day, he heard a husband complain about the sudden increase in laundry costs. It turned out that the husband discovered that his wife had sent shirts that could be worn for another day to the laundry in advance in order to collect those cardboard recipes.

This talented businessman was not satisfied with this, and he was more confident to take his career to a higher level.He sent $1 cardboard per thousand sheets to the American Laundry Union, and the union recommended all members to use his cardboard.Therefore, he made another important discovery: put his thoughts into action, and he will get more!

As big as speech and behavior, as small as the way you walk and the characteristics of your clothes, they all reflect the way this person thinks.An alert, upright demeanor shows a person's inner strength and self-confidence, and if his demeanor is sloppy, his mind will be less diligent.People's behavior is the external expression of their inner heart, which is just like the above-mentioned-everyone is a product of thought.In this way, you will be what you are, simply by believing that you can be.

Shakespeare said: "Things are neither good nor bad, it all depends on what you think." Thoughts can not only make a person, but also have the power to destroy a person.To give a simple example, how much money a person saves is determined by his wealth thoughts.

"I'm not going to get a good job."

"I am a poor man, and I will never stand up in this life."

"My parents were poor, and I am no exception."

"My situation will not improve and I will never earn money."

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Do thoughts like this often exist in your thoughts? If so, please firmly believe that the above thoughts will never bring you wealth.These are all limiting negative thoughts.Perhaps, these ideas are not original to you, but come from someone else, such as a parent, friend, or close lover.Regardless of the source of such thoughts, if you want to get wealth, you must get rid of them.When you feel good and think that you are qualified to own wealth, only when you have this prerequisite, and when you speed up your pace and make a clarion call to wealth, can you truly be able to do your job with ease.If there is no thought of expecting to be rich, even if you have wealth, it is only temporary happiness.

A person is working hard to improve his life. One day, he happily told his friends that he found a part-time job. Because of his hard work, he got a bonus of several hundred yuan by accident.He kept saying, "I can't believe that there is such good luck!"

His friend told him that this was an external manifestation of his transformation of consciousness, but unfortunately, he still didn't quite believe what his friend said.In the next few days, my friend heard the opposite news—because of a traffic accident, this person spent hundreds of yuan in medical expenses, and the bonus he got just happened to be used up.

Some people think that all you need to be successful is hard work and nothing more.However, the elements that promote success include not only hard work, but also a kind of thinking-creative thinking and firm belief.Most of the successful people in history started with initial thinking, and their hard-working hands are just faithful executors of their thoughts.

Of course, it is not enough just to have the desire to succeed. It is also necessary to keep the pace of thought and action in sync, to concentrate and not let up.It is worth mentioning that needs are not the same as desires.For example, in real life, some people may wish to buy a car in order not to chase the bus anymore, which is a necessity.Purchasing a car for the family is an immediate desire.In order to find the right model, this person will visit many car dealerships and rummage through product brochures.What a person does can allow him to obtain new external resource information, and his desire for new things can not only add points to his sense of responsibility, but also motivate him to make more efforts.

What do you want to get from life and where does your life lead? These are things that everyone must understand, so that they can have a definite goal for reality. The goal mentioned here refers to the overall goal of life.

That being the case, if you want to achieve any goal, or get more than what you have now, start your desire.It is the first motivating force in all hearts, and without the strongest desire, no goal can be achieved, or anything can be obtained.

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