Calm: Be a calm woman

Chapter 1 Translator

Many times, people are dissatisfied with their roles in life. Countless men lament that they are too tired to live, and countless women lament that they live too hard.Therefore, many women will say that they will never be women again if they are reincarnated in the next life. I always refute such gnashing resentment in my heart, why not be a woman, being a woman is good, do whatever you want, simple , calmly, live leisurely and comfortably.

Many people may laugh at me, saying that I must have tasted the sweetness of a woman and occupied all the privileges of being a woman.Otherwise, how could I be willing to be a woman in my underground life?Actually, this is not the case.I am neither beautiful nor outstanding, and I have never been watched by everyone for a second. I am just the most ordinary woman in the world, living the most ordinary life, marrying the most ordinary husband, and having an ordinary child. .Of course, I also have troubles, but I only regard them as an essential flavoring agent in life.

In the long journey of a person in the world, the heaviest thing is not some external object, but his own heart that cannot be calm.I know that the reason why many women feel that life is miserable and depressed, in the final analysis, is because they have not calmed down their state of mind.We always justify our own words and deeds in one way or another, feel resentful and dissatisfied because they do not meet our psychological expectations, sneer at ordinary things that are contrary to our three views, question the sincerity of others, and demand reasonable explanations for other people's behavior. Unconsciously indulge your own desires, even if you are still concerned about the gains and losses of the happiness you have already held in your hands.All this makes you feel restless and restless.

The heart is the master of human beings. If the heart is calm, the spirit will be relaxed;

Thousands of sails are over, prosperity is over, vegetation, mountains and rivers are withered and flourishing freely, flowers are blooming and withering; in our life, let the time go by, life changes from thick to thin, just like fireworks in full bloom, a moment of prosperity, a moment of solitude, and finally success Passing by.Facing the ups and downs of life, the earth is so similar to life.There are too many things in the world, which can always easily disturb our state of mind.If we move with the outside world and never ask ourselves what we need and what we are pursuing, how can we achieve ourselves?
The most rare thing for a woman is to be calm.If the heart is calm, it will be calm, greedy weeds will not grow wildly in the heart, impulsive devils will not be able to blow your heart, the flame of jealousy will no longer burn wantonly, and the seeds of anxiety will not take root and germinate.

The most precious thing for a woman is to be calm. If the heart is calm, the heart will be at ease. My peace of mind is a blessing.

If we want to be a calm woman, we need to clarify our thoughts and know what kind of life we ​​want.In this way, we can truly be indifferent to the flowers blooming and falling, and the clouds rolling and clouds relaxing.

The heart can also get sick. When the pain cannot be cured by itself, a prescription for healing the heart is needed.A good book is a good doctor and a good medicine; a piece of persuasion and a word of wise enlightenment from a spiritual teacher are like a clear spring, nourishing your peaceful heart.Carnegie is a name loved by thousands of women. He once assured readers that any woman, as long as she understands these principles, can overcome obstacles in life and will not let herself look up at the low places in life; she will definitely find the truest To become a happy woman favored by life.

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