Calm women are the most elegant

Chapter 1 Preface Women are not calm and elegant
To be an elegant woman is the ultimate dream of every woman.

In the world of mortals, women have too many misunderstandings and misunderstandings about elegance: elegance is playing big names, elegance is superiority, elegance is white and rich, elegance is non-human, elegance is... all of these, in fact, have nothing to do with elegance Don't get involved.

Regarding elegance, in the eyes of Chinese young literary women, Daisy, a wealthy lady in "Shanghai's Golden Branches and Jade Leaves", is already a symbol of elegance.Daisy, who was well-clothed and well-fed since she was a child, seems to be destined for her elegance.Even though she was forced to work during the "Cultural Revolution" and used the hands of a "bourgeois lady" to wash the toilet and empty the excrement bucket, she still kept the habit of drinking afternoon tea!Until the age of ninety, when Daisy was full of hair and lived alone in the loft of Shanghai, she still did not forget to drink a cup of afternoon tea with a smile in the afternoon sun. Her snow-white curly hair exudes a faint fragrance. The world sighs.

Therefore, true elegance is in the bones, and it has nothing to do with the vicissitudes of time, rich or poor.It is a calm rhythm, state of mind, and a kind of self-cultivation, which can only be achieved by a calm and good woman.

It is also because I have seen through this layer that I say - women are not calm and elegant.

[-]. An elegant woman is always calm

Elegant women have a touch of love.

They think that love is for enjoying, not for torturing each other, so when love comes, they will love with all their heart, and when fate ends, they will walk away gracefully.In their eyes, love is always a scoop of holy water for self-cultivation even though there are many twists and turns.

[-]. An elegant woman has a light marriage
They regard marriage as a way of life, and believe that unmarried women may not necessarily fail to go to heaven, and married women may also fall into hell.Therefore, they may not necessarily get married, but getting married must be the icing on the cake for her life.They position the value of marriage as two people growing up happily together, rather than marrying a man to take care of themselves for a lifetime.

[-]. An elegant woman has a light career
For an elegant woman, a career is not a capital to show off, nor an inducement to lead to exhaustion in life, but a way to realize self-worth.Therefore, on the road of their careers, they stop and go and relax, working hard but not humble, persistent but not stubborn is their work philosophy, and knowing how to spend money while earning money is their motivation for work.The social value and sense of identity gained by oneself is one of the elements to make a woman elegant. If you love to do your work, you can achieve your dreams with peace of mind.

[-]. Elegant women have a touch of friendship
Under the current social background, there are also false friendships among women. Some women make friends by complaining, and the result is that men are not good things, and they are nothing; All that is needed is the envious eyes of the same kind.In this regard, an elegant woman is often "raised in a boudoir unknown", she will never be lonely because of this, and friendship is also unintentional.They only see the beauty of others, and they only have the goodness of others in their hearts.They treat people and things with appreciative eyes, so what they gain is all happiness.

[-]. Elegant women have a light dress
Pursuing a more quality life is the spirit that every woman should have when economic conditions permit, and elegant women have this spirit very much.However, they never follow fashion blindly, but have their own style. They understand that luxury is not superficial extravagance, but also has rich cultural connotations.Therefore, the same pursuit of luxury brands, what they pay attention to is coordination, integration, personalization, and proportion, rather than simple brand stacking.

Six, elegant women have a touch of growth
An elegant woman regards life as a process, during which all experiences are scenery.Regardless of good times or bad times, it is a big dish in the feast of life, and it is a necessary stage in life.They believe that a woman without frustration has no future.They read thousands of volumes of books and traveled thousands of miles but kept a low profile, weathering the wind and rain on their one-acre land and watching the rainbow gracefully.

Seven, elegant women have a touch of pain
The way a woman deals with pain is an important consideration for her psychological maturity, and to some extent determines her future emotional direction and life status.Elegant women can also get hurt, but they don't laugh or say anything in pain. Sometimes, they even think that it's a different kind of feeling to have some light sadness in their hearts that can't be taken away by time.Thinking about it this way, even pain becomes beauty.

To sum up, an elegant woman is undoubtedly outstanding in all aspects of life, and has a happy root system from the bottom of her heart, which blooms freely.There will always be a path stepped on her side, and many people walk by and smile.These people feel warm in their hearts after passing here, and then bring the potential of elegance to the distance in their own ways...

Elegance is the most remarkable sublimation in a woman's life. It adds texture to your life and makes your heart more determined.

As for a man's admiration, that's a must, it's an inevitability that comes with it.

Therefore, a touch of elegance is the best attitude in life.

You should try it.No, you should practice!
So, you have to hug us and hold this book in your arms, just to warm your heart, grow, and sublimate...

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