Calm women are the most elegant

Chapter 33 Afterword
Only by loving yourself can the world treat you tenderly
My dear, I know that at this moment, what you want most is to be treated tenderly by this world.

However, before that, you must try to transform yourself into a girl worthy of the love of the world.In other words, you have to love yourself!
To love yourself is the source of all love, and it is the greatest love in the world.From birth, women pursue love in countless ways.Sometimes love is as simple as giving a good-natured smile to passers-by; sometimes love lasts a lifetime and gives you long-lasting happiness;

We spend most of our lives chasing love, but it is difficult to see clearly what is most important in our lives.You must know that the most important relationship in a woman's life is the relationship with herself, and the person who needs love most is herself.

Only by loving yourself first can you be in a harmonious atmosphere with other people. Such a relationship is not based on needs, dependencies, fears, or feelings of insecurity.

Just imagine, when we fly, the flight crew always tells us: put on your own oxygen mask first, and then put it on the child.It sounds selfish, but there are practical reasons for it.How can you help your child if you can't protect yourself?
Love is like an oxygen mask.If a woman cannot love herself first, she will not be able to fully love others, nor will she have the strength to love others.If you really love yourself, please put your own happiness first, so that you can be able to love others.

[-]. To love yourself, you must first accept yourself.

Accept your imperfections, even your physical imperfections.When we deny ourselves, life is distorted.Once you accept yourself, you are filled with confidence and affirmation.You will feel that your heart is filled with positive energy and strength.

Second, to love yourself is to take good care of yourself.

To love yourself, eat well, sleep well, and exercise well.Only a healthy body can carry everything. If you don’t even cherish your body, it’s hard for God to believe that you really love yourself.

Our body is the most faithful to itself, what you give it it will return to you.If you exercise regularly, it will give you vitality and happiness; if you are often lazy, it will make you tired and lethargic.I really don't like being sleepy every day, so I try to keep myself energetic so that I can have the energy to do more things I like.

When Oprah, the number one host in the United States, interviewed Mrs. Obama, she asked her if she felt very happy."Yeah, I'm happy," says Mrs. Obama, who pays attention to exercising and taking care of herself."If I need to, I get up at 4:[-] a.m. to work out because if I don't exercise every day, I feel bad and depressed," she said. "So early?" "If we need to go to work, we wake up early; If we need to take care of our children, we wake up early. So why not for ourselves?" Mrs. Obama wanted her daughter to see a mother who could take care of herself.

If you see Mrs. Obama on TV, just pay a little attention to her, you will definitely feel that she is very fit, because she exercises 5 times a week, and also pays attention to the diet of the whole family.

It can be seen from this that a woman is responsible for herself if she treats her body and life well.When a woman builds a beautiful kingdom in her spiritual world and proudly says that she is the queen of the kingdom, she will find confidence, value and love in real life.

Three, love yourself, and make peace with your heart.

If a woman wants to love herself, she must keep a free heart, listen to her own voice at all times, talk to herself, and face all kinds of desires deep in her heart honestly.In this way, when we are surrounded by various people, things, and things, we will not be restrained and completely maintain balance.When we can love ourselves with this attitude, we can truly understand the meaning of love and have the ability to love others.

As long as you love yourself enough, no one can make you unhappy.Because you are fully in control of your own happiness, troubles, setbacks, and misfortunes are just a small episode in your happy life.

Honey, love yourself well, so that you can be treated tenderly by the world forever.

(End of this chapter)