Inside and Outside the Siege: A Woman's Battle for Marriage

Chapter 29 Be Your Own "Marriage Clinic" (3)
Every time she thought of these things, Xu Qiuying, and Zhang Zhonghou's indifference, she felt a burning pain in her heart, feeling like she wanted to cry but had no tears.She was always aggrieved: Why should Xu Qiuying share her husband?Why are young women these days so shameless?Sharpen your head to distinguish the success of others?She went to talk to Li Yao several times, but every time Li Yao told her not to think so much, to be more bearish about everything and think more openly.But how could she take these things lightly and make sense?

A few days later, Du Mengyuan saw an article by Yang Hong titled "The Marriage Defense War of a Full-time Wife" in "Haitian Morning Post".As she read it, she thought, how is it that the protagonist mentioned in the article is similar to her own experience?Thinking of Yang Hong's previous articles about emotion and marriage, she decided to visit Yang Hong, tell her her story, and see if Yang Hong could help her.

After successfully finding Yang Hong in Haitian Morning Post, Du Mengyuan said straight to the point: "Reporter Yang, I am your loyal reader and I want to chat with you."

"Okay, please sit down." Yang Hong is now the editor-in-chief of the emotional page and a well-known reporter in Haitian City. The emotional interview column "Emotion Online" she planned and hosted has a great response among readers and has attracted the attention of female readers. .There are many people who call her every day and come to the newspaper office to talk to her about their emotional experiences.There are many emotional stories for interviews, Yang Hong now looks like an expert in emotional marriage counseling.

Du Mengyuan told Yang Hong the story of her marriage being challenged by a mistress, with a very painful expression on her face, she repeatedly asked Yang Hong if she could help her, and took out an intimate photo of Zhang Zhonghou and Xu Qiuying and said, "This is this woman."

Seeing the photo, Yang Hong was dumbfounded and shocked: Isn't this her classmate Xu Qiuying?How can she be a mistress?He smiled and said, "Are you sure it's this woman?"

"Yes. I have already talked to her." Du Mengyuan said.

Yang Hong felt unbelievable, why did Xu Qiuying also embark on this path?When I was in school, I had said so much to her so earnestly, didn't she listen to a word?
"Reporter Yang, you are well-informed, what can you do? The mistress is really shameless!" Du Mengyuan's words brought Yang Hong back from her thoughts.

"Do you know her phone number? I'll ask her to chat someday." Of course, Yang Hong couldn't let Du Mengyuan know that she and Xu Qiuying were college classmates.

"Yes. I have her mobile phone number." Du Mengyuan took out a piece of paper from her bag and read a number.

"Okay, I'll ask her out someday. But I can only do my best. You know, we are just a newspaper office." Yang Hong said.

"Thank you! Thank you reporter Yang!" Du Mengyuan said while holding Yang Hong's hand.This pitiful appearance, if she is not wearing designer clothes and carrying an LV bag, it is really difficult to connect her with Mrs. Fu.

While Du Mengyuan was looking for Yang Hong, a marriage counselor from the "Marriage Clinic" also called Xu Qiuying: "Hello! Are you Miss Xu Qiuying?"

Xu Qiuying said, "I am. Who are you?"

"We are 'Home and Marriage Clinic', and we would like to talk to you about some issues."

Xu Qiuying was startled, and asked warily, "What are you talking about?"

"Just chat. Mr. Zhang Zhonghou's wife Du Mengyuan entrusted us to chat with you."

Xu Qiuying nodded her head and said, "She told you to find me?"

The marriage counselor said: "Miss Xu, don't worry, we're just chatting casually. Let's find a coffee shop, or you can come to our place."

Xu Qiuying thought about it, and felt that there was nothing to be afraid of, there was no need to be a snake, Du Mengyuan had already been tricked, so why are she afraid of a 'marriage clinic'?She wants to see what she wants to do!
"Okay. I'll go to your place."

The marriage counselor gave the address of the office, and Xu Qiuying put down the phone and set off.

The person who received Xu Qiuying was the marriage counselor who called just now. She poured a glass of mineral water from a disposable paper cup and put it in front of Xu Qiuying. She nodded and smiled and said, "Sorry for disturbing Miss Xu."

Xu Qiuying said coldly: "What's the matter? Tell me."

The marriage counselor always smiled, and tried to choose a moderate tone to say: "Mr. Zhang Zhonghou's wife, Sister Du, came to us and told us about your relationship with Mr. Zhang... We think this problem should be properly resolved. it is good."

Xu Qiu imaged as if he was suddenly stripped naked, and he was so ashamed that he said with a gloomy face, "How to solve it properly?"

"Miss Xu, Sister Du also said that as a victim, she will not pursue the past, but she hopes that from now on, you can leave Mr. Zhang."

Xu Qiuying was furious and said, "She is the victim? What about me? Who will be responsible for my loss?"

The marriage counselor said carefully and carefully: "From your point of view, it is true that you are also a victim, but from a legal point of view, your relationship with Mr. Zhang is illegal and illegal without legal protection. Cohabitation relationship. To put it more seriously, Zhang Zhonghou is a de facto bigamy."

Xu Qiuying sneered and said, "You think I'm scaring you? There are so many illegal things in this society. Do you think you are the police bureau? Is it the court? Even the police bureau and the court probably don't have the right to interfere with our private life, right? What are you guys!"

The marriage counselor still smiled slightly and said: "Miss Xu, in fact, it is very easy for you to find a good home at such a young age. Why do you do this kind of thing that destroys other people's families? Like you are now After all, this kind of role is not accepted by the mainstream society, and it is also against morality and personality."

Xu Qiuying stood up, slapped the table vigorously, and said excitedly: "Why do you interfere with other people's private life? Are you moral? I warn you: if you dare to harass me again, I will call the police! I will sue in court." you!"

The marriage counselor wanted to say something, but an angry Xu Qiuying grabbed the glass of water on the table and poured it over.Immediately after turning around, he called Zhang Zhonghou and said angrily, "Your wife is riding on my head to shit now! Do you know that?"

Zhang Zhonghou was taken aback and asked, "What's going on?"

"She came to the 'marriage clinic' to trouble me and told me to quit and leave you. Why? Why should I quit?! Who will be responsible for my loss?" Xu Qiuying said hysterically, "Zhang Zhonghou, what do you say? Ya! Your wife shit on my head!!"

This was the first time that Xu Qiuying called Zhang Zhonghou by his name. He usually didn't address him by any other name, but he usually called him "you". Today, he called Zhang Zhonghou by his first name, which proved how angry she was.Faced with such a thing, Zhang Zhonghou of course couldn't come up with a good solution for a while, so he could only comfort him: "Calm down first, don't get too excited. I'll call and scold her right away."

Xu Qiuying's emotions became more and more agitated, and she roared: "It's really good to be bullied by others, and good to be ridden by others! The tiger doesn't show its power, and uses me as a cat! I used to think that I am easy to bully when I don't talk! From now on, If she goes too far, I will die with her (him)!!"

Zhang Zhonghou was startled, since Xu Qiuying said such tough words, since he knew her, he had never seen her get so angry.

Sure enough, Zhang Zhonghou immediately called and yelled at Du Mengyuan: "Du Mengyuan, why are you so crazy?! What the hell are you doing?! If you want a divorce, hurry up! Don't set up a 'marriage clinic' to deal with Xu Qiuying!"

Du Mengyuan was also full of anger in her heart and had nowhere to vent, so she yelled into the phone: "Zhang Zhonghou, you heartless bastard! You want a divorce? Are you dreaming?! My old lady suffered so much with you when she was young, and now You want to kick me away when you are developed? You think beautifully! Unless you kill me and let me die!"

Zhang Zhonghou sneered, but slowed down his tone: "Don't scare me with death. I'm not Zeng Deyi, and you're not Li Yao. I don't want a divorce. I just hope you don't keep harassing others."

Du Mengyuan slammed the phone down, her heart was full of sorrow, and she had nowhere to vent her anger.She wished she could take a knife and chop off that vixen Xu Qiuying and that heartless Zhang Zhonghou!In fact, her temper was good enough, and finally she couldn't bear it anymore.She finally knew how the resentful woman was born.They are all forced by men!Think about how I had lived with him for decades, had children for him, and assisted him to succeed. After he succeeded, I automatically withdrew from the public eye, willing to be his rear.Now he can be so desperate for a mistress, a wild woman outside.man!man!How can you be so heartless?want a divorce?no way!

In the evening, Xu Qiuying posted a message in the QQ group of the "Second Wife Club", saying: "I never imagined that my mother-in-law would call some shit 'marriage clinic' to do my ideological work, and wanted me to retreat."

Immediately, many people supported her——

"Don't pay attention to her, you have to be tougher."

"The waves behind the Yangtze River push the waves ahead, the one who should leave should be Grandma!"

"Not only do you not want to retreat, you also want to occupy a larger position."

"You tell her that it's okay to leave, and tell her to give you 2000 million immediately."

It is necessary to listen to the lawyer
Liang Xiaoyun changed to a professional marriage lawyer to answer questions for Du Mengyuan.The marriage lawyer handed Du Mengyuan a business card and said, "Ms. Du, my name is Zhang Chenggong. I am a full-time marriage lawyer in this 'marriage clinic'."

Du Mengyuan nodded and said, "Hello, Lawyer Zhang."

Attorney Zhang said with a smile: "Hello, Ms. Du, I have already learned about your situation in detail. I suggest that you can take legal means to protect your legal rights. If you want, we can assist you in investigating and collecting evidence, and we can represent you for free. Provide you with the highest quality legal rights protection services for your case."

Du Mengyuan was a little surprised: "You mean a lawsuit?"

"Yes, protect your legitimate rights and interests by going to court." Attorney Zhang opened a notebook, glanced at it and said, "According to the relevant legal provisions of the Marriage Law and the General Principles of Civil Law, your husband and his The behavior of the mistress is not only against social morality, but also against the law. It is an illegal relationship between them. If your husband donates related property to the mistress, the property received by the mistress is not protected by law and should be protected. Legal sanction. If you want, you can collect evidence that your husband donated property to the mistress. Of course, we can also assist you in collecting it, and then go to court to sue the mistress and your husband, recover your lost property, and pursue the law of the relevant responsible person responsibility."

Du Mengyuan asked: "Can I recover the property my husband gave to my mistress?"

Lawyer Zhang nodded and said, "Of course. Article 72 of the General Principles of Civil Law stipulates: 'The acquisition of property ownership shall not violate the law. Protected by law. Article 117 of the "General Principles of Civil Law" stipulates: "Whoever encroaches on state, collective or other property shall return the property; The property is obviously a property tort and should be returned according to the law..." Attorney Zhang looked at his notebook and continued, "In addition, Article 17 of the Marriage Law stipulates: 'The property acquired by a husband and wife during the marriage relationship shall be jointly owned by the husband and wife. , Husband and wife have equal rights to dispose of jointly owned property. During the period of the relationship between husband and wife, they have equal rights to dispose of the joint property of the husband and wife. When disposing of the common property due to daily needs, either party has the right to decide. If life needs to make important decisions about the joint property of the husband and wife, the husband and wife should negotiate on an equal footing and reach a consensus. You and your husband are self-made, and you basically have no pre-marital property, and almost all property is jointly owned by the husband and wife. You If your husband buys real estate, cars, jewelry and other property for the mistress, or gives other property to the mistress, in fact, your husband is handling the property jointly owned by your husband and wife privately, which has seriously damaged your legal rights, so you have The right to recover through legal channels is legally supported. Because your husband has no right to dispose of the property jointly owned by your husband and wife, and the property obtained illegally by the mistress is not protected by law. If you want, you can sue in court , ask your husband's mistress to return the part of your husband and wife's common property that she possesses." Attorney Zhang paused, spread his hands and said, "In short, any law in our country is beneficial to you, your husband and Mistresses are disadvantageous. Being a mistress is an immoral behavior in itself, which violates public order and good customs. Not only will it be condemned by social morality, but it will not be protected by law.”

Du Mengyuan asked: "Will my husband bear legal responsibility?"

Lawyer Zhang thought for a while and said, "Actually, many mistresses have constituted a de facto marriage and belong to bigamy. If you can collect evidence of your husband's bigamy, for example, they match each other as husband and wife, have wedding photos taken, and hold a wedding banquet." Or evidence like festive events, someone proving that they lived as husband and wife, or that they gave birth to children, etc., you can sue your husband for bigamy."

Du Mengyuan was surprised: "Bigamy? Isn't he going to jail?"

Lawyer Zhang nodded: "Yes. According to Article 258 of the Criminal Law: 'Whoever has a spouse and commits bigamy, or marries another person knowingly has a spouse, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than two years or criminal detention.'"

Du Mengyuan bowed her head and said, "Let me think about it."

Du Mengyuan thought in her heart: If she goes to court with Zhang Zhonghou and Xu Qiuying, it will indeed be beneficial to herself. It can relieve the hatred in her heart, give Zhang Zhonghou and Xu Qiuying a heavy blow, and teach Zhang Zhonghou a profound lesson. Like what Lawyer Zhang said about recovering the real estate that Zhang Zhonghou bought for Xu Qiuying.But doing so had a great impact on Zhang Zhonghou. As a well-known entrepreneur, a representative of the Provincial People's Congress, and the vice chairman of the Provincial Federation of Industry and Commerce, wouldn't he be disgraced?In addition, in this way, the husband and wife will completely turn against each other and become enemies, and they will definitely divorce because of this.Even if you can breathe a sigh of relief and preserve some property, what's the point in the end when the relationship between husband and wife is completely broken?

Thinking of this, Du Mengyuan raised her head: "It may not be appropriate to go to court to sue my husband and his mistress."

Lawyer Zhang said: "Why is it inappropriate? They have violated your legal rights. It is the best way to solve it through legal channels, and it is also the most beneficial way for you."

"I know it's a good way. But if I do this, my husband may become a sensational gossip in Haitian City. The grandma suing her husband and mistress will definitely become a hot news in the news media." Du Mengyuan With a wry smile, he said, "I think you all know that Zhang Zhonghou is well-known in Haitian City and even in the province. If he goes to court because of a relationship between a man and a woman and is hyped by the news media, it will have a negative impact on the "Dadi Group". It's quite big. I can't ignore these comprehensive factors."

Liang Xiaoyun and Lawyer Zhang nodded at the same time, and Lawyer Zhang said: "Ms. Du is indeed very considerate. This is called playing the mouse and worrying about gains and losses. If you go to court, it is indeed easy to attract the attention of the news media, and your husband's reputation and The image of the company has a certain impact. However, we can ask the court to hear the case in private, and journalists are not allowed to interview the case in closed court.”

"It's inevitable that the news will be leaked. It will be very troublesome if the reporter finds out." Du Mengyuan thought about it, "So I still prefer the soft landing method. I want to settle the matter well, but I don't want to mess up the relationship with my husband. Stiffness, leading to a complete breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. I have two sons, and a family that was once very happy... At my age, I don't have to, I don't want to divorce... After all, we have been married for decades. I can't do things that push me into a dead end." As she spoke, Du Mengyuan's eyes turned red.

"Okay." Lawyer Zhang said, "If you are inclined towards a soft landing, we suggest that you have a good discussion with your husband in person, and then talk to the mistress. Put the stakes out and let the mistress retreat on her own initiative. "

Du Mengyuan smiled bitterly and said, "I've already looked for her once before, it was useless."

Liang Xiaoyun said: "You can try again. We can also assist you from it."

Du Mengyuan stood up and said, "Okay then, let's do this first. I'll talk to that vixen again and see how it goes."

Liang Xiaoyun sent Du Mengyuan to the door, stretched out her thumb and little finger to make a phone call and said, "Call my cell phone anytime, sister Du, if you need anything."

"Okay." Du Mengyuan said as she entered the elevator, thinking about how to negotiate with Xu Qiuying again.

When Du Mengyuan got into the car and started the car, she suddenly felt very sad.Zhang Zhonghou can be so desperate for a wild woman outside, but she still thinks about maintaining his reputation and image.Woman, woman!This is the tragedy of women!A man can deal with countless women at the same time, but a woman can only accommodate her husband in her heart. Even if this man has betrayed her, she still thinks about him and protects him everywhere.

Thinking of this, Du Mengyuan's eyes became hot, and two lines of hot tears flowed down her cheeks.My heart felt sour and painful.She simply put her head on the steering wheel and cried loudly...

(End of this chapter)