Inside and Outside the Siege: A Woman's Battle for Marriage

Chapter 30 Why do men love to find mistresses? (1)
Is it common for men to find a mistress?

That night, after Zhang Zhonghou had dinner at Xu Qiuying's house, the two of them were sitting on the sofa watching TV, Zhang Zhonghou put his arms around Xu Qiuying's waist as usual, and murmured: "Baby, I want to feel sorry for you... ..."

Xu Qiuying gently pushed Zhang Zhonghou away and said, "Not now."

Zhang Zhonghou put his mouth on Xu Qiuying's face, and asked softly, "Is it your period?"

Xu Qiuying said, "I'm pregnant."

Zhang Zhonghou was startled, and said, "Is she pregnant?" After thinking for a while, he said, "I'll accompany you to get rid of it someday."

Xu Qiuying said calmly, "I want to give birth."

Zhang Zhonghou smiled and asked: "Born?"

Xu Qiuying nodded: "It's born. I'll bring it myself. You don't need to be responsible."

Zhang Zhonghou said with a smile: "You are still so young, you are not in a hurry to have a baby."

Xu Qiuying repeated with a serious expression: "I am responsible for it myself, don't worry about it."

Zhang Zhonghou couldn't say anything more, knowing that Xu Qiuying must be determined to have this child, otherwise her tone would not be so firm.He thought about it, and felt that it was his own flesh and blood after all, and it would be cruel to destroy it, and it was also his blessing to have a child at an old age.Well, let's give birth. In fact, he still wants a daughter, and it would be even better if it was a daughter.Thinking of this, he hugged Xu Qiuying tightly and said, "Then give birth, I like daughters."

Xu Qiuying pouted and said, "Bah, bah, I like my son, it's my son."

Zhang Zhonghou patted Xu Qiuying's stomach and said, "Okay, my son is fine." Then he put his ear on Xu Qiuying's stomach and said, "Son, did you hear what Mom and Dad said?"

Xu Qiuying pushed Zhang Zhonghou away coquettishly, and said, "I'm just pregnant, how can I hear you?"

As soon as Zhang Zhonghou took out the cigarette, Xu Qiuying pushed his hand and said, "Go outside and smoke, don't smoke my son."

Zhang Zhonghou put the cigarette back into the case, and said with a smile: "Okay, daddy goes to the balcony to smoke, my son is good."

Xu Qiuying pouted and glanced at Zhang Zhonghou, her face brimming with happiness.

Standing on the balcony, looking at the lights of thousands of houses in the community, taking a puff of cigarette, Zhang Zhonghou's thoughts drifted away with the smoke.Thinking of Xu Qiuying who was pregnant, he immediately thought of Du Mengyuan.During this period of time, Du Mengyuan seemed to be a different person. She seemed to be less aggressive towards Xu Qiuying than before, and spoke to him much more gently.Did she figure it out?Still brewing new ghost ideas?Thinking about it, I really feel ashamed of her for doing this. After all, we have shared joys and sorrows together for decades, and a poor wife should not be bullied.But then I thought about it again, now successful men, whether they are in business or in officialdom, which one is not like this?I only have a mistress, so what's the big deal?Compared with other successful men, it's still relatively small. Many men with his wealth have more than two.If Xu Qiuying wants to give birth to a child, let her give birth, as long as Du Mengyuan doesn't know about it.Even if she knew, I believe she wouldn't be able to cause much trouble.Thinking of this, he extinguished the cigarette butt on the iron railing, lit another one, and sucked it beautifully, letting the smoke curl up and feeling extremely comfortable.Okay, okay, I'm going to be a father again, this is the crystallization of his love with Xu Qiuying.If it was a son, he would have three sons; if it was a daughter, it would be better, and he really wanted a daughter.

Zhang Zhonghou asked Xu Qiuying to quit her previous nanny, and hired a Filipino maid and driver to take care of her food and daily life, almost like protecting a giant panda.As long as there is no entertainment, he will go to Xu Qiuying's place to eat and spend the night with her basically every night.I thought that now that she is pregnant with her own flesh and blood, her identity will of course change accordingly. She is not only his beloved woman, but also the mother of his child. Although she has no legal status, but He should fulfill his responsibilities as a man.Now he will never call Du Mengyuan to lie again, she can think whatever she likes.Now that things have happened, he also has the mentality of a broken jar and a dead pig not afraid of boiling water. He has nothing to fear from Du Mengyuan, and he doesn't want to hide it anymore.

Of course Du Mengyuan knew why her husband didn't come home, and she still felt uncomfortable no matter how out of sight she was.This morning, she couldn't bear it any longer, she called Zhao Pinghai and asked, "Pinghai, tell me the truth, is Zhang Zhonghou at that woman's place every night now?"

"This...this...isn't it..." Zhao Pinghai hesitated, not knowing what to do.

Du Mengyuan knew that Zhao Pinghai was pretending to be crazy, but she didn't blame him in her heart, so she said, "Actually, you don't have to hide it from me. I already knew that he was with her. Pinghai, you are with Zhang Zhonghou every day, so you should know him." I just want to know if Zhang Zhonghou really doesn't want to live with me anymore?"

"This...probably not." Zhao Pinghai was also in a dilemma, with the proprietress on one side and the boss on the other, both of them had to listen to what they had to say.But after all, it is the boss who pays him the salary, so of course he has to protect the boss.

Zhao Pinghai couldn't ask anything, so Du Mengyuan could only turn to private detectives for help.A week later, the private detective gave her Xu Qiuying's photo and told her that Xu Qiuying was two months pregnant.

Du Mengyuan was stunned like thunder, and almost collapsed to the ground.It seems that Zhang Zhonghou has given up everything, and will stay with that vixen for the rest of his life, even having a child.Zhang Zhonghou, Zhang Zhonghou!You are ruthless!Her heart was filled with sorrow.

Du Mengyuan once again invited Xu Qiuying to the cafe. At this time, Xu Qiuying was not afraid. After so much, she was no longer the former Xu Qiuying.She pulled her face to see what Du Mengyuan wanted to say?
Du Mengyuan said angrily, "I heard that you are going to be a mother? Congratulations!"

Xu Qiuying was taken aback, thinking how did she know?But she was no longer as talkative as before, and said coldly: "Sister Du, what do you want to say today, just say it. I'm listening."

Du Mengyuan took a sip of coffee, feeling sour in her heart, said with a sneer, "It seems that you are planning to spend the rest of your life with Zhang Zhonghou?"

Xu Qiuying stared at Du Mengyuan's face, and said word by word: "That's for sure. Zhang Zhonghou and I have a love foundation. As long as I want, I will live with him forever." Xu Qiuying took a sip of coffee, Slowly said, "If you can tolerate me, I am willing to be the second child without any status. I don't demand that I can have him alone, and I hope you don't have him alone. He is yours, and it is yours." Mine. If you can't tolerate me, then I have nothing to do, and I won't leave him because of it, especially now that I'm pregnant with his child, I won't quit." Her tone began to be tough Get up, "He is the father of your child, and he is also the father of my child. I am equal to you, and our children are equal. From now on, please don't always be arrogant and domineering with me. Talk. I’m here to remind you again: please don’t disturb my life in the future, if you dare to find any “marriage clinic” to harass me, I will sue the “marriage clinic” together with you!”

Du Mengyuan was so angry that her teeth chattered and her face turned blue.I wondered if Zhang Zhonghou's reputation and image were not taken into account, and considering the influence of the 'Dadi Group', he should be the one who brought them to court.Thinking of this, she said excitedly: "Xu Qiuying, why are you so shameless? Why don't you love so many men out there? Why are you here to snatch other people's husbands?"

Xu Qiuying said coldly: "You have no reason and no right to accuse me. It wasn't me who pestered Zhang Zhonghou with a faceless face, but he himself liked me to pester me. If you want to get angry and question me, please go to him!"

Du Mengyuan changed her tone and said: "You are still young, and you haven't considered many things carefully, so you can't do things too rashly. Can you just give birth to the child? What is his status? How will he face the surroundings when he grows up?" People? How do you explain it to him? Who is his father? Have you considered these questions?"

"His father is Zhang Zhonghou?" Xu Qiuying said with a sneer, "I will tell him directly that his father is Zhang Zhonghou, the president of the dignified 'Dadi Group'."

Du Mengyuan's heart twitched, as if being pricked by a needle.Suddenly thought of the issue of property, and said cautiously: "Do you want to give birth to a child to divide our property?"

"This problem? I haven't thought about it so far." Xu Qiuying said with a drawn voice, "I'm not a miser, and my children don't care about any property, but one thing is for sure, it should belong to me and my children. We definitely have to fight for it." Xu Qiuying patted the table with her hands and said, "Please don't look for me again, and I won't come out again, everyone has their own life, I hope you don't bother me all the time Life. You think you are a victim, but in fact I am also a victim. If you must find a culprit to take responsibility, then you can only find Zhang Zhonghou...Okay, I will leave first if I have nothing to do." Then he got up left the cafe.

Looking at Xu Qiuying's leaving back, Du Mengyuan was dizzy with anger, wishing to throw the coffee cup on her body.This world is really upside down, why is Xiaosan so arrogant?Don't they have any sense of shame?You little three dare to say that you are a victim, that's what you asked for!Are drug addicts victims?That's what they asked for!

Du Mengyuan really wants to collect the evidence of Zhang Zhonghou and Xu Qiuying according to what lawyer Zhang from the 'Marriage Clinic' said, and bring them to court so that they will be punished by the law, and recover the property Zhang Zhonghou bought for this vixen and everything she gave her. Her possessions made her destitute.But after thinking about it, I feel that I can't do it, because in that case, Zhang Zhonghou will really become a scandal figure in Haitian City immediately, which will further affect the "Dadi Group".

Du Mengyuan was in great pain.She hated Zhang Zhonghou and Xu Qiuying, and wanted to relieve the hatred in her heart, but she couldn't do it.She was in a dilemma, unable to make a choice, and didn't know what to do.

Xu Qiuying didn't care what she thought, and accompanied by the Filipino maid, she went to the mall and bought a lot of baby clothes, including diapers, feeding bottles, baby beds, and baby carriages.Motherhood made her look forward to the future infinitely. She imagined the cute appearance of the baby in her womb descending into the world like a little angel, and imagined his first cry.

The Filipino maid’s name is Mary, and she is already a mother of two children in her 30s. She is very careful in taking care of pregnant women, and is unmatched by other Filipino maids in cooking Chinese dishes. Okay, I can make delicious food for Xu Qiuying by changing tricks every day, which is both tasty and nutritious.In particular, the fish soup she cooks over a slow fire is so delicious that Xu Qiuying can't stop praising it every time.

After much deliberation, Xu Qiuying decided to tell her brother about her affairs.I thought that I couldn't keep it a secret, and one day, my parents and family members would know about it.Du Mengyuan always came to harass her, and the situation was not good for her. She seemed to be alone in fighting against her mother-in-law, and she needed the support of her family.

After listening to his sister's narration, Xu Huaiyuan was silent on the phone for a while and said, "Actually, I guessed it a long time ago."

Xu Qiuying said: "What should parents do if they find out? I'm pregnant with his child now..."

"What can we do now? Tell them the truth. One day I will accompany you back and tell them directly." Xu Huaiyuan worked in Dongguan, Guangdong for a few years, and now he is working in Shenzhen. He has been wandering outside like a leaf for many years. He deeply understands the importance of money and the hardship of earning money, and he has long been used to seeing mistresses, so he understands his sister's behavior.

Xu Qiuying was still a little worried: "Will they hit me? I'm a little scared."

"Don't be afraid, I'll do their work." Xu Huaiyuan said, "In this day and age, people laugh at the poor but not prostitutes. If you have money, you are a hero, and if you have no money, you are a bear. Besides, you don't steal or rob, what are you afraid of?" Xu Huaiyuan was very calm about the fact that his sister had become a mistress.

Xu Qiuying said: "Okay then, let's go back together for the Mid-Autumn Festival."

Xu Huaiyuan thought for a while and said, "Yes. You might as well ask him to go back with you when the time comes."

Xu Qiuying hesitated and said, "Call him... okay?"

"Anyway, we're going to meet each other. See you sooner rather than later." Xu Huaiyuan said, "Don't worry, I will do the work of parents."

Xu Qiuying was very grateful to her brother.Since she was a child, her elder brother has been her patron saint, who loves her the most and understands her the most.

don't throw a man out of the house
That night, just as Zhang Zhonghou entered the house, before he sat down, Du Mengyuan folded her hands and sneered, "You still know how to come back? Do you still want this home?"

Zhang Zhonghou smiled: "Why don't I want this home?"

Du Mengyuan teased in a strange way: "We are so old-fashioned, why come back! Just go back to Xu Qiuying's house!"

Zhang Zhonghou said with a dark face: "Du Mengyuan, can't you say something else? Every time you come back, you always talk about this matter, and you always talk about these few words. I'm tired of listening to you. "

Du Mengyuan raised her voice and said, "If you don't talk about this, which one will you talk about? Isn't this what you are most concerned about now?"

Zhang Zhonghou turned around and went upstairs.

Unbearable, Du Mengyuan ran upstairs and rushed into the room, found Xu Qiuying's photo and threw it in front of Zhang Zhonghou, saying coldly, "Congratulations! You are going to be a father again!"

Zhang Zhonghou was startled, but quickly calmed down, and slapped back: "Okay! I didn't expect Du Mengyuan that you would come with me?" Zhang Zhonghou waved his hands with an excited expression, "Finish the 'marriage' Clinic', are you playing private detective with me again now? You really have it, Du Mengyuan! My private life is all under your supervision, so what's the point of us living together? Just get a divorce and forget it."

Du Mengyuan didn't expect Zhang Zhonghou to throw out this sentence again, and her heart suddenly turned cold.It is said that a one-night couple is a hundred days of kindness. They have been married for decades. He is actually determined to divorce because of a mistress and a vixen!Thinking of this, she cursed: "You wolf-hearted thing! Do you want a divorce? Do you want to stay with your mistress? No way! My old lady has devoted her whole life to you, and now you want to cross the river and tear down the bridge? I'm not as stupid as Li Yao! You want to force me to take poison? There is no way! Even if I want to die, I will make you restless!"

Zhang Zhonghou lit a cigarette and said, "No one is forcing you, you are the one who has been insane all day long." After speaking, he went downstairs again.

Du Mengyuan immediately chased after her, stood in the middle of the living room and shouted loudly: "Will I do this if you don't do ugly things outside? Xu Qiuying can be your daughter! Zhang Zhonghou, if you don't know shame, I'll be ashamed for you! You bastard!" You still want to be shameless? If my old lady doesn’t show her power, you have to push your limits! Not only do you have mistresses and raise wild women, but now you have even made a little bastard!"

No matter how much Du Mengyuan yelled, Zhang Zhonghou always had the expression of a dead pig who is not afraid of boiling water, swallowing clouds and fog leisurely, with a calm expression.After Du Mengyuan finished cursing, he shook the ashes and said slowly: "Anyway, she is pregnant now, and she has been pregnant for several months. Anyway, you know it. It is my flesh and blood, and it is the blood of our Zhang family. If you want to fight It’s impossible to get rid of it.” The cigarette in his hand had already burned to the end, he lit another one, took a puff, and said in a negotiating tone, “There are still two ways in front of us: either get a divorce, or Just accept the reality. Things have already happened, and you can’t solve the problem if you keep arguing like this. Everyone is in their teens, so let’s relax if you can. Anyway, there are many men who have mistresses now Yes, Zhang Zhonghou is not the only one. I am almost 50 years old. I have experienced everything that should be experienced, tired enough to be tired, and earned enough money to watch. I've seen enough of my face. I've taken everything lightly. After I figured it out, it doesn't matter anymore. If you say I'm shameless, well, then I won't be shameless. Anyway, no matter how noisy you are, Xu Qiuying is a woman like me. I'm going to make a decision, and I'm going to make a decision about the child in her womb. The mother and child are members of our Zhang family now. If you can accept the reality, I will still like the new and never tire of the old as before. If you want to continue to make noise, Then you can quarrel." Then, he leaned his head on the sofa, looking like he was willing to suffer, "I, Zhang Zhonghou, don't kill people or set fires, but I just dated a confidante..."

Du Mengyuan sneered and said, "A confidante? You deserve it! She is your mistress! Your little wife!"

The shoes on Zhang Zhonghou's feet slapped the floor rhythmically, and both hands also knocked on the armrest of the sofa. He said with a half-smile: "Okay, the mistress is the mistress, and the concubine is the concubine. What's the matter? Zhang Zhonghou Zhong Hou has worked hard all his life to save this family business, so what if I marry a little wife?"

"Zhang Zhonghou, you must speak conscientiously! Is this family business the credit of you alone? If there is no support from my mother, would you be today?" Du Mengyuan was very emotional, and repeated the old saying, "Zhang Zhonghou, don't forget What kind of role were you back then, you were just an inconspicuous little cadre!"

Zhang Zhonghou immediately blushed and his neck became thick. He stomped his feet and shouted sharply: "Joke! Without you, Du Mengyuan, wouldn't the earth turn around? He kept saying that it was your support, your support, why did you support me? Ah? "

Du Mengyuan didn't expect that the man in front of her who had been sleeping with her for decades would be so shameless. Not only did she have a justifiable reason for having a mistress, but she also turned his back on the past and refused to admit it.What he looks like now is purely a rascal's face, which is completely different from what he usually looks like in public or in front of the TV cameras.Gritting her teeth with anger, she was full of anger and had nowhere to vent her anger. She turned around like a trapped animal in the living room, looking for a place to vent her anger, and finally smashed a Jingdezhen ceramic vase worth more than 2 yuan to the ground. , Linda on the side was so frightened that she didn't even dare to breathe out.

Zhang Zhonghou glanced at the debris on the ground, and said lightly: "Don't get angry, you are already in your decades, don't be so angry. I still say the same thing, either divorce or accept the reality. Divorce, half of the property For you, there are tens of millions."

Du Mengyuan yelled hysterically: "Who wants your stinky money! I want to carry a bag of dynamite to blow up Xu Qiuying's house! Raze the place where you fool around!"

(End of this chapter)