First Marriage Then Love (Mr. Mayor Please Be Kind)

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"Mom, I want to go too."

Seeing her daughter-in-law rolling up her sleeves eager to try, Lin Yanqiu couldn't help but laugh and cry: "Xia, look at you like this, do you want to fight?"

Chu Xia smiled sheepishly and put down her rolled up sleeves: "Mom, I am no match for others in a fight like this. I'm worried that Zhou Mikang is stupid and can't explain clearly."

After thinking about it for a while, Lin Yanqiu nodded: "That's okay. Yu Mingtao's sister and mother are not easy to get along with. I feel more at ease with you helping Xiaomi. But remember, if they want to take action, Just hide behind Xiaomi and don’t let yourself suffer.”

"Mom, I know." In response, Chu Xia quickly chased after him.

Yun Duo couldn't help but laugh: "Third Aunt, it's true that one family doesn't come into the same house."

"Yes, this is fate. Xiaomi has been waiting for so many years, and finally she has waited." Lin Yanqiu sighed as her eyes touched her dull-looking daughter, "It's all fate, good or bad, we meet each other. If you have it, you have to bear it.”

Yun Duo also knew about the matter between Zhou Jiping and Yu Mingtao, so he sighed: "Third aunt, speaking of it, Yu Mingtao is quite good to Jiping, but she is a member of his family and has an awkward personality.

Speaking of which, Ji Ping really didn't say anything about their family. It's a shame that they are so dissatisfied. In fact, they are probably too inferior to themselves.

This person doesn't even look down on himself, and it doesn't matter how much face others give him. Jiping, you are also responsible. Love is not something that can only be tolerated, it should be fought for. You have to fight too. "

"I told her so many times, but she didn't listen at all." Lin Yanqiu looked worried. "She feels that Yu Mingtao helped her when she was young. She will remember that love for the rest of her life. Now that the Yu family is not as good as the Zhou family, she has to give the Yu family face.

However, this human heart is different from the human heart. She uses her own ideas to measure others, and in the end she is the only one who suffers.

Hopefully, after what happened this time, she can figure it out. Fortunately, it's still not too late. If ten years pass, what can we do if we figure it out? "

"Yes, it's not too late..." Yun Duo took Zhou Jiping's hand affectionately, "Jiping, you are so lucky to have a family who loves you so much. Don't always wrong yourself. It's not worth it."

After staring at each other for a while, Zhou Jiping suddenly asked: "Yunduo, do you regret it?"

"Zhou Jiping!" Lin Yanqiu stared at her daughter dissatisfied,

"Why are you so ignorant?"

"Third Aunt. It's okay." Yun Duo smiled and waved to Lin Yanqiu, then looked at Zhou Jiping, "Jiping, I am different from you. I married Mei Yitong back then. I just followed the opinions of my elders, and at that time I also I feel like my parents’ marriage is like this and they are very happy, so I should be happy too.

However, some things are not as simple as I imagined. From the day we married him, we treated each other like guests. Therefore, in everyone's eyes, we obviously got along very well. We never quarreled or fought. Why did we just get along so well? Why don't we go together?

In fact, couples who are really noisy are because they regard each other as the closest person. Unlike the two of us, no matter how long we have been together, we can't express ourselves calmly in front of each other. This only shows that the two of us are Really inappropriate.

I remember that at that time, what I was most looking forward to was Mei Yitong’s business trip or long-distance training. Anyway, as long as he was not at home, I felt particularly comfortable. As long as he was at home, I felt uncomfortable all over.

I believe that he and I feel the same way, so when I filed for divorce, I could see that he was particularly relaxed. In fact, our decision was the right one. After the divorce, we got along better than before.

Now he and I can be considered friends, or relatively good friends. However, in order not to affect each other's life, we have chosen not to contact each other unless there is something important.

Now, I have the relationship I want, and the wedding date has been set. I feel very at ease, unlike the last time, when I heard that I was getting married, I felt that my life was about to end.

Ji Ping, Mei Yitong and I have no relationship as husband and wife, so I don’t feel sad or disappointed at all. For me, when I meet the right person at the right time, I can devote myself wholeheartedly to it.

But you are different. You love Yu Mingtao deeply and you have sacrificed a lot for him. Therefore, my story has no reference to you. What you have to do is to understand what you want in your heart.

If you feel that you can accept other men without him, then, maybe one day, you can be like me. However, if you feel that you cannot accept other men without him, then what you have to do is to be with him Have a good talk and change the way you get along.

Ji Ping, my idea is that it is very important for two people to get along equally. If one party pays too much, it will gradually become unbalanced and make the other party take it more and more for granted.

Or, what I said is not entirely correct, but I really draw from my own experience. My current boyfriend and I have gone through a running-in period and had troubles, but now we get along well. very uncomfortable.

He is getting better and better to me, and his family is getting better and better to me. To tell you the truth, in the beginning, because I was married once, his family did not accept me.

Or maybe it was because I didn't love him deeply enough. When I broke up with him, he didn't promise me anything. He just told me to give him a month, and then he would let me see the results of his efforts.

A month later, he took me to his house again, and his family's attitude towards me was completely different from before. Moreover, the good looks came from the bottom of their hearts, not just pretending.

Ji Ping, I am telling you this not to show off to you, but to tell you that you must have an attitude towards some things. Otherwise, how will the other party know how wronged you are? Sometimes men are very careless. It's not that he sees all the kindness you do to him and knows how to repay you. "

"Thank you Duoduo." Lin Yanqiu thanked Yunduo gratefully and looked at her daughter, "Jiping, my mother agrees with what Duoduo said. Please think about it carefully.

After so many years, you also know that your mother never interferes with your emotional decisions, but only gives you auxiliary opinions. If you don't listen, she won't force you.

However, you have to live your life by yourself, and you know whether you feel comfortable or not. What happened this time was that you were too tolerant and let the other person get used to it, which is the bitter result. "

Zhou Jiping closed her eyes in pain and said nothing.

Looking at her appearance, Yun Duo sighed slightly and said goodbye to Lin Yanqiu: "Third Aunt, I have other patients. I'm going back first. By the way, I can give Ji Ping liquid food in a while."

"Okay, thank you Duoduo, go ahead." Lin Yanqiu saw her out of the door. When she came back, she sighed softly and sat there in a daze. Zhou Xikang came in with a jar of hot porridge. Seeing the expressions of mother and daughter, his face also darkened. Go down and say, "Mom, you and your second sister should have something to eat."

"Okay." Lin Yanqiu responded, took a small bowl with less than half a bowl of porridge, and sat on the edge of the bed, "Jiping, put aside the things you don't understand for now and take good care of yourself."

"Mom, I don't want to eat."

"No!" Lin Yanqiu's voice was stern, "Can you, kid, please stop worrying me so much? You looked like you had figured it out a little more then. Why are you making such a fuss again?"

"Mom, no..." Zhou Jiping opened her eyes and looked at her mother apologetically, "I didn't mean to make trouble, I was just too confused and couldn't eat."

"Second sister, you have to eat even if you can't eat." Zhou Xikang sighed, "Besides, my eldest brother stayed with you all night and ran thirty miles before dawn to buy you your favorite porridge. Are you embarrassed? give face?"

After a moment of silence, Zhou Jiping looked at Zhou Xikang: "Brother, help me up."

"That's pretty much it." Zhou Xikang helped her up and put a pillow behind her. After Lin Yanqiu fed her a spoonful of porridge, he asked, "Mom, where are Xiaomi and Chuxia?"

"Going to find Yu Mingtao." When Lin Yanqiu said this, Zhou Jiping's body visibly stiffened, and she was obviously very nervous.

After Yu Mingtao returned home, he sat in the living room and smoked a cigarette. He couldn't tell how he felt. He was definitely regretful, but more importantly, he was confused.

The Yu family had a short-lived glory, which was as short-lived as a flash in the pan. Therefore, his grandparents, parents, and uncles were particularly nostalgic for that time. To this day, they still remember those days when they gather together. of brilliance.

They even blamed the decline of the Yu family on large families like the Zhou family. In their view, if these families did not redress, the glory of the Yu family could continue. This was also their view of Zhou Jiping. The source of the daughter-in-law’s dissatisfaction.

He also has a deep memory of that time.

It was at that time that Zhou Jiping fell in love with him.

It was also at that time that he took care of Zhou Jiping in everything, instead of now, his development was based on the power of the Zhou family. When the Zhou family was plotted by Xiao and his son, he was also implicated. Fortunately, That period of time was short and short. After the Zhou family stood up again, he was quickly promoted again and even transferred to Kangzhuang Town, where he was most likely to make achievements.

His family said that he had earned everything by himself. Without his efforts, nothing would have been possible today. As for transferring him to Kangzhuang Town now, if there had not been the twists and turns caused by the Zhou family, He also has a chance.

Male chauvinism was at work. Although he denied his family's statement, he thought what they said was reasonable. He even took everything he gained very calmly.

Only now, after being kicked out by his mother-in-law, did he really have time to sit down, savor and reflect