I’m Against the World

    "Am I unwilling to spend money for myself? You just earn a little bit. You, the children, and the house will spend money. Where can I spend extra money?"

    Qin Yilan sneered at the corner of his mouth: "I finally saved some money to buy something for myself, and immediately criticized me for not being considerate of you, and not considering the balance of the family's expenses, would I dare to spend your money? ?"

    "I have no money to spend, so what should I do if I don't go to work? You urged me to look for a job a few days ago, and I have only been working for a few days. You want me to quit my job and take care of the children at home." Qin Yilan He squinted at Sun Shaoyuan from the corner of his eyes: "What do you want me to do?"

    Sun Shaoyuan glared at Qin Yilan without speaking, his idea was simple, return to the previous state.

    He works hard to earn money outside, and he has clean clothes, comfortable beds, delicious meals, and lovely children at home. A wife needs to take care of it all.

    It is true that the money is not enough, but as long as the wife is a little more frugal, it will be completely fine, just like their family used to be.

    Qin Yilan ignored his eyes, lowered his head, put the translated description in the mailbox, carefully checked the words, checked the last time, clicked send, put away the computer and went back to the room.

    The next day is the weekend, Qin Yilan will take Sun Yuchen to the hobby class, piano in the morning, painting in the afternoon, and taekwondo in the evening, very busy.

    Sun Shaoyuan broke down with Qin Yilan, but his thoughts of wanting his wife to return to the family have not yet subsided, so he woke up early in the morning and said to Qin Yilan with a bit of flattery: "I'm fine today. , Isn't Chenchen going to the hobby class? I'll drive you there."

    In the interest class, the children went to the class, and a few parents sitting in the rest area chatting with each other were exchanging the latest information: Teacher Lin Sheng of the Provincial Symphony Orchestra is going to start a class with students again, and they all want to bring Try it with your kids.

     "Parents all say that this teacher is amazing, and the students under his school are not amateurs, but they are all the emperors." Sun Shaoyuan discussed with Qin Yilan: "Why don't we take Chenchen too? try?"

    Mr. Lin Sheng is indeed very good, and he is very good at teaching students. Huang Qingyun has lived for two lifetimes, and Sun Yuchen has never missed this class.

    This class is located near the Grand Theater in the old city. The Sun family lives in a high-tech zone that has only developed in recent years. To apply for this class, you need to go to classes across most of the city. Huang Qingyun insists on it. Nearly ten years, until Sun Yuchen graduated from junior high school.

    In order to go to this class, the mother and son need to get up at 6:00 in the morning on the rest day, arrive before 8:30, finish the course in two hours, and then spend more than two hours rushing back.

    It took too much time and persisted for too long, and Justin Sun was exhausted and tired.

      After years of confrontation, he finally persevered. Huang Qingyun carved the piano into Sun Yuchen's flesh and blood.

    Sun Yuchen was admitted to the Emperor's Grade 8 at the age of thirteen, and won the gold medal in the youth group in the national piano competition.

    He was able to successfully apply to Cornell University later, although the standardized test scores were the decisive factor, but the comprehensive quality that Huang Qingyun had cultivated for him since he was a child was also indispensable. After all, foreign universities not only pay attention to grades, but also pay great attention to the advantages and specialties of applicants.

    Facts have proved that what Huang Qingyun wants Sun Yuchen to insist on has given him a certain degree of help in his study and work in the future. Without Huang Qingyun's painstaking training, Sun Yuchen's excellence will inevitably be Take a big discount.

      , this process obviously goes against the biological nature of human beings, and it is undoubtedly painful.

    Huang Qingyun's many persistence aggravated Sun Yuchen's pain, Sun Yuchen's constant resistance consumed Huang Qingyun's countless energy and time, leaving her exhausted and unbearable,

    This process is also very tiring and difficult for Huang Qingyun to persevere, but she has a mother's love and endured the hostility and confrontation from her son. After more than 20 years, she finally He cultivated a particularly outstanding Sun Yuchen in the eyes of everyone.

    The accomplished Sun Yuchen is not grateful to his mother, he is indeed successful in the eyes of the world, graduated from top international universities, decent work, enviable salary, but all this is what he wants Is it right?

    No! This is what his mother wanted, not what he wanted. His childhood dream had long been smashed to pieces by his mother's philistine values!

    "You can try." Qin Yilan nodded: "But I think you have to discuss with Sun Yuchen, can he persevere?"

    Sun Shaoyuan didn't take it seriously: "I didn't go to the interview, it's too early to talk about persistence, and besides, his child knows what persistence is, as long as he is sent to class on time, he will not Can you hold on?"

    It is not easy to send it to class on time, let alone practice at home for a long time. How many tricks?

    Qin Yilan smiled slightly: "Well, if you think there is no problem, take him to try."

    Huang Qingyun has always spared no effort in raising children. Sun Shaoyuan felt that this was a good opportunity to ease the relationship between husband and wife. Le Dian Dian asked the parents for the address and phone number, and drove to accompany him early in the morning on Sunday. Together with Qin Yilan, they took Sun Yuchen to the interview.

    Because the road is far away, they didn't arrive until after ten o'clock. The number waiting for the interview has been called to more than 200. The reception staff regretfully told them that their number was not available this week, and they were asked to Come back in a month.

    It will take another month to return without success, but Sun Shaoyuan is very excited: "Do you see? The teacher said that at most ten students will be recruited, and so many people have signed up, it seems that this teacher is real Cattle."

    It's quite good, and other interest classes can be attended by paying, but this teacher has to interview for admissions, and they recruit students who can inherit the mantle.

    Qin Yilan's new job is doing very well. She has excellent professional knowledge and high emotional intelligence. Whether she is negotiating with the business team or doing translation in private, she has never been complained about and is widely praised by customers. , the translation company especially likes to assign her outing tasks.

    Expatriate assignments can be as short as one or two days, or as long as ten and a half months. Those who are close to the city and those who are far away are abroad. If this is on Huang Qingyun, she must consider that she is not at home. The problem of unattended children.

    Qin Yilan doesn't care about these, as long as the salary is enough, he can go wherever he goes. As for the children, isn't there Sun Shaoyuan?

    Sun Shaoyuan didn't want to be "relyed" by his wife, he was furious at home: "You leave the child to me when you go on a business trip for a few days, I often have to work overtime, and there is no one for the child at school. Pick up, all the other children were picked up by their parents, and he was the only one crying there, am I missing your food or your drink? You can't just take care of your children at home and have to go to this class? "

    "To put it mildly, I am a highly educated woman, and I need to pursue self-worth by showing what I have learned. To put it vulgarly, the money you give is not enough for me to spend, and I need to earn it myself. ."

    "From the child's point of view, I don't want him to think that his mother is a housewife who has accomplished nothing. From your attitude, I also don't want to give you the opportunity to let you work with relatives, friends and colleagues Tucao that your daughter-in-law is just a rice bug that is supported by you."

     Qin Yilan's long series of words stunned Sun Shaoyuan, and he didn't know how to react for a while.

    With a charming smile, Qin Yilan tilted her head to look at him: "Actually, the real reason is that I think it's too boring and stupid for a woman to only revolve around her child and husband all her life, the world is so big, life So beautiful, why should you live as someone else's vassal or shadow? There is no need to use your own compromises and concessions to make someone else's comfortable life, even if that person is a husband and child."

    Sun Shaoyuan was stunned, and it took him a while to react. He asked Qin Yilan in a painful tone of condemnation: "The money is not enough, how much is enough for you? You are a married woman, who are you? A mother of a child, you should be dignified and steady, spend so much money and time and energy on dressing yourself, do you think it is appropriate? I don't see your beauty, only your vanity!"

     Qin Yilan was about to answer when he frowned and interrupted: "Also, who are you taking care of at home when you're not at work? It's your child! It's only natural for a mother to take care of her child. Do you actually think that you are at a loss for paying for your family and your children? Family and love are quantifiable in your heart, right? You are too selfish and terrible, Qingyun, how did you become like this? "

    Sun Shaoyuan's words have too many pitfalls, Qin Yilan doesn't know how to vomit, but he has one thing right.

    The mainstream view of today's society is that it is natural for mothers to take care of their children.

    Men are not at home all the year round because of work, women take care of children at home, everyone around them is used to it, as if things should be like this.

    And women are not at home all year round because of work, and men bring children, then there is a problem, everyone will accuse this woman of being irresponsible, not loving her children and caring for her family.

    A man divorces and does not want a child, people will think it is normal, the child will be hurt by the mother. If a woman divorces and does not want children, it is cruel and heartless.

    The man is widowed, and the people around him persuade: "Hurry up and find another one, and marry a daughter-in-law to help you take care of the children."

    A woman who is widowed wants to remarry, and the people around her advise: "Negotiate well before marriage. If you don't let you bring your children, you can't marry."

    Regardless of the mother and stepmother, they are required to be unconditional and unconditional to their children, so that they are worthy of the word "mother". , let alone the title of "mother", it is simply unworthy of being a human being.

    "You don't need to accuse me." Qin Yilan said with a cold face: "In this world, I am me first, then someone's mother, someone's husband, I have to do well first myself, and then I can juggle other roles."

    "Also, the feelings are mutual, I paid for the family, have you seen my contribution? Are you sure of my contribution? If you are not grateful and give the same return, Then why should I continue to pay? People's hearts will become cold."