I’m Against the World

    No matter whether Sun Shaoyuan lost his temper or condemned, Qin Yilan refused to resign, and the two broke up. Sun Shaoyuan was angry and started the cold war mode, and he refused to ignore Qin Yilan again.

    Qin Yilan was so happy that she didn't have to communicate with him, the class photos, the makeup photos, the clothes shopping, the company gave her an assignment, and she still wanted to go.

    Her indifferent annoyed Sun Shaoyuan. The Cold War was no longer enough for him to express his dissatisfaction with his wife. Sun Shaoyuan began to fight back.

    He suddenly became busy. He didn't go home until midnight every day, and he had to go out on weekends.

    The company was going to arrange Qin Yilan to go on a business trip. She called Sun Shaoyuan and told him to pick up the child. Sun Shaoyuan threw a cold sentence: "I'm busy with work and I'm not free. You can find a way by yourself."

    How could Qin Yilan make things difficult for him, so he turned around and hired a nanny through the housekeeping company.

    The nanny she hired now is not familiar with the child, Qin Yilan asked Sun Shaoyuan's mother to help: "Sun Shaoyuan is busy with work, and I have to go on a business trip. Chenchen has no one to take care of, so I have hired a nanny. , but the nanny please be in a hurry, the child is not familiar with her, I am not very relieved, you can stay at home for a few days and help me, can you?"

    The grandmother has retired for several years. The old lady prides herself on being a literate person. She disdains to participate in the square dance group in the community, so she signed herself up to study Chinese painting for the elderly class.

    In addition to going to classes every now and then, or participating in group activities in art classes, my grandmother has nothing else to do, she has a lot of time.

    Although the grandmother had time, Qin Yilan asked her to see the child, but the old lady still felt very unhappy, and she frowned and reprimanded Qin Yilan as soon as she entered the door: "If you have an ambition at work, the child will not care. This is when I am free, you will come here as soon as you call me, what will you do if I am not free? Give Chenchen to the nanny you just met? The child is yours, why are you so hearty!"

    "You said that, I have a big heart?" Qin Yilan laughed: "My heart is not as big as Sun Shaoyuan, I was in a hurry to go on a business trip and explained to Sun Shaoyuan to pick up the child, he directly said to me 'No Empty, no more."

    "It's me, I quickly contacted the housekeeping company, and paid a high price to let someone recommend a reliable nanny to come over, it's me again, I quickly contacted you, the child's grandmother, let you come and watch Son, if I’m sincere, I’ll be just like Sun Shaoyuan, don’t care about anything, just carry my luggage and leave.”

    The grandmother was extremely displeased with Qin Yilan's rebuttal, she stared at Qin Yilan with wide eyes in disbelief: "You are a mother, where do you get so many grievances? Do you think it is troublesome to bring children? Do you think it is troublesome? Why did you give birth to him in the first place?

     "Besides, Shaoyuan is so busy at work. You don't say that you should stay at home and look after the children, but you are making a fuss about what kind of work you want to go to. You are not busy making trouble, are you making trouble for Shaoyuan?"

    Grandmother's natural tone made Qin Yilan laugh angrily.

    A woman is the mother of the child, so she should take care of the child?

    Men are busy at work and don’t need to bring children. If women can’t balance work and raising children, even if they sacrifice their careers, they can’t use children to disturb men who are busy at work?

    "I am a mother, then Sun Shaoyuan is still a father. He is busy with work, so am I not busy with work?" Qin Yilan was very puzzled: "Why is it my job to take care of the children? What about son?"

    "You gave birth to the child, who didn't you bring?" The grandmother threw herself on the sofa with a sullen face: "You are surprised to enjoy it, Shaoyuan works so hard, you don't Say you are considerate of him and hire a babysitter, you don't have to do anything if you hire a babysitter, right?"

    "I understand him, who understands me?" Qin Yilan also lowered his face: "I pay the nanny's salary, I don't need him, Sun Shaoyuan's little salary is not only for mortgage and child support , what else is there to do? How have I lived since I took care of my children full-time at home?"

    "You buy new clothes every season. I haven't bought a coat for five years. You have an annual card in the beauty salon. When I apply for a Chinese painting class, I can't bear to take an online class of 800 yuan a year."

    Tears of grievance flowed out of Qin Yilan's words: "Am I incapable of working to earn money? My earnings may not necessarily be less than Sun Shaoyuan's. Sun Shaoyuan's salary, but what kind of life did he let me live?"

    "There is a family of three, the child needs to receive a good education, he can't save money, Sun Shaoyuan has to go to work, he can't save money, the only thing that can save is that I don't have to go out to meet people at home The housewife." Qin Yilan wiped her tears: "Why am I the only one who compromises and sacrifices?"

    "Since ancient times, you have always been a man and a woman, and you are a mother. What if you compromise for the sake of your child? I wronged you?" The grandmother complained angrily: "Young people today, It's really selfish to come home..."

    Qin Yilan, who arrived home selfishly, carried her luggage and set off. It took more than 20 days to go, and it was not until Sun Yuchen was about to audition for the piano class that she completed the task and returned home.

    The taxi took her to the gate of the community. She pushed her suitcase to go home. In the small garden downstairs, she happened to meet her grandmother and a few old ladies who were hotly complaining about their daughter-in-law.

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    "Yo! The old sister has been wronged." The grandmother nodded in agreement: "Young people nowadays are not good enough. What are you arguing with her for?"

    "Why, not for my eldest grandson, isn't my eldest grandson going to primary school? The teacher will do Pinyin and English, and punch cards on the phone. I can't do these things. It's clear, let my daughter-in-law resign and go home to watch the children study."

    The fat old lady looked distressed: "She is a highway toll collector, she only earns more than 3,000 yuan a month, and she is so far away from home, what is there to do in a broken class? She is good , she refused to resign anyway, saying that I couldn't tutor the child, so she enrolled the child in a tutoring class, and the tutoring class cost more than 1,000 yuan a month. For her salary, after paying the tutoring class, she There's food left, is it interesting for her to be in that class? Huh?"

    "No, this is too inappropriate." The grandmother quickly echoed: "Why is it important to have a child's study? If you quit your job, you can look for it again, and the child's growth is this time. If you miss it, you miss it. If you don’t have a good foundation in elementary school, it will affect your grades in junior high school, and junior high school will affect high school. If you miss a link, the future of this child will be very different.”

      Well, since I gave birth to my first child, I haven't been to work for one day."

    "The first child is a boy, the second child is a dragon and a phoenix. There are three children in the family and two boys. How much will it cost to get married and marry a wife in the future?"

    While pushing the baby carriage back and forth to coax the sleeping child, the black and thin old lady complained angrily: "Their mother can be seated at home and enjoy it at home all day long. Qingfu, I don't even say I'll find a job to do it, and I'm counting on my son to earn money to support the whole family by himself! Do you think you're angry?"

    "That's really inappropriate." The grandmother began to sympathize with the black and thin old lady: "It must be difficult for one person to work and support five people, especially children. Now raising children is the same as when we were there. It's different, but you can spend money, your daughter-in-law really shouldn't stay at home."

      Will spend the money their son earns.

    Qin Yilan pushed the suitcase over to her grandmother and said, "Mom, you know the situation and you criticize others blindly?"

    Qin Yilan first called the black and thin old lady: "Aunt Liu, your daughter-in-law is not going to work, not enjoying the happiness at home, she is distressed for you, usually you two have worked hard enough with three children. , if she goes to work, don't you have to take all three children with you? Can you bring them? If you think you are really fine and can take good care of the three children, just give me a word, I will help your daughter-in-law Looking for a job, what do you think?"

    How is it, not so good.

      out of the situation.

    Serving three children is not as easy as talking about it. Aunt Liu and her daughter-in-law are already very reluctant to take care of three children alone. Impossible.

    The black and thin Aunt Liu was blushed by Qin Yilan's soft but hard snatch. She lowered her head and pushed the stroller quickly away.

    "And Aunt Yang." Qin Yilan turned to the fat old lady who was about to run away when things went wrong: "I have to persuade you about what you said, your daughter-in-law's unit should leave home Far away, but your son is a civil servant and can go home every day when he is free from work, so why can't he help him with his homework?"

    Qin Yilan smiled and said Yan Yan: "As long as your son spends a little time every day to do this work, he can save your family at least a thousand dollars in expenses every month, and let your son Helping your children with their homework after get off work is more cost-effective than asking your daughter-in-law to resign, do you think this is the rationale?"

    "Haha, haha, young people are still smart." The fat aunt Yang gave her grandmother an embarrassed smile and quickly walked away: "What, I suddenly remembered that the dishes at night were not ready yet. Buy, I went to buy food."

    Qin Yilan stayed still, just waiting for Sun Shaoyuan to bring Sun Yuchen to the interview.

    When Sun Shaoyuan wanted to ease the relationship between husband and wife, he took the initiative to take up such a matter. During this time, he had a cold war with Qin Yilan, and he had long forgotten about this matter in Java.

    Qin Yilan took the initiative to remind him that Sun Shaoyuan was very angry: "If you want your child to go to this class, take him to the interview, if you don't want him, don't go, what's the point of you telling me? ?"

    After listening to his irresponsible nonsense, Qin Yilan's eyebrows were raised and he was about to get angry.