My alternative life

Listening to my question, Wang pandi thought, "team Jiang, because women want to ovulate Well, I don't know. I'll have a holiday if I'm not pregnant. "

I nodded, "yes, because women ovulate every month, so you know that. Once the egg and sperm combine, it will give birth to life! And from that moment on, until a month or two after giving birth, women's ovulation will return to normal again Moreover, unless you are pregnant again or old enough to be postmenopausal, women will not have irregular menstruation under normal conditions. If it happens, it is called irregular menstruation. "

Who would have thought that Jiang Feng, a man and a pure man, would talk to women prisoners about physical health in women's prison

Wang pandi looked at me, "team Jiang, how can you understand everything? You know so much, you know better than a big old lady of mine... "

So, I sweat all kinds of sweat!

"Don't interrupt!"

I was not angry to interrupt each other, "so, Wang pandi, first of all, you must make a clear concept, that is, a woman, hehe, a woman like you, if there is no other physiological disease, only menopause, no longer ovulation, can you really lose the qualification to have a child and become a mother! Before that, no matter how old you are, you have a chance to get pregnant and be a mother in theory

"Really? Team Jiang, you, you didn't cheat me, did you? Are you relaxing my heart? "

"I lied to you? Do you think discipline can cheat criminals at will? "

I shook my head. "Absolutely not cheating! Wang pandi, if you recall carefully, haven't you heard any rumors about Lao laizi in your life? You think, a man can still have a child at the age of 60 or 70. Even if his wife is 20 years younger, it must be at least 40 or 50 years old. Otherwise, she can still be pregnant? Is it true that all the old children are born to the younger generation? "

Wang pandi looked at me thoughtfully.

I continued, "and even if you're older, it's more difficult to conceive, but now medicine is so developed, as long as you keep healthy, can't you still do IVF and artificial insemination? Why do you have to think that you are going to die and the end of the world is coming? "

"Team Jiang, what you said seems reasonable But

"Hey, hey, do you want to ask me why you haven't had your period for some time? Since my body is normal, why doesn't my aunt pay a visit on time? "

"Well."

"Wang pandi, that's another question I want to talk about."

My eyes were staring at her, "there are many reasons for menstrual disorders in women! In addition to pregnancy and menopause, there are also physical diseases that delay or advance menstruation, such as eating cold food will make menstruation suddenly come, such as tired, poor rest, gynecological inflammation These can cause irregular menstruation

"Well, you mean I don't have a man? But, I think so. He always comes to me at night, me and him, we Anyway, when I wake up in the morning, I always feel wet between my legs... "

Although she was embarrassed, she insisted on telling me her conscious and physical reactions.

Now, I'm more sure that Wang pandi's condition must be "paranoid fantasy syndrome"!

I laughed, "Wang pandi, do you think it's possible? You don't know the situation of Shashan female prison. If all the men are added together, another n-th power is equal to one! Do you think that besides me, what other man can easily enter the sand mountain, break through the barriers, enter the heavily guarded prison area, and climb onto the female prisoner's bed? "

"This..." She couldn't answer.

"You don't want to say that the man you meet in the middle of the night is my Jiang Feng, do you?"

I made a harmless joke to try to get rid of her emotional tension.

Sure enough, Wang pandi blushed. Although she was really average in appearance, strong in body and shrewd in behavior, she was still a woman after all.

Wang pandi did not dare to look at me, and she spewed out a few words in her mouth Ah, if my future men are half as good as Jiang's team, I will be satisfied... "

"Yes

I stare at each other, "Wang pandi, looking up at me. You know what? In my heart, there is always a standard for judging people, especially prisoners. Do you want to hear it? "

She looked up as she said, "OK, you say."

"I think that when a person begins to lose confidence in life, her mental state and behavior will become worse and worse, and prosperity will turn into adversity. On the contrary, even if she is a prisoner who once made a big mistake, as long as she is full of hope and never loses the confidence to live a good life, then she will have a bright future one day

I sentence after sentence, so that Wang pandi can only be stunned to listen to me.

"There was once a woman who suffered from high paraplegia due to spinal cord hemangioma when she was young. In the face of the cruel challenge of fate, she did not get depressed or sink. She fought against the disease with indomitable perseverance, taught herself College English, Japanese and German, and studied University and postgraduate courses. ""In her later life, she translated a lot of foreign literary works and created a lot of poems, essays and novels You think that, compared with her who can only sit in a wheelchair all her life and can't feel anything in her lower body, although you have been locked up for ten years, you can still walk, jump, and visit all the great mountains and rivers of the motherland! Wang pandi, you tell me, if you are given a choice, would you like to sit in a wheelchair all your life and need to be taken care of when you urinate, or would you like to exchange ten years of atonement for a new life? "

"There was also a woman who lost her sight and hearing at 19 months of age because of acute stomach and brain congestion. When I was a teenager, I committed suicide several times

I sighed and continued to talk to Wang pandi, but my heart was full of respect.

“… She has been ignorant, living like a fool, until she met Miss Sullivan Later, with her great perseverance, she was not only able to communicate with others, but also admitted to Radcliffe women's college, the most famous university in the United States. She lived 87 years, but for 86 years she lived in a world without light and sound. In this period, she has completed 14 books. Among them, the most famous are: "if you give me three days of light", "my life story", "stone wall story". She devoted herself to the benefit of the disabled and established many charities. In 1964, she was awarded the "Presidential Medal of freedom". The next year, she was selected as one of the "top ten American heroes in the 20th century" by time magazine

Wang pandi, I'm totally stunned.

So, there is such a picture --- in the psychological counseling room of Shashan female prison, I talk about it, facing a female prisoner whose mood and thought are constantly changing