My beautiful boss and I

The sea in spring is so quiet and charming, just like the beauty who wakes up from a deep sleep. A kind of tranquil state of mind is surging out of her laziness. She slowly twists her beautiful figure and blows one or two white waves to the coast from time to time. The waves are very thin, very short and very delicate. They just dance for three or two minutes on the coast, then quietly call the curtain and let the sea return to calm.

At this time of the sea, there is no summer noise, no waves higher than waves, no dark clouds, thunder and lightning in the sea, just quietly enjoy all the gifts of spring, and at the same time, it breeds more lives and sows more hope.

The sea in spring is far away from the deep and blue of autumn. It lacks the splendor of the sunrise and sunset reflecting the Red Sea, the busy figure of fishermen driving wooden sailboats on the sea, and the evening singing of fishing songs with the same sound of the moon setting and the waves. It just listens to the past birds and composes Ode to the reality of spring and autumn.

At this time, the sea has nothing to do with the stability and solemnity of winter, the sea breeze and the white snowflakes. It just quietly transforms the stability and solemnity of winter into a beautiful spring with flowers blooming and favorable weather.

I stopped and quietly looked at the sea in the north and the nearby fishing villages. The spring sea in the north is a sea with the rhythm of life. A leisurely fishing boat, anchored in the shallow bay, just wait for the arrival of the sea waves, then set sail.

Through the sea, I seem to see the green water become transparent, the sea bottom colorful, different sizes of fish swimming in groups in the reef, leisurely. The lingering water plants stretch out their slender and green arms and hover over some beautiful reefs, stretching and swaying with the rhythm of the sea.

Spring rain suddenly fell from the sky, like catkins, like snowflakes, in full swing, dancing all the way to the sea of spring. At that moment, I seemed to hear the spring rain singing in the arms of the sea. A few seagulls, dancing with light wings, driving the warm spring breeze, cut off the continuous spring rain one by one, flying on the calm sea.

Spring rain stopped, sunshine, I continue to walk, in front of the beach, the remains of a wooden boat looming on the beach. Most of the boat was buried in white sand, and the bow and outline of the boat could be discerned. Although the wooden boat was engulfed by sand, its soul was still there, and its bow was still facing the sea in spring.

Not far from the wooden boat is a thick brick wall. The bottom of the brick wall was covered with green moss and small shells. It turns out that this is an old abandoned wharf. The wharf is very narrow and a section standing in the sea collapses. The bricks and stones scattered in the sea are silent in front of the spring sea, full of vicissitudes and thick history.

In front of the spring sea in the north, it seems that I don't need to go into her arms. I don't need the clean sea water to wash my tiredness. It seems that my mind has been broadened. The spring sea has sown countless seeds of hope in my heart. It seems that I will be like the spring sea, quietly waiting for the beautiful arrival.

I sit on the beach, staring at the distant sea, thinking about the past few years' experience, the life I have experienced, the women I have experienced in my life, my past, present and future life. I can't help but rise and fall in my heart

Life is always to move forward, life is always to experience, life is always to have a dream.

Floating life like a dream has said that the only thing in the world that can be gained without work is poverty, and the only thing that can be created out of nothing is dream. Nothing can be done without hands. Although the world is cruel, but as long as you are willing to go, there will always be a way; can not see the beautiful, because you did not insist on going. The most important thing in life is action. When you are hesitant, you might as well take a small step first. If it's good, it's wonderful; if it's bad, it's experience

Experience, experience

Whenever I think of her words, my heart is always full of a kind of inexplicable feelings, which surge in my restless life.

At the moment, this feeling in my heart, let me add a bit tired and tired, my heart really feel tired, because the heart tired, so will feel very tired life.

I'm so tired. I'm really tired.

With a long sigh, I lay on my back on the beach, my head resting on my hands, staring at the blue sky in a daze

A familiar face suddenly appeared in front of me, looking down at me.

Lao Li.

I sat up and looked at him. "What are you doing here?"

"Come and play with my son!" Lao Li sat beside me as if nothing had happened.

"It's nice to have a son, isn't it?" I said.

"Yes, how do you know?" Lao Li looks at me.

I said, "what do you want to play with me?"

Lao Li said, "you can play anything! Just be happy

I said, "I'm very upset at the moment. I want to sit down for a while and play by yourself."

Lao Li said, "I don't know!"

I said, "why don't you listen?"

Lao Li said, "I'm not obedient!"I couldn't help laughing. Lao Li also laughed.

I sighed: "Lao Li -"

"call Dad!"

"Lao Li -"

"call dad -"

"Lao Li -"

"you disobedient son!" Lao Li hit me on the head, and I laughed again.

"Son, why did you sigh just now?" Lao Li said.

"Alas..." I sighed again: "Lao Li, I think it's tiring to live Look at you carefree all day, I really envy you Why do I feel so tired? "

"Are you tired or tired?" Lao Li said.

"Tired heart," I said.

Lao Li said, "if you don't want to be tired, there's a way!"

I said, "what can I do?"

Lao Li pointed to the sea and said, "go jump into the sea You'll never be tired after 1000 meters. "

I said, "I don't want to die. If I die, you don't have a son."

Lao Li said: "since you don't want to die, you should live well, no matter how tired you are Life is a battle, is a fight, tired is necessary, not tired, it is not life It's not easy to live, but it's just because it's not easy to live that we can live well. "

My heart moves, autumn Tong also said such words with me.

Lao Li said: "son, father told you that since people are alive, they will encounter many difficulties and tangles Life without difficulties is not life, life without tangles is not life In other words, life is used to live, life is used to tired, only tired, you will know the wonderful and precious life

I look at Lao Li.

Lao Li continued: "son, I've experienced many things in my life. I've experienced all kinds of twists and turns in my life. Some difficulties and twists and turns can even bring down a person or even ruin a person's life. However, I still come here

"In fact, I believe that there are many difficulties in life that can not be solved as long as we live. But sometimes we are in the vortex of self blame and guilt. In fact, life is like a cup of boiled water, flat and light; but it is like a cup of boiled water with sugar, sweet; it is also like a cup of boiled water with salt, salty.

"There is a saying that life is only beautiful when it comes out, but not brilliant when it comes out. Life has no beginning once and for all, and there is no end that cannot be saved. Even if everything is lost, as long as there is still a breath, there is no reason to despair. We may not be able to change the environment, but we can change ourselves; we can not change the past, but we can grasp the present; we can not go smoothly, but we can do everything; we can not choose the appearance, but we can show a smile.

"There are two kinds of things in life: what has happened and what hasn't happened. We can't change what has happened, so we don't have to be persistent. What hasn't happened can be divided into two situations: one is that it can be changed with the current action; the other is that it can't be changed. We should not waste time and energy to regret the past or worry about the future, but strive to do well in the present. Buddha said: the heart is at the moment, so it is peaceful! "

I quietly looked at Lao Li's face and listened to his voice.

"No one can decide the way you want to go. Only when the compass in your heart is broken can you lose yourself. Life can go in a straight line, which is in my heart. But our compromises, distractions and submissiveness often make us deviate from the original track and waste a lot of time.

"To life, some people are optimistic, some are pessimistic, some are optimistic and sometimes pessimistic. Between optimism and pessimism, what people need most is realism. Optimists are happy to be paid less. Pessimists are not happy to get more pay. Realists are those who wait until they get paid to decide whether they are optimistic or pessimistic. "

Lao Li continued: "there are many things in our life. We planned very well and imagined very well, but when we walk, everything gradually changes. Sometimes it becomes a task and a burden. Like travel, this is a relaxed and happy thing, the result is often on the road, just for that one by one scenic spot of this tour, but missed the stop and go.

"Life is not for compromise. The more you shrink back, the less space you can breathe. Life is not for making do with it. The more humble you are, the farther away some happy things will be from you. In some things, you don't need to put yourself too low. You should actively strive for what belongs to you. In front of some people, you don't need to tolerate again and again. You can't let others trample on your bottom line. Only when you straighten your back, the world will give you more feedback. "

I said: "how to do to make yourself no longer tired."

Lao Li said: "this problem is very simple, but it is very complicated. In my opinion, if a person wants to be not tired, he should read more books to cultivate talent, be careful in speaking and acting to cultivate innocence, attach importance to friendship to cultivate popularity, be tolerant of humiliation to cultivate ambition, be gentle in dealing with affairs to cultivate kindness, be responsible to cultivate virtue, be humble in fame and wealth to cultivate righteousness, not kitsch to cultivate backbone, dare to act to cultivate ambition, and be tolerant atmosphere."To make friends and do things, you should have your own yardstick. Other people's appearance, wealth, wisdom and status have nothing to do with you. Never use these things as your criteria for making friends. There is only one thing that makes sense, that is, how much he is willing to share with you.

"Everyone has something to say, but they don't know what to say. People who know what they want to say don't listen when they say it. Even those who listen will hear it in another way. Then everyone insists that what they say or listen to is right. This is the absurd communication world we live in."

After listening to Lao Li's words, I felt confused and couldn't help saying: "life is really like watching flowers in the fog."

Lao Li laughed: "son, do you like to see flowers in the fog?"

I shook my head: "no, I like to see it clearly!"

Lao Li said, "but it's very difficult, isn't it?"

I said, "yes -"