My beautiful boss and I

"At the beginning, I'm going to make a complete plan for them." I said.

"Well There is a good plan, so formal They also show respect. " Lao Li said, "Xiaoyi, what's your ultimate goal in the workplace?"

I thought about it: "the ultimate goal Naturally, it is to be bigger and stronger, and to be the best in the same industry. "

Lao Li said, "what's your state now?"

I said, "just started Step over from the beginning. "

Lao Li said, "what is the biggest difficulty?"

I said, "naturally, it's money If I had 10 million in my hand, I would have made my career bigger Unfortunately, there is only a little money in hand now, hehe Only slowly What I need now is to save the first pot of money This is the first bucket. The more, the better. "

"In fact, the first pot of gold is really important in the workplace, but it doesn't necessarily need a lot," Mr. Li said

I said: "ha ha, how do you say that?"

Lao Li said: "in 1998, five people from Ma Huateng raised 500000 yuan to set up Tencent; in 1998, Shi Yuzhu borrowed 500000 yuan to set up melatonin; in 1999, Ding Lei used 500000 yuan to set up 163; in 1999, Chen Tianqiao made 500000 yuan to set up Shanda; in 1099, 18 people including Ma Yun raised 500000 yuan to register Alibaba

"You see, their first pot of gold is not much, but now they are all bigger So, the first pot of gold is not how much, but how you use it? It depends on the size of your goal, but on your courage and boldness In other words, half a million can determine your career destiny. "

Lao Li's words made me deeply agree and encouraged, saying: "well Yes, well said, Lao Li, 500000 yuan can decide one's career fate Lao Li, don't worry. I'll show you. I'll show you that your young man is not a mediocre person. He will make great achievements in the workplace and will become bigger in the same industry For me, the meaning of life is nothing more than struggle. "

Lao Li said: "in fact, the struggle of life can be divided into five stages. The first is survival. In order to survive and be based on society, it is very difficult to preserve one's dignity when one can only fight for survival The second is to improve life and quality Thirdly, we need to show off some achievements to let more people know our success The fourth stage, more experience, began to pursue the feeling of things The last stage is to return to simplicity and return to truth, and rise to the realm of spirit In fact, it is reasonable to say that material determines spirit. "

I can't help thinking of Dong'Er's theory of material supremacy. I can't help thinking when Lao Li says so

In a trance, I heard Lao Li say: "the struggle of life can not only depend on one's enthusiasm, nor on one's lofty spirit and ambition, but also learn to cultivate one's mind. The key to cultivating one's mind lies in one's patience

"Desolate life, vicissitudes of life, life has a lot to endure; life has a lot of desires to endure; life has a lot of feelings to endure; life has a lot of pain to endure; life has a lot of words to endure; life has a lot of Qi to endure Forbearance is sometimes the social requirement of environment and opportunity for human nature, and sometimes it is a kind of self-discipline in the heart for the evil of human nature. "

I looked at Lao Li and said nothing.

Lao Li said, "if you have a small heart, the little things will be big; if you have a big heart, the big things will be small; if you look down on the vicissitudes of the world, you will be safe and sound. We should have a big heart to accommodate the things in the world; we should have a empty heart to love the goodness in the world; we should have a calm heart to discuss the things in the world; we should have a firm heart to deal with the changes in the world. Great things are difficult to bear, adversity and prosperity depend on the mind, giving up depends on the wisdom, success or failure depends on persistence Responsibility, breadth of mind, wisdom and persistence are the essential qualities for a great event Xiaoyi, think about how many items you have achieved, and how many percent of each item have you achieved? "

I said, "I don't know I didn't think about it

"You should think more when you're free."

"Well..." I nodded: "Lao Li, I will remember your words I understand a truth, the horse is run out, strong soldiers are fight out. The rudder of destiny is struggle. Do not have a trace of fantasy, do not give up a little chance, do not stop a day's efforts. If you are afraid of the ups and downs in front of you, life will always be a pool of stagnant water. Cowardly people will only hold back, reckless people can only be burned, only the truly brave people can be invincible. Our world will never give a medal to a sad laggard Don't worry, old man. I will make you look up to me with new achievements. I will never live a mediocre life. "

Lao Li nodded with a smile: "where there is a will, things will come true I will watch your growth and progress, I will be happy and proud of your every progress Remember a sentence, say less and do more. Some people often talk big and think they know everything. In fact, it's just a kind of blind self-confidence. Some people like to repeat their prejudice and think it's wisdom, but they don't know it's still a fallacy.

"As a result, a lot of people abandon a lot of things worth having in their boasting, and give life an empty name, which is mediocrity. Many people put aside learning and enterprising, but gather the mistakes in life together, and breed a devil, which is called fate Although a large part of fate is determined by personality, that is, the so-called natural, but the day after tomorrow's efforts can still change fate. "I nodded, "yes."

Lao Li said with a smile: "this topic is too serious to talk about. Today I've talked enough with you. On the one hand, you can't digest it. On the other hand, the spectators will think that I'm wordy. I don't want the spectators to have a headache as soon as they see me. They are afraid that I'm going to talk about it. Haha, but I can't help it. This thing in my stomach is overdue and invalid It's good to pour it out for you from time to time. It may be helpful to your life and career. "

I laughed.

"Ah - boy, when you get rich in the future, I can follow you. It seems that when I get old, I will be able to rely on you. We are friends. When you get rich in the future, you have to support me. You don't care about me." Lao Li said wittily.

"Ha ha..." I laughed and said, "Lao Li, are you kidding me? You millionaire still need me to support you? But don't worry. When you are really old and spend all your millions of savings, I will support you no matter whether I get rich or not. I will treat you as my elder. Although I am not your son, I will make you feel that I am more filial to you than your son... "

Lao Li is smiling I really envy your father for having such a good son as you, but I'm very satisfied with what you said today. It seems that I have made the right friends with you. "

I said: "however, the son filial piety Laozi is not white filial piety, oh, you have to give me some."

Lao Li said, "what do you want me to give you?"

I said, "it's easy, you can do it I want you to guide and teach my life and career from time to time I need your instruction to grow up. "

Lao Li laughed again: "OK, it's no problem. I promise to do it Ah - it's a pity that you can't be my son or my son-in-law. "

I said, "what's the point? Son and son-in-law will be filial? How nice it is for us to be friends. Why do we have to lower me down a generation? I just treat you as an elder in my heart. We can communicate like brothers at ordinary times I like the feeling Just now, I thought that if your daughter came to see you just now, I would ask her to call me little uncle. "

"Ha ha, you boy, you're in a good business The abacus is very smart.... " Lao Li laughed again.

At this time, my mobile phone rang again. It was Qiu Tong.

"Hello, Qiutong," I said.

"Ha ha Where to play? " The quiet voice of Qiutong.

"Catching crabs on an island in the sea." I said.

Lao Li looked at me.

"Oh It's a fairy day to catch crabs on the island. I really want to go with you Unfortunately, I can't get away from it. " Qiu Tong said.

Of course, I don't want Qiutong to come. In fact, it's not that I don't want Qiutong to come. I'm eager to ask Qiutong to come with us. It's that Li Shun doesn't want Qiutong to come. Just because Li Shun doesn't want Qiutong, it becomes my hope.

"Qiutong, what are you doing?" I said.

"I'm accompanying my guests to Xinghai Square." Qiutong said, "did Xiaoxue have a good time?"

"Very happy, you can rest assured!" I said.

"Xiaoxue is with you, I'm sure. It's just that the sea is windy. We should prevent Xiaoxue from catching a cold." Qiu Tong said, "just you two catching crabs together?"

"No, there's a half old man of mine who has lost his old age and made old friends, who is not old in heart We've got his light today, and we've gone to sea with him. " I said and looked at Lao Li with a smile. Lao Li laughed silently.

"Oh, ha ha, you still have friends who forget to make friends This is the first time I've heard that... " Qiu Tong said.

"The old man is very nice. He is my best friend." I said.

Hearing this, Lao Li laughed again.

"To make friends with the old man, it should be iron man. How can it be iron man? Look at you, no big or small. People will not be happy to hear that." Qiutong blames me.

"It's OK. Sometimes we are men and sometimes we are brothers." I said.

Lao Li nodded with a smile.

Qiutong laughed again and said, "when will you come back?"

I said: "before dinner, send Xiaoxue back. You are ready to steam the crabs for Xiaoxue. Today, I caught a lot of crabs. It's big and fat."

"Well, I'll be able to do the sacrifice in your light at night." Qiu Tong is very happy, and told me: "snow out of the back of the small bag has my coat, if the wind is cold, you remember to give her a coat, don't forget."

"OK, no problem!" I said.

"Also, there is a thermos cup in Xiaoxue's bag. I packed Luohan fruit tea for her before going out. Remember to drink it for her."

"Well, all right."

"Also, there are chocolate snacks in the bag. If Xiaoxue is hungry, please bring them to her."

"Well, ah, I'll take care of Xiaoxue. Why are you so kind?" I said with a smile, "anything else?""Ha ha, since you think I'm wordy, there's no more." Qiu Tong smiles.

"Then you don't have to worry about my guests here!" I said.

"Well, well, I don't worry Today, I've been babysitting for you all day. " Qiu Tong said.

"Ha ha, what's the matter? Do you want to hire me as your babysitter? " I said.

"Oh, I can't afford to hire you. You are so tall and can eat. I can't afford to support you!" Qiu Tong said.

"Then I can think about eating less." I said.

"Hee hee Eat less will be thin, Haizhu will be distressed oh At that time, Haizhu will blame me, but I can't afford to suffer. " Qiu Tong said.

"If I lose weight, the light sea pearl loves, don't you?" I said it half jokingly.