My uncle, take it easy

Should husband and wife support and trust each other?

Su fan looks at his mother.

"The truth of the matter, really doesn't matter? For his future, I have to trust him unconditionally, don't I? " Su fan asked.

"Don't you believe him, Gaines?" The mother looked at her and asked.

"I know what kind of person he is --" Su Fan said.

"Then you should believe him more --" mother said, but Su fan interrupted.

"Just because I believe in him, I know his fatal attraction to women very well, so I --" Su Fan said.

"Because some women will take the initiative to stick to him, you think he will accept it, don't you?" Asked the mother.

"I also know that my idea is very stupid. I also know that I shouldn't doubt him. He is so kind to me, but --" Su Fan said.

"Actually, as a woman, it's normal for you to think that way." Said the mother.

"You too -" Su fan asked.

The mother nodded, laughed and said, "I have always been suspicious of your father for so many years. I know very well that his environment is an indescribable stimulation to human nature. Beauty, money and power are too common in this circle. These things are almost as common as eating and drinking water. The men in this circle really have what they want, what kind of women they want, what kind of fat and thin, what kind of no? Sleeping with a few women is nothing at all. When you are faced with so many temptations, when you can easily get things that many people may not get in their hard life, you will regard everything as normal, law and morality, which can be crossed at will. Under such circumstances, how many people do you think can keep the final bottom line? The bottom line is long gone

With that, her mother sighed.

"Well, you and my dad --" Sufan asked.

The mother looked at her and said, "your father and I, your father is a perfect person! If he had been morally perfect, he would not have been with me and you would not have been

Su fan looks at her mother in surprise. She thinks that her father is a God in her mother's eyes, just as Huo Shuqing is in her eyes. However, she doesn't expect that——

"So ah, you doubt Shuqing so much, and I understand you. After all," my mother said, pausing. "After all, the relationship between you and Shuqing has developed in that way. It's normal and proper for you to doubt him."

"Then why do you still --" said Su fan.

"Why advise you, don't you?" Mother asked, Sufan nodded.

The mother gave a bitter smile and said, "I don't want you to do stupid things."

Su fan is puzzled.

"As for men, if you stare at him too tightly, he will naturally resist. There is only one way for him to resist. Ordinary men are still like this, not to mention those like Huo Shuqing? Isn't it a matter of minutes for him to cheat? Yes, you can't even know. So, if you doubt him too much, he didn't do anything and didn't think about it. As a result, you doubt him every so often, and he just does it. Anyway, no matter what he does or not, you don't believe him. Why should he let you be wronged? Yes, at least I'm happy, aren't I? " Said the mother.

Su fan nodded.

"But you can't put it too loosely. I want you to believe that Shuqing is because we all know how Shuqing is. Although you and his beginning is such a process, he will not easily be attracted to a person. He is moved by you and falls in love with you. When you leave him, he has been waiting for you for three years. If it's another man who doesn't divorce sun man, and then continues to look for other women, but he doesn't do that. He knows that his divorce with sun man will have a bad impression, but he still wants to have a clean identity when he gets together with you in the future and give you a promise, so he will insist on divorce. Even if he is alone, he will always wait for you. " Mother said, Sufan's heart, wet.

"Later, you were reunited. Do you think he didn't know the past years of you and Yifei? He is the Secretary of the municipal Party committee of Rongcheng. His wife has been having an affair with his brother for several years. How many men can bear this kind of thing? Even if it's not against you, he can carry you to other women! He never told you, did he? He was secretly ridiculed by his wife and brother and gave him a green hat, and he would not tell you, would he? He carries all the things he can carry, and he also carries the things he can't, and he won't let you worry about these things at all, will he? " Said the mother.

In Sufan's nose, there was a pain.

"Later, when you meet that kind of thing, it is true that the root of it lies in him, no matter when I think so. You think that's what I think. What about him? Doesn't he think it's not because of him? If it wasn't for him, would you lie still for such a long time? " The mother said with a long sigh, "Shuqing, he won't say anything. I heard that Yifei beat him for that. Yifei can move his hand, but he can't do anything! Facing all of us, what does he feel in his heart? I think he would rather be shot by Liu Shuya than you. "

Su fan closed his eyes and tears came out of them. Her tears, slapping on the back of her mother's hand, Luo Wenyin took out a paper towel from one side and handed it to her daughter“ Gayne, I'm not saying this to you because I'm partial to Shuqing, but because I know that Shuqing is the most trustworthy and loving person in the world. He is the only one, and he is also the one who loves you most and trusts you most. " Rowan said. Su fan tears silently“ Kayin, you are still young. There is nothing wrong with you this time. Your life experience is shallow and you don't know the danger of people's heart very well. Therefore, you have no way to guard against one trap after another. Your reaction is the normal reaction of a young wife, and mom doesn't blame you. However, mom doesn't want you to continue to make such low-level mistakes in the future. If you continue to do so, it will only make Shuqing more and more sad and disappointed. He is making progress, no matter his position or his insight and vision, he is making rapid progress, and you can't always stay in the same place. If you stay in the same place, the gap between you and him will be bigger and bigger -- "mom said. Su fan grinned bitterly and said, "Jiang Cainan told me the same thing. She said that Huo Shuqing and I have no common language. I don't understand his thoughts. I don't understand his situation and his world. Originally, it's really -" his mother looked at Su fan and said, "Jiang Cainan really has a sinister heart."“ But what she said is also true, and so do you -- "said Su fan“ Do you think I'm in the same position as her? " Said the mother“ No, of course not. " Su Fan said that his mother was already a little unhappy“ Let me tell you, don't listen to a word of Jiang Cainan's words. That man, with a bad mind, can say anything good? " Said the mother. Su fan nodded. Luo Wenyin sighed, raised her hand and stroked her daughter's long, soft hair, and said: "Gayne, you and Shuqing, no matter what, will not get divorced. This, you don't have to worry. With your father and Secretary Chunming, no matter what, you won't get divorced. However, my mother doesn't want you to get a loveless marriage. My mother hopes your marriage can be happy. I hope you and Shuqing can love each other forever. He will love you forever. That's your greatest happiness. Do you understand? " Su fan nodded“ So, when Shuqing is improving him, you should also improve yourself and cultivate your mind. You can't be like a child any more, you know? It's OK to act coquetry in front of him occasionally, but we must be clear in front of right and wrong. He may not need you to do anything at ordinary times, but when he needs you to support him in a big event, you must stand beside him, absolutely believe him, hold his guard and support him, understand? " The mother looked into Sufan's eyes and said“ Well, I see, Ma! " Su Fan said. Her mother combed Su fan's long hair with her hands, and her eyes were full of love“ Mom, I'm really happy for you, because you found Huo Shuqing. I'm really happy for you. However, mom is also very worried about you. If you marry him, you will not enjoy the happiness of ordinary husband and wife. Many things that you think should be done by normal husband and wife, you will never get happiness when you are with Shuqing. Even so, you have to learn to be patient, learn how to be a qualified wife, stand behind him and support him, so that he doesn't worry about realizing his ambition. " Said the mother. Su fan nodded“ Sometimes, I also hope you can find the usual happiness, go to work, pick up the children, take the children to play with your husband on holidays, take the children to cram school, go shopping in the supermarket, go to tea shopping with friends, but it's too late, isn't it? You only need Huo Shuqing, don't you? As long as you choose him, there's only one way to follow him. It's not your choice at all The mother sighed“ Have you ever regretted marrying my father? " Su fan looked up at his mother and asked. All along, Su fan only knew that her mother often lived alone in that yard, and most of her contacts with others were for entertainment, and her friends were very few. In addition to maintaining the relationship in the father's circle, the mother is also required to arrange for the family's relatives to move around, and the children of any family should send gifts on their birthdays on time. Naturally, the old man's birthday is a gift. However, she did not think that her mother would face the challenge brought by her father's noble status. If it was not for this incident, Su fan would not really understand. You can search Baidu for the latest chapter of "Uncle chatting about jiutao novels (9txs. ORG)"! This novel has been translated by www.readwn.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.