My uncle, take it easy

"Regret it?" The mother grinned bitterly, sighed and said, "even if it's regret, there's no chance, right?"

Su fan looks at his mother.

"You and my father have been together for so many years, have you ever had such a thing?" Su fan asked, "you just said to me --"

"It's OK, your dad. Er, it's OK." The mother laughed and said.

Sufan listened quietly.

Although I didn't recognize my mother until I was nearly 30 years old, and at the beginning of those days, there were constant conflicts between them. But after these years, maybe because blood is thicker than water, or maybe everyone is trying to understand and accept each other, the relationship between mother and daughter has become more and more harmonious. Sufan no longer regarded his mother as the minister's wife, but as a mother who could pour out her mind. Luo Wenyin no longer regarded her daughter as the country girl, but her own daughter.

Mother and daughter are so similar in their lives - they both fall in love with a married husband, give birth to a child for this man, and finally marry this man, and this man has become the pillar of the Kingdom - no matter in the past, now or in the future, reality and ideal are intertwined, which makes mother and daughter have more and more common language. For Sufan, what her mother has experienced may be what she will experience in the future. Her mother's experience is very important to her.

"As for your father, he is very kind to me and loves me very much. However, as for people, he is romantic in nature. Although he has changed a lot since he married me, he also keeps a distance from the women outside. However, as I told you before, there are too many temptations in this circle. It is impossible for women who can get into this circle to have no real skills. No matter their appearance, talent or love, they are not comparable to ordinary women. Even if those women can't be the main room, they have been raised outside for two or three years, even for ten or twenty years. As for your father, that's OK! After all, the things that happened between me and elder sister Ye sobered him up a lot, and his desire in that aspect also converged a lot. " Said the mother.

Su fan nodded and continued to listen to his mother.

"However, your father's position is there. As you said, it's not easy for a man to control his fatal attraction to women. Even if he doesn't have a substantive relationship, it's hard to avoid meeting a few people who are attracted." Said the mother.

"Then my father is really outside -" Sufan can't believe it. His father seems to spoil his mother so much. How can he like other women?

"How are you? Your father is OK. He knows the right way. He doesn't care about those who make a scene at any time. After all, his identity is there. If anything is bad for him, he cares about it now. In addition, I'm busy with work and have a lot of pressure. I don't have that kind of mind. I basically go home when I'm free. I still know that. So, I'm lucky! It's just that we women have been competing with the same kind all our lives. When I was young, I wanted to marry a man I admired. When I did, I found that the real fight started. In order to keep a man's heart, I can't relax for a moment. It's not easy to be a man's lifelong love. " Luo Wenyin sighed.

Su Fan said nothing and put his head on his mother's shoulder.

"That's why I tell you that Huo Shuqing is a rare man. You should know how to cherish his fortune. In our circle, our mother and daughter are really lucky. There are few lucky people like us. Because the people we're looking for are all good men, aren't they? However, even if a good man, even if the man has a strong sense of morality, we wives can't put all our life's hope on such a marriage. The husband hurts, naturally is good, but, the love has the deadline, the person's patience is also limited, if you only from this man to ask for his love for you, your pet, but ignore his emotional needs, even if he how to love you, how to pet you, one day, he will be tired. Especially for men like your father and Huo Shuqing, once they give up on you, nothing can be retrieved. Just look at what happened to sun man. I don't have to teach you about this, do I? " Rowan said.

Su fan nodded.

"Marriage is a lifelong learning course. If you want to get the most beautiful happiness, you should constantly cultivate yourself. Is a marriage without love and only empty shell what you want? If you don't want to, change yourself, be a woman who is always worthy of Huo Shuqing's love, and be a woman who makes him reluctant to leave. Do you understand, Gayne? " Mother's face was serious, but very sincere.

Su fan looked into his mother's eyes and said nothing for a long time.

The ward was quiet for a long time before Su Fan said, "I'm sorry, mom. I don't know how to get along with him all the time. I'm afraid of losing him. I'm afraid I don't deserve him. I --"

"It's a sense of crisis, isn't it?" Asked the mother.

Su fan nodded.

"With a man like him, a proper sense of crisis is good for you. This sense of crisis will make you work hard to maintain your marriage and make your relationship more stable. So, this is nothing. If you take everything for granted and take the benefits of marriage for granted, you will be abandoned by him like sun man. " Her mother took Sufan's hand and said seriously, "no one in the world is right for you. If you overenjoy the benefits of a relationship, you will lose the support of the relationship, especially the husband and wife."

"But, in this case, do we women live just to get the love of their husbands and to have a stable family relationship? Is that the only goal we have in life? " Su fan asked“ Husband's love, stable family relationship and couple's feelings are certainly not our only goals in life, but they are the basis of everything. For men, they need a stable family relationship, a stable rear, let them concentrate on work to fight. We women are the same, no matter whether we want to develop our own career or not, the family relationship and partnership are harmonious, won't our mood be better? Don't you feel very happy when a man dotes on you and loves you? When a woman feels happy, she will be in good health, young and confident, and her skin will be glossy. Su fan laughed, reached out and touched his mother's face, and said: "you are really a matter of experience. This is from your mouth. No one doesn't believe it. Luo Wenyin smiles, and her cheeks are slightly red. This is definitely not su fan's compliment. Luo Wenyin is not yet 50 years old. She looks like a woman in her thirties. Who knows how old her granddaughter is? Huo Jiamin has always said that Luo Wenyin is a beautiful woman produced in Rongcheng. Jiangnan has always been beautiful. Even in the hometown of beautiful women, Luo Wenyin has always been the top. Today, although nearly 50 years old, but the skin is still white and elastic, ruddy complexion, even if not make-up, the beauty is no less than those popular stars. Plus years of high school life brought her glory, as well as her childhood family edification and cultivation, temperament is absolutely outstanding. Standing with Zeng Yuanjin, they are often said to be like father and daughter, not husband and wife. Hearing this, Zeng Yuanjin always laughs. His wife is well maintained, young and beautiful, which is definitely a reward for men. Su fan looked at such a mother, the heart is also very admire. A good marriage relationship will nourish a woman. As a woman, should we also care for such a marriage relationship? Let the happiness of your life, natural mood is good, look good, better than thousands of cosmetics and skin care products. Yes, or mother smart ah! Trying to make her husband love her, in fact, it's the woman who makes the profit, isn't it? Husband is not the whole of our life, family is not the whole, but their own body and appearance belong to themselves, why can't live with themselves? In this case, it's really simple, too simple! Su Fangang thought he understood, but he thought of other problems“ However, if I just take care of him at home, I can't share the same language with him. After a long time, isn't that the same problem? " Su fan asked“ You can expand your own circle and make use of the advantages of your career. This is your strength. Miss sun, you should start to do it as soon as possible. You should remember that your career should serve for the future of Shuqing. In this way, you two can complement each other. Sometimes he needs your help, because some things can only be done by women. Don't think you're nothing. You just don't find your strength, Gaines Luo Wenyin said with a smile. Su fan smiles“ My daughter, how can it be bad? " Rowan said. Su Fan said nothing with a smile. After chatting with his mother so much, the cloud over Su fan's head is completely dispersed. She has nothing to inferiority, she is not nothing, just she did not find her strengths. It's not that she can't help Huo Shuqing's career, just because she doesn't know how to do it“ Thank you, mom Su Fan said, hugging her mother's neck and putting her face on her mother's face. Luo Wenyin smiles and hugs her daughter“ I always feel that I'm useless, and I don't think I'm worthy of him -- "Su Fan said“ Nonsense, my daughter doesn't deserve him, Huo Shuqing? Joke 1 Luo Wenyin looks unhappy and interrupts Su fan. Sufan spat out his tongue and laughed. You can search Baidu for the latest chapter of "Uncle chatting about jiutao novels (9txs. ORG)"! This novel has been translated by www.readwn.com and if you are reading this somewhere, they have stolen our translation.