Siheyuan: It started with Yu Li's door-to-door work

"If he really asks you a question, how do you tell him? Tell me about your counseling method, and let me see whether the method you told him is correct or not."

"I have never been a teacher, nor have I tutored children. This is my eldest child, so I just told him the answer."

Qin Jingru said.

"It's definitely wrong for you to do this. How can you tell me the answer directly that you can lie down? If you do this, how is it different from him plagiarizing homework?"

"I know that my way of doing this is definitely wrong, but I really don't have any good way, because I don't know how to talk to my children."

"Then why didn't you let your child tell him? If he can't answer some questions, let him ask me?"

"I want him to ask you, but I don't know what the reason is. It must be that children are like this, but he is more afraid of you. I don't know, have you noticed this?"

As the child's teacher, she certainly knows what Qin Jingru said.

"You should know that we, as teachers, also have our difficulties as teachers. If the children are not afraid of us, then if we can't control the children, they will definitely not study hard."

Although Qin Jingru had never been a teacher, but after hearing what the teacher said, she felt that what the teacher said was very reasonable.

If a teacher can't even manage classroom discipline well, then what else can we talk about.Therefore, as a teacher, grasping classroom discipline is the basis for teaching a class well.

Qin Jingru told the teacher her point of view. After hearing what Qin Jingru said, the teacher felt that what she said was really true. Although she had never been a teacher, she could still express the teacher's heartfelt feelings.It's really not easy.

"Then I still have another idea, that is, I want you to give my child a small stove. I don't know if my idea is OK or not? If it works, I will definitely give you some benefits, definitely not Will make you teach my kids so many lessons."

The teacher heard what Qin Jingru said, and said: "I'm afraid this is not very good. If other parents hear such words, then they will definitely let me teach their children. If I don't give them If the children are in class, then as a teacher, it must not be too fair. If you are in class with children like you, will they still listen to the things I said in class?"

Chapter 301 I Have Difficulties Too

"What you said is also a problem, but I don't care about other children. I just want to talk about my children. I don't want you to teach my children, but I want you to leave late and put the children's homework Let’s leave after the counseling is over, in this case, the child will not have so much psychological pressure.”

"You said this. It is true that I am thinking about the children, but parents, you should also consider the difficulties of many teachers. I also have my own affairs to deal with. There are many things in the family. Your family is small. You Say if I play like this every day, don’t you? You ask the principal to pay me a little more salary, if it’s not much, if it’s a month, just give me an extra five yuan, and I’m quite satisfied.”

Hearing what the teacher said, Qin Jingru felt that he didn't have that much power. How could he order the principal to pay the teacher more? But, if he alone took out the overtime work If so, she thinks there are many.

"Yes, teacher, what do you think? Let me talk about a method, that is, I will discuss a method with the parents of all the students in our class, that is, let your children help the children with their homework after school, that is, two Hours, as the parents of the children, we will give you the money for these two hours. What do you think, you can think about it. "

After listening to Qin Jingru's words, the teacher said that he is a very kind person, but this idea is indeed a good idea, but, did she discuss it with the parents who abandoned him?

If some of my parents agree with such an idea after weighing it with other hurts, it would be really good, but if it was his own idea, other parents would not agree with her If you don't have the same idea, then he will really be taken advantage of by broadcasting, and it won't be worthwhile.

"Teacher, what you said is also very reasonable. However, I will tell you what I think in my heart now. If you agree, I will discuss it with other parents. If you disagree , You said that it is necessary for me to discuss with all the parents again, it is definitely not necessary."

"That's fine, but I think it's best if you don't make up for it, because I'm not talking about other reasons, but because if some parents don't want to make up for it, they must think that I won't make money like this , and then? I’m definitely not good to their children, they must have such logic to speculate, but I’m definitely not such a person. So, this is my difficulty.”.

After hearing what the teacher said, Qin Jingru said that of course she knew the difficulties of being a teacher.However, he will definitely communicate with other parents about this matter, so I will ask her to believe what she said.

"Well, since you've talked to such an extent, what kind of hanging clothes do I have? Tell me after you have discussed it. Don't take money too seriously."

"I see. When there is news, I will contact you as soon as possible. You see, it's not too early today. I'll go back now. Otherwise, the child won't be able to get up tomorrow."

After Qin Jingru finished speaking, she was ready to go back.

"Okay, if that's the case, then I won't give away more. Be careful when you leave."

Qin Jingru said a word, and then said that he knew.

After Qin Jingru returned home, she told Dabao about making up lessons for Dabao.

"Mom, why are you giving me extra lessons? You know I don't want my teacher to give me extra lessons."

"You and I want your teacher to make up lessons for you. If you don't make up lessons for a while, it will be for nothing. It will definitely cost money. If you don't spend money, will your teacher be willing to make up for you?"

"Is my mother not a teacher, but an engineer of the human soul? Why does he say he doesn't want to make up for me?"

"What you said is quite right, but you should know that even if she is an engineer of the human soul, she still has to eat."

After listening to Qin Jingru's words, Dabao seemed to understand a lot.

The next day, Qin Jingru discussed with many parents of the children about making up lessons for their children.

"Mom of the sea, what do you think?" Qin Jingru asked.

"I didn't think much about it. I just said that the matter of making up lessons must be discussed by many parents. If one parent discusses it, it will definitely not work. So, if you say it, you must run more errands to see if there is still a problem. No other parent is willing to give their children extra lessons, and if they were, then I think it should be [-]% or [-]%."

After hearing what Dahai's mother said, Qin Jingru felt that there should be nothing wrong with what she said.

"The words of other parents are not in front of my eyes, so I can't control them. But now I just want to ask you, do you think you are willing to make up for your children? Now, you are a parent, what I mean is, how do you think about it now? There is nothing to hide, how do you think about it? Just tell me directly. "

Dahai’s mother heard Qin Jingru say this: “Actually, I have never thought about giving my children extra lessons, nor have I ever thought about not giving them extra lessons. What does it mean? I mean I follow the crowd. If the child makes up lessons, then I will follow suit. If you don’t make up, then I will forget it. Why? I think because the child is not the material, if you all give the child make up lessons, then if I If you don't make up for the child, the child will be unhappy."

After hearing what Dahai's mother said, Qin Jingru felt that what she said was not wrong.Since she said that, it means that she still supports it.

"Okay, if this is the case, then I have nothing else to say. Since you are willing to make up for the child, then I will contact you with a few more parents. If this is the case, let the child be a companion, or else If it’s not, it’s not a problem if the child makes it up alone.”

Qin Jingru told Dahai's mother what she thought.

"Okay, then you can go and ask other parents to see who else is willing to make up for them, no matter whether they are willing to make up for it, after you have asked all the parents, you can tell me again."

After Qin Jingru said these words, she left.

Chapter 302 It's Easy to Think

"Xuguang, I think you should have heard about the supplementary lessons for children. Now I just want to ask you, what kind of thoughts do you have? Do you want to supplement your children? Or don't you want to? Is it? No matter what you think. Tell me, I'll listen."

Qin Jingru didn't want to come because the family's situation is difficult.

But, Dashi wants his children to stand out, so he tries to find as many parents as possible to make up lessons. In this case, her child's teacher should give these children extra lessons. If there are one or two parents who are willing to give their children extra lessons If not, then wait for the teacher, maybe, he won't make up for them, because if there are too few people, he doesn't think it's worthwhile. .

"Look at the situation in our family, how can I give our children extra lessons?"

"It doesn't cost much to make up lessons, because it's not you alone. If I beat all the children, and I just tell them not to do this, the money each parent pays is very limited, you see?"

After hearing what Qin Jingru said, Xuguang's mother asked her how much she paid.

"I haven't calculated this, but if I want to order video, it's about five or six yuan, five or six yuan a month, do you think it's that much? There are so many people in our children's class, a month If you don’t, it’s definitely not a big problem to spend five or six dollars, don’t you think?”

Xuguang's mother felt that what Qin Jingru said was also reasonable.

"I think what you said is right. But you should know that the conditions of our family are indeed difficult. Besides, I also think that the children in our family are different from your children. The children in our family , he is just an elm bump, a dou who can't support the wall, so I don't expect him to learn any kind of good or bad in his studies."

"As a mother, how, how can you say such a thing? How can a mother not expect her child to be successful? So the child is a small sapling, so as a mother, you should often Fertilize it, water it, and then bask in the sun. In this way, the sapling can grow into a big tree after going through these things. If you don’t ask, how can it grow into a big tree?"

"Dabao's mother, I know what you said is right, but I am not going to make up for the child at present. If you want to make up for it, you can ask the parents of other children. Maybe, I believe it will be true. Someone will make it up, because making up lessons is not a bad thing, but to let children learn more."

After listening to Xuguang's parents' insistence on not giving her child extra lessons, Qin Jingru felt that if he continued talking, it might upset the other party. Since the other party was unwilling to pay for his child's extra lessons, then it was up to him, anyway. I am willing to pay for extra lessons for my children.

After leaving this house, Qin Jingru went to other parents' homes and found that many parents were willing to give their children extra lessons.

"It's really great. If this is the case, then I have fulfilled this wish. Now I should tell my child's teacher and make sure of this matter early. In this way, my heart will also be sooner. Be quiet."

"What you said is true. You asked all these parents. Is this the case? Let me tell you, you can't lie to me. If you lie to me, then this matter will not be so easy to handle gone."

Qin Jingru did not expect that as a teacher, he would say such a thing.

"The teacher must be like this. Do you not believe what I said now, or is there some other reason?"

"No, I don't believe what you said, mainly because there are too many parents, so I think if you run all these parents, it will take at least a day or two."

After hearing what the teacher said, Qin Jingru said it, didn't she?Her heel still hurts now.

"If it has been like this for the past two years, then when you go back, you should rest more. If rest is not enough, you can take some medicine, because if the pain persists, there is no problem for a day or two. If the pain lasts for a long time, here It’s not a good thing to leave a root cause.”

"I see. I don't think it's a big problem. The main reason is that I'm too tired. I think I can rest for a while." Qin Jingru said.

After Qin Jingru went back, she asked her child Dabao to cook.

"Mom, I still have to do my homework now, let's do it after I finish my homework."

"What's wrong with you child? Didn't you see your mother's pride, does it hurt? If you don't want to do it, you can, then don't go to this school, and work at home with me."

"Why don't you let my dad do it? Other children have dads to send them to school, but you haven't let me contact my dad for so long."

Qin Jingru suddenly heard his child Dabao say such a sentence.Her heart was like being pricked by a needle, and she suddenly shed tears.

"Mom, what's wrong with you, did I say something wrong?" Dabao said.

"You didn't say anything wrong. Mom thought too much. If that's the case, then we won't cook today. Mom will take you out for dinner. What do you think?"

"Mom, don't we have a lot of money at home? Why do you take the two of us out to eat?"

"Mom doesn't want to take the two of you out to eat. The main reason is that it's really hard for the two of you to live with your mother. Mom wants you to improve your life today. Do you think it's okay?"

After hearing what Qin Jingru said, the two children danced happily.

"It's really great, it's great, if you can improve your life like this every day, wouldn't it be like Chinese New Year?" Dabao said.

"You think so beautifully. If you feel like Chinese New Year every day, you will be in trouble."

After hearing Qin Jingru's words, Dabao was taken aback.

"What's wrong? Isn't what mother said wrong?"

"Yes, you're right. If every day feels like New Year's Eve, isn't this a human being? It won't last long, are you old? If that's the case, it's really scary."

"What is there to be afraid of as a child, you are so young."

"Mom, it's not that I'm afraid of getting old. I'm still afraid of you. When you get old, who do you think I'll call my mother? Have you ever thought about it? Have you thought about it?"

Chapter 303 Chapter 303

Thoughts

As soon as Qin Jingru heard the child say such words, she burst into tears.But I found that my child, Dabao, is becoming more and more sensible now. At her age, he had never experienced any kind of hardship, but seeing how small his child is, he said such smart words, Really rare.

"Mom, what's the matter? What's the matter? Don't be angry."

"Mom is not angry, she is happy, she shed tears of joy."

After the family finished eating, Qin Jingru thought of their child's father.

Why did Xu Damao not come back after such a long time? It's fine if he doesn't come back. Why can't he even spare a little time?Send a letter to the family?Qin Jingru thought so.

Sometimes, she felt that she should just divorce him. If she divorced, she would find another man in the future, maybe he would be much better than this Xu Damao.

She also told her sister about this matter, and what her sister meant was to let her make do with it.

She thinks that she is still so young now, if she just makes do with it, it's not an option, if she makes do with it, how much time will she have to do with it?

Sometimes she is really reconciled, why are other people's lives so good, and how can her own life live to such a degree?

She wanted to find a place to cry out all the grievances in her heart.