The road from Africa to Europe

Although Ling Xiao personally disapproved of Tangmei Lin's reunion with that rotten man, in her opinion, this was simply picking up sex from the pile of sex. If this kind of man was picked up, he might still miss his second-married wife, Tangmei Lin who bears a grudge and refuses to admit defeat, or who is depressed, no matter how you look at it, it is Tangmei Lin who suffers.

The reason why Ling Xiao thinks this way is because she has traveled through many worlds, seen too many people and things, and encountered many strange things, so she generally knows what men have possible thoughts, so she feels that it is a man. le color.With my eyes wide open, I naturally look down on that man, and he is not a good man, even if I give it to myself, I don't want it.

But she still remembers that this is Tangmei Lin's own life, everyone has the right to choose their own life, as long as she does not violate laws and regulations, and does not touch the bottom line of morality, she cannot force the other party to change her mind.

In fact, from Cousin Lin’s point of view, it’s not unreasonable for her to insist on continuing that marriage as a wife. Years of education on women’s ethics have made her never think about leaving her husband. Being divorced is like a bolt from the blue to her.From Ling Xiao's point of view, the man was Le Se, but from the point of view of Tangmei Lin, the man still had the possibility of being saved.

There is a saying that does not mean that the prodigal son will not change his money when he turns back. Most of the so-called prodigal sons do not do as well as Tangmei Lin's husband, and everyone often has a certain expectation for the prodigal son to change his face, so we cannot blame Tangmei Lin for having the idea of ​​reunion.

Even in later generations, some people think that they must be the true love of the prodigal son, and they don't care about their boyfriend's affairs at all. They think that they must be the last woman of a man. The women before are all passing by, and only she is the man's true love.

Well!Ling Xiao has no intention of commenting on this, but you must know that vagabonds are mostly moral issues. Most of these people think they are very attractive, which is also a way of life, and they just don't like to stay away.

But what Ling Xiao really can't understand is that some people will have a good impression of the underworld leader who kills people like hemp and ignores laws and regulations. In the eyes of some people, as long as they are good enough and powerful enough, it is not themselves who are hurt. Just thinking about marrying that kind of person.

If you make a comparison, you will feel that Tangmei Lin wants to continue her marriage, and there is nothing to say. How can I say that a cheating husband is not at the same level as those legal coffees, at least men have not violated the law.

Another very important reason is that cousin Lin has worked so hard to plant fruit trees for many years, and when she finally got the sweet fruit of victory, she suddenly found that the fruit had become another woman's bosom. If you want to grab it back, there's nothing wrong with it.

If the original partner was more stubborn, she would never give up her marriage easily, so why would anyone want to take her place?And it's fine if you don't live well, the child must not suffer.

Also, Cousin Lin did not have the opportunity to receive much normal education, and she has been receiving old ideas over the years, so it is impossible for her to think about so many things, she only wants to make her husband change his mind, and the family will continue to live.

For many of the above reasons, even if Ling Xiao doesn't like Tangmei Lin's reunion, she will not make decisions for her. Tangmei Lin must learn to control her own life, which is something she should learn.

Tangmei Lin, who was being asked, bit her lower lip. For a while, she didn't know whether she should say what she really thought in her heart. She didn't want to say it, but she had a lot of things in her heart during this time, and she needed someone to help her. Gather your thoughts before you can actually make a decision.

After hesitating for a while, she began to express her thoughts: she didn't want to leave her in-law's house, it wasn't that she was still thinking about that man, in fact, she had always felt that she was widowed for a long time, and the relationship she had had after so many years of not seeing her had long since become Thin, there is really not much affection between husband and wife, and there is no idea that they cannot live without a man.

There is a reason why she is afraid of divorce. If she is divorced, it means that she cannot stay in her husband's house and has to go back to her mother's house. Keep her at her mother's house.

This means that she will be married off again soon, and she actually doesn't have much hope for a new marriage after a failed marriage. It is impossible for her to have any good men waiting for her when she is old, but I'm afraid she will be a stepmother.

Now she cares about her children the most, but after remarrying, she may not be able to take care of her children. There are so many jobs in the countryside, it is impossible for her to have the opportunity to take care of children again, and she may have another child , it is really possible that she is powerless to the child in front.

Even the mother-in-law has no right to take care of the children of the ex-in-law's family, because the children are the children of the man, and there are biological fathers, stepmothers, and grandparents, so it is impossible for the remarried mother-in-law to take care of them.

But she is afraid that her two children will encounter bad stepmothers, and she is also afraid that the ex-in-laws will not care about her children. Watching, powerless to save anything.

All these circumstances made Tangmei Lin unwilling to give up her marriage easily, but she knew that even if she wanted to snatch the man back, it would be a forceful twist. When it came to this, she embraced the two children and shed tears. Know exactly what to do.

It is said that the man has remarried, and he is said to be blessed by everyone. If he makes trouble by himself, will he be warned?If this is the case, even if she insists, there will be no good results.

Well!Ling Xiao said: Not necessarily. For example, the private life of the famous talented man surnamed Hu is also very messy. He has a lover outside of marriage (1). His wife naturally knows about this situation, but the wife turns a blind eye and does not make trouble. Just act like the husband goes out to play and still has to go home later.Later, Hu Caizi wanted to marry his lover, and wanted to abandon his wife under the banner of having no feelings.

His wife didn't make a fuss when she found out, but took out a kitchen knife and said that if her husband divorced her, she would kill her two sons first, and then she would commit suicide. marry.

Although Ling Xiao suspects that there should be other reasons for this, I have to say that the woman who dared to use a kitchen knife to force her is really ruthless. In fact, women should be ruthless in life sometimes, and don't be someone who can be bullied at will. Honest man.

If Hu Caizi's wife followed what Hu Caizi's wife did, Lin Tangmei should go to the man's work place with a kitchen knife to find someone, and ask him what the so-called divorce is all about, why the woman who is the party involved doesn't know anything, and why? He remarried?

Anyway, if you don't let the man give a reason to talk about the past, you won't let the man go, at worst, let him return to his original shape.It depends on whether the woman who once shared the same language with him will follow the man back to her hometown to farm, most likely not.

Those who can find older men to marry are mostly aiming at the man becoming an official, so that they can live a good life, waiting for the man to come home to eat and become an old farmer, and they are not willing to follow.

What else can a man do then?Tangmei Lin can break the mirror and reunite. If she wants to achieve this step, there are many things that can be manipulated.As long as Tangmei Lin wants to continue her original marriage, Ling Xiao will definitely make a man who doesn't want to go around too much, and has to be willing to remarry.

After hearing Ling Xiao's words, cousin Lin couldn't help looking at Ling Xiao in surprise, can she still do this?If you do this, you will completely disregard the man's face and beat him back to his original form.

Hehe, didn't you think you were a country woman before?The man who was sent back to the countryside was also an old farmer all his life. Thinking of this, cousin Lin inexplicably felt an indescribable joy.

But after taking a look at her own child, Tangmei Lin still gave up on this approach and went to find a man to smash his job, which meant that the man's previous efforts were all in vain, and the other party might completely hate herself as the instigator. They are still husband and wife, and there is no friendship.

The most important thing is that if the husband's family knows the reason why the man went home to become an old farmer, they will not feel that they have done a good job, the clan of the man's family will also hate him, and the children will not benefit.The children bullied their own children before, and I'm afraid it will get worse in the future.

She has never been educated and does not have much culture, but she knows that it is really difficult if one of her relatives and friends becomes an official. In case of any difficult things, it may be useful, so people from generation to generation care about the people of the clan If she screwed up being an official, those people would wish to kill Tangmei Lin.

From Tangmei Lin's point of view, this kind of practice is completely hurting one thousand enemies and eight hundred harms to oneself. Of course, the man did not gain any benefits, and neither did he himself.

When Ling Xiao heard this, she nodded secretly. Although Tangmei Lin has never been to school and doesn't have much knowledge, she has a clear mind. She didn't actually think much about maintaining a relationship with men, but she was afraid that she would have nothing to do after being kicked out of her husband's house. There are places to go.

Then the woman can divorce the man. This divorce must allow the woman to gain the upper hand, instead of letting Tangmei Lin leave the house as the man's family thinks.

Why did the innocent party get nothing during the continuation of the marriage?What?The man promised to return the original dowry to the woman. This is a basic operation. The woman’s dowry belongs to the woman. If the woman dies, only her own children have the right to inherit it.

Therefore, it is certainly not enough to let the woman get back her dowry!The woman has been responsible for supporting her parents-in-law all these years because of her husband's affection. Now that they are not husband and wife, they must settle their accounts carefully. The woman cannot pay for nothing, and the man must not unilaterally engage in a divorce.

The man said that he should oppose the arranged marriage when he divorced. Why can't the same woman oppose the arranged marriage?Since we want to fight against the feudal dross, everyone is treated the same. It cannot be said that only the woman’s marriage belongs to the feudal dross and needs to be dissolved, while the man is completely innocent.

To be anti-feudal, everyone needs to be anti-feudal, both men and women are anti-feudal, standing on the same position, why does the woman pay so much, but get nothing, and will only be driven back to her mother's house?
Since it is a marriage, why should we divide the family property within the marriage, and talk about who the children belong to, and why should the children be given to the man?Why can't the woman have children?There are many places where you can operate.

And the original owner, who was very excited by Ling Xiao's phone call, directly applauded. Naturally, she didn't want the daughter of the Lin family to be treated so poorly?Why?Yes, the man risked his life to go to the battlefield, but the woman who stayed at home did not have a good life. Without the efforts of his cousin, the man's family would have been ruined.

Cousin Lin looked at Ling Xiao in surprise. She never expected that Ling Xiao would say that. This statement completely made her feel that her previous beliefs had collapsed. According to her previous education, she should obey her husband's family and stay in the house honestly. In the countryside, either get married, or get divorced without leaving home.

(1) It is rumored on the Internet that this lover is the bride's maid of honor, and she fell in love with the groom at first sight at Hu Caizi's wedding, which is outrageous.

Later, the lover also got married, but the two were still inseparable. They were pregnant with Hu Caizi's cub, so they divorced and waited for Hu Caizi to divorce and then remarried. As a result, Hu Caizi didn't get divorced, so she went to America. It's really a dog. Blood!