The road from Africa to Europe

From the standpoint of the woman, the woman suffers a lot, and there is no benefit at all. The man becomes someone else's husband, and the so-called home does not belong to her, and even people including the mother's family cannot enjoy the benefits they deserve.

The saddest thing is that the next wife still has to bear the burden of the remnants of feudalism. Who asked the man to fight against the banner of an arranged marriage?As a next-cousin wife, she must honestly accept the conditions put forward by the man, and face the situation of becoming a second-cousin wife, and leave the man's house with a burden in despair.

The more humble ex-wife should be divorced, not a member of this family, and she should stay in the man’s house honestly as an old scalper and become a non-staff member, that is, divorced and never leave home. The man still feels magnanimous about this, Even if the cousin wife is divorced, the woman is still given a place to hide and a bite to eat.

MM, this is too sad, right?The next wife who is concerned about the future of her children, for the sake of her children, is really likely to accept this seemingly bullying request, a woman is really humble to the extreme.

Although cousin Lin is not smart enough, she is not stupid either. Life has given her a certain amount of wisdom. Doesn't look very friendly to her.

No matter how nice the words are, it doesn't matter. It depends on what you can get. Tangmei Lin feels that her previous efforts will eventually pay off, and she will be mercilessly thrown out of her former home and become a woman without foundation.After all, the person they care about is that man, and she and the children are just appendages of that man.

She is not stupid, and she is unwilling to accept this method from the bottom of her heart. She doesn't understand what she did wrong, so she just wants to meet the man and ask what's going on. She can't just let it go, the daughter of the Lin family is unwilling Being treated like this, if she knew it would be like this, she would rather not marry.But the man didn't see her, and the news came that he decided to divorce Lin cousin, and he married another wife.

After she found out, she had to meet her natal family to make a decision. Obviously, the elders of the man could see that she was unwilling to give up the idea of ​​pursuing that man easily. Naturally, it was impossible to let her go to her natal family. The Lin family belonged to the most capable family in the vicinity. If she went back to Lin's house, she was afraid that it would cause trouble, so they all advised her not to make a fuss, and they had to look at their children's face anyway.

When the other party mentioned the child, he let her know that he was threatening her, and she became even angrier when she knew it. It was even the ex-father-in-law who threatened her. He who was very kind to her became not like an elder, but her opponent. This is where she is saddest.

To say that if she thought her in-laws were good people before, she felt different now, and she quickly realized that in the past, they expected her as a daughter-in-law to raise their children and give them their final retirement. Naturally, they had to have a good attitude, but It will be different when they have a son. They no longer need the support of their daughter-in-law.

There was no news about the man before, and only his own children were their grandchildren, so he naturally had to care about them everywhere, but now that he knew that the man already had another wife, he was afraid that he would soon have a child, and his pair of children would become precious. No, huh!

The more she thinks about it, the more difficult it is for Tangmei Lin. She doesn't trust her former in-laws. She was very filial to her ex-in-laws before, and even came to help with farm work during the busy farming season. Lin's family is worthy of her in-laws, but when her husband comes After receiving the letter, the in-laws even concealed it.

Could it be that because she is a woman, she should keep all the suffering to herself?Why?This is the most unacceptable result for Tangmei Lin, and it is also the reason why she feels uneasy.

Very angry!Hate it!After finding out that he was being concealed about men everywhere, he was not very willing to stay. Thinking about what the old couple said before, treating themselves like their own daughters, it's funny!The whole family knew about the man, so they kept it from her, the client and their two children.

It was only at this moment that Tang Sister Lin remembered that what the former in-laws said was correct, maybe they really regarded them as their own daughters, but even if their own daughters were there, they couldn't compare to their sons, so she, who was like a biological daughter, naturally had to be ranked behind .

Because of her husband's absence, the harmony of the family that had existed in the past has simply disappeared, and the true colors of the in-laws who have been hiding below have been exposed. I never thought that this would be the case.

However, as a mother who loves her child, she is very frightened by the threat of the man's parents, because she knows one thing very well: as an elder, it is easy to rub the younger generation.One bad one, and the kids' reputations are gone!It's really hateful!

She naturally knew their purpose: to prevent her, the second cousin wife, from ruining the man's reputation. Although they were very pleased that the man became an official, it would not be good if he was accused of Chen Shimei's reputation!

If she dared to do it, her children would be suppressed by the family. In this case, she couldn't afford to bet as a mother.She could have a fight with the man, but what about the child?
Could it be that she wants to bet that her ex-in-law's family is not cruel enough?hehe!She didn't dare to gamble at all. They didn't do well when they needed her to support them before, but when they knew that their son was still alive, they would change their appearance if they wanted to marry another wife. How could she trust such a person?

Tangmei Lin even thought at that moment that if she had known this would be the case, she should have remarried with two children and cared about the life and death of the two old ones.Even if that man came to find her, she had a clear conscience and didn't care about being a son. It would be good if she was a woman who could keep the child.

Shouldn't it be that man's job to honor his parents?Ordinarily, after he stabilized, he should give his family a message, so that they know what to expect, instead of being regarded as a dead person and not paying attention to the life and death of the family at all.

If this is really the case, it is also the result of the man's choice, and has nothing to do with her. Now she doesn't care about Jackie Chan of men at all. Anyway, if she remarried a few years ago, she would not have fallen to this point.

After Tangmei Lin was forced to yell out these words, the man couldn't stand it all at once. Who would want to be so disgusted by others?But more people saw the staunchness of the Lin family daughter, suppressed her one after another, and even locked cousin Lin at home, trying to force her to change her mind. Who made her love her children?
For this reason, she was starved for many days. Fortunately, her son stole some food for her from time to time, so she didn't feel unbearably hungry. Taking advantage of the slack in the village, Yi fled overnight, hoping to find her natal family to back her up and make decisions.

Even if she has some thoughts in her heart, she is really not sure. After all, the daughter who is married these days is the water that is thrown out. Even if the natal family intervenes, they don't do whatever they want. Offending the entire official class, you must know that officials are often protecting each other in officialdom, and it is not worth standing up for her married daughter.

She couldn't make up her mind, but she had to run away, because if she stayed again, she might lose her life, and she wouldn't get much attention after she died. Who made her the second cousin?
Escaping was the last chance she found. She felt hungry along the way. Although her son gave her some food, but there were plenty of things in the house, and her son could only withhold his own rations. The food she ate was special. That's why he was a little dazed on the road, and finally passed out on the road.

At the moment of fainting, what she was most worried about was that the man's relatives would chase after him and take their third mother back. Fortunately, the way she took was not the usual way back to her mother's house, but another way, and she met her cousin With her friends, I realized that there is not only one way to go.

Thinking of this, she held her children's little hands tightly, and said with a wry smile: "But I'm afraid I won't be able to fight against him at all, you must know that he is an official now, and I am a little country woman, old and ugly! "

"Why do you say you are old and ugly? It is because people like you work so hard that you have food. Without food, those young and beautiful people can't survive. In my opinion, your heart is beautiful , is a hundred times more beautiful than that woman who knows that a man has a wife but still marries a man!" Ling Xiao said with a smile.

Tangmei Lin laughed when she heard this, but her smile turned bitter at the end. What's the use of beauty in the soul, men don't love the beauty of the soul, they love a good skin.

Seeing this, Ling Xiao naturally interpreted Lin Tangmei's thoughts, and did not do anything to comfort him, but continued: "As for the issue of that man being an official, don't worry, everyone is a proletariat, you are not in the status Weaker than him. Being an official is subject to relevant rules and disciplines, and if you want to end this marriage, then you, who have no money, food and rights, are the ones who need help."

Well?Tangmei Lin looked confused, she didn't understand Ling Xiao's thoughts at all, as ordinary people in the countryside, she really didn't want to have any entanglements with officials, for fear of being put on small shoes.

Ling Xiao didn't explain anything, and some things were done directly instead of explaining to the parties.Then she felt that even though their mother three compensated with candy and water, they should still be hungry and tired.

Fortunately, the original owner and her sacrificed some food this time, mainly snacks and melons and fruits. They still had to be brought home after the sacrifices were completed. Food is in short supply these days, and the offerings had to be brought home for everyone to eat together. It was impossible. Put it in the cemetery.

There was something to be brought out for them to eat. The three of them really felt hungry, and their eyes turned green when they saw the food. Cousin Lin swallowed and wanted to say something, but Ling Xiao handed the food directly to her eyes, " Eat! Only when you are full will you be able to settle accounts!"

Tangmei Lin's eyes were sour when she heard this, and she choked up and said, "Okay!" After she finished speaking, she gave the food to the two children who were watching helplessly. This was the first time they had tasted such delicious food.

The original owner was very angry when he saw this. As a woman who received a higher education, she hated Lin Tang's husband's family's behavior of crossing the river and demolishing the bridge from the bottom of her heart. How could she do this?Do you still have a conscience?

After hearing the original owner's muttering, Ling Xiao shook his head, and said slowly: "Do you have a conscience? Uh! Maybe there is! Even if there are, there are not many, and it can't resist the benefits. It's not that the parents-in-law don't remember Tang Sister Lin credit, but they care more about their sons who can bring them more benefits, so they support their sons everywhere."

"I hope you can set an example for the majority of female compatriots, and rely on yourself instead of relying on men to succeed. This is what I hope you can do." Ling Xiao continued, and the original owner nodded and said: "I am willing, in my There are many female compatriots in front of me who have done this."