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Chapter 41 Love Has No Classes

On the way back to Changzhou, I did a Tarot divination. The fortune teller said that he is my "twin flame", and he and I are both "light workers".

I have only heard of "soul mates" and never heard of words and concepts such as "twin flames" and "light workers". pass.

"Moshang is like jade, and the son is unparalleled in the world." I just think he is like a "gift" given to me by God. He is also like a dazzling light, which amazes my time and illuminates my future. Road, let my soul no longer be alone.

The vacation is over and I return to work, and soon I will have a major career change in the workplace.

The boss suddenly created a design group, and then pulled all seven of our designers into the group, and then pulled in the account of a strange boy. Our designers each glanced at this strange avatar, and no one knew. who is he.After recruiting people, the boss sent a long text in the group, grandly introducing the new design director "Bao Wenlong" who is about to join the company.

The boss said that he is very good. He used to work in AAAA advertising company. He has done website design, advertising design, and e-commerce design. He can not only shoot videos, but also do post-production special effects.She spent a lot of time praising him. In one sentence, she said that he is a pentathlon, and there is nothing he can't do in the field of design.

My colleague Jiang Moji joined the company two years before me. He has joined MG since the company was still in the renovation stage and before the official opening. , smiled lightly and said:

"In order to get a high salary, the newcomers always brag to their bosses about how good they are, but in fact, after they come in, most of the situations will show their flaws very quickly, and they can't stand at all."

I said, "That's not necessarily true. Seeing how Mr. Shi attaches great importance to it, he created a group to warmly welcome him before he came. It seems that this person must have a lot of background, and maybe he really has some talents."

At the beginning, when I first came in, the company first interviewed me, then took a preliminary test, and finally came to a re-examination to verify my design level and design ability before accepting me.

I think that if the boss is willing to hire a high salary, he must be a design master with his own advantages. No boss is stupid enough to hire a "mediocre" as a manager.

I am a very upright person, and I will not feel jealous because others are stronger than me, let alone speak ill of others behind their backs.

What I said to Moji comes from the bottom of my heart. According to my observation, the boss is unlikely to take a job with an ordinary salary to heart. He will not personally supervise and review it, let alone set up a group before the staff arrives with great fanfare. The welcome ceremony, and only the management talents above the supervisor level, the boss will pay so much attention, just like treating me when I was going to join the company.

However, when I came, the boss did not set up a group in advance to hold a welcome ceremony. This time, the boss is obviously more concerned about the newcomers.She also intends to support the newcomers to the top, so as to realize her goal of unified management of various design departments.

As the saying goes, one mountain cannot accommodate two tigers, and as soon as a new design director arrives, my old design director is bound to give way.

I was already a little nervous at the time, and I also had a premonition that the new official would have three fires when he took office. The first fire of this future new official was probably going to be set on me.

But after all, the newcomer has not officially reported to the company, and I will still be in charge of leading the management and control of the company's design affairs, large and small.So at that time, no matter the boss or the colleagues around me, the attitude towards me did not change much.

And my network connection with Xiaoyu is still the best little luck after my exhausted work and life.

In the second week of meeting Xiaoyu, I sent him a message one afternoon, but I didn’t receive any reply after sending three messages in a row. I thought to myself that I was busy and didn’t have time to talk to me, so I stopped sending messages. I went to work myself.

Until three or four in the afternoon, I didn’t hear back from him. I felt vaguely that something happened. I was thinking about him while I was on a errand, and suddenly I heard my colleague “Xiaoxue” say that there is a place about 2 kilometers away from us. There was an explosion in the department store and it caught fire.The flames were all over the sky, and some people were injured.

There was a commotion in the office. Not long after I entered MG, I received the company’s drill training on how to rescue myself at the scene of a fire. Unexpectedly, not long after that, a fire really broke out around us. I lamented the disaster It's terrible, and it's important to strengthen the awareness of fire prevention. At the same time, I suddenly feel a little worried about whether my male god is safe at the moment.

So I sent him another message, telling him that there was a fire accident in our city, expressing my concern for him and wishing him all the best.

Unexpectedly, not long after this message was sent, Xiaoyu wrote back to me.

He greeted you very gentlemanly when he came up: "I'm sorry, there was a little accident in our company's boiler room just now. We are on-site to check and troubleshoot, and we are so busy that we can't reply to you until now."

I quickly replied: "It's okay, I think you must be busy because you haven't replied for a long time. What's wrong with the boiler? Are you okay?"

"Relax, I'm fine. Everything is safe. The boiler seal has been fixed," he said.

I said, "Well, there have been a lot of sudden accidents recently, as long as you are safe."

Hearing what I said, in order to make me feel at ease, he even took a photo of the boiler in their factory for me to see.That was the first time I saw the equipment and facilities in their factory. I couldn’t say their professional names. I only know that there are large and small chemical tanks in the photos, and the silver pipes that are thicker than the mouth of the bowl. I am impressed.

I think everything is explained, and the way of getting along without making the other party worry is really a plus for girls.

Whether he took pictures of himself with his mobile phone to show me, or took pictures of his mother’s cooking to share with me, or took pictures of his working environment, it all showed how much he cared about me at that moment. And the enthusiasm that is willing to communicate with me and understand each other.

At that time, I felt that chatting with him was very warm and down-to-earth.

What surprised me even more was that one day he bought a new T-shirt and took a photo for me to see, and asked me to help with ideas.

If I remember correctly, the T-shirt brand he bought at the time was a trendy brand in the United States called OFF WHITE.

As soon as the new clothes came home, he excitedly told me that I spent three or four thousand on the street today and bought two T-shirts, and then asked me if the "tag" on them should be cut off?
As sensitive as I am, I immediately felt the "speciality" of his asking this question, because under normal circumstances, children also know that when they buy new clothes, they should cut off the tags before wearing them.No one is stupid enough to ask such a pediatric question, right?
So I secretly speculated: This question seems to be simply asking whether the tag should be cut or not, but will it actually know my consumption level and aesthetic vision from the side?

But I immediately dispelled this worry in my heart, telling myself that maybe people just want to know whether it looks good with the hang tag or without the hang tag.

Although I felt that this question must be unusual, I didn't think too much about it, so I answered him directly: Generally, when you buy new clothes, you have to cut off the hang tag, how strange it is to hang the hang tag.

He smiled and said that he also thought it was inappropriate to hang tags, but the correct answer was that the clothes of this brand did not need to cut off the tags, because the style of this brand, together with the LOGO, were part of the whole design.

As soon as this remark came out, I couldn't help but developed a strong interest in this brand, and even searched for some relevant brand information on the Internet to learn.

Although I am not a fashion designer, but the design is interlinked. I understood the designer's design philosophy for the first time, and also understood the original intention of young people not to tear off the tag label: they think it is cooler to wear it without tearing off the label. It has become part of the "deconstructivism" in design.

As a girl, living in a second-tier city, her monthly salary and bonus totaled 1 yuan. This salary level is actually not low.

But my family's economic conditions are at best considered a well-off level, and I am used to saving money on food and expenses, and I have never been reluctant to buy clothes that cost more than a thousand dollars.

And I never care about whether the clothes are famous brands when I buy clothes, I only care about whether the clothes look good, comfortable and generous.
Therefore, whether my clothes are summer skirts or winter coats, the price is not higher than 500. The only time I bought thousands of winter coats and coats for myself was because I was planning to get married, and my parents suggested that I would soon enter the marriage hall I'm supposed to buy two decent clothes and get ready to start a new married life.

For most ordinary working-class children, buying two or three hundred yuan of clothes and shoes is already very satisfying, but the male god in front of me told me that he bought more than 300 for a T-shirt, which is ten times more than mine. I couldn't help but "thump" in my heart, feeling that his consumption level is far above mine, and he seems to be a child of a rich family.

For a moment, I was in a trance, with a little worry in my heart.There is such a big disparity in our economic conditions and spending power. If he knows my family status and personal income, what will he think of me?

But as proud and confident as I am, I immediately dispelled this idea. I saw his monthly income on the dating platform read: more than 20000. If 20000 is a real income, his personal income is only mine. 2 times.The gap is not too big. If I work in a big city, I can still get a salary of [-] to [-].

Besides, boys don’t buy clothes like girls. Girls pay attention to styles and often change new ones, so they don’t pay much attention to brand and quality. Men’s clothing types are relatively much less, so they need to spend a lot of money to buy branded clothing. A piece of clothing can be worn It lasts for a long time, unlike girls who need to be replaced frequently.

Although I also feel that my Ah Q-style self-comforting logic can’t stand up in front of wealthy daughters and famous ladies. Their shopping level must be better than my male god. It’s not a brand. Absolutely can't get into their eyes.

But I have an advantage, even I admire myself, that is, I never envy rich people, I will not think highly of you just because your family is rich, and I will not feel that I stand with you just because your family background is good. Shorter together.

On the contrary, no matter whether the person standing in front of me is a rich family or a poor person, I treat them equally and hold my head high.Because I know that the quality of a person's background does not represent his own value.

We are all higher animals with two eyes, one nose, and two legs standing on the earth and walking upright. We are all equal. Even if you are born rich and rich, and you are born with unique resources, it is only God’s mercy. It can only be said to be You are born with good destiny.

Because I am self-confident and self-improving in my bones, and I have a unique aesthetic vision. I can always find clothes that are elegant in shape and unique in design. temperament.People around me thought that I spent thousands or more to buy it.

When I was in college, I thought it was because I was fat and blessed that my classmates often misunderstood me as a wealthy daughter. But after entering the society, my weight has returned to normal in recent years, and people still think that I am Born into a wealthy family, I am sure that my good friend did not lie to me. Maybe I have a natural beauty of "nobility".

So whether I get fatter or thinner, my temperament never changes.

I hail a taxi casually on the road, and many drivers often regard me as a female boss who runs her own company, a strong woman.Hearing me explain that I was just a small "white-collar worker" who worked part-time, the master first had an expression of disbelief, and then persuaded me all the way to start my own company, why should I work for others, which made me dumbfounded.

In my eyes, being able to play a hand of "good cards" well is not a great skill, but I will only admire those who can make a hand of "bad cards" into a king bomb.What really convinces me, what I admire from the bottom of my heart, are those who rely on their own abilities and talents, work hard little by little, and slowly spell out a broad road.

My mother was puzzled. After the age of 30, where did I get the confidence and courage to find true love.I think that's because Mom doesn't know how powerful her words and deeds are.

The daughter who grew up in the traditional virtue education environment of her and her father living frugally and striving for self-improvement has long formed an extremely upright and open worldview and outlook on life.

I grew up beside her when I was a student, and I saw her send away many students one after another. Some of them were talented and intelligent, and they were admitted to prestigious schools after graduating from junior high school, becoming the favored ones of a generation; They are naughty by nature and don’t like to study, but they have a smart and keen business mind. After graduation, they worked hard and grew into business giants. There are also a wide range of interests, love music, like to sing pop songs, and their mother teaches them in accordance with their aptitude. She strongly recommends them to enter the art school .

The one who impressed me the most was "Brother Haihua" who lives in the west village of our village. He is a model student who loves music very much. His mother is an English teacher and she can't sing, but she thought of me.

In order to encourage and support Brother Haihua to take the national music art school, my mother took me, who was still in elementary school, to act as a "singer" for Brother Haihua before the exam, and asked me, a primary school student, to teach junior high school students how to sing folk songs well with bel canto.At a young age, I was also unequivocal. I took out the electronic piano and started playing "Yimeng Mountain Minor", accompaniment to Brother Haihua, and taught him basic skills.

Later, Brother Haihua was successfully admitted to the Pingtan Academy. After graduation, he achieved very high attainments in this field and became a very famous Pingtan artist in Jiangsu, Zhejiang and Shanghai.

Not only Brother Haihua, I have seen all kinds of students around my mother. Although they come from different backgrounds and family backgrounds, when they grow up, they all grow into outstanding talents in all walks of life.

So I have understood 360 lines since I was a child, and every line is the best.In my values, there is no distinction between high and low between industries and between people.

As long as you have a good skill, work hard and make unremitting efforts, even if you can't become a leader in the industry, you can still be self-reliant and live out your own value and dignity.

But if you only guard your own family property to eat and drink for free, the gold and silver mountains will be empty one day.The key is to eat and wait to die, a life of luxury and money is actually meaningless.People who eat, drink and have fun all day long and don't need to worry about money will actually easily fall into loneliness, emptiness and coldness in their hearts over time.

So although I didn't know how Xiaoyu would look at this issue at that time, in my subconscious cognition, there may be objectively high and low levels of wealth, but love has no class.The difference in consumption levels is not enough to be a fundamental obstacle to whether two people can communicate or produce love. The key is whether the spiritual world can be at the same frequency.

(End of this chapter)