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Chapter 122 The Man Behind the Scenes (34)

Song Yuwei said slowly: "Actually, you have a fatal problem in these relationships, that is, you are always hoping to get gifts from others, or what others have done for you, or you hope to get praise and praise from others." Appreciation, if you touch, and on the contrary, you get some insults, and belittling.

Or if other people look down on you, this situation will cause you a deep pain, or your mentality will be changed.The behavior that can even hurt you is not because of what the other person did to you, but because of how you reacted.

This kind of reaction of yours will intensify your pain, because there is actually only one reason for all pain, that is, you are constantly asking outside, and your eyes are always staring outside, so you don’t pay attention to your heart, your heart is always It's all there, and it doesn't increase or decrease.

Including whatever you need for whatever you do, in fact, you already have it in your heart, and you are a self-sufficient existence.So, I think you are just being deceived. In fact, everyone has this ability. We are all ordinary people with various desires and are involved in various things.

Maybe we feel that life is vast, but occasionally we also feel that life is a very painful process. In fact, whether this process is painful or vast, it does not hurt our hearts in any way. It is just our in this world. It's just an experience and harvest.

As I said before, a bottle of water, it did not exist before, it will not exist in the future, it only exists at this moment, and the meaning of its existence is because you need it, if you don’t need it, this bottle of water will not be there You will experience everything you need before you.

But this kind of experience will not become a soul, it will continue to change over time, just like that bottle of water, you will drink it sooner or later, or even if you don’t drink it, it will change after a long time Dried out, whatever the relationship is, is just about giving us a unique experience from which we can learn something.

But if you learn anything from it.But you don’t know it yourself, so the next time you will encounter the same thing, until one day you understand what you should learn from this incident, then you can get what you want.

At this time for you, the things you want must not be in this world, because this world is impermanent and constantly changing, and nothing is eternal.

So what you should do is not clinging to this ever-changing world that is just a moment, just like that bottle of water, what you should do is to drink it when you are thirsty, instead of holding this bottle of water in your arms , I have been attached to this bottle of water all my life.

thereby ignoring other things.There are too many beautiful things in life, and you can do all kinds of things. Maybe you will feel that when you encounter difficulties, it is a headache for you. Even when you solve it, you will find a lot of things from it. The beauty is something you have never discovered before. When you learn what you should learn from this experience, maybe your mission is complete.

As the saying goes, isn't a person's life just for pleasure?Of course, this is just a metaphor. It doesn’t mean that you don’t need to do anything in your life.

What you should do is not that kind of thing, but you should accumulate it and treat it as a happy experience, even if it is a particularly painful definition in the eyes of others, or defined in the world, but in the end you will still feel it after the experience is over. I am willing to say that this is a different kind of happiness. This kind of person is a person who can complete his mission and enjoy it.

It is also extremely important to let go of attachments and enjoy every process. There are always different voices repeating in our minds, and there are churches of various thoughts, including messy emotions entangled with you, which may make you unable to enter for a while. In the current state, you may be thinking too much.

You will be blinded to your inner voice, and then you will become very confused and feel that you don’t know what you are doing, but in fact, don’t let those wild thoughts let go, or you can’t call it let go, because you have no way to stop I let it go when I was awake.

What you should do is just be an observer, observe the messy emotional possessions in your mind, observe your emotions, your thoughts, instead of taking these favorite things as yourself, because you are not those who Everything is changing.

Those are just momentary laughter, he has no way to represent your essence at all, all you should do is to calm yourself down.Quietly watch everything that happens in your mind, in fact, when you pay attention, your cranky thinking will stop.

You must remember not to be controlled by these emotions, because emotions have a great influence on people. There are two you living in your body, one is a false you, which only exists in this world.

Once your life is over, he disappears with him, so it's not really you, he's just a fear.It's like your brain, you use it for a lot of things.

To think about what elements are needed to do one thing, what is the plan, but your brain is a very cunning organ, it may control you and make you believe that you are the thoughts in your brain What you think, all of these are just temporary fantasies in your mind.

If you let go, he won't control you, but the premise of letting go is to know how to control yourself, not to fall into it, until one day you can really fully understand that the one in your body has no thoughts or emotions, is quiet When the joyful and free existence is you, you find yourself.

And that person does not need you to ask for something from the outside world, or be driven by desire to get something desperately to strengthen its existence, or to strengthen its existence. Anything external to fill.

But all that needs to be filled by the outside is the false and lacking. Only when you get rid of this illusion can you discover another world. It can even be said that you are playing happily in this world. Enjoy it as much as you want, but you won't be bothered by them. "

(End of this chapter)