Eye of Sin

Chapter 522 Domineering
I originally thought that what Uncle Yu said might be offensive to his wife, but the old lady hurriedly waved her hands: "That's no need to worry!

Although I have never had any dealings with the police, the old man in my family likes to watch TV series about the struggle between enemy agents. I watch it every day, and the more I watch it, the more I become enlightened!
In this TV series, those who die early are all loose-mouthed and talk nonsense regardless of what they should say! "

Ning Shuyi couldn't help but laugh, and felt lucky in his heart. They were really lucky this time, and met such a pair of old neighbors with lovely personalities.

Uncle Yu and his wife warmly invited them to sit down and poured two glasses of water.

"Uncle Yu, do you two know Lu Zhibao from your unit?" Ning Shuyi asked.

"Xiao Lu? Yes, you must!" Uncle Yu nodded immediately, "Not only do I know him, I also know his grandparents, father, uncle, and aunt!
What's wrong? What kind of conflict did this child have with others outside? What trouble did he get into? "

"You old man, you just say whatever people ask you. How can you go around and ask around?" My wife reminded Uncle Yu by pushing him.

Uncle Yu quickly patted his mouth: "Blame me! Blame me! I'm used to chatting with people casually!"

"Do you two know something about the situation of the Lu family? Can you tell us about it?" Ning Shuyi asked, "I heard that Lu Zhibao's parents have not been with him since he was a child. He grew up with his grandparents?"

Uncle Yu and his wife looked at each other and sighed in unison.

"Is there anything inconvenient to say?" Ning Shuyi couldn't help feeling a little confused when he saw this.

Uncle Yu waved his hand: "It's inconvenient to talk about, it's just those things about the Lu family in their early years... Thinking about it makes people feel like they don't know how to evaluate it.

Their eldest son had a girlfriend when he was studying abroad. The two of them had a very good relationship, so he brought her home.

The old couple didn't particularly agree with it at first, but later they saw that their son was bent on getting along well with her, so they agreed on the condition that he must live with his parents-in-law after getting married.

As a result, after they got married and started living together, the Lu family never had a stable life for a day.

After all, Xiaolu's mother is not from the same place. Her food tastes and living habits are somewhat different.

However, the old man and the old lady of the Lu family were not particularly satisfied with her as their daughter-in-law. When they lived together, the old couple relied on their elders and were overbearing. They had to follow their habits and hobbies in everything, which was a little unsatisfactory. That is complaining all the time.

Therefore, the quarrels in their family have never stopped, and there are endless quarrels every day. "

Uncle Yu's wife nodded and added: "It's not just about living habits, but also about educating children.

The old man and the old lady of the Lu family doted on their children and were domineering.

Their grandson, even though he looks like a human being when he grows up, you don't know that when he was a child, no other children in this area were willing to play with him.

Especially the old lady of the Lu family, the worst! Anyway, no matter what happens, their grandson is right and others are at fault. If someone else's parents brought her, I would be embarrassed to argue with her old lady. When I meet other people's homes, the old people will help take care of her. Generally speaking, the old men and ladies are not as troublesome or as troublesome as theirs.

The eldest daughter-in-law of their family should not say it at the time. She was a really good person and took good care of the children. But whenever she took care of the children, her mother-in-law would point her nose at her and scold her.

How can a child know who is really good to him and who is harming him? He must let him do everything and go along with him. Whoever is good!
So when Xiao Lu was young, he didn't understand his mother's painstaking efforts, but he couldn't blame the child. After all, he was only three or four years old at that time, so how could he understand the truth. "

"Well, anyway, the last days of their family were so noisy that they couldn't live with it." Uncle Yu shook his head, "Don't say whether they could bear it. There was no demolition at that time, and the neighbors would hear their quarrels every day. It's almost unbearable if it doesn't stop.

Later, the eldest daughter-in-law of their family was really annoyed by the quarrel. At that time, there were already rumors of preparations for demolition, so she proposed to wait until the demolition to add money to buy two houses. The two families lived separately, but they could live in it. It’s not far away and doesn’t delay taking care of the elderly.

How could the two old men of the Lu family agree? They were making trouble again.

At the end of the dispute, the eldest daughter-in-law asked for a separation of the family, and the old man wanted his son to divorce his daughter-in-law.

The eldest son of the Lu family is a very good man, but... he is cowardly and honest. He may have only one courage in his life, just to marry his wife, but when it is used up, it will be gone.

In the end, he didn't dare to stand up and say that he wanted to separate from his wife, but he still divorced his wife. "

When Uncle Yu said this, he couldn't help but shake his head, feeling sad about what happened back then.

"If you ask me, the eldest son of the Lu family is the most useless person here!" Uncle Yu's wife said with emotion, "At first, my parents didn't agree and it was him who insisted on marrying someone else!
After getting married, he was the one who mediated the conflict between his parents and his wife who didn't understand!

His wife, who is always frustrated at home, wants to split up and live alone, and she still lives in the same neighborhood. It doesn't involve issues such as being too far away to take care of her, so he doesn't dare to make the decision.

In the end, because he did not dare to disobey his parents' wishes, his wife also felt chilled by his attitude and refused to give in. He actually agreed to divorce.

But after leaving the capital, he felt painful and uncomfortable again. He missed his wife and was resentful of his parents at home, so he simply ignored the children and went to other places to work alone. It was life or death anyway. not coming back.

I heard that in all these years, apart from sending living expenses home, I have never come back to visit once!
You said that if he had used this energy to reason with the elderly at home, he wouldn't have had to divorce.

As a result, when he left like this, the child was left to two old people who didn't know how to educate...sigh..."

"Since the old man dotes on his children so much and doesn't know the correct way to raise them, why didn't Lu Zhibao be taken away when Lu Zhibao's mother divorced his father?" Ning Shuyi asked.

She realized from Lu Zhibo's words that many of his values ​​​​should be inseparable from the influence of his original family.

And he also revealed that he felt that his parents' absence made him miss a lot when he was growing up.

Obviously, Ashishiho's mother and father separated and left their children alone. This should also be an important influencing factor.